Which one is more desirable?
I'm thinking death.
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Which one is more desirable?
I'm thinking death.
:001_rolleyes:
Lol...well death is peaceful, marriage isn't.
Convince me otherwise.
Quote from: caskur post_id=470494 time=1660403703 user_id=2156
Lol...well death is peaceful, marriage isn't.
Convince me otherwise.
Speak for yourself..
I've been married for over twenty two years..
I couldn't imagine my life without my husband.
I have married twice that length....lol
Quote from: caskur post_id=470502 time=1660404874 user_id=2156
I have married twice that length....lol
Okay, so you have been married longer than I have.
Quote from: caskur post_id=470477 time=1660374021 user_id=2156
Which one is more desirable?
I'm thinking death.
I have never experienced either of them.
Grandpa always used to say "Church is good for two things, getting married and getting buried and there ain't much difference between the two".
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Which one is more desirable?
I'm thinking death.
I have never experienced either of them.
Stay single...;)
Quote from: "Oliver Clotheshoffe" post_id=470527 time=1660409595 user_id=3349
Grandpa always used to say "Church is good for two things, getting married and getting buried and there ain't much difference between the two".
That made me laugh.
Well Done!!!
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I have never experienced either of them.
Stay single...;)
Caskur, I am nearly fifty. Obviously I was not predestined to be a family man.
Quote from: "Oliver Clotheshoffe" post_id=470527 time=1660409595 user_id=3349
Grandpa always used to say "Church is good for two things, getting married and getting buried and there ain't much difference between the two".
ac_toofunny
Well we all die.
Marriage. It's sometimes very hard but it's been very worth it. We are gonna do death either way lol.
I got married when I was thirty six. I wish we met at least ten years earlier.
Quote from: caskur post_id=470477 time=1660374021 user_id=2156
Which one is more desirable?
I'm thinking death.
I have been married twice. Now that I have been forced to think about the second one, my first marriage didn't seem so bad.
Quote from: caskur post_id=470477 time=1660374021 user_id=2156
Which one is more desirable?
I'm thinking death.
I heard Kurt likes young Asian women.
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Quote from: caskur post_id=470477 time=1660374021 user_id=2156
Which one is more desirable?
I'm thinking death.
I have been married twice. Now that I have been forced to think about the second one, my first marriage didn't seem so bad.
That made me laugh as well....lol
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Stay single...;)
Caskur, I am nearly fifty. Obviously I was not predestined to be a family man.
My Indonesian uncle and my aunty divorced after 15 years... he married another Indonesian in his 50s and had two children. So if your mothers tell you, you have to get married and have kids they make you marry someone... that is most Asian cultures. I am surprised your mum and dad haven't made you do that yet.
A mormon marriage would be nice.
They look like happy chaps.... Five wives and all knocked up at some point.
Look at his smile... The picture radiates true happiness.

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Lol...well death is peaceful, marriage isn't.
Convince me otherwise.
Kurt seems so easy going.
No marriage is perfect. My hub drives me crazy at times but at the end of the day, I wouldn't want to share this life with anyone else.
Quote from: "Oliver Clotheshoffe" post_id=470527 time=1660409595 user_id=3349
Grandpa always used to say "Church is good for two things, getting married and getting buried and there ain't much difference between the two".
:roll:
Thats good.
Im in a weird cycle of life lately. Not really knowing if I want to be single, or if I dont. I miss the affection mostly. Empty house is a lil depressing too, which is why I go out and do things so much. BUT, if I was in a relationship, I wouldnt be able to do whatever I wanted.
Been single over 2 years now, longest ever. I entered my first relationship when I was 16, until I was 35. Then my next one from 36-43. Its weird not being in a relationship.
I couldnt have lady friends in either relationship, both were extremely jealous types. So its nice being able to have lady friends again, and not worry what I say on the internet either lol (they would spy on me).
Kurt is a drama lord...
Quote from: Odinson post_id=470697 time=1660479895 user_id=136
A mormon marriage would be nice.
They look like happy chaps.... Five wives and all knocked up at some point.
Look at his smile... The picture radiates true happiness.

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That's fundamentalist Mormons. Mainstream LDS church hasn't allowed polygamy in a very long time.
It's a scam so they can get welfare. I saw it on a documentary about them one time.
They are not the only ones who do it either.
I think welfare should stop supporting them.
It's ultimately the kids that suffer though.
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It's a scam so they can get welfare. I saw it on a documentary about them one time.
They are not the only ones who do it either.
I think welfare should stop supporting them.
It's ultimately the kids that suffer though.
I was actually watching YouTube videos about that "sister wives" show. It's disgusting. The man is a total piece of shit abuser and the women are miserable. The kids are miserable.
It's just sad and gross and you are correct....they do all scam.
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Quote from: "Oliver Clotheshoffe" post_id=470527 time=1660409595 user_id=3349
Grandpa always used to say "Church is good for two things, getting married and getting buried and there ain't much difference between the two".
:roll:
Thats good.
Im in a weird cycle of life lately. Not really knowing if I want to be single, or if I dont. I miss the affection mostly. Empty house is a lil depressing too, which is why I go out and do things so much. BUT, if I was in a relationship, I wouldnt be able to do whatever I wanted.
