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Title: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Blurt on December 30, 2020, 12:55:46 PM
Well, here we are, at the tail tip of totally trying year.



I just want to say a few words at the dawn of 2021.



First and foremost, despite all the COVID controversies, all the political bloodshed, all the half-serious clownmanship, and all the "raging against the dying of the light," we're all still just people here. We all have ideas, thoughts, opinions, dreams, views, feelings, and experiences that we like or want or need to share with others or we wouldn't otherwise visit venues such as these. It matters little, in the end, whether any one of us sees eye to eye with anyone else. What matters is that we are, or can be, a presence in each other's lives, sometimes for comfort, sometimes for laughs, sometimes to learn, sometimes just to not be alone in our anger or our indignation whenever the world seems to be tottering on the edge. And that edge was brought into sharp focus this year for the reasons we all love to hate.



All of us have, in one way or another, known loss and hardship this year, whether with regard to our health or our finances or to the health and finances of those we love. The year 2020 will be a hard sell in the history books, no doubt. My own beloved father died from COVID-19 on May 29th of this year. I couldn't be there during his last few days in the hospital. Even his own wife was refused access to him. I couldn't be there at the funeral. In fact, the funeral was altogether skipped by all. My father was cremated in a vacuum, so to speak. And this tale repeats itself across the board, regardless of anyone's politics or worldviews.



Now this is my wish for 2021: that, come what may, we all remember and cherish each other's humanity even as we poke fun at each other or rail against each other's occasional idiocy. This world, to me, would be a far, far sadder and  emptier, lonelier place without you people in my life. It certainly would be a darker one. While I realize that many will say friendships are impossible in virtual venues, that people cannot come together nor be truly close on the internet, I beg to differ. In a way, COVID has made all friendships virtual. This shouldn't prevent us from taking pleasure in each other's presence, even if that presence has more to do with the soul of who we are than with physical closeness or proximity.



I guess what I'm trying to say is this: going into this new year, where monsters undoubtedly still roam, don't be afraid to appreciate each other's presence in your lives, even if only through the medium of a keyboard. Further, don't be afraid to let each other know that you appreciate that presence. Poet Robert Herrick, speaking to young maidens, said it best when he wrote, "gather ye rosebuds while ye may." I'd add, "and get ye together to make a bouquet." We, all of us, are here today and gone tomorrow, like "grass thrown into the oven." Let that knowledge spur you to tell your friend, your lover, your spouse, your child, your parent, your pleasant acquaintance even, how much your life is enriched by their being a part of it and how much you love them for it.



That's it. That's all I have to say.



And this, I guess: I wish everyone here much happiness, joy, hope, love, good health, and serenity in the new year.



Eddie's still a prick, though.  :001_tongue:
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: cc on December 30, 2020, 02:29:20 PM
BackAtchya Blurt.



Thanks for a wonderful and thoughtful message



May I take the liberty to echo it in its entirety .. as there is little I can add?











And yes, Eddie's still a prick.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on December 30, 2020, 02:31:43 PM
Quote from: Blurt post_id=395951 time=1609350946 user_id=1974
Well, here we are, at the tail tip of totally trying year.



I just want to say a few words at the dawn of 2021.



First and foremost, despite all the COVID controversies, all the political bloodshed, all the half-serious clownmanship, and all the "raging against the dying of the light," we're all still just people here. We all have ideas, thoughts, opinions, dreams, views, feelings, and experiences that we like or want or need to share with others or we wouldn't otherwise visit venues such as these. It matters little, in the end, whether any one of us sees eye to eye with anyone else. What matters is that we are, or can be, a presence in each other's lives, sometimes for comfort, sometimes for laughs, sometimes to learn, sometimes just to not be alone in our anger or our indignation whenever the world seems to be tottering on the edge. And that edge was brought into sharp focus this year for the reasons we all love to hate.



All of us have, in one way or another, known loss and hardship this year, whether with regard to our health or our finances or to the health and finances of those we love. The year 2020 will be a hard sell in the history books, no doubt. My own beloved father died from COVID-19 on May 29th of this year. I couldn't be there during his last few days in the hospital. Even his own wife was refused access to him. I couldn't be there at the funeral. In fact, the funeral was altogether skipped by all. My father was cremated in a vacuum, so to speak. And this tale repeats itself across the board, regardless of anyone's politics or worldviews.



