Their father died an untimely and early death, leaving his young wife (50's) to look after a lush 50 acre farm... so the siblings pitched in where they could, near or distant...with either labour or cash injections for 14 years... not all the siblings though.. just a few... some of the siblings were college aged, and couldn't.... some of the siblings married fucking Italians, so they weren't allowed... but still, they all got over the mark...
...and then, when that mother wanted to move on, from the house that she still has 1860's photos of the farmhouse with ancestors sitting up front in the frumpy finest, she put out a call to the siblings... "does anybody want it?"
The siblings all wanted to keep it in the family at any cost... much cud was chewed on this...
...and eventually, everyone was happy having one sole brother buy it with his New Yorker wife... because they "wanted a change"...
FAST FCKING FORWARD 5 YEARS, AND 300K IN out building INVESTMENTS, but virtually nothing to the actual cedar siding house... AND, they're trying to flip it on the real estate market...
Should brother A murder brother B in his sleep, or kidnap him then torture him to death over 6 months? Barbecue skewers, or match heads... you know... painful shit...
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...and then, when that mother wanted to move on, from the house that she still has 1860's photos of the farmhouse with ancestors sitting up front in the frumpy finest, she put out a call to the siblings... "does anybody want it?"
The siblings all wanted to keep it in the family at any cost... much cud was chewed on this...
...and eventually, everyone was happy having one sole brother buy it with his New Yorker wife... because they "wanted a change"...
FAST FCKING FORWARD 5 YEARS, AND 300K IN out building INVESTMENTS, but virtually nothing to the actual cedar siding house... AND, they're trying to flip it on the real estate market...
No
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...and then, when that mother wanted to move on, from the house that she still has 1860's photos of the farmhouse with ancestors sitting up front in the frumpy finest, she put out a call to the siblings... "does anybody want it?"
The siblings all wanted to keep it in the family at any cost... much cud was chewed on this...
...and eventually, everyone was happy having one sole brother buy it with his New Yorker wife... because they "wanted a change"...
FAST FCKING FORWARD 5 YEARS, AND 300K IN out building INVESTMENTS, but virtually nothing to the actual cedar siding house... AND, they're trying to flip it on the real estate market...
Should brother A murder brother B in his sleep, or kidnap him then torture him to death over 6 months? Barbecue skewers, or match heads... you know... painful shit...
One brother bought it with the blessing of the family. What is the problem.
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...and then, when that mother wanted to move on, from the house that she still has 1860's photos of the farmhouse with ancestors sitting up front in the frumpy finest, she put out a call to the siblings... "does anybody want it?"
The siblings all wanted to keep it in the family at any cost... much cud was chewed on this...
...and eventually, everyone was happy having one sole brother buy it with his New Yorker wife... because they "wanted a change"...
FAST FCKING FORWARD 5 YEARS, AND 300K IN out building INVESTMENTS, but virtually nothing to the actual cedar siding house... AND, they're trying to flip it on the real estate market...
Should brother A murder brother B in his sleep, or kidnap him then torture him to death over 6 months? Barbecue skewers, or match heads... you know... painful shit...
One brother bought it with the blessing of the family. What is the problem.
The other siblings took themselves out of the process, because the one party feigned heritage... you know, keeping it in the family...and that same person started working on flipping the property...
He is scum... I hope he dies...
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...and then, when that mother wanted to move on, from the house that she still has 1860's photos of the farmhouse with ancestors sitting up front in the frumpy finest, she put out a call to the siblings... "does anybody want it?"
The siblings all wanted to keep it in the family at any cost... much cud was chewed on this...
...and eventually, everyone was happy having one sole brother buy it with his New Yorker wife... because they "wanted a change"...
FAST FCKING FORWARD 5 YEARS, AND 300K IN out building INVESTMENTS, but virtually nothing to the actual cedar siding house... AND, they're trying to flip it on the real estate market...
Should brother A murder brother B in his sleep, or kidnap him then torture him to death over 6 months? Barbecue skewers, or match heads... you know... painful shit...
