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The Flame Pit => The Guest Nest => Topic started by: caskur on August 21, 2019, 09:00:32 PM

Title: Murdy
Post by: caskur on August 21, 2019, 09:00:32 PM
I cannot respond to your post, it's now a locked thread but I think you did the right thing for the right reasons and one day you'll be rewarded for your efforts.



Try and get your health in check though. You really need to do that first. Alcohol is one of the main causes of cancer. Our TV commercials in Australia are advertising that fact. You need to be healthy for retirement if you want  to endure a fun retirement.



You've been doing good.... Just keep doing good.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 21, 2019, 09:02:41 PM
Quote from: "caskur"I cannot respond to your post, it's now a locked thread but I think you did the right thing for the right reasons and one day you'll be rewarded for your efforts.



Try and get your health in check though. You really need to do that first. Alcohol is one of the main causes of cancer. Our TV commercials in Australia are advertising that fact. You need to be healthy for retirement if you want  to endure a fun retirement.



You've been doing good.... Just keep doing good.

Bullshit. Barrel wash is god for what ails ya.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: caskur on August 21, 2019, 09:04:23 PM
Quote from: "Herman"
Quote from: "caskur"I cannot respond to your post, it's now a locked thread but I think you did the right thing for the right reasons and one day you'll be rewarded for your efforts.



Try and get your health in check though. You really need to do that first. Alcohol is one of the main causes of cancer. Our TV commercials in Australia are advertising that fact. You need to be healthy for retirement if you want  to endure a fun retirement.



You've been doing good.... Just keep doing good.

Bullshit. Barrel wash is goof for what ails ya.


Not for women... it's not good for women.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Rotwang on August 21, 2019, 09:28:02 PM
Allow me to remind all and sundry that ANY thread which carries on these silly domestic disputes between purportedly grown adults will be dumped and locked, no matter who the OP is.



The Blue Cashew is NOT going to be a dumping ground for domestic harassment and conflict, especially when family members and children are thrown into the fracas.



Although I've made it clear that any such posts are unacceptable, some continue to ignore my request and continue to conduct themselves like unregistered dogs.



I will be asking Admins to consider three day bans for anyone who cannot find alternative means of dealing with relationship issues.



I emphasise the word "ANYONE"!!!
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 21, 2019, 09:35:17 PM
Quote from: "caskur"
Quote from: "Herman"
Quote from: "caskur"I cannot respond to your post, it's now a locked thread but I think you did the right thing for the right reasons and one day you'll be rewarded for your efforts.



Try and get your health in check though. You really need to do that first. Alcohol is one of the main causes of cancer. Our TV commercials in Australia are advertising that fact. You need to be healthy for retirement if you want  to endure a fun retirement.



You've been doing good.... Just keep doing good.

Bullshit. Barrel wash is goof for what ails ya.


Not for women... it's not good for women.

I don't believe it's healthy for anyone, including Herman.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Odinson on August 21, 2019, 09:38:21 PM
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "caskur"
Quote from: "Herman"
Quote from: "caskur"I cannot respond to your post, it's now a locked thread but I think you did the right thing for the right reasons and one day you'll be rewarded for your efforts.



Try and get your health in check though. You really need to do that first. Alcohol is one of the main causes of cancer. Our TV commercials in Australia are advertising that fact. You need to be healthy for retirement if you want  to endure a fun retirement.



You've been doing good.... Just keep doing good.

Bullshit. Barrel wash is goof for what ails ya.


Not for women... it's not good for women.

I don't believe it's healthy for anyone, including Herman.


It depends..



It helps when you are really depressed.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 21, 2019, 09:49:29 PM
Quote from: "Odinson"
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "caskur"
Quote from: "Herman"
Quote from: "caskur"I cannot respond to your post, it's now a locked thread but I think you did the right thing for the right reasons and one day you'll be rewarded for your efforts.



Try and get your health in check though. You really need to do that first. Alcohol is one of the main causes of cancer. Our TV commercials in Australia are advertising that fact. You need to be healthy for retirement if you want  to endure a fun retirement.



You've been doing good.... Just keep doing good.

Bullshit. Barrel wash is goof for what ails ya.


Not for women... it's not good for women.

I don't believe it's healthy for anyone, including Herman.


It depends..



It helps when you are really depressed.

Alcohol is a depressant.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Odinson on August 21, 2019, 09:53:52 PM
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "Odinson"
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "caskur"
Quote from: "Herman"
Quote from: "caskur"I cannot respond to your post, it's now a locked thread but I think you did the right thing for the right reasons and one day you'll be rewarded for your efforts.



