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How many religious minded people have you met

Started by Frood, July 06, 2015, 01:21:52 AM

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They have plenty of time to be introduced to sexually. They deserve a child hood. You don't have to expose them to adult material to educate them. Wow. Our dinner time conversations revolve around their day at camp, games they play, what the best part of their day was and things that kids do. Not about adult sexuality. Wow you are messing up your children. My kids know about homosexuality too....however, I doubt they want a front sea to nude humping and dinner conversations. What's best for kids is to LET THEM be KIDS.

RW

Your kids have never walked in on you in "the act"?  :P



I have a different approach to sexual education.  In my world, we talk about sexual matters as they are an important part of life.  My kids are well educated.  As for people humping, they've seen worse on a drive down a country road FFS.  



And I'm not advocating exposing children to pornography.  If you think that you're a sick fuck.
Beware of Gaslighters!

RW

Quote from: "Dove"They have plenty of time to be introduced to sexually. They deserve a child hood. You don't have to expose them to adult material to educate them. Wow. Our dinner time conversations revolve around their day at camp, games they play, what the best part of their day was and things that kids do. Not about adult sexuality. Wow you are messing up your children. My kids know about homosexuality too....however, I doubt they want a front sea to nude humping and dinner conversations. What's best for kids is to LET THEM be KIDS.

Ignorance breeds curiosity Dove.  Write that down.
Beware of Gaslighters!

Anonymous

Nude gay adults humping would disturb most children to the core. And it is pornographic. Don't be surprised when your kids are running through srx partners in middle school. As for ignorance? My kids know exactly how sex is done. They know how babies are born, they know the anatomical terms. They know about stis. They know about homosexuality. They know about prostitutes.  They see srx as a physical, spiritual, emotional experience you share with someone who loves and values you. They also know that many people do it indiscriminately. I teach my daughters self respect and discernment and self worth by encouraging them in their talents and providing a sense of family.  And we don't need to discuss this over the dinner table either because their lives revolve around being kids, education and thier various activities and fun time., and not worrying about topics they are too young to partake in.

RW

My kids aren't interested in Tonka trucks and swing sets any more.  We debate at my table - sexuality, pride parades, religion, U.S. Politics, etc.  We had a great talk about transgender people and which bathroom they should use.  The child's perspective is always fascinating.



I think kids care far less about nudity than we impart on them.  Either way, it's just naked people walking so those poor children whose parents take them to a pride parade shouldn't be scarred for life or anything.
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Anonymous

Yeah I have a 9 and 12 year olds. They volunteer here at my work (I work with people with advanced dementia and hospice patients). They study scripture and we do talk about religions. We have talks about politics.  We talk about school and the issues THEY face. We talk about my 9 year olds talent in singing, she sings with a group. My oldest is athetic, we talk about that. We talk about world wide poverty. We talk about the outreach mission and drug addiction. My children are honor roll students, humanitarians. They are also children who are NOT ready to see grown men naked and humping in public nor do they want to talk about it over the dinner table. You CAN educate them without over sexualuzing them. It sounds to me like you are pushing sex on your children rather than educating them and encouraging them as individuals.

RW

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Anonymous

Quote from: "RW"The ignorant would think that.

Oh please. I have a degree in early childhood development and experience in behavior therapy. You know what's ignorant?  Forcing topics and experiences on children who don't yet possess the capabilities or desires to process the information. My mom did the same shit with me, and I grew up totally sexually messed up. Unable to have healthy relationships, and addictive issues. You might think this is helping them, but more times than not this actually destroys children. It ROBS them of their childhood. You know how hard to forgive my mother for being so loose with herself and me?  You kids get ONE childhood. One phase of life where these things are not even issues for them. They will be dealing with sex and sexuality for the rest of their lives. Are you at least educating them on the responsibility of sex? The consequences?  Or is it more of a priority to be as progressive as possible no matter the damage done?

Anonymous

My mom didn't think it was a big deal to let her boyfriend walk down the hallway naked in front of me. It was a big deal to me...but since every child craves their mothers approval, most will go along with it despite the emotional trauma. Ever think of that?

RW

Quote from: "Dove"
Quote from: "RW"The ignorant would think that.

Oh please. I have a degree in early childhood development and experience in behavior therapy. You know what's ignorant?  Forcing topics and experiences on children who don't yet possess the capabilities or desires to process the information. My mom did the same shit with me, and I grew up totally sexually messed up. Unable to have healthy relationships, and addictive issues. You might think this is helping them, but more times than not this actually destroys children. It ROBS them of their childhood. You know how hard to forgive my mother for being so loose with herself and me?  You kids get ONE childhood. One phase of life where these things are not even issues for them. They will be dealing with sex and sexuality for the rest of their lives. Are you at least educating them on the responsibility of sex? The consequences?  Or is it more of a priority to be as progressive as possible no matter the damage done?

I've taken my advice from people hold PHDs in child sexual education.
Beware of Gaslighters!

Anonymous

Quote from: "RW"
Quote from: "Dove"
Quote from: "RW"The ignorant would think that.

Oh please. I have a degree in early childhood development and experience in behavior therapy. You know what's ignorant?  Forcing topics and experiences on children who don't yet possess the capabilities or desires to process the information. My mom did the same shit with me, and I grew up totally sexually messed up. Unable to have healthy relationships, and addictive issues. You might think this is helping them, but more times than not this actually destroys children. It ROBS them of their childhood. You know how hard to forgive my mother for being so loose with herself and me?  You kids get ONE childhood. One phase of life where these things are not even issues for them. They will be dealing with sex and sexuality for the rest of their lives. Are you at least educating them on the responsibility of sex? The consequences?  Or is it more of a priority to be as progressive as possible no matter the damage done?

I've taken my advice from people hold PHDs in child sexual education.
 I don't give a shit told you to screw up your kids. PhD doesn't equal qualified to raise kids. How many phds tell us to drug our kids with Ritalin?  Exactly.  I happen to have my insight from experience.  Pretty much every hooker/addict at our outreach mission was over exposed as a child, lost their sense of childhood....and started doing adult things in middle school....but by all means, continue discussing politics and transgenderism and free sex over the dinner table. You wouldn't want "ignorant" children.

Romero

Quote from: "Dove"Oh please. I have a degree in early childhood development and experience in behavior therapy. You know what's ignorant?  Forcing topics and experiences on children who don't yet possess the capabilities or desires to process the information. My mom did the same shit with me, and I grew up totally sexually messed up. Unable to have healthy relationships, and addictive issues. You might think this is helping them, but more times than not this actually destroys children. It ROBS them of their childhood. You know how hard to forgive my mother for being so loose with herself and me?  You kids get ONE childhood. One phase of life where these things are not even issues for them. They will be dealing with sex and sexuality for the rest of their lives. Are you at least educating them on the responsibility of sex? The consequences?  Or is it more of a priority to be as progressive as possible no matter the damage done?

I'm sincerely sorry about your experiences.



I would have point out that this all happened within a heterosexual family. Sexually messed up things happen to way too many kids way too often. So should we argue against promoting and flaunting the straight lifestyle? The "straight agenda"?



I highly doubt any children have encountered the same issues at any gay pride parade.



Gay pride isn't all about sex, but it is about promoting a positive sense of sexuality. Your experiences were negative.



"Craves their mother's approval". I wonder how you'd feel about all this if you had a gay child.

Anonymous

Hey maybe we could make sex games for progressive children's birthday parties. Why wait until 13 to play spin the bottle when you can have hello kitty sex dice? Or which bathroom should Caitlyn Jenner use at the white house. Or I know.. .Drag Queen dress up!  Maybe pin the strap on on the lesbian?  Then we can play "What's in the news" trivia on how many coptic Christians got be headed last week. Yeah. Fight the oppressive ignorance. Lol

Anonymous

Quote from: "Romero"
Quote from: "Dove"Oh please. I have a degree in early childhood development and experience in behavior therapy. You know what's ignorant?  Forcing topics and experiences on children who don't yet possess the capabilities or desires to process the information. My mom did the same shit with me, and I grew up totally sexually messed up. Unable to have healthy relationships, and addictive issues. You might think this is helping them, but more times than not this actually destroys children. It ROBS them of their childhood. You know how hard to forgive my mother for being so loose with herself and me?  You kids get ONE childhood. One phase of life where these things are not even issues for them. They will be dealing with sex and sexuality for the rest of their lives. Are you at least educating them on the responsibility of sex? The consequences?  Or is it more of a priority to be as progressive as possible no matter the damage done?

I'm sincerely sorry about your experiences.



I would have point out that this all happened within a heterosexual family. Sexually messed up things happen to way too many kids way too often. So should we argue against promoting and flaunting the straight lifestyle? The "straight agenda"?



I highly doubt any children have encountered the same issues at any gay pride parade.



Gay pride isn't all about sex, but it is about promoting a positive sense of sexuality. Your experiences were negative.



"Craves their mother's approval". I wonder how you'd feel about all this if you had a gay child.
 I'm not talking about homosexuslity. Or gay pride. I'm talking about how foul it is to want your kids to "experience" nude people humping each other during these pride parades. My kids are just fine spending time at my married lesbian aunts house and playing with their foster kids. They even see my aunts kiss each other respectfully, hold hands. That doesn't mean they need to discuss sexuality over the dinner table or get a front row seat to them humping each other or running around in the nude. I don't know how many times I have to say in plain English that this had nothing to do with being gay or straight and everything to do with decency and respect. But perhaps what you are telling me is perversion is "gay pride".

Romero

Quote from: "Dove"Hey maybe we could make sex games for progressive children's birthday parties. Why wait until 13 to play spin the bottle when you can have hello kitty sex dice? Or which bathroom should Caitlyn Jenner use at the white house. Or I know.. .Drag Queen dress up!  Maybe pin the strap on on the lesbian?  Then we can play "What's in the news" trivia on how many coptic Christians got be headed last week. Yeah. Fight the oppressive ignorance. Lol

Gay pride has never caused this bizarre scenario yet, and it's quite unrealistic to think it ever would.



Also, please tell me more about the Hello Kitty sex dice. Can I order them online?