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General Discussion => The Flea Trap => Topic started by: Anonymous on May 04, 2014, 10:09:04 PM

Title: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 04, 2014, 10:09:04 PM
Nothing would change except we would no longer be hosted by memebee.



How would you feel about severing our ties with memebee?



I will do whatever our members want me to do.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Chickenfeets on May 04, 2014, 10:25:50 PM
Just my 2 cents worth here, Fash, but moving to another host won't change things much. On the internet, everything is a click away, even if a new host is based halfway around the world.



The issue is more that part of your membership has ties with VF (I'm a case in point). This is true even of Obvious Li.



What would change things is if people here stopped reading or posting on VF and people on VF stopped reading or posting here. In other words, if people chose one forum over the other and stuck with it.



That will be hard to accomplish, though. Most people I know read and post on more than one forum.



My own strategy (over at my own forum) was to strongly discourage cross-forum chatter. If one forum was experiencing trouble, that trouble was to stay on that forum and not travel to mine. If and when it did, I reminded the "chatterer" that such talk could serve no useful purpose and ought to be avoided.



Oddly enough (and against my own expectations), people complied. Even people who love a good flame.



Maybe you can focus on this instead of on moving the ACC away from the Bee?



Again, just my thoughts.



Hope you have a great evening, Fash.



Now go get Obvious Li--he's being an ornery layabout.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 04, 2014, 10:30:23 PM
i agree with, feets:) he is a wise one..
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 04, 2014, 10:32:12 PM
Quote from: "Chickenfeets"Just my 2 cents worth here, Fash, but moving to another host won't change things much. On the internet, everything is a click away, even if a host is based halfway around the world.



The issue is more that part of your membership has ties with VF (I'm a case in point). This is true even of Obvious Li.



What would change things is if people here stopped reading or posting on VF and people on VF stopped reading or posting here. In other words, if people chose one forum over the other and stuck with it.



That will be hard to accomplish, though. Most people I know read and post on more than one forum.



My own strategy (over at my own forum) was to strongly discourage cross-forum chatter. If one forum was experiencing trouble, that trouble was to stay on that forum and not travel to mine. If and when it did, I reminded the "chatterer" that such talk could serve no useful purpose and ought to be avoided.



Oddly enough (and against my own expectations), people complied. Even people that love a good flame.



Maybe you can focus on this instead of on moving the ACC away from the Bee?



Again, just my thoughts.



Hope you have a great evening, Fash.



Now go get Obvious Li--he's being an ornery layabout.

Hello Chickenfeets and as respected member here, I appreciate your advice..



I have recently discovered that there are several posters on Vancouver Forum that want us shut down..



How do you think that makes me feel?



It puts evs in a difficult position too.



I feel terrible about Obvious Li's departure, but I will keep trying to coax him back.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Chickenfeets on May 04, 2014, 10:43:55 PM
Quote from: "Fashionista"I have recently discovered that there are several posters on Vancouver Forum that want us shut down..



How do you think that makes me feel?



It puts evs in a difficult position too.

I know how it makes you feel, Fash. I feel it, too.



But remember this: there is only one poster doing this and his aim is to take down all forums, not just this one.



I know this is no consolation, Fash, but you should not take this personally. And neither should Obvious Li.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 04, 2014, 10:44:26 PM
it doesn't put evs in a difficult situation at all, as i said. i was not joking ok:) you are not hosted by the posters of vf, you are hosted by me. and, while i feel that they should be allowed to express their opinion of other forums, that opinion, if the said forum is operating according to memebee's TOS, stays their opinion, not mine.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Chickenfeets on May 04, 2014, 10:47:10 PM
Anyway, I will take my leave now.



I wish you well in whatever it is you decide to do, Fashionista.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 04, 2014, 10:48:12 PM
Quote from: "Chickenfeets"
Quote from: "Fashionista"I have recently discovered that there are several posters on Vancouver Forum that want us shut down..



How do you think that makes me feel?



It puts evs in a difficult position too.

I know how it makes you feel, Fash. I feel it, too.



But remember this: there is only one poster doing this and his aim is to take down all forums, not just this one.



