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General Discussion => The Flea Trap => Topic started by: keeper on January 26, 2014, 03:35:26 PM

Title: What would YOU do?
Post by: keeper on January 26, 2014, 03:35:26 PM
So? what would you do if you were in this situation?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbWmBUONtFY
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Anonymous on January 26, 2014, 04:27:28 PM
Quote from: "Keeper"So? what would you do if you were in this situation?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbWmBUONtFY

A paying customer is a paying customer. Fucking stupid!!
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: keeper on January 26, 2014, 06:04:26 PM
Yes, but WHAT would you do if you seen a clerk busting the chops of a women because the way she dressed?
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Anonymous on January 26, 2014, 06:09:53 PM
Quote from: "Keeper"Yes, but WHAT would you do if you seen a clerk busting the chops of a women because the way she dressed?

Keeper I watched about half of that video before I stopped..



If it was a chain, I would report him to the company..



If he was an employee I would inform the owner..



If he was an owner, I would never enter his store again and I would ask everyone I know to do the same.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: keeper on January 26, 2014, 06:28:50 PM
your not seeing my question.



WHAT WOULD YOU DO if you were in the store and this asshole was talking to this girl like that? Leave? say something? give her a hug?
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: keeper on January 26, 2014, 06:30:14 PM
im going to do laundry. Apparently my views differ from everyone else s here.



 I'm going to stop before i say something.



cheers.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Anonymous on January 26, 2014, 06:32:31 PM
Quote from: "Keeper"im going to do laundry. Apparently my views differ from everyone else s here.



 I'm going to stop before i say something.



cheers.

I hope you are not leaving on my account Keeper..



I like you and always have..



I don't know what I would do in that situation to be honest..



Generally I avoid confrontation whenever possible.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Romero on January 26, 2014, 07:42:26 PM
Quote from: "Keeper"So? what would you do if you were in this situation?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbWmBUONtFY

Ugh, some of those people were awful. Fortunately most knew right from wrong.



I would have told that guy he was wrong, and if she couldn't shop there then I wouldn't shop there.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Anonymous on January 26, 2014, 08:33:55 PM
Quote from: "Romero"
Quote from: "Keeper"So? what would you do if you were in this situation?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbWmBUONtFY

Ugh, some of those people were awful. Fortunately most knew right from wrong.



I would have told that guy he was wrong, and if she couldn't shop there then I wouldn't shop there.

I would have said something like that too. I don't understand turning away a paying customer. He doesn't like Islam that's fine, I hate it too. However, I don't have to agree with everyone's ideology to serve them.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Anonymous on January 26, 2014, 09:37:10 PM
Quote from: "Romero"
Quote from: "Keeper"So? what would you do if you were in this situation?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbWmBUONtFY

Ugh, some of those people were awful. Fortunately most knew right from wrong.



I would have told that guy he was wrong, and if she couldn't shop there then I wouldn't shop there.

I am thankful I have never been in that very awkward situation.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Anonymous on January 26, 2014, 10:57:52 PM
I would think Ms. Annie's lovely daughter would not hesitate to do the right thing if she was there.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Odinson on January 27, 2014, 01:32:05 AM
If I had to stand in line... I would probably yell them to get a move on. That will probably resolve the situation.



If I was the store owner, I would give the clerk a warning because gold is gold. She will probably visit the same shop next time she has a craving for sweets.



Theres no bakery shops with strict dress codes. Besides that woman is hot. :D
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Anonymous on January 27, 2014, 01:36:51 AM
Quote from: "Odinson"If I had to stand in line... I would probably yell them to get a move on. That will probably resolve the situation.



If I was the store owner, I would give the clerk a warning because gold is gold. She will probably visit the same shop next time she has a craving for sweets.



Theres no bakery shops with strict dress codes. Besides that woman is hot. :D

I don't think that would happen in real life..



Usually discrimination is much more subtle.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Odinson on January 27, 2014, 02:01:32 AM
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "Odinson"If I had to stand in line... I would probably yell them to get a move on. That will probably resolve the situation.



If I was the store owner, I would give the clerk a warning because gold is gold. She will probably visit the same shop next time she has a craving for sweets.



Theres no bakery shops with strict dress codes. Besides that woman is hot. :D

I don't think that would happen in real life..



