My husband has no problem joining either, he already posted about it on SG.Quote from: "Dove"
Does it pissed you that him and I decided to reconcile?
Cuz yanno.....we were seperated and my husband was not being lied to. I had filed.
So. .....kinda fucks up that affair narrative a bit. He is reading right now, actually.
Hey werent you bitching about using real life shit? I think you were.
He doesn't understand what reconciliation between a man and his woman is. He simply believes being slapped with restraining orders are the way men and women are supposed to end things amicably.
It's so sad.
Farmer almost got me murdered and I still didn't go to the cops because he had gotten a federal job that I helped him write his resume for and he was offered before we broke it off.
I called his wife because I had no other choice. He made it clear he wasn't going to stop calling my husband until my marriage was over.... which still would have been doing me a favor, but still.
It makes me so sad when people lash out like this because I know they are really hurting from the rejection.
I think the best way to help him realize the error of his ways is to treat him with kindness and acceptance until he can mature past the emotional retardation.
