SMF - Just Installed!
Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=388220 time=1603651069 user_id=1676Quote from: "iron horse jockey" post_id=388206 time=1603643279 user_id=2015Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=388203 time=1603642717 user_id=1676Quote from: Fashionista post_id=388181 time=1603629213 user_id=3254Quote from: Guest post_id=388169 time=1603611211
Me. I've seen your head, remember. It's well and truly fucked and I've no desire to go slops. Perfectly reasonable to expect and self respecting poster here feels the same way I do.
And how many aeons ago was that again?ac_biggrin
I once thought so too. Then one day....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x8CZXVFc-1E">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x8CZXVFc-1E
...I recognised it for the life handicap it is and counted myself fortunate.Popularity is a curse. Learning to rely on oneself to get things done from an early age is far more potent in one's skill set.
I wouldn't know.
You're pretty popular, Fash...
But so is your conversational adversary...
Who is Fash's conversational adversary?
She/he walks among us...
Quote from: "iron horse jockey" post_id=388206 time=1603643279 user_id=2015Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=388203 time=1603642717 user_id=1676Quote from: Fashionista post_id=388181 time=1603629213 user_id=3254Quote from: Guest post_id=388169 time=1603611211Quote from: Murdock post_id=387831 time=1603305543 user_id=3229
Better question... who doesn't want to fuck me?
Me. I've seen your head, remember. It's well and truly fucked and I've no desire to go slops. Perfectly reasonable to expect and self respecting poster here feels the same way I do.And how many aeons ago was that again?Being pretty is difficult. Always picked first.Quote from: Murdock post_id=387831 time=1603305543 user_id=3229ac_biggrin Quote from: Fashionista post_id=387839 time=1603307767 user_id=3254
It must've been nice to be popular.....at least in one's youth.
I once thought so too. Then one day....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x8CZXVFc-1E">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x8CZXVFc-1E
...I recognised it for the life handicap it is and counted myself fortunate.Popularity is a curse. Learning to rely on oneself to get things done from an early age is far more potent in one's skill set.
I wouldn't know.
You're pretty popular, Fash...
But so is your conversational adversary...
Who is Fash's conversational adversary?
Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=388203 time=1603642717 user_id=1676Quote from: Fashionista post_id=388181 time=1603629213 user_id=3254Quote from: Guest post_id=388169 time=1603611211Quote from: Murdock post_id=387831 time=1603305543 user_id=3229Quote from: Guest post_id=387751 time=1603233472
You could try closing your legs you know. What's that? You don't need to because nobody wants to fuck you? Well hell, it rather seems like you offered up a solution in search of a problem then, doesn't it?ac_biggrin
Better question... who doesn't want to fuck me?
Me. I've seen your head, remember. It's well and truly fucked and I've no desire to go slops. Perfectly reasonable to expect and self respecting poster here feels the same way I do.And how many aeons ago was that again?Being pretty is difficult. Always picked first.Quote from: Murdock post_id=387831 time=1603305543 user_id=3229ac_biggrin Quote from: Fashionista post_id=387839 time=1603307767 user_id=3254
It must've been nice to be popular.....at least in one's youth.
I once thought so too. Then one day....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x8CZXVFc-1E">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x8CZXVFc-1E
...I recognised it for the life handicap it is and counted myself fortunate.Popularity is a curse. Learning to rely on oneself to get things done from an early age is far more potent in one's skill set.
I wouldn't know.
You're pretty popular, Fash...
But so is your conversational adversary...
Quote from: Fashionista post_id=388181 time=1603629213 user_id=3254Quote from: Guest post_id=388169 time=1603611211Quote from: Murdock post_id=387831 time=1603305543 user_id=3229Quote from: Guest post_id=387751 time=1603233472Quote from: Murdock post_id=387742 time=1603227145 user_id=3229
Stop abortion at the source.
You could try closing your legs you know. What's that? You don't need to because nobody wants to fuck you? Well hell, it rather seems like you offered up a solution in search of a problem then, doesn't it?ac_biggrin
Better question... who doesn't want to fuck me?
Me. I've seen your head, remember. It's well and truly fucked and I've no desire to go slops. Perfectly reasonable to expect and self respecting poster here feels the same way I do.And how many aeons ago was that again?Being pretty is difficult. Always picked first.Quote from: Murdock post_id=387831 time=1603305543 user_id=3229ac_biggrin Quote from: Fashionista post_id=387839 time=1603307767 user_id=3254
It must've been nice to be popular.....at least in one's youth.
I once thought so too. Then one day....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x8CZXVFc-1E">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x8CZXVFc-1E
...I recognised it for the life handicap it is and counted myself fortunate.Popularity is a curse. Learning to rely on oneself to get things done from an early age is far more potent in one's skill set.
I wouldn't know.
Quote from: Guest post_id=388169 time=1603611211Quote from: Murdock post_id=387831 time=1603305543 user_id=3229Quote from: Guest post_id=387751 time=1603233472Quote from: Murdock post_id=387742 time=1603227145 user_id=3229
Stop abortion at the source.
You could try closing your legs you know. What's that? You don't need to because nobody wants to fuck you? Well hell, it rather seems like you offered up a solution in search of a problem then, doesn't it?ac_biggrin
Better question... who doesn't want to fuck me?
Me. I've seen your head, remember. It's well and truly fucked and I've no desire to go slops. Perfectly reasonable to expect and self respecting poster here feels the same way I do.And how many aeons ago was that again?Being pretty is difficult. Always picked first.Quote from: Murdock post_id=387831 time=1603305543 user_id=3229ac_biggrin Quote from: Fashionista post_id=387839 time=1603307767 user_id=3254
It must've been nice to be popular.....at least in one's youth.
I once thought so too. Then one day....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x8CZXVFc-1E">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x8CZXVFc-1E
...I recognised it for the life handicap it is and counted myself fortunate.Popularity is a curse. Learning to rely on oneself to get things done from an early age is far more potent in one's skill set.
Quote from: Murdock post_id=387831 time=1603305543 user_id=3229Quote from: Guest post_id=387751 time=1603233472Quote from: Murdock post_id=387742 time=1603227145 user_id=3229
Stop abortion at the source.
You could try closing your legs you know. What's that? You don't need to because nobody wants to fuck you? Well hell, it rather seems like you offered up a solution in search of a problem then, doesn't it?ac_biggrin
Better question... who doesn't want to fuck me?
And how many aeons ago was that again?Being pretty is difficult. Always picked first.Quote from: Murdock post_id=387831 time=1603305543 user_id=3229
Quote from: Fashionista post_id=387839 time=1603307767 user_id=3254
It must've been nice to be popular.....at least in one's youth.
Quote from: Dove post_id=388024 time=1603466886 user_id=3266Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=388023 time=1603466240 user_id=1676Quote from: Dove post_id=388021 time=1603465785 user_id=3266Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=388019 time=1603465030 user_id=1676Quote from: Guest post_id=388012 time=1603464103
That's like a chicken and egg issue.
I prefer men close to my age. My husband is somewhat younger than me. It wasnt intentional.
Big is 9 years older than me. That wasnt intentional. I dont like to get involved with partners far outside my age range.
I've also never been involved with a man who enjoys going for younger women. Or focused on youth. Baring a certain incident.
It's not sustainable. Eventually that younger woman will get older. If its age that your attraction is based on, there is no way to sustain that ....as we all age.
I wouldnt want to ever be with anyone intimately who was fetishizing me. No one wants to be used. That's what men who focus on younger women are doing. Using them. It's not like they are going to have a life long partnership and start a family. Mostly these men just want to fuck someone and get an ego boost enough to feel better about their own age.
I think about men like this and the fact I have teenage daughters and I have talked to them about why they should avoid older men until they are over 30. If they are still single at that age....the kinda men you wanna stay away from have decided 30-35 is the wall hitting age. So they will see them as too old.
So it weeds them out from the worth while men who will offer something deeper, sustainable and more loving.
There is always random exceptions but this is the general rule.
(Dove)
So I shouldn't have gotten engaged at 18 with a 26 year old and bumped out a kid immediately and another one 16 years later?
Good to know...
...that I got taken advantage of and didn't know what I was doing at the time.
...because young people don't know shit and they should listen to their mums and daddies...because- scary shit happens when two people meet and they aren't similar ages and shit...
Thank you for clearing this for me oh wise sage. Here I've been living in a delusion...
I guess you missed the part where I said there are always exceptions🤷♀️
I guess you missed the part where I said your thinking is vagina-centric or that boys and girls of mature body can fuck whoever they want and I don't care to get involved in their personal affairs.
Well nothing about that part reflects my thinking.
Anyone is free to fuck whoever they want as long as it's legal and consensual. That absolutely wasn't what I was saying. I never said they couldn't.
I'm discussing why men who carry on suggesting older women are worthless as they are past some age barrier and no longer suit some sexual need of certain men who are focused on superficail traits are often delusional in how these types of statements actually read to other people.
I never said anything about "getting involved" in anyone's personal affairs. I'm commenting of the perceived impact of discussing those affairs vs the actual impact.
And I'm aware your partner is older than you. You are not the person (people) I'm referring to.
Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=388023 time=1603466240 user_id=1676Quote from: Dove post_id=388021 time=1603465785 user_id=3266Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=388019 time=1603465030 user_id=1676Quote from: Guest post_id=388012 time=1603464103Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=387949 time=1603414684 user_id=1676
Women often fuck older when they're young (and cut out viable men because they're just starting out and don't have much to splash about on the women).... fast forward 10-30 years and the shoe is on the other foot... the guys have power, sophistication, and money...women in their age group are wilted flowers or sour milk, usually with baggage and sometimes children from multiple relationships.
Like for young women, it's a buyers market for matured males.
Karma, slitches...
That's like a chicken and egg issue.
I prefer men close to my age. My husband is somewhat younger than me. It wasnt intentional.
Big is 9 years older than me. That wasnt intentional. I dont like to get involved with partners far outside my age range.
I've also never been involved with a man who enjoys going for younger women. Or focused on youth. Baring a certain incident.
It's not sustainable. Eventually that younger woman will get older. If its age that your attraction is based on, there is no way to sustain that ....as we all age.
I wouldnt want to ever be with anyone intimately who was fetishizing me. No one wants to be used. That's what men who focus on younger women are doing. Using them. It's not like they are going to have a life long partnership and start a family. Mostly these men just want to fuck someone and get an ego boost enough to feel better about their own age.
I think about men like this and the fact I have teenage daughters and I have talked to them about why they should avoid older men until they are over 30. If they are still single at that age....the kinda men you wanna stay away from have decided 30-35 is the wall hitting age. So they will see them as too old.
So it weeds them out from the worth while men who will offer something deeper, sustainable and more loving.
There is always random exceptions but this is the general rule.
(Dove)
So I shouldn't have gotten engaged at 18 with a 26 year old and bumped out a kid immediately and another one 16 years later?
Good to know...
...that I got taken advantage of and didn't know what I was doing at the time.
...because young people don't know shit and they should listen to their mums and daddies...because- scary shit happens when two people meet and they aren't similar ages and shit...
Thank you for clearing this for me oh wise sage. Here I've been living in a delusion...
I guess you missed the part where I said there are always exceptions🤷♀️
I guess you missed the part where I said your thinking is vagina-centric or that boys and girls of mature body can fuck whoever they want and I don't care to get involved in their personal affairs.
Quote from: Dove post_id=388021 time=1603465785 user_id=3266Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=388019 time=1603465030 user_id=1676Quote from: Guest post_id=388012 time=1603464103Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=387949 time=1603414684 user_id=1676Quote from: Dove post_id=387939 time=1603403104 user_id=3266
Its gross when older men attempt to degrade women based on their age.
Like I get the intention is trollish, and they continually assume this type of speech makes us feel all ugly and worthless.
But in reality it reeks of insecurity. The assumption that others are sensitive about their age is a confession.
And it's also objectifying.
I'm glad I have warned my daughters and spoke to them about predatory, user men....moreso older ones that may attempt to persue them. Men desperately trying to take a cheap dip in the fountain of youth to feel better about themselves.
Men like this view women as fuckholes who exist for their pleasure and they have a sense of entitlement. They dont view women as individual human beings with needs of their own.
Nothing more revolting than an older man with some arrested development, peter pan mentality where they should get more than they have to offer.
Also some of them are potential child predators. The most I see of men online ranting about how women are worthless after 30 also admit to wanting to fuck children. There is a whole forum full of this called "rapey". I'm not even kidding.
Women often fuck older when they're young (and cut out viable men because they're just starting out and don't have much to splash about on the women).... fast forward 10-30 years and the shoe is on the other foot... the guys have power, sophistication, and money...women in their age group are wilted flowers or sour milk, usually with baggage and sometimes children from multiple relationships.
Like for young women, it's a buyers market for matured males.
Karma, slitches...
That's like a chicken and egg issue.
I prefer men close to my age. My husband is somewhat younger than me. It wasnt intentional.
Big is 9 years older than me. That wasnt intentional. I dont like to get involved with partners far outside my age range.
I've also never been involved with a man who enjoys going for younger women. Or focused on youth. Baring a certain incident.
It's not sustainable. Eventually that younger woman will get older. If its age that your attraction is based on, there is no way to sustain that ....as we all age.
I wouldnt want to ever be with anyone intimately who was fetishizing me. No one wants to be used. That's what men who focus on younger women are doing. Using them. It's not like they are going to have a life long partnership and start a family. Mostly these men just want to fuck someone and get an ego boost enough to feel better about their own age.
I think about men like this and the fact I have teenage daughters and I have talked to them about why they should avoid older men until they are over 30. If they are still single at that age....the kinda men you wanna stay away from have decided 30-35 is the wall hitting age. So they will see them as too old.
So it weeds them out from the worth while men who will offer something deeper, sustainable and more loving.
There is always random exceptions but this is the general rule.
(Dove)
So I shouldn't have gotten engaged at 18 with a 26 year old and bumped out a kid immediately and another one 16 years later?
Good to know...
...that I got taken advantage of and didn't know what I was doing at the time.
...because young people don't know shit and they should listen to their mums and daddies...because- scary shit happens when two people meet and they aren't similar ages and shit...
Thank you for clearing this for me oh wise sage. Here I've been living in a delusion...
I guess you missed the part where I said there are always exceptions🤷♀️
Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=388019 time=1603465030 user_id=1676Quote from: Guest post_id=388012 time=1603464103Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=387949 time=1603414684 user_id=1676Quote from: Dove post_id=387939 time=1603403104 user_id=3266
Its gross when older men attempt to degrade women based on their age.
Like I get the intention is trollish, and they continually assume this type of speech makes us feel all ugly and worthless.
But in reality it reeks of insecurity. The assumption that others are sensitive about their age is a confession.
And it's also objectifying.
I'm glad I have warned my daughters and spoke to them about predatory, user men....moreso older ones that may attempt to persue them. Men desperately trying to take a cheap dip in the fountain of youth to feel better about themselves.
Men like this view women as fuckholes who exist for their pleasure and they have a sense of entitlement. They dont view women as individual human beings with needs of their own.
Nothing more revolting than an older man with some arrested development, peter pan mentality where they should get more than they have to offer.
Also some of them are potential child predators. The most I see of men online ranting about how women are worthless after 30 also admit to wanting to fuck children. There is a whole forum full of this called "rapey". I'm not even kidding.
Women often fuck older when they're young (and cut out viable men because they're just starting out and don't have much to splash about on the women).... fast forward 10-30 years and the shoe is on the other foot... the guys have power, sophistication, and money...women in their age group are wilted flowers or sour milk, usually with baggage and sometimes children from multiple relationships.
Like for young women, it's a buyers market for matured males.
Karma, slitches...
That's like a chicken and egg issue.
I prefer men close to my age. My husband is somewhat younger than me. It wasnt intentional.
Big is 9 years older than me. That wasnt intentional. I dont like to get involved with partners far outside my age range.
I've also never been involved with a man who enjoys going for younger women. Or focused on youth. Baring a certain incident.
It's not sustainable. Eventually that younger woman will get older. If its age that your attraction is based on, there is no way to sustain that ....as we all age.
I wouldnt want to ever be with anyone intimately who was fetishizing me. No one wants to be used. That's what men who focus on younger women are doing. Using them. It's not like they are going to have a life long partnership and start a family. Mostly these men just want to fuck someone and get an ego boost enough to feel better about their own age.
I think about men like this and the fact I have teenage daughters and I have talked to them about why they should avoid older men until they are over 30. If they are still single at that age....the kinda men you wanna stay away from have decided 30-35 is the wall hitting age. So they will see them as too old.
So it weeds them out from the worth while men who will offer something deeper, sustainable and more loving.
There is always random exceptions but this is the general rule.
(Dove)
So I shouldn't have gotten engaged at 18 with a 26 year old and bumped out a kid immediately and another one 16 years later?
Good to know...
...that I got taken advantage of and didn't know what I was doing at the time.
...because young people don't know shit and they should listen to their mums and daddies...because- scary shit happens when two people meet and they aren't similar ages and shit...
Thank you for clearing this for me oh wise sage. Here I've been living in a delusion...
Quote from: Fashionista post_id=387990 time=1603454826 user_id=3254Quote from: Dove post_id=387939 time=1603403104 user_id=3266
Its gross when older men attempt to degrade women based on their age.
Like I get the intention is trollish, and they continually assume this type of speech makes us feel all ugly and worthless.
But in reality it reeks of insecurity. The assumption that others are sensitive about their age is a confession.
And it's also objectifying.
I'm glad I have warned my daughters and spoke to them about predatory, user men....moreso older ones that may attempt to persue them. Men desperately trying to take a cheap dip in the fountain of youth to feel better about themselves.
Men like this view women as fuckholes who exist for their pleasure and they have a sense of entitlement. They dont view women as individual human beings with needs of their own.
Nothing more revolting than an older man with some arrested development, peter pan mentality where they should get more than they have to offer.
Also some of them are potential child predators. The most I see of men online ranting about how women are worthless after 30 also admit to wanting to fuck children. There is a whole forum full of this called "rapey". I'm not even kidding.
I've heard stories, but I can't relate....I've been married for twenty years.
Quote from: Guest post_id=388012 time=1603464103Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=387949 time=1603414684 user_id=1676Quote from: Dove post_id=387939 time=1603403104 user_id=3266
Its gross when older men attempt to degrade women based on their age.
Like I get the intention is trollish, and they continually assume this type of speech makes us feel all ugly and worthless.
But in reality it reeks of insecurity. The assumption that others are sensitive about their age is a confession.
And it's also objectifying.
I'm glad I have warned my daughters and spoke to them about predatory, user men....moreso older ones that may attempt to persue them. Men desperately trying to take a cheap dip in the fountain of youth to feel better about themselves.
Men like this view women as fuckholes who exist for their pleasure and they have a sense of entitlement. They dont view women as individual human beings with needs of their own.
Nothing more revolting than an older man with some arrested development, peter pan mentality where they should get more than they have to offer.
Also some of them are potential child predators. The most I see of men online ranting about how women are worthless after 30 also admit to wanting to fuck children. There is a whole forum full of this called "rapey". I'm not even kidding.
Women often fuck older when they're young (and cut out viable men because they're just starting out and don't have much to splash about on the women).... fast forward 10-30 years and the shoe is on the other foot... the guys have power, sophistication, and money...women in their age group are wilted flowers or sour milk, usually with baggage and sometimes children from multiple relationships.
Like for young women, it's a buyers market for matured males.
Karma, slitches...
That's like a chicken and egg issue.
I prefer men close to my age. My husband is somewhat younger than me. It wasnt intentional.
Big is 9 years older than me. That wasnt intentional. I dont like to get involved with partners far outside my age range.