Try and get your health in check though. You really need to do that first. Alcohol is one of the main causes of cancer. Our TV commercials in Australia are advertising that fact. You need to be healthy for retirement if you want  to endure a fun retirement.



You've been doing good.... Just keep doing good.

Bullshit. Barrel wash is goof for what ails ya.


Not for women... it's not good for women.

I don't believe it's healthy for anyone, including Herman.


It depends..



It helps when you are really depressed.

Alcohol is a depressant.


When used excessively.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Bricktop on August 21, 2019, 10:02:14 PM
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Alcohol is a depressant.


It sure is.



I get so depressed when I see the price of good whisky increase every other week!!



 :sneaky2:
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: caskur on August 21, 2019, 10:08:18 PM
Well a lot of people gain weight because they love to eat and drink but women will give up food and just drink which is bad...



But many men who eat and drink and don't worry too much about weight thrive on alcohol and live long lives...



The problem arises when you cut your food intake.



This isn't a thread about alcohol though. I'm responding to another woman's post to me...I've known Murdy for 10 years. Murdy is a good person.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 21, 2019, 10:28:45 PM
Quote from: "Bricktop"
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Alcohol is a depressant.


It sure is.



I get so depressed when I see the price of good whisky increase every other week!!



 :sneaky2:

That is enough to drive a man to drink.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 21, 2019, 10:37:49 PM
QuoteI stayed for 12 years longer than I should have. However, I didn't do it for financial reasons. I did it because I assessed that my children would better benefit from a 2 parent home. We hid everything from the kids... his affairs, my online addiction and subsequent alcoholism.... they kids were clueless and shocked when we finally split.



Looking back, I could have hated him at the gym. But instead I took it out on myself because the cut my failed marriage left was that DEEP. It took an emotional toll on me that I will probably never fully heal from. He was literally sucking the life out of me and I didn't like who I was when I was with him.



We were excellent business partners and I will never be able to get legally married again without it being potentially detrimental to my retirement. So that's my reward... I will never have a husband in the eyes of the law ever again and I'm emotionally scarred for life.

Murdy, you do not owe any of us an explanation. Most of us on the these forums have relationship baggage. Not Fash, but everyone else. So, anybody judging you has three more fingers pointed back at themselves.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Biggie Smiles on August 21, 2019, 10:42:43 PM
Quote from: "Herman"
QuoteI stayed for 12 years longer than I should have. However, I didn't do it for financial reasons. I did it because I assessed that my children would better benefit from a 2 parent home. We hid everything from the kids... his affairs, my online addiction and subsequent alcoholism.... they kids were clueless and shocked when we finally split.



Looking back, I could have hated him at the gym. But instead I took it out on myself because the cut my failed marriage left was that DEEP. It took an emotional toll on me that I will probably never fully heal from. He was literally sucking the life out of me and I didn't like who I was when I was with him.



We were excellent business partners and I will never be able to get legally married again without it being potentially detrimental to my retirement. So that's my reward... I will never have a husband in the eyes of the law ever again and I'm emotionally scarred for life.

Murdy, you do not owe any of us an explanation. Most of us on the these forums have relationship baggage. Not Fash, but everyone else. So, anybody judging you has three more fingers pointed back a themselves.

Preach, bro.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 21, 2019, 10:46:21 PM
Quote from: "Herman"
QuoteI stayed for 12 years longer than I should have. However, I didn't do it for financial reasons. I did it because I assessed that my children would better benefit from a 2 parent home. We hid everything from the kids... his affairs, my online addiction and subsequent alcoholism.... they kids were clueless and shocked when we finally split.



Looking back, I could have hated him at the gym. But instead I took it out on myself because the cut my failed marriage left was that DEEP. It took an emotional toll on me that I will probably never fully heal from. He was literally sucking the life out of me and I didn't like who I was when I was with him.



We were excellent business partners and I will never be able to get legally married again without it being potentially detrimental to my retirement. So that's my reward... I will never have a husband in the eyes of the law ever again and I'm emotionally scarred for life.

Murdy, you do not owe any of us an explanation. Most of us on the these forums have relationship baggage. Not Fash, but everyone else. So, anybody judging you has three more fingers pointed back at themselves.

Once in a while, you surprise me Herman.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 21, 2019, 11:03:00 PM
Quote from: "caskur"I cannot respond to your post, it's now a locked thread but I think you did the right thing for the right reasons and one day you'll be rewarded for your efforts.