Usually discrimination is much more subtle.


The silent backstabbing creates more damage. Like when you realize after 20years career that you didnt get promoted because of your race. Thats gotta hurt...
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Gary Oak on January 27, 2014, 06:34:29 PM
Quote from: "Keeper"So? what would you do if you were in this situation?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbWmBUONtFY

I wouldn't serve Muslim slime either.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Chickenfeets on January 28, 2014, 08:13:07 AM
Good on people who stood up for the Muslim woman. There may be hope yet.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Anonymous on January 28, 2014, 08:56:02 AM
Quote from: "Chickenfeets"Good on people who stood up for the Muslim woman. There may be hope yet.

With the exception of Gary Oak, I think we all would Chickenfeets..



Most of us have a conscience.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Anonymous on January 28, 2014, 11:32:47 AM
Quote from: "Gary Oak"
Quote from: "Keeper"So? what would you do if you were in this situation?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbWmBUONtFY

I wouldn't serve Muslim slime either.

Why? You scared they would kick your ass as badly as the Chinese boxer did?
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: keeper on January 31, 2014, 05:58:20 PM
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "Odinson"If I had to stand in line... I would probably yell them to get a move on. That will probably resolve the situation.



If I was the store owner, I would give the clerk a warning because gold is gold. She will probably visit the same shop next time she has a craving for sweets.



Theres no bakery shops with strict dress codes. Besides that woman is hot. :D

I don't think that would happen in real life..



Usually discrimination is much more subtle.


You haven't witnessed Discrimination first hand Fash?, I most certainly have, many times, not just for race but a Varity of things, Homelessness being the biggest one. And you damn right I say something if I think someone is being treated unfairly and not speaking up for them self. I don't take shit from ignorance.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Anonymous on January 31, 2014, 06:09:28 PM
Quote from: "Keeper"You haven't witnessed Discrimination first hand Fash?, I most certainly have, many times, not just for race but a Varity of things, Homelessness being the biggest one. And you damn right I say something if I think someone is being treated unfairly and not speaking up for them self. I don't take shit from ignorance.

I don't think Fash is saying discrimination doesn't happen in real life. I think what she means is that it is usually not that bloody overt. I have seen racism, hell I have been on the receiving end of it. However, it is not usually "we don't serve chinks, you people are taking all our jobs away". Sometimes I prefer that kind because at least the person is honest about their racial bigotry, but again it is seldom that obvious.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Annie on February 01, 2014, 05:04:55 AM
Quote from: "Romero"
Quote from: "Keeper"So? what would you do if you were in this situation?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbWmBUONtFY

Ugh, some of those people were awful. Fortunately most knew right from wrong.



I would have told that guy he was wrong, and if she couldn't shop there then I wouldn't shop there.




That's what I would do too. And then I'd help her file a complaint against the business and be her witness.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: keeper on February 01, 2014, 07:16:01 AM
Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "Keeper"You haven't witnessed Discrimination first hand Fash?, I most certainly have, many times, not just for race but a Varity of things, Homelessness being the biggest one. And you damn right I say something if I think someone is being treated unfairly and not speaking up for them self. I don't take shit from ignorance.

I don't think Fash is saying discrimination doesn't happen in real life. I think what she means is that it is usually not that bloody overt. I have seen racism, hell I have been on the receiving end of it. However, it is not usually "we don't serve chinks, you people are taking all our jobs away". Sometimes I prefer that kind because at least the person is honest about their racial bigotry, but again it is seldom that obvious.




I disagree, Here, where i am i see it almost everyday, Some asshole trying to impress the guy beside him thinking he/she is all that by trying to be little someone who looks or acts different, i understood what fash meant and like i said, i see it almost everyday and believe me there obvious, sometimes just not to that person face. I think maybe you see it but are just "used" to it for lack of a better word Shen, plus people will go out of there way to do it behind your back when your not looking, I have stood in a line paying for something and there will be a lady/man in line and some prick will be making gestures behind there back.

Just the other day i was in my Favorite restaurant that my ex and i used to go in the morning every Saturday for coffee for years and got to know the owner very well ( hes Asian). After work i was picking up supper and standing to pay and the owner come out to say hi, Asking how i was, we talked for awhile and he went back to the kitchen, I look over to one of the booths and 2 older teens are pulling there eyes side ways making fun of my friend saying shit like " ya ya we love you long time" Chicken fwied wice and shit, I glared at them and said Real mature dick head, grow the fuck up. What i should have did was grab that puke and haul him in the back and tell him to repeat what he said. To be on the receiving end of something like that would just numb me.... Gawd it just burns me!!!!!!
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: keeper on February 01, 2014, 07:21:07 AM
I want to add im not innocent, i have made fun of others when i was a younger teen, im not proud of what i did and if i could go back and apologize to those people i would, i was immature and didn't know any better, that is no excuse and im ashamed of myself, maybe that's why i say and do what i do now when i see that kind of behavior.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Anonymous on February 01, 2014, 12:11:45 PM
Quote from: "Keeper"
Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "Keeper"You haven't witnessed Discrimination first hand Fash?, I most certainly have, many times, not just for race but a Varity of things, Homelessness being the biggest one. And you damn right I say something if I think someone is being treated unfairly and not speaking up for them self. I don't take shit from ignorance.

I don't think Fash is saying discrimination doesn't happen in real life. I think what she means is that it is usually not that bloody overt. I have seen racism, hell I have been on the receiving end of it. However, it is not usually "we don't serve chinks, you people are taking all our jobs away". Sometimes I prefer that kind because at least the person is honest about their racial bigotry, but again it is seldom that obvious.




I disagree, Here, where i am i see it almost everyday, Some asshole trying to impress the guy beside him thinking he/she is all that by trying to be little someone who looks or acts different, i understood what fash meant and like i said, i see it almost everyday and believe me there obvious, sometimes just not to that person face. I think maybe you see it but are just "used" to it for lack of a better word Shen, plus people will go out of there way to do it behind your back when your not looking, I have stood in a line paying for something and there will be a lady/man in line and some prick will be making gestures behind there back.

Just the other day i was in my Favorite restaurant that my ex and i used to go in the morning every Saturday for coffee for years and got to know the owner very well ( hes Asian). After work i was picking up supper and standing to pay and the owner come out to say hi, Asking how i was, we talked for awhile and he went back to the kitchen, I look over to one of the booths and 2 older teens are pulling there eyes side ways making fun of my friend saying shit like " ya ya we love you long time" Chicken fwied wice and shit, I glared at them and said Real mature dick head, grow the fuck up. What i should have did was grab that puke and haul him in the back and tell him to repeat what he said. To be on the receiving end of something like that would just numb me.... Gawd it just burns me!!!!!!

Hello Keeper, this what I meant about what happened in the video not being common..



If a business owner doesn't like they are not likely to say to my face they do not serve East Asians..



They would put their business in jeopardy if they did..



More likely to serve me, then after I am gone pull their eyes back and stereotype my English.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Anonymous on February 01, 2014, 12:14:58 PM
Quote from: "Keeper"I want to add im not innocent, i have made fun of others when i was a younger teen, im not proud of what i did and if i could go back and apologize to those people i would, i was immature and didn't know any better, that is no excuse and im ashamed of myself, maybe that's why i say and do what i do now when i see that kind of behavior.

As long as you grew up and grew out of it, that is ok..



I attended a private Christian school where making fun of others was not tolerated..



But when I rode Calgary transit I would see kids from other schools and yes I got rude comments.

 :(
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: keeper on February 01, 2014, 12:55:34 PM
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "Keeper"I want to add im not innocent, i have made fun of others when i was a younger teen, im not proud of what i did and if i could go back and apologize to those people i would, i was immature and didn't know any better, that is no excuse and im ashamed of myself, maybe that's why i say and do what i do now when i see that kind of behavior.

As long as you grew up and grew out of it, that is ok..



I attended a private Christian school where making fun of others was not tolerated..



But when I rode Calgary transit I would see kids from other schools and yes I got rude comments.

 :(


And if i was standing beside you i would have said something and apologize on behalf of them. Ignorance is no excuse.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Odinson on February 02, 2014, 04:38:26 PM
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "Keeper"I want to add im not innocent, i have made fun of others when i was a younger teen, im not proud of what i did and if i could go back and apologize to those people i would, i was immature and didn't know any better, that is no excuse and im ashamed of myself, maybe that's why i say and do what i do now when i see that kind of behavior.

As long as you grew up and grew out of it, that is ok..



I attended a private Christian school where making fun of others was not tolerated..



But when I rode Calgary transit I would see kids from other schools and yes I got rude comments.

 :(


I attended to a school where the new guys got dunked in a ditch whenever they got caught... Went on for the whole year.  :lol: It was called "the baptisement".

The tradition of doing harm to the new guys continues on.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Anonymous on February 02, 2014, 05:50:35 PM
Quote from: "Keeper"
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "Keeper"I want to add im not innocent, i have made fun of others when i was a younger teen, im not proud of what i did and if i could go back and apologize to those people i would, i was immature and didn't know any better, that is no excuse and im ashamed of myself, maybe that's why i say and do what i do now when i see that kind of behavior.

As long as you grew up and grew out of it, that is ok..



I attended a private Christian school where making fun of others was not tolerated..



But when I rode Calgary transit I would see kids from other schools and yes I got rude comments.

 :(


And if i was standing beside you i would have said something and apologize on behalf of them. Ignorance is no excuse.

Do you think it happens more or less today than say twenty years ago?
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Anonymous on February 02, 2014, 11:26:32 PM
Quote from: "Annie"
Quote from: "Romero"
Quote from: "Keeper"So? what would you do if you were in this situation?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FbWmBUONtFY

Ugh, some of those people were awful. Fortunately most knew right from wrong.



I would have told that guy he was wrong, and if she couldn't shop there then I wouldn't shop there.




That's what I would do too. And then I'd help her file a complaint against the business and be her witness.

I would do that too. I just can't imagine anyone putting their biz in jeopardy like that.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: keeper on February 03, 2014, 04:28:11 PM
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "Keeper"
Quote from: "Fashionista"
As long as you grew up and grew out of it, that is ok..



I attended a private Christian school where making fun of others was not tolerated..



But when I rode Calgary transit I would see kids from other schools and yes I got rude comments.

 :(


And if i was standing beside you i would have said something and apologize on behalf of them. Ignorance is no excuse.

Do you think it happens more or less today than say twenty years ago?


That's a hard question for me to answer, I have done a lot of growing up in the past 20 years. Then I was, lets say not a nice person.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Anonymous on February 03, 2014, 08:21:08 PM
Quote from: "Keeper"
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "Keeper"


And if i was standing beside you i would have said something and apologize on behalf of them. Ignorance is no excuse.

Do you think it happens more or less today than say twenty years ago?


That's a hard question for me to answer, I have done a lot of growing up in the past 20 years. Then I was, lets say not a nice person.

But you evolved into a very nice man.

 :)
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Hornung on February 03, 2014, 10:44:02 PM
Only a mental nutcase like Shen Li CC La tarte ,Odinson and Fashionista would devote months of harassment with your racist, homophobic and sexual lies and racial motivated hate driven spam on several threads on the soon to gone Asian Canadian Forum
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Odinson on February 03, 2014, 11:27:27 PM
Quote from: "Hornung"Only a mental nutcase like Shen Li CC La tarte ,Odinson and Fashionista would devote months of harassment with your racist, homophobic and sexual lies and racial motivated hate driven spam on several threads on the soon to gone Asian Canadian Forum


Suck it!
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Anonymous on February 04, 2014, 08:56:05 AM
Quote from: "Hornung"Only a mental nutcase like Shen Li CC La tarte ,Odinson and Fashionista would devote months of harassment with your racist, homophobic and sexual lies and racial motivated hate driven spam on several threads on the soon to gone Asian Canadian Forum

Sorry Hornung, we are not going anywhere anytime soon.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Anonymous on February 04, 2014, 12:55:45 PM
Quote from: "Hornung"Only a mental nutcase like Shen Li CC La tarte ,Odinson and Fashionista would devote months of harassment with your racist, homophobic and sexual lies and racial motivated hate driven spam on several threads on the soon to gone Asian Canadian Forum

You are the most pathetic person. That is really saying something considering I post on VF.
Title: Re: What would YOU do?
Post by: Odinson on February 04, 2014, 03:16:41 PM
So who pays for the server?