Asian Girls and White Guys

[Zetsu]

funny thing is asian women m@ngrels here are even more racist than white chicks.



must be the self deprecating defeatist apologist mentality.



i am sorry you are rejected. i am glad someone accepted you even if it was a foreign horndog.



please don't take it out on us Alpha Asian Male.



we have a high standard that you did not meet. sorry.



nothing against asian women, i have the utmost respect and would never stoop to the level of self deprecating defeatist apologist with their sweeping generalizations of asian women that you do about asian men.



that would be counter productive. like m@ngrelism

The hottest babe you'll ever get to go out with will most likely be your mommy.

[instigator]

*knee slap* good one shatsu



you're a momma's boy still sucking on mommy's teet i am sure

[Kala]

Honestly shit like this just makes me feel sad now. I know this Kala is probably just a good troll but sometimes I see all the asian girls walking around with white guys, and the usually don't say anything derogatory about asian guys but when they do, I don't know, it kinda fucks me up. I start thinking that all of those asian girls are secretly thinking this, that we're just not good enough for asian or any other women. Nothing malicious about it, just plain fact of nature that we're genetically inferior to white guys. Just SOL right? But f-that so I start lifting and eating right and dressing well, really taking care of myself and after all that hard work I still hear this shit coming from women like you about how we're just not masculine enough.



So here I am, making an account after months of lurking because I've been sitting here now for half an hour inspecting my wrists to determine if they're still too dainty. I don't know, troll or not this whole topic kinda fucks me up.

In some areas like sexual desirability Asian guys are generally less masculine than white men. It doesn't mean you haven't got a lot of desirable attributes. You are doing all the right things like working out, eating right and dressing well, so keep it up. What you lack in outward masculitnity you can make up for internally.

[@realAzhyaAryola]

Here's a true stereotype - Asian women, all women, want a guy with some confidence. Not insecurities and excuses.



Nearly all of the Asian women I see with a guy are with Asian guys. Why isn't it so difficult for them? If you can't get a woman, it's your own fault.

R, when I was single and available, I had no preferences. I kept my options open but no Asian men approached me except for one Filipino guy with a bad attitude and clammy hands. Haha! Anyway, so not too many Asian men approached me. I can only open the door to those who are knocking, eh?

[@realAzhyaAryola]

Ditto that for me too Azhya. Asian guys didn't pay much attention, the fools. Are they so blind they cannot see what a kind kind, sweet f*cking person I am FFS? :x  ;)  

  Go figure, eh?  

[instigator]

Dont hate asian alpha male because he rejected you. It is not their faiult. They just have high standards to further asian mankind

[@realAzhyaAryola]

Dont hate asian alpha male because he rejected you. It is not their faiult. They just have high standards to further asian mankind

Oh yeah! I forgot another one, another Filipino guy, a lawyer. He sure did not take it well after I said, "I don't think so." He asked me if he could see me again and that was my answer. He was a good friend but I had no romantic interest because we did not have much in common except for the obvious so why prolong it? He did not speak to me for years but what should I have done? Continue seeing him even if there were no sparks? Why waste time?



I said the same thing to a white guy who was quite pushy. "I don't think so," I said, after he asked if he can see me again.



I think you Asian men on this forum who whine and have a chip on your shoulders are a bit too melodramatic for my tastes. Grow some USDA Grade A balls.

[@realAzhyaAryola]

Oh good then if they're not all like that because I'm not here all the time but when I do come I seem to only see another Asian male pity party.

[energyturtle]

In some areas like sexual desirability Asian guys are generally less masculine than white men. It doesn't mean you haven't got a lot of desirable attributes. You are doing all the right things like working out, eating right and dressing well, so keep it up. What you lack in outward masculitnity you can make up for internally.[/quote]



Starting to think you're actually not a troll, which is scary. I wasn't really soliciting your advice but in response, but I think you're confused about my original post. I don't agree with your assertion that asians are in general more feminine - I think your assertion is complete bullshit. I know we're not less masculine but after hearing this same crap my whole life from racists like you, well, that ignorance over the years seeps in and lingers. So when I hear the same old racist comments again it kinda triggers those bad memories and I get in a funk.



To be clear, I think you are spectacularly ignorant of your own internalized racism and that your suspicions of fellow Asian guys are nothing more than vain and grandiose fantasies supporting your delusions of superiority for dating out.



Kala, try to imagine your disappointment when your half-white son comes out and he looks like you. What happens when he grows up and kids at school are calling him a tiny dicked wuss because he's your asian son? Are you gonna tell him that's it's just a fact of life, that he's less masculine because he's asian?