Try and get your health in check though. You really need to do that first. Alcohol is one of the main causes of cancer. Our TV commercials in Australia are advertising that fact. You need to be healthy for retirement if you want  to endure a fun retirement.



You've been doing good.... Just keep doing good.


Hello Caskur, it's been a L O N G time xoxo



I've done a lot of healing since I saw you last.... spiritually, physically and mentally.  I made the conscious decision to not stop drinking entirely.  I pretty much compartmentalize my alcoholism now.  I only drink on Friday or Saturday nights and limit how many of those I get a month.  However, I have an alcohol allergy and it doesn't take much to get me there.  



I am hopeful that I will eventually find a great guy and that we will be happy enjoying life, travel and our grandchildren together (I doubt I'll find anyone who is suitable at this point who doesn't have children).  



Wish me luck!
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 21, 2019, 11:04:04 PM
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "Herman"
QuoteI stayed for 12 years longer than I should have. However, I didn't do it for financial reasons. I did it because I assessed that my children would better benefit from a 2 parent home. We hid everything from the kids... his affairs, my online addiction and subsequent alcoholism.... they kids were clueless and shocked when we finally split.



Looking back, I could have hated him at the gym. But instead I took it out on myself because the cut my failed marriage left was that DEEP. It took an emotional toll on me that I will probably never fully heal from. He was literally sucking the life out of me and I didn't like who I was when I was with him.



We were excellent business partners and I will never be able to get legally married again without it being potentially detrimental to my retirement. So that's my reward... I will never have a husband in the eyes of the law ever again and I'm emotionally scarred for life.

Murdy, you do not owe any of us an explanation. Most of us on the these forums have relationship baggage. Not Fash, but everyone else. So, anybody judging you has three more fingers pointed back at themselves.

Once in a while, you surprise me Herman.

It's true and I'm sure you've seen it. Some people on these forums get super judgmental about other people's relationships and they have had more than a few failed relationships themselves. Not you though Fash. You are pretty cool about it.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 21, 2019, 11:05:53 PM
Quote from: "Murdock"
Quote from: "caskur"I cannot respond to your post, it's now a locked thread but I think you did the right thing for the right reasons and one day you'll be rewarded for your efforts.



Try and get your health in check though. You really need to do that first. Alcohol is one of the main causes of cancer. Our TV commercials in Australia are advertising that fact. You need to be healthy for retirement if you want  to endure a fun retirement.



You've been doing good.... Just keep doing good.


Hello Caskur, it's been a L O N G time xoxo



I've done a lot of healing since I saw you last.... spiritually, physically and mentally.  I made the conscious decision to not stop drinking entirely.  I pretty much compartmentalize my alcoholism now.  I only drink on Friday or Saturday nights and limit how many of those I get a month.  However, I have an alcohol allergy and it doesn't take much to get me there.  



I am hopeful that I will eventually find a great guy and that we will be happy enjoying life, travel and our grandchildren together (I doubt I'll find anyone who is suitable at this point who doesn't have children).  



Wish me luck!

I gather you would prefer a guy not have kids? I don't blame you, but like you said, it will be tougher once you get a certain age.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 21, 2019, 11:17:36 PM
Quote from: "Herman"
QuoteI stayed for 12 years longer than I should have. However, I didn't do it for financial reasons. I did it because I assessed that my children would better benefit from a 2 parent home. We hid everything from the kids... his affairs, my online addiction and subsequent alcoholism.... they kids were clueless and shocked when we finally split.



Looking back, I could have hated him at the gym. But instead I took it out on myself because the cut my failed marriage left was that DEEP. It took an emotional toll on me that I will probably never fully heal from. He was literally sucking the life out of me and I didn't like who I was when I was with him.



We were excellent business partners and I will never be able to get legally married again without it being potentially detrimental to my retirement. So that's my reward... I will never have a husband in the eyes of the law ever again and I'm emotionally scarred for life.

Murdy, you do not owe any of us an explanation. Most of us on the these forums have relationship baggage. Not Fash, but everyone else. So, anybody judging you has three more fingers pointed back at themselves.


People can judge me all they want, Herman.  If they don't pay my bills, I have ZERO f@cks to give.  



I'm just contributing real life experience for an intellectual discussion that we can all reflect, learn and potentially grow from.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 21, 2019, 11:27:41 PM
Quote from: "Herman"
Quote from: "Murdock"
Quote from: "caskur"I cannot respond to your post, it's now a locked thread but I think you did the right thing for the right reasons and one day you'll be rewarded for your efforts.