Been single over 2 years now, longest ever. I entered my first relationship when I was 16, until I was 35. Then my next one from 36-43. Its weird not being in a relationship.
I couldnt have lady friends in either relationship, both were extremely jealous types. So its nice being able to have lady friends again, and not worry what I say on the internet either lol (they would spy on me).
Blaze in the right relationship you can do whatever you want. Your "want" changes.
I'm exactly where I want to be and doing everything I want to do.
Find someone who likes a lot of the same stuff you like. Stay away from jealous people who snoop and spy.
Marriage is a lot of work lol
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:roll:
Thats good.
Im in a weird cycle of life lately. Not really knowing if I want to be single, or if I dont. I miss the affection mostly. Empty house is a lil depressing too, which is why I go out and do things so much. BUT, if I was in a relationship, I wouldnt be able to do whatever I wanted.
Been single over 2 years now, longest ever. I entered my first relationship when I was 16, until I was 35. Then my next one from 36-43. Its weird not being in a relationship.
I couldnt have lady friends in either relationship, both were extremely jealous types. So its nice being able to have lady friends again, and not worry what I say on the internet either lol (they would spy on me).
Blaze in the right relationship you can do whatever you want. Your "want" changes.
I'm exactly where I want to be and doing everything I want to do.
Find someone who likes a lot of the same stuff you like. Stay away from jealous people who snoop and spy.
Marriage is a lot of work lol
I know you right Dove lol.
Oh I know marriage is a lot of work!!! I always did my bestest!!
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It's a scam so they can get welfare. I saw it on a documentary about them one time.
They are not the only ones who do it either.
I think welfare should stop supporting them.
It's ultimately the kids that suffer though.
No able bodied person should be allowed to collect welfare.
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It's a scam so they can get welfare. I saw it on a documentary about them one time.
They are not the only ones who do it either.
I think welfare should stop supporting them.
It's ultimately the kids that suffer though.
I was actually watching YouTube videos about that "sister wives" show. It's disgusting. The man is a total piece of shit abuser and the women are miserable. The kids are miserable.
It's just sad and gross and you are correct....they do all scam.
Yes. correct. Any culture that promotes multiple wives.... huge jealousy problems and in Africa they poison each other's children. Too bad most people don't get true documentaries on primetime TV these days. It is like they want to bury the truth so no one gets offended, meanwhile bugga the mental health and well being of the kids witnessing all that.
Women dont get jealous... Only men get jealous.
There is no harm in having multiple wives.
Quote from: Odinson post_id=470989 time=1660585177 user_id=136
Women dont get jealous... Only men get jealous.
There is no harm in having multiple wives.
Completely FALSE.
If you wanna fuck a bunch of women, dont get married.
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Quote from: Odinson post_id=470989 time=1660585177 user_id=136
Women dont get jealous... Only men get jealous.
There is no harm in having multiple wives.
Completely FALSE.
If you wanna fuck a bunch of women, dont get married.
Women dont see it as a bad thing.
Women like it when you have lots of women.
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Completely FALSE.
If you wanna fuck a bunch of women, dont get married.
Women dont see it as a bad thing.
Women like it when you have lots of women.
No, we don't.
They did a study a while back and found that women find married men more attractive. Maybe it works the other way round too, but probably not...
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Quote from: caskur post_id=470745 time=1660496458 user_id=2156
It's a scam so they can get welfare. I saw it on a documentary about them one time.
They are not the only ones who do it either.
I think welfare should stop supporting them.
It's ultimately the kids that suffer though.
No able bodied person should be allowed to collect welfare.
Welfare is state sanctioned theft.
Quote from: "The Treasurer" post_id=471040 time=1660603961 user_id=3382
They did a study a while back and found that women find married men more attractive. Maybe it works the other way round too, but probably not...
All the best men are married.
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Quote from: Dove post_id=471022 time=1660598493 user_id=3266
Completely FALSE.
If you wanna fuck a bunch of women, dont get married.
Women dont see it as a bad thing.
Women like it when you have lots of women.
Dude.....no we dont.
You must be trollin!
Quote from: "The Treasurer" post_id=471040 time=1660603961 user_id=3382
They did a study a while back and found that women find married men more attractive. Maybe it works the other way round too, but probably not...
I read that. Isn't it gross?
I'm nothing like that. If I know a man is married or committed....my subconscious even knows he is off limits and I dont even notice any attraction. It's like a "nope" switch flips.
And if a man is married and still hits on me....I feel insulted and disgusted and I likely will tell on him.
There was only 1 exception to this and it was basically he was married as a contract and living as a single man. It was easy to forget he was legally married.
Odi is right though in one aspect. Women don't like players but they are biologically drawn to them.
When I was in that life skills program, there was a couple who worked for the church. The woman worked at the daycare and the husband played in the church band (worship music).
When I was in aftercare....by this time I was married and this was before I got pregnant....I started getting messages from the husband on FB.
Just wrote me out of nowhere doing small talk and then started to ask me how my marriage was and how his wasnt so great. I was immediately disgusted. Screen shotted it. Blocked him. And I was VERY close to putting him on blast right on FB. I did ream him out before blocking him too. I told him that perhaps his marriage sucks because instead of working on it he is trying to bang women he barely knows.