I know this is no consolation, Fash, but you should not take this personally. And neither should Obvious Li.

I know who you mean Chickenfeets, but it is more than just that poster..



Some of evs most regular posters such as JOE and Mel Gibson want us shut down..



There are probably others that I don't know about too.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: RW on May 04, 2014, 11:00:45 PM
Fash, you really need to consider the sources of the call to shut down.  Sometimes you just need to not care what some people say.



In terms of admin, I think you are better off here but it's your call.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 04, 2014, 11:01:56 PM
Quote from: "Real Woman"Fash, you really need to consider the sources of the call to shut down.  Sometimes you just need to not care what some people say.



In terms of admin, I think you are better off here but it's your call.

Thank you for the advice Real Woman, I appreciate your comments.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: RW on May 04, 2014, 11:11:34 PM
Quote from: "Chickenfeets"
Quote from: "Fashionista"I have recently discovered that there are several posters on Vancouver Forum that want us shut down..



How do you think that makes me feel?



It puts evs in a difficult position too.

I know how it makes you feel, Fash. I feel it, too.



But remember this: there is only one poster doing this and his aim is to take down all forums, not just this one.



I know this is no consolation, Fash, but you should not take this personally. And neither should Obvious Li.

No man is an island Chicken Licken.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 04, 2014, 11:19:04 PM
A poster just informed me of a forum that I never heard of called B**** H***..



It was as disgusting as that forum Gordy Gambino posts on.

 :shock:
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: RW on May 04, 2014, 11:28:16 PM
So?
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 04, 2014, 11:30:08 PM
Quote from: "Real Woman"So?

I was shocked by the filth that's all.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: RW on May 04, 2014, 11:31:04 PM
Then don't go there.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 04, 2014, 11:44:21 PM
Quote from: "Real Woman"Then don't go there.

Oh believe me Real Woman I won't..



I don't understand the appeal of it, but to each their own.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: RW on May 04, 2014, 11:56:21 PM
Different strokes for different folks.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: cc on May 05, 2014, 12:11:26 AM
QuoteI have recently discovered that there are several posters on Vancouver Forum that want us shut down..


like WHO? ... anyone who matters? I'm guessing not.



As evs said, SHE owns it all and she is game for it to stay.



Where's that wimp-out Munday and his input when we need him?



I don't follow every post in either forum section so am lost as to what is wrong much less what is behind it all
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: RW on May 05, 2014, 12:19:54 AM
I'd wager it's just the usual blah blah bullshit cc.  You aren't missing much.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: cc on May 05, 2014, 12:22:29 AM
I suspect that you are right. Setting myself up, I'll say  I'm just trying to get up to speed lol
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Obvious Li on May 05, 2014, 05:58:30 AM
i`m ok with either Fash....i have no experience running forums so talk to those more knowledgeable about this....i guess as long as we maintain our semi independence from VF and i get to kick the shit out of RW every day..i don`t really care...
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: RW on May 05, 2014, 06:58:46 AM
I'm down for the count already.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 05, 2014, 07:54:51 AM
Quote from: "cc li tarte"
QuoteI have recently discovered that there are several posters on Vancouver Forum that want us shut down..


like WHO? ... anyone who matters? I'm guessing not.



As evs said, SHE owns it all and she is game for it to stay.



Where's that wimp-out Munday and his input when we need him?



I don't follow every post in either forum section so am lost as to what is wrong much less what is behind it all

I read posts from JOE and Mel Gibson and both of them said we should be shut down..



I know that is only two posters, but it makes me wonder if others on Vancouver Forum feel the same way about us?

 :?:
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: RW on May 05, 2014, 09:40:32 AM
Joe and Mel are brainless assholes Fash.  Ignore them.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: cc on May 05, 2014, 10:14:38 AM
what she said ^
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: keeper on May 05, 2014, 01:44:48 PM
I think you should Host your own Fash, Sever the ties.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: cc on May 05, 2014, 01:56:27 PM
There are some merits and security to owning your own site and some inconveniences. Depends a lot on whether you are able to handle all internet possibilities ... hackers, technicalities and anything that comes up.