Try and get your health in check though. You really need to do that first. Alcohol is one of the main causes of cancer. Our TV commercials in Australia are advertising that fact. You need to be healthy for retirement if you want  to endure a fun retirement.



You've been doing good.... Just keep doing good.


Hello Caskur, it's been a L O N G time xoxo



I've done a lot of healing since I saw you last.... spiritually, physically and mentally.  I made the conscious decision to not stop drinking entirely.  I pretty much compartmentalize my alcoholism now.  I only drink on Friday or Saturday nights and limit how many of those I get a month.  However, I have an alcohol allergy and it doesn't take much to get me there.  



I am hopeful that I will eventually find a great guy and that we will be happy enjoying life, travel and our grandchildren together (I doubt I'll find anyone who is suitable at this point who doesn't have children).  



Wish me luck!

I gather you would prefer a guy not have kids? I don't blame you, but like you said, it will be tougher once you get a certain age.


I would prefer an empty nester with strong family values.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: caskur on August 22, 2019, 04:29:06 AM
Quote from: "Murdock"
Quote from: "caskur"I cannot respond to your post, it's now a locked thread but I think you did the right thing for the right reasons and one day you'll be rewarded for your efforts.



Try and get your health in check though. You really need to do that first. Alcohol is one of the main causes of cancer. Our TV commercials in Australia are advertising that fact. You need to be healthy for retirement if you want  to endure a fun retirement.



You've been doing good.... Just keep doing good.


Hello Caskur, it's been a L O N G time xoxo



I've done a lot of healing since I saw you last.... spiritually, physically and mentally.  I made the conscious decision to not stop drinking entirely.  I pretty much compartmentalize my alcoholism now.  I only drink on Friday or Saturday nights and limit how many of those I get a month.  However, I have an alcohol allergy and it doesn't take much to get me there.  



I am hopeful that I will eventually find a great guy and that we will be happy enjoying life, travel and our grandchildren together (I doubt I'll find anyone who is suitable at this point who doesn't have children).  



Wish me luck!


I'm not a drinker but used to be a very heavy chain smoker though. I gave up 5 yrs and 2 month ago... I really wished I could smoke now and again... but I'd only start off light and end up fully addicted in a fortnight.



You will find someone. You put out good vibes.



Enjoy everyday.



Life is good.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2019, 06:41:14 AM
Quote from: "Murdock"
Quote from: "Herman"
Quote from: "Murdock"
Quote from: "caskur"I cannot respond to your post, it's now a locked thread but I think you did the right thing for the right reasons and one day you'll be rewarded for your efforts.



Try and get your health in check though. You really need to do that first. Alcohol is one of the main causes of cancer. Our TV commercials in Australia are advertising that fact. You need to be healthy for retirement if you want  to endure a fun retirement.



You've been doing good.... Just keep doing good.


Hello Caskur, it's been a L O N G time xoxo



I've done a lot of healing since I saw you last.... spiritually, physically and mentally.  I made the conscious decision to not stop drinking entirely.  I pretty much compartmentalize my alcoholism now.  I only drink on Friday or Saturday nights and limit how many of those I get a month.  However, I have an alcohol allergy and it doesn't take much to get me there.  



I am hopeful that I will eventually find a great guy and that we will be happy enjoying life, travel and our grandchildren together (I doubt I'll find anyone who is suitable at this point who doesn't have children).  



Wish me luck!

I gather you would prefer a guy not have kids? I don't blame you, but like you said, it will be tougher once you get a certain age.


I would prefer an empty nester with strong family values.

That should be easy since many adults probably start dating again once their children are adults.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2019, 11:02:28 AM
Quote from: "caskur"
Quote from: "Murdock"
Quote from: "caskur"I cannot respond to your post, it's now a locked thread but I think you did the right thing for the right reasons and one day you'll be rewarded for your efforts.



Try and get your health in check though. You really need to do that first. Alcohol is one of the main causes of cancer. Our TV commercials in Australia are advertising that fact. You need to be healthy for retirement if you want  to endure a fun retirement.



You've been doing good.... Just keep doing good.


Hello Caskur, it's been a L O N G time xoxo



I've done a lot of healing since I saw you last.... spiritually, physically and mentally.  I made the conscious decision to not stop drinking entirely.  I pretty much compartmentalize my alcoholism now.  I only drink on Friday or Saturday nights and limit how many of those I get a month.  However, I have an alcohol allergy and it doesn't take much to get me there.  