I've also never been involved with a man who enjoys going for younger women. Or focused on youth. Baring a certain incident.
It's not sustainable. Eventually that younger woman will get older. If its age that your attraction is based on, there is no way to sustain that ....as we all age.
I wouldnt want to ever be with anyone intimately who was fetishizing me. No one wants to be used. That's what men who focus on younger women are doing. Using them. It's not like they are going to have a life long partnership and start a family. Mostly these men just want to fuck someone and get an ego boost enough to feel better about their own age.
I think about men like this and the fact I have teenage daughters and I have talked to them about why they should avoid older men until they are over 30. If they are still single at that age....the kinda men you wanna stay away from have decided 30-35 is the wall hitting age. So they will see them as too old.
So it weeds them out from the worth while men who will offer something deeper, sustainable and more loving.
There is always random exceptions but this is the general rule.
(Dove)
Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=387949 time=1603414684 user_id=1676Quote from: Dove post_id=387939 time=1603403104 user_id=3266
Its gross when older men attempt to degrade women based on their age.
Like I get the intention is trollish, and they continually assume this type of speech makes us feel all ugly and worthless.
But in reality it reeks of insecurity. The assumption that others are sensitive about their age is a confession.
And it's also objectifying.
I'm glad I have warned my daughters and spoke to them about predatory, user men....moreso older ones that may attempt to persue them. Men desperately trying to take a cheap dip in the fountain of youth to feel better about themselves.
Men like this view women as fuckholes who exist for their pleasure and they have a sense of entitlement. They dont view women as individual human beings with needs of their own.
Nothing more revolting than an older man with some arrested development, peter pan mentality where they should get more than they have to offer.
Also some of them are potential child predators. The most I see of men online ranting about how women are worthless after 30 also admit to wanting to fuck children. There is a whole forum full of this called "rapey". I'm not even kidding.
Women often fuck older when they're young (and cut out viable men because they're just starting out and don't have much to splash about on the women).... fast forward 10-30 years and the shoe is on the other foot... the guys have power, sophistication, and money...women in their age group are wilted flowers or sour milk, usually with baggage and sometimes children from multiple relationships.
Like for young women, it's a buyers market for matured males.
Karma, slitches...
Quote from: Dove post_id=387939 time=1603403104 user_id=3266
Its gross when older men attempt to degrade women based on their age.
Like I get the intention is trollish, and they continually assume this type of speech makes us feel all ugly and worthless.
But in reality it reeks of insecurity. The assumption that others are sensitive about their age is a confession.
And it's also objectifying.
I'm glad I have warned my daughters and spoke to them about predatory, user men....moreso older ones that may attempt to persue them. Men desperately trying to take a cheap dip in the fountain of youth to feel better about themselves.
Men like this view women as fuckholes who exist for their pleasure and they have a sense of entitlement. They dont view women as individual human beings with needs of their own.
Nothing more revolting than an older man with some arrested development, peter pan mentality where they should get more than they have to offer.
Also some of them are potential child predators. The most I see of men online ranting about how women are worthless after 30 also admit to wanting to fuck children. There is a whole forum full of this called "rapey". I'm not even kidding.
Quote from: Dove post_id=387939 time=1603403104 user_id=3266
Its gross when older men attempt to degrade women based on their age.
Like I get the intention is trollish, and they continually assume this type of speech makes us feel all ugly and worthless.
But in reality it reeks of insecurity. The assumption that others are sensitive about their age is a confession.
And it's also objectifying.
I'm glad I have warned my daughters and spoke to them about predatory, user men....moreso older ones that may attempt to persue them. Men desperately trying to take a cheap dip in the fountain of youth to feel better about themselves.
Men like this view women as fuckholes who exist for their pleasure and they have a sense of entitlement. They dont view women as individual human beings with needs of their own.
Nothing more revolting than an older man with some arrested development, peter pan mentality where they should get more than they have to offer.
Also some of them are potential child predators. The most I see of men online ranting about how women are worthless after 30 also admit to wanting to fuck children. There is a whole forum full of this called "rapey". I'm not even kidding.
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