Either way you decide. I'm with you all the way Fash.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Renee on May 05, 2014, 03:06:59 PM
I think we should stay right here for reasons already expressed.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 05, 2014, 06:09:50 PM
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "cc li tarte"
QuoteI have recently discovered that there are several posters on Vancouver Forum that want us shut down..


like WHO? ... anyone who matters? I'm guessing not.



As evs said, SHE owns it all and she is game for it to stay.



Where's that wimp-out Munday and his input when we need him?



I don't follow every post in either forum section so am lost as to what is wrong much less what is behind it all

I read posts from JOE and Mel Gibson and both of them said we should be shut down..



I know that is only two posters, but it makes me wonder if others on Vancouver Forum feel the same way about us?

 :?:

You should know that "Joe" does not exist anywhere, but on internet forums. He's just another effeminate handle of Phagdish Betsy/Richard Kuklinski/Smell of Homos/Effeminate Hardy. There is no "Joe" in real life. He's stupid made-up stories should be proof of that.



Mel Gibson does not want people that look like you and I in Canada let alone on the same host. When he's not hating minorities, he's blaming women for everything bad that has ever happened to him. Like RW says, he's an asshole.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 05, 2014, 08:36:38 PM
Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "cc li tarte"

like WHO? ... anyone who matters? I'm guessing not.



As evs said, SHE owns it all and she is game for it to stay.



Where's that wimp-out Munday and his input when we need him?



I don't follow every post in either forum section so am lost as to what is wrong much less what is behind it all

I read posts from JOE and Mel Gibson and both of them said we should be shut down..



I know that is only two posters, but it makes me wonder if others on Vancouver Forum feel the same way about us?

 :?:

You should know that "Joe" does not exist anywhere, but on internet forums. He's just another effeminate handle of Phagdish Betsy/Richard Kuklinski/Smell of Homos/Effeminate Hardy. There is no "Joe" in real life. He's stupid made-up stories should be proof of that.



Mel Gibson does not want people that look like you and I in Canada let alone on the same host. When he's not hating minorities, he's blaming women for everything bad that has ever happened to him. Like RW says, he's an asshole.

I do not know about this Shen Li, but their comments stung.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Romero on May 05, 2014, 09:32:29 PM
Don't you worry about those guys! Most on VF surely don't care but there will still be a few insults no matter where we are.



You run a good forum, Fash!  :)
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 05, 2014, 10:01:23 PM
The only change you should make Fash is more smilies.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 06, 2014, 08:11:20 PM
Thank you to everyone who responded..



The majority want to maintain the status quo which what we will do for now.

 :)
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 06, 2014, 10:38:28 PM
Quote from: "Fashionista"Thank you to everyone who responded..



The majority want to maintain the status quo which what we will do for now.

 :)

I don't see why change is necessary. Except for more smilies.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 07, 2014, 07:51:50 AM
Quote from: "seoulbro"
Quote from: "Fashionista"Thank you to everyone who responded..



The majority want to maintain the status quo which what we will do for now.

 :)

I don't see why change is necessary. Except for more smilies.

Thank you again for responding.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: keeper on May 07, 2014, 10:57:22 AM
im well aware my opinion does not matter but I say make your own forum Fash, I will even help you pay for it. Why have the forum that has a Vancouver name when your not even living there?



anyway its up to you.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 07, 2014, 06:00:13 PM
Quote from: "Keeper"im well aware my opinion does not matter but I say make your own forum Fash, I will even help you pay for it. Why have the forum that has a Vancouver name when your not even living there?



anyway its up to you.

I kinda agree Keeps, but where is Vancouver in the name here?
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Obvious Li on May 07, 2014, 06:57:32 PM
Quote from: "Keeper"im well aware my opinion does not matter but I say make your own forum Fash, I will even help you pay for it. Why have the forum that has a Vancouver name when your not even living there?



anyway its up to you.




i never thought about it like that...but now that you say it.....it would be nice to have a forum based out of Dog River, in Paradise.......i can find space in the elevator for an office no problem....i say go for it..... :ugeek:
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 07, 2014, 07:13:26 PM
Quote from: "Obvious Li"
Quote from: "Keeper"im well aware my opinion does not matter but I say make your own forum Fash, I will even help you pay for it. Why have the forum that has a Vancouver name when your not even living there?



anyway its up to you.




i never thought about it like that...but now that you say it.....it would be nice to have a forum based out of Dog River, in Paradise.......i can find space in the elevator for an office no problem....i say go for it..... :ugeek:

Discover Dog River?
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: cc on May 07, 2014, 07:57:10 PM
lol



Could lead to more Chinese restaurant bad jokes though.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Obvious Li on May 07, 2014, 08:53:46 PM
Quote from: "cc li tarte"lol



Could lead to more Chinese restaurant bad jokes though.


you mean the ones about:



no stray dogs in town

no stray cats in town

no rats in town



every small prairie town had a chinese restaurant responsible for pest control....just add MSG, plum sauce and serve to drunks at 3:00 AM.......
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 07, 2014, 09:22:04 PM
Quote from: "Obvious Li"
Quote from: "cc li tarte"lol



Could lead to more Chinese restaurant bad jokes though.


you mean the ones about:



no stray dogs in town

no stray cats in town

no rats in town



every small prairie town had a chinese restaurant responsible for pest control....just add MSG, plum sauce and serve to drunks at 3:00 AM.......

 :lol:
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: keeper on May 07, 2014, 11:17:45 PM
Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "Keeper"im well aware my opinion does not matter but I say make your own forum Fash, I will even help you pay for it. Why have the forum that has a Vancouver name when your not even living there?



anyway its up to you.

I kinda agree Keeps, but where is Vancouver in the name here?


It dosent, but isnt the forums based out of Vancouver? (discover Vancouver) correct me if im wrong. and if im not shut ya pie hole sweet cheeks :P
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 08, 2014, 07:40:34 AM
Quote from: "Keeper"
Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "Keeper"im well aware my opinion does not matter but I say make your own forum Fash, I will even help you pay for it. Why have the forum that has a Vancouver name when your not even living there?



anyway its up to you.

I kinda agree Keeps, but where is Vancouver in the name here?


It dosent, but isnt the forums based out of Vancouver? (discover Vancouver) correct me if im wrong. and if im not shut ya pis hole sweet cheeks :P

I believe the host is Vancouver based Keeper.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: cc on May 08, 2014, 12:34:18 PM
The location of the actual server is not the point anyhow. I would take "Vancouver based" as the site members being predominantly Vancouver wherever the physical server resides .... in other words, what the site "puts itself forward as" is all that matters.



For example our BC business uses one of the best providers there is and whose servers are in Dallas ... but anyone seeing the site itself would not know or care unless they tried specifically  to know. They are there to examine our product, period just as a person who wishes to post in a forum does not know or care where the server resides.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: keeper on May 08, 2014, 12:42:17 PM
Quote from: "cc li tarte"The location of the actual server is not the point anyhow. I would take "Vancouver based" as the site members being predominantly Vancouver wherever the physical server resides .... in other words, what the site "puts itself forward as" is all that matters.



For example our BC business uses one of the best providers there is and whose servers are in Dallas ... but anyone seeing the site itself would not know or care unless they tried specifically  to know. They are there to examine our product, period just as a person who wishes to post in a forum does not know or care where the server resides.


WTF, First Shen argues with me now you?



Do I have to pull rank?  :shock:



It does matter. So , THERE!!!



Last word.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: keeper on May 08, 2014, 12:46:30 PM
And, I don't post over on the dark side as much as I used to for Obvious Reasons and honestly I doubt I will post much here. I'm hoping Fashy gets her own forum. But I understand if she doesn't.

To bad Blurt caved and went back, Hypocrite must have naked pictures of Blurt  :o Blackmailing him I bet.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: cc on May 08, 2014, 12:58:50 PM
lol ... an upskirt  penis pic is good blackmail material



I post there a lot less than I used to ... and with little enthusiasm.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Frost on May 08, 2014, 01:32:44 PM
It's good here Fashion, no change needed I can see. :) fine job.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: cc on May 08, 2014, 02:18:55 PM
Hi Blue!!



Actually Keeps, I wasn't arguing one way or the other. It's up to the manager as she is the one who has to keep it running ... and I accept her decision.



It would be nice to have own server for sure, but that requires the ability and time to handle wonky software issues, glitches, hackers messing it all up   etc. Blue has his own, but he's a a good teckie.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: keeper on May 08, 2014, 02:42:18 PM
Quote from: "cc li tarte"Hi Blue!!



Actually Keeps, I wasn't arguing one way or the other. It's up to the manager as she is the one who has to keep it running ... and I accept her decision.



It would be nice to have own server for sure, but that requires the ability and time to handle wonky software issues, glitches, hackers messing it all up   etc. Blue has his own, but he's a a good teckie.


Purple Herman coming your way missy moo
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: cc on May 08, 2014, 02:43:44 PM
AHHHHHH!!!



lol
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Frost on May 08, 2014, 05:10:27 PM
My server has been good for a while now, very happy with them at the moment.

For a few years they gave me a lot of grief I have to say, killed the forum off twice thanks to them.

The good thing about many servers now is they will help to an extent, but you are paying for service after all.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 08, 2014, 06:00:51 PM
Quote from: "Keeper"And, I don't post over on the dark side as much as I used to for Obvious Reasons and honestly I doubt I will post much here. I'm hoping Fashy gets her own forum. But I understand if she doesn't.

To bad Blurt caved and went back, Hypocrite must have naked pictures of Blurt  :o Blackmailing him I bet.

Ah stick around Keeps. I'm back to work now ya know. This means I will soon be able to pour my booty into skin tight denim in the near future. Don't ya wanna see some pics? ;)
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: keeper on May 09, 2014, 11:36:35 AM
Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "Keeper"And, I don't post over on the dark side as much as I used to for Obvious Reasons and honestly I doubt I will post much here. I'm hoping Fashy gets her own forum. But I understand if she doesn't.

To bad Blurt caved and went back, Hypocrite must have naked pictures of Blurt  :o Blackmailing him I bet.

Ah stick around Keeps. I'm back to work now ya know. This means I will soon be able to pour my booty into skin tight denim in the near future. Don't ya wanna see some pics? ;)


Obviously you haven't seen me parked outside your house.  :lol:
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: keeper on May 09, 2014, 11:36:54 AM
Quote from: "Blue"My server has been good for a while now, very happy with them at the moment.

For a few years they gave me a lot of grief I have to say, killed the forum off twice thanks to them.

The good thing about many servers now is they will help to an extent, but you are paying for service after all.




Hiya Pal, Nice to see you.
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 10, 2014, 05:30:00 PM
Quote from: "Keeper"
Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "Keeper"And, I don't post over on the dark side as much as I used to for Obvious Reasons and honestly I doubt I will post much here. I'm hoping Fashy gets her own forum. But I understand if she doesn't.

To bad Blurt caved and went back, Hypocrite must have naked pictures of Blurt  :o Blackmailing him I bet.

Ah stick around Keeps. I'm back to work now ya know. This means I will soon be able to pour my booty into skin tight denim in the near future. Don't ya wanna see some pics? ;)


Obviously you haven't seen me parked outside your house.  :lol:

Two flashes of the lights means my husband is working out of town. ;)
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Chickenfeets on May 11, 2014, 01:15:23 PM
Quote from: "Keeper"Too bad Blurt caved and went back, Hypocrite must have naked pictures of Blurt  :o Blackmailing him I bet.

One man's cave-in is another man's search for buried treasure, Keeps.



And you know damn well you're the only one who has naked pictures of me.  :lol:
Title: Re: Do you want this forum to move to another host?
Post by: Anonymous on May 12, 2014, 06:47:14 PM
Quote from: "Chickenfeets"
Quote from: "Keeper"Too bad Blurt caved and went back, Hypocrite must have naked pictures of Blurt  :o Blackmailing him I bet.

One man's cave-in is another man's search for buried treasure, Keeps.



And you know damn well you're the only one who has naked pictures of me.  :lol:

It's really nobody's business, but your own. However, it was quite the about face.