I am hopeful that I will eventually find a great guy and that we will be happy enjoying life, travel and our grandchildren together (I doubt I'll find anyone who is suitable at this point who doesn't have children).  



Wish me luck!


I'm not a drinker but used to be a very heavy chain smoker though. I gave up 5 yrs and 2 month ago... I really wished I could smoke now and again... but I'd only start off light and end up fully addicted in a fortnight.



You will find someone. You put out good vibes.



Enjoy everyday.



Life is good.


Awww thanks, Caskur.  I hope so... I have all this free time and wifey skills going to waste.  



But I'm glad you stopped.  I still cheat here and there on breaks with the girls at work.  I would like to think that remaining calm and not murdering anyone is better for my health than a few cigs.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2019, 11:08:13 AM
Ya, your employer might get a little upset if you kill one or two of theiremployees. :laugh3:
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2019, 11:32:45 AM
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "Murdock"
Quote from: "Herman"
Quote from: "Murdock"
Quote from: "caskur"I cannot respond to your post, it's now a locked thread but I think you did the right thing for the right reasons and one day you'll be rewarded for your efforts.



Try and get your health in check though. You really need to do that first. Alcohol is one of the main causes of cancer. Our TV commercials in Australia are advertising that fact. You need to be healthy for retirement if you want  to endure a fun retirement.



You've been doing good.... Just keep doing good.


Hello Caskur, it's been a L O N G time xoxo



I've done a lot of healing since I saw you last.... spiritually, physically and mentally.  I made the conscious decision to not stop drinking entirely.  I pretty much compartmentalize my alcoholism now.  I only drink on Friday or Saturday nights and limit how many of those I get a month.  However, I have an alcohol allergy and it doesn't take much to get me there.  



I am hopeful that I will eventually find a great guy and that we will be happy enjoying life, travel and our grandchildren together (I doubt I'll find anyone who is suitable at this point who doesn't have children).  



Wish me luck!

I gather you would prefer a guy not have kids? I don't blame you, but like you said, it will be tougher once you get a certain age.


I would prefer an empty nester with strong family values.

That should be easy since many adults probably start dating again once their children are adults.


When I made the decision to stay until they both were out of HS, I couldn't imagine bringing another man into the house.  I still can't imagine how they will react when I finally do find someone and it's serious and we are living together.  But I would like to think that a big extended family gathered around my dinning room table will be fun.  



I wanted more children, but with his affairs I stopped after 2.  I'd like to that this is also my chance to have more children... except now I don't have to raise them or put them through college.  I just get to be their father's crazy silly girlfriend  ac_dance
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2019, 11:53:31 AM
Quote from: "Murdock"
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "Murdock"
Quote from: "Herman"
Quote from: "Murdock"
Quote from: "caskur"I cannot respond to your post, it's now a locked thread but I think you did the right thing for the right reasons and one day you'll be rewarded for your efforts.



Try and get your health in check though. You really need to do that first. Alcohol is one of the main causes of cancer. Our TV commercials in Australia are advertising that fact. You need to be healthy for retirement if you want  to endure a fun retirement.



You've been doing good.... Just keep doing good.


Hello Caskur, it's been a L O N G time xoxo



I've done a lot of healing since I saw you last.... spiritually, physically and mentally.  I made the conscious decision to not stop drinking entirely.  I pretty much compartmentalize my alcoholism now.  I only drink on Friday or Saturday nights and limit how many of those I get a month.  However, I have an alcohol allergy and it doesn't take much to get me there.  



I am hopeful that I will eventually find a great guy and that we will be happy enjoying life, travel and our grandchildren together (I doubt I'll find anyone who is suitable at this point who doesn't have children).  



Wish me luck!

I gather you would prefer a guy not have kids? I don't blame you, but like you said, it will be tougher once you get a certain age.


I would prefer an empty nester with strong family values.

That should be easy since many adults probably start dating again once their children are adults.


When I made the decision to stay until they both were out of HS, I couldn't imagine bringing another man into the house.  I still can't imagine how they will react when I finally do find someone and it's serious and we are living together.  But I would like to think that a big extended family gathered around my dinning room table will be fun.  



I wanted more children, but with his affairs I stopped after 2.  I'd like to this this is also my chance to have more children... except now I don't have to raise them or put them through college.  I just get to be their father's crazy silly girlfriend  ac_dance

We know people with step families..



They seem to have two Christmases and two Thanksgiving meals..



Two families means twice as much fun.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Blurt on August 22, 2019, 12:08:27 PM
Hmmm... single, good values, faithful, devoted, no children, smart and witty, doesn't use drugs or alcohol, not unpleasant to look upon, loves to travel, financially autonomous, spiritually aware, has minimal relationship baggage...



We're out there, Murdy. Don't give up.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2019, 12:21:17 PM
Quote from: "Blurt"Hmmm... single, good values, faithful, devoted, no children, smart and witty, doesn't use drugs or alcohol, not unpleasant to look upon, loves to travel, financially autonomous, spiritually aware, has minimal relationship baggage...



We're out there, Murdy. Don't give up.

BC match making.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: caskur on August 22, 2019, 12:22:24 PM
When you reach middle age, you have to get serious and look at what type of old age you want...



Some people just live day to day...



Old age is a scary topic if you haven't set yourself up during your younger years to sail through old age.



You also really do need to take care yourself health-wise... There is no point developing a cancerous growth and then saying, "oh shit, I better start eating better and exercising. I like living, death seems very unappealing at this stage."...lol
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2019, 12:41:06 PM
Quote from: "caskur"When you reach middle age, you have to get serious and look at what type of old age you want...



Some people just live day to day...



Old age is a scary topic if you haven't set yourself up during your younger years to sail through old age.



You also really do need to take care yourself health-wise... There is no point developing a cancerous growth and then saying, "oh shit, I better start eating better and exercising. I like living, death seems very unappealing at this stage."...lol

Some people don't prepare for the future.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: caskur on August 22, 2019, 12:52:14 PM
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "caskur"When you reach middle age, you have to get serious and look at what type of old age you want...



Some people just live day to day...



Old age is a scary topic if you haven't set yourself up during your younger years to sail through old age.



You also really do need to take care yourself health-wise... There is no point developing a cancerous growth and then saying, "oh shit, I better start eating better and exercising. I like living, death seems very unappealing at this stage."...lol

Some people don't prepare for the future.


And some future events are beyond anyone's control...



I'm thinking of natural disaster victims. We're just super lucky we live in a developed world country.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2019, 03:32:27 PM
Quote from: "iron horse jockey"Ya, your employer might get a little upset if you kill one or two of theiremployees. :laugh3:




It's our clients...  :sdfjh(2):
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2019, 03:50:18 PM
Quote from: "Blurt"Hmmm... single, good values, faithful, devoted, no children, smart and witty, doesn't use drugs or alcohol, not unpleasant to look upon, loves to travel, financially autonomous, spiritually aware, has minimal relationship baggage...



We're out there, Murdy. Don't give up.




I'm trying... but if you don't like adult weekends and brunch served in bed, I'm probably NOT the girl for you :negative:
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Odinson on August 22, 2019, 04:32:12 PM
What are adult weekends?
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2019, 05:26:10 PM
Quote from: "Odinson"What are adult weekends?


58 hours of uninterrupted X rated sheit...  :evilthoughts2:
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2019, 05:36:47 PM
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "Blurt"Hmmm... single, good values, faithful, devoted, no children, smart and witty, doesn't use drugs or alcohol, not unpleasant to look upon, loves to travel, financially autonomous, spiritually aware, has minimal relationship baggage...



We're out there, Murdy. Don't give up.

BC match making.




I almost fell in love online once... he was the CO forum owner.  



We were both married at the time.  I was the only one who didn't lie about it.



There is a thread on MMP called The Farmer & The Bombshell that basically tells this story
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Bricktop on August 22, 2019, 06:25:53 PM
Quote from: "Blurt"Hmmm... single, good values, faithful, devoted, no children, smart and witty, doesn't use drugs or alcohol, not unpleasant to look upon, loves to travel, financially autonomous, spiritually aware, has minimal relationship baggage...willing to share clothing, lingerie and makeup tips.



We're out there, Murdy. Don't give up.


Fixed.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Odinson on August 22, 2019, 06:32:20 PM
Quote from: "Blurt"Hmmm... single, good values, faithful, devoted, no children, smart and witty, doesn't use drugs or alcohol, not unpleasant to look upon, loves to travel, financially autonomous, spiritually aware, has minimal relationship baggage...



We're out there, Murdy. Don't give up.


You forgot something...



 :laugh3:
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2019, 07:42:04 PM
Quote from: "caskur"
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "caskur"When you reach middle age, you have to get serious and look at what type of old age you want...