Now this is my wish for 2021: that, come what may, we all remember and cherish each other's humanity even as we poke fun at each other or rail against each other's occasional idiocy. This world, to me, would be a far, far sadder and  emptier, lonelier place without you people in my life. It certainly would be a darker one. While I realize that many will say friendships are impossible in virtual venues, that people cannot come together nor be truly close on the internet, I beg to differ. In a way, COVID has made all friendships virtual. This shouldn't prevent us from taking pleasure in each other's presence, even if that presence has more to do with the soul of who we are than with physical closeness or proximity.



I guess what I'm trying to say is this: going into this new year, where monsters undoubtedly still roam, don't be afraid to appreciate each other's presence in your lives, even if only through the medium of a keyboard. Further, don't be afraid to let each other know that you appreciate that presence. Poet Robert Herrick, speaking to young maidens, said it best when he wrote, "gather ye rosebuds while ye may." I'd add, "and get ye together to make a bouquet." We, all of us, are here today and gone tomorrow, like "grass thrown into the oven." Let that knowledge spur you to tell your friend, your lover, your spouse, your child, your parent, your pleasant acquaintance even, how much your life is enriched by their being a part of it and how much you love them for it.



That's it. That's all I have to say.



And this, I guess: I wish everyone here much happiness, joy, hope, love, good health, and serenity in the new year.



Eddie's still a prick, though.  :001_tongue:

 :smiley_thumbs_up_yellow_ani:
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Zetsu on December 30, 2020, 03:22:50 PM
A happy new year and a toast to Blurt and his awesomeness.  ac_drinks
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on December 30, 2020, 03:31:46 PM
Blurt, I didn't know your father succumbed to the China virus. I am sorry for your family's loss. Let's hope we saw the bottom in 2020, and we can only go up from here.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Blurt on December 30, 2020, 08:38:49 PM
Thanks, Jock. Much appreciated.



My dad was a good man. He's remembered with fondness.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on December 30, 2020, 08:48:24 PM
Damn, that is tough for old Blurt and his kin.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Zetsu on December 30, 2020, 08:51:10 PM
Quote from: Herman post_id=396017 time=1609379304 user_id=1689
Damn, that is tough for old Blurt and his kin.


I feel bad for blurt too, but unlike eddie the weak, I have faith blurt is a very strong person inside.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on December 30, 2020, 09:01:39 PM
Quote from: Blurt post_id=395951 time=1609350946 user_id=1974
Well, here we are, at the tail tip of totally trying year.



I just want to say a few words at the dawn of 2021.



First and foremost, despite all the COVID controversies, all the political bloodshed, all the half-serious clownmanship, and all the "raging against the dying of the light," we're all still just people here. We all have ideas, thoughts, opinions, dreams, views, feelings, and experiences that we like or want or need to share with others or we wouldn't otherwise visit venues such as these. It matters little, in the end, whether any one of us sees eye to eye with anyone else. What matters is that we are, or can be, a presence in each other's lives, sometimes for comfort, sometimes for laughs, sometimes to learn, sometimes just to not be alone in our anger or our indignation whenever the world seems to be tottering on the edge. And that edge was brought into sharp focus this year for the reasons we all love to hate.



All of us have, in one way or another, known loss and hardship this year, whether with regard to our health or our finances or to the health and finances of those we love. The year 2020 will be a hard sell in the history books, no doubt. My own beloved father died from COVID-19 on May 29th of this year. I couldn't be there during his last few days in the hospital. Even his own wife was refused access to him. I couldn't be there at the funeral. In fact, the funeral was altogether skipped by all. My father was cremated in a vacuum, so to speak. And this tale repeats itself across the board, regardless of anyone's politics or worldviews.



Now this is my wish for 2021: that, come what may, we all remember and cherish each other's humanity even as we poke fun at each other or rail against each other's occasional idiocy. This world, to me, would be a far, far sadder and  emptier, lonelier place without you people in my life. It certainly would be a darker one. While I realize that many will say friendships are impossible in virtual venues, that people cannot come together nor be truly close on the internet, I beg to differ. In a way, COVID has made all friendships virtual. This shouldn't prevent us from taking pleasure in each other's presence, even if that presence has more to do with the soul of who we are than with physical closeness or proximity.