[Obvious Li]

i don't subscribe to the theory that asian males per see aren't masculine....it seems to me though that this whole asian "pop culture" thing shows males in a very effeminate light .....clothes, hair styles, makeup (for real??)....unfortunately those styles are plastered everywhere, billboards, TV, Music, Dance etc etc......don't hear too much about roughnecks and cowboys in Asia......couple that with extreme helicopter parents of the one son policy, add in some of those silly toys asian seem so enamored with (like seoul fag) and it's hard to take the masculine asian male syndrome serious....just saying

[Anonymous]

Kala wrote:

In some areas like sexual desirability Asian guys are generally less masculine than white men. It doesn't mean you haven't got a lot of desirable attributes. You are doing all the right things like working out, eating right and dressing well, so keep it up. What you lack in outward masculitnity you can make up for internally.

energyturtle wrote:

Starting to think you're actually not a troll, which is scary. I wasn't really soliciting your advice but in response, but I think you're confused about my original post. I don't agree with your assertion that asians are in general more feminine - I think your assertion is complete bullshit. I know we're not less masculine but after hearing this same crap my whole life from racists like you, well, that ignorance over the years seeps in and lingers. So when I hear the same old racist comments again it kinda triggers those bad memories and I get in a funk.



To be clear, I think you are spectacularly ignorant of your own internalized racism and that your suspicions of fellow Asian guys are nothing more than vain and grandiose fantasies supporting your delusions of superiority for dating out.



Kala, try to imagine your disappointment when your half-white son comes out and he looks like you. What happens when he grows up and kids at school are calling him a tiny dicked wuss because he's your asian son? Are you gonna tell him that's it's just a fact of life, that he's less masculine because he's asian?

Hello energyturtle and welcome.  :)



Don't let people like Kala get you down.

[Anonymous]

i don't subscribe to the theory that asian males per see aren't masculine....it seems to me though that this whole asian "pop culture" thing shows males in a very effeminate light .....clothes, hair styles, makeup (for real??)....unfortunately those styles are plastered everywhere, billboards, TV, Music, Dance etc etc......don't hear too much about roughnecks and cowboys in Asia......couple that with extreme helicopter parents of the one son policy, add in some of those silly toys asian seem so enamored with (like seoul fag) and it's hard to take the masculine asian male syndrome serious....just saying

Can you explain Obvious Li?



I agree, I have never thought of Asian men as less masculine, so I don't know where that came from.



My younger brother is a very masculine policeman.

[Obvious Li]

i don't subscribe to the theory that asian males per see aren't masculine....it seems to me though that this whole asian "pop culture" thing shows males in a very effeminate light .....clothes, hair styles, makeup (for real??)....unfortunately those styles are plastered everywhere, billboards, TV, Music, Dance etc etc......don't hear too much about roughnecks and cowboys in Asia......couple that with extreme helicopter parents of the one son policy, add in some of those silly toys asian seem so enamored with (like seoul fag) and it's hard to take the masculine asian male syndrome serious....just saying

Can you explain Obvious Li?



I agree, I have never thought of Asian men as less masculine, so I don't know where that came from.



My younger brother is a very masculine policeman.

Good morning F...mostly referring to the overwhelming devotion from asian mothers to their little princes....they are smothered with motherly attention to the point they are unable to do any "guy" stuff......at least that has been my experience

[Anonymous]

i don't subscribe to the theory that asian males per see aren't masculine....it seems to me though that this whole asian "pop culture" thing shows males in a very effeminate light .....clothes, hair styles, makeup (for real??)....unfortunately those styles are plastered everywhere, billboards, TV, Music, Dance etc etc......don't hear too much about roughnecks and cowboys in Asia......couple that with extreme helicopter parents of the one son policy, add in some of those silly toys asian seem so enamored with (like seoul fag) and it's hard to take the masculine asian male syndrome serious....just saying

Can you explain Obvious Li?



I agree, I have never thought of Asian men as less masculine, so I don't know where that came from.



My younger brother is a very masculine policeman.

Good morning F...mostly referring to the overwhelming devotion from asian mothers to their little princes....they are smothered with motherly attention to the point they are unable to do any "guy" stuff......at least that has been my experience

Good morning Obvious Li, I see what you mean.



I have to go to work now, have a very nice day. :D

[@realAzhyaAryola]

Good morning F...mostly referring to the overwhelming devotion from asian mothers to their little princes....they are smothered with motherly attention to the point they are unable to do any "guy" stuff......at least that has been my experience

Good morning to everyone!



Munday, that's just too bad but I can understand this. In the Philippines, most families have helpers so the children never learn to do any chores. I gave my children chores as soon as possible. I don't want to raise boys to become helpless men and I stopped picking up after them ages ago but still smother them with my motherly attention but don't want them to be lazy people.