Some people just live day to day...



Old age is a scary topic if you haven't set yourself up during your younger years to sail through old age.



You also really do need to take care yourself health-wise... There is no point developing a cancerous growth and then saying, "oh shit, I better start eating better and exercising. I like living, death seems very unappealing at this stage."...lol

Some people don't prepare for the future.


And some future events are beyond anyone's control...



I'm thinking of natural disaster victims. We're just super lucky we live in a developed world country.

Oh of course, some things are beyond our control including accidents or unexpected illness..



Taiwan is a developed country, but it's on a fault line and gets earthquakes regularly.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2019, 07:42:50 PM
Quote from: "Murdock"
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "Blurt"Hmmm... single, good values, faithful, devoted, no children, smart and witty, doesn't use drugs or alcohol, not unpleasant to look upon, loves to travel, financially autonomous, spiritually aware, has minimal relationship baggage...



We're out there, Murdy. Don't give up.

BC match making.




I almost fell in love online once... he was the CO forum owner.  



We were both married at the time.  I was the only one who didn't lie about it.



There is a thread on MMP called The Farmer & The Bombshell that basically tells this story

What is CO Murdy?
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Bricktop on August 22, 2019, 07:45:31 PM
Cosmic Outpost.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Odinson on August 22, 2019, 11:01:59 PM
Commanding officer..



Or a co-owner.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2019, 11:04:30 PM
Quote from: "Bricktop"Cosmic Outpost.

Cook out. The word some Americans substitute for a bbq.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 23, 2019, 01:43:35 AM
Quote from: "Bricktop"
Quote from: "Blurt"Hmmm... single, good values, faithful, devoted, no children, smart and witty, doesn't use drugs or alcohol, not unpleasant to look upon, loves to travel, financially autonomous, spiritually aware, has minimal relationship baggage...willing to share clothing, lingerie and makeup tips.



We're out there, Murdy. Don't give up.


Fixed.


The only problem with this is that we are both Gemini.  That's like a cosmic orgy of crazy in a relationship.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: caskur on August 23, 2019, 02:18:53 AM
Geminis love the written word...



You could send yourselves love letters and poetry.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Blurt on August 23, 2019, 03:52:48 AM
What's wrong with cosmic orgies of crazy?



You only live once, Purdy Murdy. You owe it to yourself and to the world to be the best nut you can be for the duration of the play.



And, especially, pay no attention to that Bricktop behind the curtain. He may be wizened, but he's no wizard.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 23, 2019, 11:34:53 AM
Quote from: "caskur"Geminis love the written word...



You could send yourselves love letters and poetry.




This is how Farmer got me to swoooooon...  ac_wub



But I wanted to thank you for your insight into health & retirement.  I pondered this last night and then again this morning and I have to say that I'm more centered in my journey having an active retirement life goal.  Good stuff.  



Kudos xoxo
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 23, 2019, 11:46:40 AM
Quote from: "Blurt"What's wrong with cosmic orgies of crazy?



You only live once, Purdy Murdy. You owe it to yourself and to the world to be the best nut you can be for the duration of the play.



And, especially, pay no attention to that Bricktop behind the curtain. He may be wizened, but he's no wizard.


Damn, I bet your makeup and hair products are stellar too.  What to do, what to do...



do I get to be the boy sometimes?
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Blurt on August 23, 2019, 12:34:15 PM
You get to be whatever you'd like to be.



This never sits well with a vanilla crowd, but what can you do?



I do declare my femme days have gone the way of my youth, rather more recent transsexual long trolls notwithstanding.



Obviously, I still love to play with my self. It's a bonus in a bland world.



For the record, I was a MAC girl. And RuPaul had nothing to do with it.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Bricktop on August 23, 2019, 07:11:10 PM
Quote from: "Blurt"


And, especially, pay no attention to that Bricktop behind the curtain. He may be wizened, but he's no wizard.


Son, I don't need to wear makeup to make ME look pretty.



And I've got nearly 20 years on you.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 23, 2019, 07:17:35 PM
Quote from: "Bricktop"
Quote from: "Blurt"


And, especially, pay no attention to that Bricktop behind the curtain. He may be wizened, but he's no wizard.


Son, I don't need to wear makeup to make ME look pretty.



And I've got nearly 20 years on you.

You must be a natural beauty.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Bricktop on August 23, 2019, 07:33:48 PM
I don't like to brag... ac_blush
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 23, 2019, 08:52:02 PM
Quote from: "Bricktop"I don't like to brag... ac_blush

That's good.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 25, 2019, 01:48:17 PM
Quote from: "caskur"Well a lot of people gain weight because they love to eat and drink but women will give up food and just drink which is bad...