I guess what I'm trying to say is this: going into this new year, where monsters undoubtedly still roam, don't be afraid to appreciate each other's presence in your lives, even if only through the medium of a keyboard. Further, don't be afraid to let each other know that you appreciate that presence. Poet Robert Herrick, speaking to young maidens, said it best when he wrote, "gather ye rosebuds while ye may." I'd add, "and get ye together to make a bouquet." We, all of us, are here today and gone tomorrow, like "grass thrown into the oven." Let that knowledge spur you to tell your friend, your lover, your spouse, your child, your parent, your pleasant acquaintance even, how much your life is enriched by their being a part of it and how much you love them for it.



That's it. That's all I have to say.



And this, I guess: I wish everyone here much happiness, joy, hope, love, good health, and serenity in the new year.



Eddie's still a prick, though.  :001_tongue:

That is terrible Blurt. If I posted an ASS pic, would that cheer you up.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Frood on December 30, 2020, 09:32:09 PM
When Shen's tiny bottom farts, popcorn chicken falls out...
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on December 30, 2020, 09:41:35 PM
Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=396039 time=1609381929 user_id=1676
When Shen's tiny bottom farts, popcorn chicken falls out...

 :001_rolleyes:


Quote If I posted an ASS pic, would that cheer you up.

 :001_rolleyes:
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: cc on December 31, 2020, 01:14:48 AM
LOL. We have too many helpful people here
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Frood on December 31, 2020, 01:20:17 AM
What? I love popcorn chicken.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Berry Sweet on December 31, 2020, 01:29:47 AM
Aww, but well said.  Happy new year, Blurt  :6:



I like honey mustard with my popcorn chicken.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on December 31, 2020, 01:33:02 AM
Quote from: "Berry Sweet" post_id=396127 time=1609396187 user_id=164
Aww, but well said.  Happy new year, Blurt  :6:



I like honey mustard with my popcorn chicken.

Do you like barrel wash with kolbassa and mustard? Come sit on old Herman's knee and I'll share some with ya.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Frood on December 31, 2020, 01:35:59 AM
Quote from: Herman post_id=396130 time=1609396382 user_id=1689
Quote from: "Berry Sweet" post_id=396127 time=1609396187 user_id=164
Aww, but well said.  Happy new year, Blurt  :6:



I like honey mustard with my popcorn chicken.

Do you like barrel wash with kolbassa and mustard? Come sit on old Herman's knee and I'll share some with ya.


Berry is now latina. She only likes Peri Peri popcorn chicken and tequila....
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on December 31, 2020, 01:46:43 AM
Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=396133 time=1609396559 user_id=1676
Quote from: Herman post_id=396130 time=1609396382 user_id=1689
Quote from: "Berry Sweet" post_id=396127 time=1609396187 user_id=164
Aww, but well said.  Happy new year, Blurt  :6:



I like honey mustard with my popcorn chicken.

Do you like barrel wash with kolbassa and mustard? Come sit on old Herman's knee and I'll share some with ya.


Berry is now latina. She only likes Peri Peri popcorn chicken and tequila....

She's a Spic is she. I got shitters that need shining.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on December 31, 2020, 11:28:03 AM
We've all had a tough year, but it was tougher for Blurt. My condolences, and let's hope 2021 is better for all of us.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Renee on December 31, 2020, 06:17:42 PM
I'm sorry for your loss, Blurt. So many have lost loved ones and were callously denied the ability to comfort the dying in their last hours...I have to believe that ultimately those responsible for these heinous acts disguised as "public protection" will pay for it on their day of judgement. It may sound like wishful thinking but it is one of the only ways I can maintain the idea that there is some justice left in this reality.



Anyway for what it's worth...Happy New Year to you and everyone else reading this.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on December 31, 2020, 08:33:16 PM
Quote from: Renee post_id=396210 time=1609456662 user_id=156
I'm sorry for your loss, Blurt. So many have lost loved ones and were callously denied the ability to comfort the dying in their last hours...I have to believe that ultimately those responsible for these heinous acts disguised as "public protection" will pay for it on their day of judgement. It may sound like wishful thinking but it is one of the only ways I can maintain the idea that there is some justice left in this reality.



Anyway for what it's worth...Happy New Year to you and everyone else reading this.

Some awful things have been done in the name of "saving lives."
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Blurt on December 31, 2020, 09:02:31 PM
Thanks, everyone.



I'm okay, though. Really.



One thing this has led to, is my re-connecting with my mother. She lives in the northern part of town. I hadn't spoken with her in nearly two years. I went to spend some time with her last week.



She got COVID back in February but she recovered after a few weeks. Partially, anyway.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on December 31, 2020, 10:46:45 PM
Quote from: Blurt post_id=396221 time=1609466551 user_id=1974
Thanks, everyone.