BUT him and his wife had a little 3 year old girl. So instead of putting him on total blast on FB... I went to the pastor's wife the next day and we talked about it and decided I would just send the wife the screen shots.
Obviously he was asked to leave the church band (fired). She blocked me without responding and they left the church all togther(just over my screen shots.....I guess him hitting on women from the program was a thing and i was far from the only one..but the only one that ratted on him)
I saw a disgusting predatory man who was attempting to use a power dynamic he believed he had to manipulate and use vulnerable women trying to rebuild their lives after drugs, alcohol, abuse, trafficking. I was really offended.
It didnt help that he kinda resembled Gomer Pile from Full Metal Jacket.
Shes still with him to this day and he is a piece of total shit. Acting like some man of God and trolling for strange out of church congregations.
You man hater.... ac_biggrin
Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=471090 time=1660611251 user_id=1676
You man hater.... ac_biggrin
Am I, though? ac_blush
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All the best men are married.
Just when I was starting to really like you...
#smdh
All the good ones are married or gay :roll:
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All the good ones are married or gay :roll:
<checking>
Nope.
Still neither true nor funny. Sorry.
:deadhorse:
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You man hater.... ac_biggrin
Am I, though? ac_blush
You do have a streak in some of your prose.... ac_biggrin
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Quote from: Dove post_id=471096 time=1660611667 user_id=3266
Am I, though? ac_blush
You do have a streak in some of your prose.... ac_biggrin
Just piece of shit men.
And dont we all hate piece of shit men? I know my husbands primary concern for my safety and the safety of our daughters is other men.
I mean look at you and the other men on here regularly. You guys are not all hunched over your key board mouth breathing into women's PM boxes while your wives or significant others are in the other room....you guys are normal and civilized.
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All the best men are married.
Just when I was starting to really like you...
#smdh
Are you single?
Quote from: Dove post_id=471124 time=1660613406 user_id=3266
Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=471123 time=1660613119 user_id=1676
You do have a streak in some of your prose.... ac_biggrin
Just piece of shit men.
And dont we all hate piece of shit men? I know my husbands primary concern for my safety and the safety of our daughters is other men.
I mean look at you and the other men on here regularly. You guys are not all hunched over your key board mouth breathing into women's PM boxes while your wives or significant others are in the other room....you guys are normal and civilized.
So..... what are you wearing right now? :43(2):
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All the best men are married.
Just when I was starting to really like you...
#smdh
:laugh:
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Quote from: Garraty_47 post_id=471099 time=1660612026 user_id=3381
Just when I was starting to really like you...
#smdh
Are you single?
Never been married, yes.
Wanted to once; talked about it a couple other times.
Nothing ever got to that stage although one gal and I did live together for about a year.
I told her I'd marry her if she could go 6 months without randomly telling me to go fuck myself.
I think the record was two days.
Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=471127 time=1660613685 user_id=1676
Quote from: Dove post_id=471124 time=1660613406 user_id=3266
Just piece of shit men.
And dont we all hate piece of shit men? I know my husbands primary concern for my safety and the safety of our daughters is other men.
I mean look at you and the other men on here regularly. You guys are not all hunched over your key board mouth breathing into women's PM boxes while your wives or significant others are in the other room....you guys are normal and civilized.
So..... what are you wearing right now? :43(2):
I'm actually in a black tank top style nightgown that's knee length, I have my hair in a bun on the top of my head and I have a wide light blue head band with a floral design on my head. I have my glasses on. So I'm pretty dorky looking right now.
And a warming pasty mask that promises to moisturize my skin and put collagen back in it.....but I'm doing this more for the ritual.
Is that hot? :evilthoughts2:
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Quote from: Dove post_id=471125 time=1660613463 user_id=3266
Are you single?
Never been married, yes.
Wanted to once; talked about it a couple other times.
Nothing ever got to that stage although one gal and I did live together for about a year.
I told her I'd marry her if she could go 6 months without randomly telling me to go fuck myself.
I think the record was two days.
I hope you threw her out. Screw that. Verbal abusers are awful.
Quote from: Dove post_id=471140 time=1660615513 user_id=3266
I hope you threw her out. Screw that. Verbal abusers are awful.
In retrospect I can laugh about it because half of that year was basically a silly contest to see which of us could make the other throw in the towel first.
The first and only relationship like that I'll ever have.
I picked up a few handy early deal-breakers from it though, so at least it wasn't a total loss.
These days I just don't even care about any of that.
If I happen to meet someone and it clicks: Shiny!
If I never do then that's cool as well.
I've never been one of those people who *had* to have a relationship or even people around me all the time.
Suppose you could say I'm unusually comfortable with my own company.
I'm not exactly a misanthrope, like totally, but I do regularly get fed up with our entire species and vow not to have anything more to do with those idiotic shaved apes.
LoL
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Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=471127 time=1660613685 user_id=1676
So..... what are you wearing right now? :43(2):
I'm actually in a black tank top style nightgown that's knee length, I have my hair in a bun on the top of my head and I have a wide light blue head band with a floral design on my head. I have my glasses on. So I'm pretty dorky looking right now.
And a warming pasty mask that promises to moisturize my skin and put collagen back in it.....but I'm doing this more for the ritual.
Is that hot? :evilthoughts2:
Depends if you're wearing knickers or not.... :laugh:
I have been married twice. Both of them are good women. My first wife, the mother of my son, was a gal version of myself. She is a redneck. But, the chemistry wasn't there and I was banging different gals all the time.
My second wife is the opposite of me. But, the chemistry is there.
Quote from: Herman post_id=471152 time=1660616940 user_id=1689
I have been married twice. Both of them are good women. My first wife, the mother of my son, was a gal version of myself. She is a redneck. But, the chemistry wasn't there and I was banging different gals all the time.
My second wife is the opposite of me. But, the chemistry is there.
I'm happy it worked out for you the second time.
I've been married only twice but to the same gal..... :laugh3:
Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=471156 time=1660618877 user_id=1676
I've been married only twice but to the same gal..... :laugh3:
I read your story. I think it was at SG.
We like telling it to strangers or new acquaintances when they talk about their messy divorces or how you never go back once you leave... ac_toofunny
The foot in mouth look they give you is priceless....
I want to go somewhere today... the beach... I need a beach to invigorate my soul.
I have been married for 38 years... not only do I beat you all... I know more.
My wedding anniversary is in 2 days.
ps; men suck!!!
Quote from: caskur post_id=471172 time=1660633931 user_id=2156
I want to go somewhere today... the beach... I need a beach to invigorate my soul.
I have been married for 38 years... not only do I beat you all... I know more.
My wedding anniversary is in 2 days.
ps; men suck!!!
PS... All women except my wife suck and not nearly as good...
Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=471145 time=1660616482 user_id=1676
Quote from: Dove post_id=471139 time=1660615460 user_id=3266
I'm actually in a black tank top style nightgown that's knee length, I have my hair in a bun on the top of my head and I have a wide light blue head band with a floral design on my head. I have my glasses on. So I'm pretty dorky looking right now.
And a warming pasty mask that promises to moisturize my skin and put collagen back in it.....but I'm doing this more for the ritual.
Is that hot? :evilthoughts2:
Depends if you're wearing knickers or not.... :laugh:
Not gonna tell that! :yahoo:
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Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=471145 time=1660616482 user_id=1676
Depends if you're wearing knickers or not.... :laugh:
Not gonna tell that! :yahoo:
Translation: natural air conditioning is teh bestest air conditioning.
***feels a waft of hot humid air***
Readjusts his baseball cap front and centre...
***says nothing but looks for a bar of Dove soap***
Quote from: caskur post_id=471172 time=1660633931 user_id=2156
I want to go somewhere today... the beach... I need a beach to invigorate my soul.
I have been married for 38 years... not only do I beat you all... I know more.
My wedding anniversary is in 2 days.
ps; men suck!!!
Happy early anniversary!
My hub is home all week. Then he's gone for a month.
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Quote from: Odinson post_id=471033 time=1660602492 user_id=136
Women dont see it as a bad thing.
Women like it when you have lots of women.
Dude.....no we dont.
You must be trollin!
You dont have that jealousy thing... There is no reason to.
You always know who the babys mother is.
Women dont need the exclusive relationship.
Quote from: "Dinky Dazza" post_id=471065 time=1660608040 user_id=1676
Odi is right though in one aspect. Women don't like players but they are biologically drawn to them.
They aint drawn to guys who aint getting any. :laugh3:
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Quote from: Dove post_id=471062 time=1660607693 user_id=3266
Dude.....no we dont.
You must be trollin!
You dont have that jealousy thing... There is no reason to.
You always know who the babys mother is.
Women dont need the exclusive relationship.
It's not about jealousy at all. Most people prefer monogamy. Or they prefer to have a monogamous partner but dont wish to be monogamous themselves....which is shit heel behavior.
Polygamy and polyamory is entertaining but not something many people want for themselves.
I'd rather just be gay than be in some polygamist or polyamorous situation. Or single.
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Quote from: Odinson post_id=471217 time=1660669522 user_id=136
You dont have that jealousy thing... There is no reason to.
You always know who the babys mother is.
Women dont need the exclusive relationship.
It's not about jealousy at all. Most people prefer monogamy. Or they prefer to have a monogamous partner but dont wish to be monogamous themselves....which is shit heel behavior.
Polygamy and polyamory is entertaining but not something many people want for themselves.
I'd rather just be gay than be in some polygamist or polyamorous situation. Or single.
But you would be monogamous while your husband is polygamous.
You dont need to be part of it.
Women dont care if the man "cheats".
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Quote from: Odinson post_id=471217 time=1660669522 user_id=136
You dont have that jealousy thing... There is no reason to.
You always know who the babys mother is.
Women dont need the exclusive relationship.
It's not about jealousy at all. Most people prefer monogamy. Or they prefer to have a monogamous partner but dont wish to be monogamous themselves....which is shit heel behavior.
Polygamy and polyamory is entertaining but not something many people want for themselves.
I'd rather just be gay than be in some polygamist or polyamorous situation. Or single.
I'd choose single over gay.
Aren't most gays ultimately single in the end anyway?
In China, a man can have only one wife but he can have as many concubines as he can house, clothe and feed.
Quote from: Odinson post_id=471259 time=1660688847 user_id=136
In China, a man can have only one wife but he can have as many concubines as he can house, clothe and feed.
They call them second wives in China..
I thought it wasnt an uncommon practice among wealthy men in Southern Europe and Latin America.
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I want to go somewhere today... the beach... I need a beach to invigorate my soul.
I have been married for 38 years... not only do I beat you all... I know more.
My wedding anniversary is in 2 days.
ps; men suck!!!
Happy early anniversary!
My hub is home all week. Then he's gone for a month.
What luck... I wish mine would fuck off for saaayyyy, the rest of my life.
Concubinage is slavery pure and simple.
They aren't second or third or forth wives... they are slaves... without any hope surviving old age so let us call it for what it is and not pretty it up calling concubinage, second marriages...
Married men are healthier than single men..
single women are healthier than married or single men
and married women are the unhealthiest of all according to a statistic book I have.
Marriage might be good for men but not for women.
Quote from: caskur post_id=471342 time=1660724018 user_id=2156
Concubinage is slavery pure and simple.
They aren't second or third or forth wives... they are slaves... without any hope surviving old age so let us call it for what it is and not pretty it up calling concubinage, second marriages...
Married men are healthier than single men..
single women are healthier than married or single men
and married women are the unhealthiest of all according to a statistic book I have.
Marriage might be good for men but not for women.
There's a word for them in Chinaes, tai tai..
They are not doing against their will and they know that when their lose their looks they lose the money.
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In China, a man can have only one wife but he can have as many concubines as he can house, clothe and feed.
They call them second wives in China..
I thought it wasnt an uncommon practice among wealthy men in Southern Europe and Latin America.
This is going on in most if not all countries. It happens here in Canada.
They caught an Indian couple in Australia keeping a slave only paying her $3.00 a week for 8 years. And Australian jailed them.
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2021-07-21/melbourne-couple-who-kept-slave-sentenced/100310094
[size=150]Melbourne couple who kept a grandmother as slave for eight years jailed for 'crime against humanity'[/size]
By court reporter Danny Tran
Posted Wed 21 Jul 2021 at 12:45pmWednesday 21 Jul 2021 at 12:45pm, updated Wed 21 Jul 2021 at 9:06pm
A Melbourne couple found guilty of secretly enslaving a woman in their suburban home for close to a decade have been jailed for their "crime against humanity".
Kandasamy and Kumuthini Kannan on Wednesday appeared in Victoria's Supreme Court where they were convicted for subjugating the woman, which ultimately left her in hospital weighing just 40 kilograms.
Kumuthini Kannan, 53, was ordered to spend eight years behind bars.
Her husband, Kandasamy Kannan, 57, was ordered to serve six years.
It is the first time a case solely about slavery by domestic servitude has been aired in an Australian court and, prosecutors say, the longest period of enslavement the nation has ever seen.
But the court heard the couple still did not accept that they forced the Indian grandmother into servitude, and continued to "strenuously" profess their innocence.
The couple's legal team has already indicated that they may be preparing an appeal.
During a sentencing which was watched by almost 200 people, and which stretched to almost three hours, Justice John Champion took aim at the couple.
"Slavery is regarded as a crime against humanity," he said.
"Your offending occurred in the daily presence and with the obvious knowledge and comprehension of your children.
"You set them a deplorable example of how parents should act towards another human being.
"Her life was controlled largely in the privacy of your own home and care was taken by you to keep her true status from others in your community ... so that your dirty secret was maintained.
"This court publicly condemns you both for your disgraceful conduct."
Justice Champion branded the couple as "almost compulsive liars".
"The number and brazen quality of the lies has been nothing short of astonishing," he said.
"I'm quite convinced that you both believe you have done nothing wrong.
"Neither of you have shown remorse or contrition."
I'm thankful they caught them.
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Happy early anniversary!
My hub is home all week. Then he's gone for a month.
What luck... I wish mine would fuck off for saaayyyy, the rest of my life.
Most younger white men don't want English speaking women anymore. You are a prime example why that is happening.
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Quote from: caskur post_id=471341 time=1660723313 user_id=2156
What luck... I wish mine would fuck off for saaayyyy, the rest of my life.
Most younger white men don't want English speaking women anymore. You are a prime example why that is happening.
Only ugly white men can't catch themselves a decent white woman... you can have our cast off's.... we generously give them to you.... with bells on.
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Quote from: caskur post_id=471341 time=1660723313 user_id=2156
What luck... I wish mine would fuck off for saaayyyy, the rest of my life.
Most younger white men don't want English speaking women anymore. You are a prime example why that is happening.
There are some hot White women here that aint head cases. There are some eligible gals in all races except Native Indians and Australian Abos.
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Quote from: "Shen Li" post_id=471402 time=1660756417 user_id=56
Most younger white men don't want English speaking women anymore. You are a prime example why that is happening.
Only ugly white men can't catch themselves a decent white woman... you can have our cast off's.... we generously give them to you.... with bells on.
If you mean Asian gals, they usually marry well educated professional White guys if they marry outside their race. SE Asian women like Filipinas and Thais come from poor countries and they aint too picky.
In the US, Black guys like the fattest and ugliest White gals. White guys get the fine Black gals.
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Quote from: "Shen Li" post_id=471402 time=1660756417 user_id=56
Most younger white men don't want English speaking women anymore. You are a prime example why that is happening.
Only ugly white men can't catch themselves a decent white woman... you can have our cast off's.... we generously give them to you.... with bells on.
My husband isn't a "cast off."
I grew up in Canada.
Don't defend Shen Li comment and attack mine or I'll think you are both a couple of bastards...
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Quote from: "Shen Li" post_id=471402 time=1660756417 user_id=56
Most younger white men don't want English speaking women anymore. You are a prime example why that is happening.
Only ugly white men can't catch themselves a decent white woman... you can have our cast off's.... we generously give them to you.... with bells on.
Modern white women can be a headache though.... I say this as a guy who has a great gal and a great daughter both with hearts of gold... but we were picky and we just clicked....so through no fault of our own, whiteness was preserved. Lulz
I once viewed old men with younger Asian wives as sad.... then I started noticing young guys in their twenties and thirties with Asian brides roughly their same ages... and really happy/into each other.... so I asked myself why....
White women these days are such high maintenance and high drama, that young guys don't want any of it. Guys in general don't want the heartache and Asian women don't either.... so they gel rather nicely.
Not always though.... there are some dodgy operators on both sides, but relationships between them tend to stand the test of time.
It's a respect thing....
Western women are nuts....
(Again, there are exceptions, but as a whole it's like gambling at a Casino.... the House rules.)
Another delusional post.^^^^
Well done.
I know PLENTY of Asians who marry and dump the duffus they married once they get citizenship. Doh!!!
Also... the 60+ plus paedophile in the units next door to me knocked up his 20 year old bride and now she's fled back to Asia... I know more about this subject than you will ever know deluded one.
Shen li likes to dish it out so she better be prepared to suck it up when I return serve....
Quote from: caskur post_id=471523 time=1660808431 user_id=2156
Another delusional post.^^^^
Well done.
I know PLENTY of Asians who marry and dump the duffus they married once they get citizenship. Doh!!!
Also... the 60+ plus paedophile in the units next door to me knocked up his 20 year old bride and now she's fled back to Asia... I know more about this subject than you will ever know deluded one.
Shen li likes to dish it out so she better be prepared to suck it up when I return serve....
I know plenty of Mainland Chinese that are content with their white partner choices decades on.
However, SE Asian birds and those around the islands can be beautiful mates but also can be ruthless.
There's a guy at work named <redacted> "Mario"... he is a phiilipino.... and you wouldn't know it but he's an Ex Merchant Marine of 40 years, a maintenance guru that can work on any mechanical, electrical, pneumatic, hydraulic, or software issue.... and his ex wife (from his culture) also lives in Australia (despite him living everywhere through the year) and she has petitioned the courts to have him barred from Australia.... because she hates his guts.
Nicest bloke around.... goes home in the off season where he owns numerous bed and breakfasts and niche market hotels, to see his children....
...I don't just say he's a nice bloke for his manor..... this is a guy last Friday that saw me walking to work from behind across a bridge and stopped to wait for 5 minutes to save me a further 10 minute walk to work. My vehicle was in the shop for the day and this region doesn't do complimentary cars...
He's an older gent and his Tonkan understudy was driving him, along with a young Argentinean bird, all very nice people.... but the back-seat was littered with homegrown mandarin oranges... seems his neighbours like throwing them at his bedroom window, and instead of get angry, he collects them for work and insisted I scoop up some in my bag before work started... lol
I know so many more of these stories than you could ever know....
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Another delusional post.^^^^
Well done.
I know PLENTY of Asians who marry and dump the duffus they married once they get citizenship. Doh!!!
Also... the 60+ plus paedophile in the units next door to me knocked up his 20 year old bride and now she's fled back to Asia... I know more about this subject than you will ever know deluded one.
Shen li likes to dish it out so she better be prepared to suck it up when I return serve....
Most of the Asians that marry Western or Japanese men are from poor countries in South East Asia as Herman pointed out..
If a Western or Japanese man marries a lady from the richer countries of East Asia, it's usually a match of well educated equals and they usually meet while working or travelling in wealthy East Asian countries.
Quote from: caskur post_id=471513 time=1660798410 user_id=2156
Don't defend Shen Li comment and attack mine or I'll think you are both a couple of bastards...
She's kidding as usual.
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Quote from: caskur post_id=471341 time=1660723313 user_id=2156
What luck... I wish mine would fuck off for saaayyyy, the rest of my life.
Most younger white men don't want English speaking women anymore. You are a prime example why that is happening.
I prefer White women. I couldn't have a relationship like mine with a Korean woman. Her family and my family would be conspiring to get us married fast. No pressure with a White woman.
Quote from: caskur post_id=471523 time=1660808431 user_id=2156
Another delusional post.^^^^
Well done.
I know PLENTY of Asians who marry and dump the duffus they married once they get citizenship. Doh!!!
Also... the 60+ plus paedophile in the units next door to me knocked up his 20 year old bride and now she's fled back to Asia... I know more about this subject than you will ever know deluded one.
Shen li likes to dish it out so she better be prepared to suck it up when I return serve....
I think when you talk about Australins marrying Asians, you really mean women from the Philippines. Possibly a couple more neighbouring countries. I don't know what the divorce rate is for those unions compared to national averages. A lot more Korean and Japanese men look for wives from the Philippines than Western men do.
Women from Japan, Korea, Taiwan, Singapore and possibly the richer cities in China aren't looking to leave their countries and join a guy they met online. Actually, Canadian English teachers in Korea who marry Korean men and women, their spouses don't want to leave and be separated from their friends and family. They want them to stay in Korea.
Caskur's whole gimmick is being wrong about literally everything.
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Caskur's whole gimmick is being wrong about literally everything.
It is not a gimmick. She is genuinely ignorant.
Quote from: "The Treasurer" post_id=471591 time=1660847676 user_id=3382
Caskur's whole gimmick is being wrong about literally everything.
Rudely obnoxiously emphatically wrong.
Just sayin'.
I dont know about Canadians but we are pretty omnivorous when it comes to women.
The cultural things are a pain in the ass though.
There is no incentive to go chasing non-Finnish women.
To me, an Australian white woman is as much trouble as a tribeswoman from the Sentinel island.
Caskur is right btw...
I lived abroad for twenty six years. If I didn't learn to handle cultural differences, I didn't get laid. Old Herman became tolerant. :43(2):
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Don't defend Shen Li comment and attack mine or I'll think you are both a couple of bastards...
You're made out of pudding. A big fat bowl of sloppy vanilla pudding.
I am here for shitz and gigglez. It's what my legions of fans demand from me. Laugh and have fun.
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Quote from: caskur post_id=471513 time=1660798410 user_id=2156
Don't defend Shen Li comment and attack mine or I'll think you are both a couple of bastards...
You're made out of pudding. A big fat bowl of sloppy vanilla pudding.
I am here for shitz and gigglez. It's what my legions of fans demand from me. Laugh and have fun.
Old caskur aint some thin skinned wanker like Seamajor or even Lotusbud.
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Quote from: caskur post_id=471513 time=1660798410 user_id=2156
Don't defend Shen Li comment and attack mine or I'll think you are both a couple of bastards...
You're made out of pudding. A big fat bowl of sloppy vanilla pudding.
I am here for shitz and gigglez. It's what my legions of fans demand from me. Laugh and have fun.
I'm sure caskur knows you're trolling.
Only old married couples look happy..
The rest look like this:
The husband has a sad and red face, pot belly and he functions as some kind of a grocery-bag carrying camel.
The wife is glued to her phone checking her DMs after the latest porn picture she posted online.
I will avoid so much crap by remaining unmarried.
Quote from: Odinson post_id=471731 time=1660922298 user_id=136
Only old married couples look happy..
The rest look like this:
The husband has a sad and red face, pot belly and he functions as some kind of a grocery-bag carrying camel.
The wife is glued to her phone checking her DMs after the latest porn picture she posted online.
I will avoid so much crap by remaining unmarried.
Have you ever been married?
Quote from: Odinson post_id=471731 time=1660922298 user_id=136
Only old married couples look happy..
The rest look like this:
The husband has a sad and red face, pot belly and he functions as some kind of a grocery-bag carrying camel.
The wife is glued to her phone checking her DMs after the latest porn picture she posted online.
I will avoid so much crap by remaining unmarried.
None of the pictures of me and my husband look anything like that Odi.
Quote from: Dove post_id=471795 time=1660937346 user_id=3266
Quote from: Odinson post_id=471731 time=1660922298 user_id=136
Only old married couples look happy..
The rest look like this:
The husband has a sad and red face, pot belly and he functions as some kind of a grocery-bag carrying camel.
The wife is glued to her phone checking her DMs after the latest porn picture she posted online.
I will avoid so much crap by remaining unmarried.
None of the pictures of me and my husband look anything like that Odi.
Most of them look like that... On the way towards the inevitable shitty divorce.
Marriage is obsolete... It serves no purpose.
It only compromises your finances since its not binding anymore and there is no punishment for breaking the vows anymore.
When you are not married, you are not compromised when the break up happens.
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You're made out of pudding. A big fat bowl of sloppy vanilla pudding.
I am here for shitz and gigglez. It's what my legions of fans demand from me. Laugh and have fun.
I'm sure caskur knows you're trolling.
You give that moron too much credit.
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Quote from: Dove post_id=471795 time=1660937346 user_id=3266
None of the pictures of me and my husband look anything like that Odi.
Most of them look like that... On the way towards the inevitable shitty divorce.
Marriage is obsolete... It serves no purpose.
It only compromises your finances since its not binding anymore and there is no punishment for breaking the vows anymore.
When you are not married, you are not compromised when the break up happens.
Is it though?
The foundation of a healthy society is the family unit. This isn't even a debate, its proven that children do much better in a home with a mother and a father.
How are fatherless homes serving society? Remember.....today's children will be running the world one day.
Tomorrow is my stupid birthday and I'll be 42.
And my husband informed me we are going out somewhere tomorrow but isn't telling me where.
So if I end up dead somewhere, like the bottom of lake superior you guys know what happened lol. Kidding. Or not. We will see :D
Happy early birthday Dove. Don't end up on the news.
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Happy early birthday Dove. Don't end up on the news.
Thanks! And I'll try not to end up on the news. It's a goal I set for myself every morning :thumbup:
Quote from: Dove post_id=471830 time=1660953230 user_id=3266
Tomorrow is my stupid birthday and I'll be 42.
And my husband informed me we are going out somewhere tomorrow but isn't telling me where.
So if I end up dead somewhere, like the bottom of lake superior you guys know what happened lol. Kidding. Or not. We will see :D
It has been nice knowing you Dovey.
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I'm sure caskur knows you're trolling.
You give that moron too much credit.
Holy shit, does she ever hate the folks here. I will start a thread about it.
Quote from: Dove post_id=471826 time=1660951462 user_id=3266
Quote from: Odinson post_id=471822 time=1660947809 user_id=136
Most of them look like that... On the way towards the inevitable shitty divorce.
Marriage is obsolete... It serves no purpose.
It only compromises your finances since its not binding anymore and there is no punishment for breaking the vows anymore.
When you are not married, you are not compromised when the break up happens.
Is it though?
The foundation of a healthy society is the family unit. This isn't even a debate, its proven that children do much better in a home with a mother and a father.
How are fatherless homes serving society? Remember.....today's children will be running the world one day.
:smiley_thumbs_up_yellow_ani:
Quote from: Dove post_id=471830 time=1660953230 user_id=3266
Tomorrow is my stupid birthday and I'll be 42.
And my husband informed me we are going out somewhere tomorrow but isn't telling me where.
So if I end up dead somewhere, like the bottom of lake superior you guys know what happened lol. Kidding. Or not. We will see :D
Happy birthday Dove.
ac_smile
Quote from: "The Treasurer" post_id=471831 time=1660953352 user_id=3382
Happy early birthday Dove. Don't end up on the news.
I dunno.... "42 Year Old Birthday Girl Runs 4 Miles Wearing Only Crocs" could be good value.... ac_dunno
Quote from: Herman post_id=471653 time=1660869399 user_id=1689
I lived abroad for twenty six years. If I didn't learn to handle cultural differences, I didn't get laid. Old Herman became tolerant. :43(2):
There are not cultural differences while having sex.
They come into the picture when you spend more than that 1 minute with her. ac_biggrin
Quote from: Dove post_id=471826 time=1660951462 user_id=3266
Quote from: Odinson post_id=471822 time=1660947809 user_id=136
Most of them look like that... On the way towards the inevitable shitty divorce.
Marriage is obsolete... It serves no purpose.
It only compromises your finances since its not binding anymore and there is no punishment for breaking the vows anymore.
When you are not married, you are not compromised when the break up happens.
Is it though?
The foundation of a healthy society is the family unit. This isn't even a debate, its proven that children do much better in a home with a mother and a father.
How are fatherless homes serving society? Remember.....today's children will be running the world one day.
Men and women can be together without the wedding.
The potentially pissed off divorced partner isnt so good for the kids either.
Regular break-ups arent as nasty.
Quote from: Odinson post_id=471947 time=1660997799 user_id=136
Quote from: Dove post_id=471826 time=1660951462 user_id=3266
Is it though?
The foundation of a healthy society is the family unit. This isn't even a debate, its proven that children do much better in a home with a mother and a father.
How are fatherless homes serving society? Remember.....today's children will be running the world one day.
Men and women can be together without the wedding.
The potentially pissed off divorced partner isnt so good for the kids either.
Regular break-ups arent as nasty.
The solution isn't abolishing marriage. The solution is taking it more seriously and making other centered love and sacrifice culturally valuable again.
Because the road we are on now is a very bad one. Its leading us into increasing human rights abuses.
The family is VERY important if we want a civil society. We need to recover from the lie of the "one", and adjust our expectations to reflect reality. Family and partnerships are not meant to exist in a perpetual state of limerace. And the cycle is....people raised from broken homes lack the tools and ability to nurture sustainable bonds on which to grow a deep and enduring relationship. So you have more broken homes created.
If we want real change and real progress we have to reverse the damage done to the family unit and start helping people to get....and stay....married. That's just our reality.
Quote from: Dove post_id=471949 time=1660998661 user_id=3266
Quote from: Odinson post_id=471947 time=1660997799 user_id=136
Men and women can be together without the wedding.
The potentially pissed off divorced partner isnt so good for the kids either.
Regular break-ups arent as nasty.
The solution isn't abolishing marriage. The solution is taking it more seriously and making other centered love and sacrifice culturally valuable again.
Because the road we are on now is a very bad one. Its leading us into increasing human rights abuses.
The family is VERY important if we want a civil society. We need to recover from the lie of the "one", and adjust our expectations to reflect reality. Family and partnerships are not meant to exist in a perpetual state of limerace. And the cycle is....people raised from broken homes lack the tools and ability to nurture sustainable bonds on which to grow a deep and enduring relationship. So you have more broken homes created.
If we want real change and real progress we have to reverse the damage done to the family unit and start helping people to get....and stay....married. That's just our reality.
Marriage in its current form is meaningless...
It used to be enforced by the law and the woman had to be protected by the man.
Now women can make it on themselves.
Without marriage, the children are more likely to have both parents present since the relationship doesnt end with the man being humiliated.
I dont see a fix to the marriage unless the government passes a bill to punish divorcees... And those who otherwise break the agreement.
Also... Feminism needs to be destroyed.
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