But many men who eat and drink and don't worry too much about weight thrive on alcohol and live long lives...



The problem arises when you cut your food intake.



This isn't a thread about alcohol though. I'm responding to another woman's post to me...I've known Murdy for 10 years. Murdy is a good person.




Awwww thanks Caskur.  I try.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 25, 2019, 01:50:40 PM
Quote from: "Blurt"You get to be whatever you'd like to be.



This never sits well with a vanilla crowd, but what can you do?



I do declare my femme days have gone the way of my youth, rather more recent transsexual long trolls notwithstanding.



Obviously, I still love to play with my self. It's a bonus in a bland world.



For the record, I was a MAC girl. And RuPaul had nothing to do with it.


I've been a MAC girl since the 90s... it was accidental.  I was in my goth phase and the artists wore all black.  I have cases of their makeup now.  I'm a MAC lipstick junkie... but Kylie Jenner's lip kits have stolen my heart, so I'm cheating with her for now.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 25, 2019, 02:10:16 PM
Quote from: "Murdock"
Quote from: "Blurt"You get to be whatever you'd like to be.



This never sits well with a vanilla crowd, but what can you do?



I do declare my femme days have gone the way of my youth, rather more recent transsexual long trolls notwithstanding.



Obviously, I still love to play with my self. It's a bonus in a bland world.



For the record, I was a MAC girl. And RuPaul had nothing to do with it.


I've been a MAC girl since the 90s... it was accidental.  I was in my goth phase and the artists wore all black.  I have cases of their makeup now.  I'm a MAC lipstick junkie... but Kylie Jenner's lip kits have stolen my heart, so I'm cheating with her for now.

Is MAC a product line?
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Blurt on August 26, 2019, 04:00:48 AM
Depends on what you mean by "product."



https://youtu.be/Y08eaZtoFYU
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 26, 2019, 05:48:39 AM
Quote from: "Herman"
Quote from: "Murdock"
Quote from: "Blurt"You get to be whatever you'd like to be.



This never sits well with a vanilla crowd, but what can you do?



I do declare my femme days have gone the way of my youth, rather more recent transsexual long trolls notwithstanding.



Obviously, I still love to play with my self. It's a bonus in a bland world.



For the record, I was a MAC girl. And RuPaul had nothing to do with it.


I've been a MAC girl since the 90s... it was accidental.  I was in my goth phase and the artists wore all black.  I have cases of their makeup now.  I'm a MAC lipstick junkie... but Kylie Jenner's lip kits have stolen my heart, so I'm cheating with her for now.

Is MAC a product line?

It was a Canadian founded company.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Blazor on August 26, 2019, 11:56:54 AM
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "Bricktop"
Quote from: "Blurt"


And, especially, pay no attention to that Bricktop behind the curtain. He may be wizened, but he's no wizard.


Son, I don't need to wear makeup to make ME look pretty.



And I've got nearly 20 years on you.

You must be a natural beauty.


You dont recall his "backside in the snow" pic?  :laugh:
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Blurt on August 26, 2019, 03:05:40 PM
Of course, Bricktop himself won't recall. He's aged and withering.



Unfortunately, photography has consigned his posterior to posterity.



The deep web has its uses.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Bricktop on August 27, 2019, 07:38:44 PM
Quote from: "Blazor"
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "Bricktop"
Quote from: "Blurt"


And, especially, pay no attention to that Bricktop behind the curtain. He may be wizened, but he's no wizard.


Son, I don't need to wear makeup to make ME look pretty.



And I've got nearly 20 years on you.

You must be a natural beauty.


You dont recall his "backside in the snow" pic?  :laugh:


My PM box filled up the day after that was posted.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 27, 2019, 09:26:04 PM
Quote from: "Blurt"Depends on what you mean by "product."



https://youtu.be/Y08eaZtoFYU




 ac_wub



The Cardigans are one of my 90s favorites too!
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on August 27, 2019, 09:28:22 PM
Quote from: "Murdock"
Quote from: "Blurt"Depends on what you mean by "product."



https://youtu.be/Y08eaZtoFYU




 ac_wub



The Cardigans are one of my 90s favorites too!

I like the Cardigans too.
Title: Re: Murdy
Post by: Anonymous on December 21, 2019, 02:02:53 AM
Where's my damned Switch?