I'm okay, though. Really.



One thing this has led to, is my re-connecting with my mother. She lives in the northern part of town. I hadn't spoken with her in nearly two years. I went to spend some time with her last week.



She got COVID back in February but she recovered after a few weeks. Partially, anyway.

That's wonderful you're reconnecting with your mother Blurt.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on January 01, 2021, 12:11:04 AM
Quote from: Blurt post_id=396221 time=1609466551 user_id=1974
Thanks, everyone.



I'm okay, though. Really.



One thing this has led to, is my re-connecting with my mother. She lives in the northern part of town. I hadn't spoken with her in nearly two years. I went to spend some time with her last week.



She got COVID back in February but she recovered after a few weeks. Partially, anyway.

The Seoul brother had the China virus. I think he made a full recovery.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on January 01, 2021, 04:12:07 AM
Adios 2020. You sucked.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on January 01, 2021, 03:07:05 PM
Quote from: Blurt post_id=396221 time=1609466551 user_id=1974
Thanks, everyone.



I'm okay, though. Really.



One thing this has led to, is my re-connecting with my mother. She lives in the northern part of town. I hadn't spoken with her in nearly two years. I went to spend some time with her last week.



She got COVID back in February but she recovered after a few weeks. Partially, anyway.

I had COVID-19 in April. I made a full recovery, or so it seems so far. I had a few bad days though.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on January 01, 2021, 03:09:25 PM
Quote from: "iron horse jockey" post_id=396236 time=1609492327 user_id=2015
Adios 2020. You sucked.

Temper your expectations for 2021.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on January 03, 2021, 12:10:50 PM
Quote from: Blurt post_id=395951 time=1609350946 user_id=1974
Well, here we are, at the tail tip of totally trying year.



I just want to say a few words at the dawn of 2021.



First and foremost, despite all the COVID controversies, all the political bloodshed, all the half-serious clownmanship, and all the "raging against the dying of the light," we're all still just people here. We all have ideas, thoughts, opinions, dreams, views, feelings, and experiences that we like or want or need to share with others or we wouldn't otherwise visit venues such as these. It matters little, in the end, whether any one of us sees eye to eye with anyone else. What matters is that we are, or can be, a presence in each other's lives, sometimes for comfort, sometimes for laughs, sometimes to learn, sometimes just to not be alone in our anger or our indignation whenever the world seems to be tottering on the edge. And that edge was brought into sharp focus this year for the reasons we all love to hate.



All of us have, in one way or another, known loss and hardship this year, whether with regard to our health or our finances or to the health and finances of those we love. The year 2020 will be a hard sell in the history books, no doubt. My own beloved father died from COVID-19 on May 29th of this year. I couldn't be there during his last few days in the hospital. Even his own wife was refused access to him. I couldn't be there at the funeral. In fact, the funeral was altogether skipped by all. My father was cremated in a vacuum, so to speak. And this tale repeats itself across the board, regardless of anyone's politics or worldviews.



Now this is my wish for 2021: that, come what may, we all remember and cherish each other's humanity even as we poke fun at each other or rail against each other's occasional idiocy. This world, to me, would be a far, far sadder and  emptier, lonelier place without you people in my life. It certainly would be a darker one. While I realize that many will say friendships are impossible in virtual venues, that people cannot come together nor be truly close on the internet, I beg to differ. In a way, COVID has made all friendships virtual. This shouldn't prevent us from taking pleasure in each other's presence, even if that presence has more to do with the soul of who we are than with physical closeness or proximity.



I guess what I'm trying to say is this: going into this new year, where monsters undoubtedly still roam, don't be afraid to appreciate each other's presence in your lives, even if only through the medium of a keyboard. Further, don't be afraid to let each other know that you appreciate that presence. Poet Robert Herrick, speaking to young maidens, said it best when he wrote, "gather ye rosebuds while ye may." I'd add, "and get ye together to make a bouquet." We, all of us, are here today and gone tomorrow, like "grass thrown into the oven." Let that knowledge spur you to tell your friend, your lover, your spouse, your child, your parent, your pleasant acquaintance even, how much your life is enriched by their being a part of it and how much you love them for it.



That's it. That's all I have to say.



And this, I guess: I wish everyone here much happiness, joy, hope, love, good health, and serenity in the new year.