It is supposed to remain in the family. He cannot sell it. Hire a lwyer.
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...and then, when that mother wanted to move on, from the house that she still has 1860's photos of the farmhouse with ancestors sitting up front in the frumpy finest, she put out a call to the siblings... "does anybody want it?"
The siblings all wanted to keep it in the family at any cost... much cud was chewed on this...
...and eventually, everyone was happy having one sole brother buy it with his New Yorker wife... because they "wanted a change"...
FAST FCKING FORWARD 5 YEARS, AND 300K IN out building INVESTMENTS, but virtually nothing to the actual cedar siding house... AND, they're trying to flip it on the real estate market...
Should brother A murder brother B in his sleep, or kidnap him then torture him to death over 6 months? Barbecue skewers, or match heads... you know... painful shit...
It is supposed to remain in the family. He cannot sell it. Hire a lwyer.
He is going against the family's wishes.
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...and then, when that mother wanted to move on, from the house that she still has 1860's photos of the farmhouse with ancestors sitting up front in the frumpy finest, she put out a call to the siblings... "does anybody want it?"
The siblings all wanted to keep it in the family at any cost... much cud was chewed on this...
...and eventually, everyone was happy having one sole brother buy it with his New Yorker wife... because they "wanted a change"...
FAST FCKING FORWARD 5 YEARS, AND 300K IN out building INVESTMENTS, but virtually nothing to the actual cedar siding house... AND, they're trying to flip it on the real estate market...
Should brother A murder brother B in his sleep, or kidnap him then torture him to death over 6 months? Barbecue skewers, or match heads... you know... painful shit...
He can't frickin do that.
He's doing it.
I slammed the phone down on him the other day. I will never talk to that piece of shit again.
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I slammed the phone down on him the other day. I will never talk to that piece of shit again.
The house is supposed to stay in the family.
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I slammed the phone down on him the other day. I will never talk to that piece of shit again.
The house is supposed to stay in the family.
He double crossed the family... and nobody wants to call him out about it directly...except me...
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I slammed the phone down on him the other day. I will never talk to that piece of shit again.
The house is supposed to stay in the family.
He double crossed the family... and nobody wants to call him out about it directly...except me...
Call the rest of the family and then call the prick out corporately.
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...and then, when that mother wanted to move on, from the house that she still has 1860's photos of the farmhouse with ancestors sitting up front in the frumpy finest, she put out a call to the siblings... "does anybody want it?"
The siblings all wanted to keep it in the family at any cost... much cud was chewed on this...
...and eventually, everyone was happy having one sole brother buy it with his New Yorker wife... because they "wanted a change"...
FAST FCKING FORWARD 5 YEARS, AND 300K IN out building INVESTMENTS, but virtually nothing to the actual cedar siding house... AND, they're trying to flip it on the real estate market...
Should brother A murder brother B in his sleep, or kidnap him then torture him to death over 6 months? Barbecue skewers, or match heads... you know... painful shit...
Reading stories like this makes me glad I don't have siblings.
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...and then, when that mother wanted to move on, from the house that she still has 1860's photos of the farmhouse with ancestors sitting up front in the frumpy finest, she put out a call to the siblings... "does anybody want it?"
The siblings all wanted to keep it in the family at any cost... much cud was chewed on this...
...and eventually, everyone was happy having one sole brother buy it with his New Yorker wife... because they "wanted a change"...
FAST FCKING FORWARD 5 YEARS, AND 300K IN out building INVESTMENTS, but virtually nothing to the actual cedar siding house... AND, they're trying to flip it on the real estate market...
Should brother A murder brother B in his sleep, or kidnap him then torture him to death over 6 months? Barbecue skewers, or match heads... you know... painful shit...
Reading stories like this makes me glad I don't have siblings.
I never liked him much anyway... self absorbed and shifty...
Him and his wife made sure to get disabilities before they retired from the military and took on full time work in the peivate sector....
And their children are spoiled little brats...
I hope he gets Coronavirus and strokes out....
How many brothers and sisters do you have DD?
Do they live in Australia?
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Do they live in Australia?
4... and they live all over the world...
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Do they live in Australia?
4... and they live all over the world...
Wow, big family.
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Do they live in Australia?
4... and they live all over the world...
I only have one younger brother.....he lives in rural Manitoba.
I always say that no matter what reason anyone gives, all arrangements should be set out legally so everyone is clear where things are and what can and cannot be done.
Family dynamics always, always change.
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Yeah... we never needed to before... the family worked these things out...
...and the parents briefly toyed with putting a historical/heritage listing on the property decades ago but it was too constrictive and impractical.. small changes to it would become major hurdles...
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I would hate to waste money on lawyers because family members won't honour a verbal agreement.
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I would hate to waste money on lawyers because family members won't honour a verbal agreement.
Verbal agreements go out the window a lot of times. Waste money on things worthwhile. The family you thought would never cut you down will. Believe me. It has been proven.
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I would hate to waste money on lawyers because family members won't honour a verbal agreement.
We've had rare instances many years ago where relatives have gone rogue (usually people who married into the family), but we banded together and ostracized them/blocked their action.
We even has a blood relative cheat on her husband and try to drag her new beau to family gatherings... they were barred from attending and we made sure her hubby was always there... (cuz he's family)... She eventually gave up and they reconciled... :laugh3:
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I would hate to waste money on lawyers because family members won't honour a verbal agreement.
Verbal agreements go out the window a lot of times. Waste money on things worthwhile. The family you thought would never cut you down will. Believe me. It has been proven.
Verbal agreements go out the window with people who are not blood. That is when you need papers drawn up by scumbag lawyers.
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I would hate to waste money on lawyers because family members won't honour a verbal agreement.
Verbal agreements go out the window a lot of times. Waste money on things worthwhile. The family you thought would never cut you down will. Believe me. It has been proven.
Verbal agreements go out the window with people who are not blood. That is when you need papers drawn up by scumbag lawyers.
And as usual, the lawyers are always the winners. :laugh3:
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I slammed the phone down on him the other day. I will never talk to that piece of shit again.
The house is supposed to stay in the family.
He double crossed the family... and nobody wants to call him out about it directly...except me...
Give another sibling the first opportunity to buy it.
They can buy it off him.
He wants 4 times the original price and 3 times the value..
He is dead to me now...
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He is dead to me now...
Do you think he is lucky enough to get 75% more in interest in 5 years for an old property?
This day and age, people aren't going to pay for an over-inflated piece of property.
You could go see a lawyer for free for the first 30 minute consultation.
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He is dead to me now...
Do you think he is lucky enough to get 75% more in interest in 5 years for an old property?
This day and age, people aren't going to pay for an over-inflated piece of property.
You could go see a lawyer for free for the first 30 minute consultation.
He sunk in 200k for what would have been a 150k property outright... but he got it for around 110k because family discount...
Since then, he's transformed a 1860's farmhouse into a stainless steel monstrosity, erected huge pole barns where the heritage buildings used to be, and has sought to pervert a family homestead into something that is an eyesore...
He's a cocksucker...plain and simple...
You have to let it go.... hard as it is.
I'm glad you cursed him out.
A few days ago, some unauthorized person vandalized one of my small native trees... He left a note with his mobile number. I rang it and blasted the shit out of him.
I was able to move on. I cannot undo what he did.
I hope there are family pictures of the homestead...if there are, mount them.
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I'm glad you cursed him out.
A few days ago, some unauthorized person vandalized one of my small native trees... He left a note with his mobile number. I rang it and blasted the shit out of him.
I was able to move on. I cannot undo what he did.
I hope there are family pictures of the homestead...if there are, mount them.
There are daguerreotype glass images of my ancestors in their homespun finest sitting outside of the home for group photos... they weren't wealthy but they were proud.... my grandfather was born in their corn crib... his ancestors buried in a small plot with gravestones now overgrown... one of the church pews from the now gone church sat in the back entrance room because my mum saved it 30 years ago, and a patchwork quilt sewn from leftover britches of my family...
...all gone now... tossed in a dumpster by my brother and his wife...
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I'm glad you cursed him out.
A few days ago, some unauthorized person vandalized one of my small native trees... He left a note with his mobile number. I rang it and blasted the shit out of him.
I was able to move on. I cannot undo what he did.
I hope there are family pictures of the homestead...if there are, mount them.
There are daguerreotype glass images of my ancestors in their homespun finest sitting outside of the home for group photos... they weren't wealthy but they were proud.... my grandfather was born in their corn crib... his ancestors buried in a small plot with gravestones now overgrown... one of the church pews from the now gone church sat in the back entrance room because my mum saved it 30 years ago, and a patchwork quilt sewn from leftover britches of my family...
Imbeciles.
Getting rid of a church pew without offering it to someone else. INSANE.
The patchwork quilt, a piece of irreplaceable art. No wonder you went berko.
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I'm glad you cursed him out.
A few days ago, some unauthorized person vandalized one of my small native trees... He left a note with his mobile number. I rang it and blasted the shit out of him.
I was able to move on. I cannot undo what he did.
I hope there are family pictures of the homestead...if there are, mount them.
There are daguerreotype glass images of my ancestors in their homespun finest sitting outside of the home for group photos... they weren't wealthy but they were proud.... my grandfather was born in their corn crib... his ancestors buried in a small plot with gravestones now overgrown... one of the church pews from the now gone church sat in the back entrance room because my mum saved it 30 years ago, and a patchwork quilt sewn from leftover britches of my family...
...all gone now... tossed in a dumpster by my brother and his wife...
He's lucky that all he got was a tongue lashing from you. In your place I'd have pummelled the living daylights out of him and his sodding wife.
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I'm glad you cursed him out.
A few days ago, some unauthorized person vandalized one of my small native trees... He left a note with his mobile number. I rang it and blasted the shit out of him.
I was able to move on. I cannot undo what he did.
I hope there are family pictures of the homestead...if there are, mount them.
There are daguerreotype glass images of my ancestors in their homespun finest sitting outside of the home for group photos... they weren't wealthy but they were proud.... my grandfather was born in their corn crib... his ancestors buried in a small plot with gravestones now overgrown... one of the church pews from the now gone church sat in the back entrance room because my mum saved it 30 years ago, and a patchwork quilt sewn from leftover britches of my family...
Imbeciles.
Getting rid of a church pew without offering it to someone else. INSANE.
The patchwork quilt, a piece of irreplaceable art. No wonder you went berko.
That quilt was made sometime in the 1890's... it was still a hardy thing in the late 1980's... laying over the church pew in the back room which served as a coat and boot area...
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I'm glad you cursed him out.
A few days ago, some unauthorized person vandalized one of my small native trees... He left a note with his mobile number. I rang it and blasted the shit out of him.
I was able to move on. I cannot undo what he did.
I hope there are family pictures of the homestead...if there are, mount them.
There are daguerreotype glass images of my ancestors in their homespun finest sitting outside of the home for group photos... they weren't wealthy but they were proud.... my grandfather was born in their corn crib... his ancestors buried in a small plot with gravestones now overgrown... one of the church pews from the now gone church sat in the back entrance room because my mum saved it 30 years ago, and a patchwork quilt sewn from leftover britches of my family...
...all gone now... tossed in a dumpster by my brother and his wife...
He's lucky that all he got was a tongue lashing from you. In your place I'd have pummelled the living daylights out of him and his sodding wife.
I'm far away and haven't actually physically seen him in 16 years...since our dad passed away...
I don't want to ever see that homestead flipping faggot again... he is dead to me...
Then he's lucky you don't live nearby. A sibling like that would be dead to me too...