Holding the Camera

[RW]

Scenario: A couple asks you to film them/photograph them having sex.



Do you consider this being a participant in a sex act?  Would you consider it infidelity if you did not tell your partner?

[Renee]

I would consider the couple crazy as shit. My first inclination would be to say "yes" and when they were really going at it, squirt crazy glue on them and watch them get stuck together.  



People need to be careful who they ask to do stupid shit like that. :43(2):



BTW, I guess you could call that participation but infidelity.....not so much.  

[RW]

Why is that crazy?

[Renee]

Why is that crazy?

Seriously? How can it not be?



I've done some wild shit when I was younger but there is no one out there that I want to get to know so well that I would want to play paparazzi in their bedroom.



Just think about it. If a friend, family member,co-worker or acquaintance asked you to film them while the screwed their husbands, boyfriend, dog, what have you, would you not think that it was more than a little strange?



My first thought would be, why the hell do you want me in the room with you while you are having sex unless you are some kind of exhibitionist. Secondly why don't you just go out and buy a tripod and a decent camera with a decent burst mode?

[asal]

It's infidelity if you don't feel comfortable to tell your partner.  Even if you're in an open relationship - it would be infidelity if you think it would be uncomfortable for your partner.

[Annie]

You could film it, make copies and then save it for bribery later.....lol

[RW]

That's evil Annie!

[Annie]

Muahahaha!

[cc]

Evilannie lol

[RW]

I'm finding it such a bitch to be in my 30s.  Please tell me this settles down at some point.

[cc]

Can't do that  ac_smile

[Anonymous]

I'm finding it such a bitch to be in my 30s.  My libido is in overdrive!  Please tell me this settles down at some point.

No it does not. I am 48 and the old lady will be 37 in May. Thank whatever pharmaceutical company invented Cialis. She tires out before I do.

[cc]

I just found 12 yrs younger = "old lady" funny ...

[Anonymous]

I had not thought about it before ceec. If I am going to call her the old lady, I better stop mentioning the big age difference.

[cc]

right lol