Eddie's still a prick, though.  :001_tongue:


 ac_crying



My deepest regrets to you, Blurt. It is a shame that this deadly plague of our time has claimed one of your beloved. May he rest in peace.



Happy New Year!
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on January 03, 2021, 12:45:56 PM
Quote from: seoulbro post_id=396253 time=1609531765 user_id=114
Quote from: "iron horse jockey" post_id=396236 time=1609492327 user_id=2015
Adios 2020. You sucked.

Temper your expectations for 2021.


 :thumbup:
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on January 03, 2021, 02:08:12 PM
Happy new year to you Azhya.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on January 03, 2021, 03:06:16 PM
Some hope, global recruiting firm Hays found that 71 per cent of employers have brighter outlooks on employment and 19 per cent intend on raising base salaries for their staff in the new year.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Blurt on January 06, 2021, 12:23:13 PM
Quote from: @realAzhyaAryola post_id=396406 time=1609693850 user_id=73
 ac_crying



My deepest regrets to you, Blurt. It is a shame that this deadly plague of our time has claimed one of your beloved. May he rest in peace.



Happy New Year!


Thanks, Ayzh. Much appreciated.



I also wish both you and yours all the best for the coming year.



We're not quite out of the woods yet but I can see the sun shining in a clearing up ahead.



Stay focused. Stay positive. Stay healthy.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Oliver Clotheshoffe on January 06, 2021, 06:12:50 PM
Happy belated New Year everyone. Sure hope this year is better than the last.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on January 06, 2021, 06:33:57 PM
Quote from: "Oliver Clotheshoffe" post_id=396811 time=1609974770 user_id=3349
Happy belated New Year everyone. Sure hope this year is better than the last.

You are here, so it already is....welcome Oliver Clotheshoffe....I hope you like it here.

 ac_smile
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Oliver Clotheshoffe on January 06, 2021, 06:51:59 PM
Quote from: Fashionista post_id=396817 time=1609976037 user_id=3254


You are here, so it already is....welcome Oliver Clotheshoffe....I hope you like it here.

 ac_smile






Thanks, glad to be here!   ac_hithere
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: cc on January 06, 2021, 07:23:48 PM
Hi Oliver. ac_hithere Welcome to our humble abode
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on January 06, 2021, 08:31:30 PM
Quote from: "Oliver Clotheshoffe" post_id=396821 time=1609977119 user_id=3349
Quote from: Fashionista post_id=396817 time=1609976037 user_id=3254


You are here, so it already is....welcome Oliver Clotheshoffe....I hope you like it here.

 ac_smile






Thanks, glad to be here!   ac_hithere

Glad you could join us brother.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Gaon on January 06, 2021, 09:46:38 PM
Wishing everyone an improved 2021.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on January 10, 2021, 04:36:00 PM
I'm sorry about losing your father Blurt.



Today is the first day I left my house in one month. My husband and I caught and recovered from the coronavirus. While I didn't get very sick, my husband was admitted to a hospital and released after two days. Thankfully, he didn't need to be in ICU.



I am so damned glad 2020 is behind us. My spidey sense tells me 2021 will be a gong show too. Maybe by 2022 sanity will return. A big maybe.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: Anonymous on January 10, 2021, 06:12:34 PM
Quote from: Velvet post_id=397358 time=1610314560 user_id=2021
I'm sorry about losing your father Blurt.



Today is the first day I left my house in one month. My husband and I caught and recovered from the coronavirus. While I didn't get very sick, my husband was admitted to a hospital and released after two days. Thankfully, he didn't need to be in ICU.



I am so damned glad 2020 is behind us. My spidey sense tells me 2021 will be a gong show too. Maybe by 2022 sanity will return. A big maybe.

Oh my, what a way unpleasant way to spend the Christmas season Velvet..



I'm glad you're better now.
Title: Re: Blurt's New Year's Message to the Cashew Nuts
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on January 13, 2021, 06:24:12 PM
Quote from: Velvet post_id=397358 time=1610314560 user_id=2021
I'm sorry about losing your father Blurt.



Today is the first day I left my house in one month. My husband and I caught and recovered from the coronavirus. While I didn't get very sick, my husband was admitted to a hospital and released after two days. Thankfully, he didn't need to be in ICU.



I am so damned glad 2020 is behind us. My spidey sense tells me 2021 will be a gong show too. Maybe by 2022 sanity will return. A big maybe.


I'm glad you and and Mr. Velvet are better now. :thumbup: