Quote from: JOE on Today at 06:36:06 AMBut your man wasn't a house husband.

He was more of a caretaker to his mom.

and seems he ran or runs some kind of home based business.

 He gets paid...very well....to write. He also tutors, professionally.  Thats his business. Writing. He has been doing it for 20 some years.

 He has also been writing novels for fun and to see how that does.

 You can imagine what its been like for me texting everyday since texting was a thing, with a writer lol. 

 I will always be the one working outside of the home. But even if I ever made more than him, he is still the man who walks into the room and commands it. Thats just who he is.

 I dont think that this happens to men because they do time as "house husbands".....I think its more men with these kinds of depraved issues end up with women in power positions because its part of their existing fetish and deep emotional issues.  I dont think a healthy man who takes the role as the house husband while the wife pursues a very well paying career just BECOMES this way because of it. This guy was fucked up inside to begin with and was probably attracted to Kristi because she was ambitious and thats part of his thing.

 I dont know. Its sad and gross. I dont want to insult men or suggest being the one who stays home and cares for their children must be fucked up....I think thats an unfair position to have. The men I have known who did that were wonderful husbands and dads and it mostly always temporary so their wife could pursue her dreams. I think thats such a loving sacrifice and its perfectly within the realm of healthy masculinity to sacrifice for those you love.

 This guy has deep dysfunction in him that was always there. Fetishes are a whole disorder.

Quote from: JOE on Today at 06:35:06 AMAnd yet I kinda feel sorry for the guy...Lokmar.

All these years it must've been hard for him being in his wife's shadow, more or less being her lap dog.

And it finally caught up to him/her

Seems Kristi was too strong (and too smart) for him.

I've known guys who become house husbands & it turns them into weak men unless they were that way to begin with.

They're often very miserable.

Who knows the actual story. He should have been bangin his wife on the regular.

If I was a politician, I'd insist my wife be with me all the times. This dick aint gonna service itself.

Quote from: Dove on April 01, 2026, 03:01:56 PMNot always, Joe.

 Ive seen men who do just fine being at home. MY man works from home. He is always here.

 He took care of his mother for many years.

 He is very much the man.

But your man wasn't a house husband.

He was more of a caretaker to his mom.

and seems he ran or runs some kind of home based business.

Quote from: Lokmar on April 01, 2026, 03:06:32 PMReal men dont pull out.....of women anyway. They also dont dress in drag. Also, they aint gay.

And yet I kinda feel sorry for the guy...Lokmar.

All these years it must've been hard for him being in his wife's shadow, more or less being her lap dog.

And it finally caught up to him/her

Seems Kristi was too strong (and too smart) for him.

I've known guys who become house husbands & it turns them into weak men unless they were that way to begin with.

They're often very miserable.

Real men dont pull out.....of women anyway. They also dont dress in drag. Also, they aint gay.

Quote from: JOE on April 01, 2026, 01:33:37 PMMen who stay home like that become weak & destroy themselves on the inside, Dove.

I've seen it IRL.

Guy I know, married a lawyer, she brings home the bacon, and now he has had cardiac arrest.

All his hair is falling out and he looks like he's in his 70s even tho he's still forty something.

Nothin' worse for a man's self esteem than bein a house husband.

 Not always, Joe.

 Ive seen men who do just fine being at home. MY man works from home. He is always here.

 He took care of his mother for many years.

 He is very much the man.

Quote from: JOE on April 01, 2026, 01:33:37 PMMen who stay home like that become weak & destroy themselves on the inside, Dove.

I've seen it IRL.

Guy I know, married a lawyer, she brings home the bacon, and now he has had cardiac arrest.

All his hair is falling out and he looks like he's in his 70s even tho he's still forty something.

Nothin' worse for a man's self esteem than bein a house husband.

Sweetie, that is you.

I bring home the bacon and you are on forums all day.

It's aging you Honeybunch. You look every bit of your seventy five years plus a few.

You want to look good for me don't you Pussycat? Do something...anything. Get off your butt and get moving.

Quote from: Dove on April 01, 2026, 12:59:15 PMI saw the pictures. He really positioned the balloons so the ties looked like nipples 

Men who stay home like that become weak & destroy themselves on the inside, Dove.

I've seen it IRL.

Guy I know, married a lawyer, she brings home the bacon, and now he has had cardiac arrest.

All his hair is falling out and he looks like he's in his 70s even tho he's still forty something.

Nothin' worse for a man's self esteem than bein a house husband.

I saw the pictures. He really positioned the balloons so the ties looked like nipples 

Seems Noem's husband went a little crazy playing 2nd fiddle to Kristy & being Mr Mom

I can see how this could happen. He had nothing better to do with his time

Quote from: Lokmar on April 01, 2026, 12:11:45 PMIs that what happened to you, josephine? Was your mommy too strong for you? Suddenly, it all makes sense!

Lol. Im doing jes fine Lokmar!

Mommy was good ta me taking care of me in retirement. So are my fellow Canadians like DKG, Brent, Herman, his son paying taxes ro fund my pension.

Still love my mom even tho shes no longer with us...Lokmar!

Quote from: JOE on April 01, 2026, 11:27:58 AMA husband like that has nothing else better to do when the wife wears the pants in the family.

So he turns into a girl Biggie Smiles

Thats why men should never stay home like tha5 & become house husbands eh?

Is that what happened to you, josephine? Was your mommy too strong for you? Suddenly, it all makes sense!

Quote from: Biggie Smiles on April 01, 2026, 11:03:57 AMWith a fine ass wife like that this dude must be bat shit crazy

A husband like that has nothing else better to do when the wife wears the pants in the family.

So he turns into a girl Biggie Smiles

Thats why men should never stay home like that & become house husbands eh?

With a fine ass wife like that this dude must be bat shit crazy