Title: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 18, 2023, 02:50:20 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 18, 2023, 02:50:20 PM
I feel it nessesary to point out that while I'm separated and divorcing, I'm living with my male besty and getting intensely turned on by his cooking skills, writing skills, amazing sense of humor and his enduring care for my well being and devotion to it.Quote
If I marry this guy the weekend after my divorce is final absolutely no one should be surprised lol. The 4th pancake is usually the winner for me.
I get it Dove, you are a turmoil-junkie mess of a woman. You''ll never change. However, why the fuck do you always have to share your latest self-inflicted wounds with a tiny group of strangers on an obscure forum. Nobody needs to be reminded again, again and again what a total fuck up you are . No normal person wants to know these details of your life either.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Garraty_47 on April 18, 2023, 05:06:28 PM
Post by: Garraty_47 on April 18, 2023, 05:06:28 PM
Scratch that... some people *need* to share.
I'm not and never have been one of them but I've known enough other bipedal apes to know that Sharers account for a significant portion of our species.
Vive la différence!
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Lokmar on April 18, 2023, 05:21:29 PM
Post by: Lokmar on April 18, 2023, 05:21:29 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 18, 2023, 05:38:46 PM
Post by: Herman on April 18, 2023, 05:38:46 PM
I was curious about the great white whale's latest antics, so I took a peek at the flame forum. I couldn't find what I was looking for, but I did find this:I feel it nessesary to point out that while I'm separated and divorcing, I'm living with my male besty and getting intensely turned on by his cooking skills, writing skills, amazing sense of humor and his enduring care for my well being and devotion to it.Quote
If I marry this guy the weekend after my divorce is final absolutely no one should be surprised lol. The 4th pancake is usually the winner for me.
I get it Dove, you are a turmoil-junkie mess of a woman. You''ll never change. However, why the fuck do you always have to share your latest self-inflicted wounds with a tiny group of strangers on an obscure forum. Nobody needs to be reminded again, again and again what a total fuck up you are . No normal person wants to know these details of your life either.
Well shit. This aint good. Even if old Dove thinks it is right now.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 18, 2023, 05:42:06 PM
Post by: Herman on April 18, 2023, 05:42:06 PM
Some people like to share.
Scratch that... some people *need* to share.
I'm not and never have been one of them but I've known enough other bipedal apes to know that Sharers account for a significant portion of our species.
Vive la différence!
I share too much myself sometimes. Especially when I have had too many thimbles of barrelwash. But, If what is posted is true, Dove takes the cake.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Biggie Smiles on April 18, 2023, 05:48:34 PM
Post by: Biggie Smiles on April 18, 2023, 05:48:34 PM
She's a big girl tho and does what she feels is best
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 18, 2023, 05:53:22 PM
Post by: Herman on April 18, 2023, 05:53:22 PM
Dove knows I love her to death but I'm on record not agreeing or supporting this
She's a big girl tho and does what she feels is best
That is good that you can be really close to a gal and disagree with her.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 18, 2023, 06:15:55 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 18, 2023, 06:15:55 PM
And I get where Shen is coming from too.... tough love from the Taiwan-adjacent might be what the doctor ordered, but if Dove is letting the floodgates open then shit... I don't recommend bottling it up.
After all, she could be armed... too much unreleased emotion might make her go church tower on us. Fuck that shit.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 18, 2023, 06:23:05 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 18, 2023, 06:23:05 PM
I'll stand by what I said to Caskur a week or so ago. It isn't something you should enter into lightly, the better outcome always being to work at the relationship, but sometimes there simply isn't another option and remaining together in a loveless relationship only ends up hurting both parties.
And I get where Shen is coming from too....tough love from the Taiwan-adjacent might be what the doctor ordered, but if Dove is letting the floodgates open then shit... I don't recommend bottling it up.
After all, she could be armed... too much unreleased emotion might make her go church tower on us. Fuck that shit.
She'll try to justify it.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 18, 2023, 06:24:34 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 18, 2023, 06:24:34 PM
Some people like to share.
Scratch that...some people *need* to share.
I'm not and never have been one of them but I've known enough other bipedal apes to know that Sharers account for a significant portion of our species.
Vive la différence!
Dove is the worst offender. Does she think anyone needs reminding that she is a total fuck up.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 18, 2023, 06:32:23 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 18, 2023, 06:32:23 PM
I'll stand by what I said to Caskur a week or so ago. It isn't something you should enter into lightly, the better outcome always being to work at the relationship, but sometimes there simply isn't another option and remaining together in a loveless relationship only ends up hurting both parties.
And I get where Shen is coming from too....tough love from the Taiwan-adjacent might be what the doctor ordered, but if Dove is letting the floodgates open then shit... I don't recommend bottling it up.
After all, she could be armed... too much unreleased emotion might make her go church tower on us. Fuck that shit.
She'll try to justify it.
Of course she will. And I will refuse to get worked up about it. It was the same when she ran that troll with Martini slagging her off on a podcast while she sat next to him giggling under her breath. No sense in getting invested in the floor show, no matter how legitimate it is or it turns out to be.
Shit... nearly thirty years on forums, I reckon I've seen and heard it all at this point. Let the justification roll out, we can get on to the next embarrassing reenactment.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 18, 2023, 06:37:18 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 18, 2023, 06:37:18 PM
She'll try to justify it.
Of course she will. And I will refuse to get worked up about it. It was the same when she ran that troll with Martini slagging her off on a podcast while she sat next to him giggling under her breath. No sense in getting invested in the floor show, no matter how legitimate it is or it turns out to be.
Shit... nearly thirty years on forums, I reckon I've seen and heard it all at this point. Let the justification roll out, we can get on to the next embarrassing reenactment.
The biggest turnoff for me about the old SG was the constant Dove-KM drama. Dove had to share every single personal mistake of her life with a bunch of fucking strangers. Like we want to read that crap let alone giving a shit.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 18, 2023, 06:52:52 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 18, 2023, 06:52:52 PM
Of course she will. And I will refuse to get worked up about it. It was the same when she ran that troll with Martini slagging her off on a podcast while she sat next to him giggling under her breath. No sense in getting invested in the floor show, no matter how legitimate it is or it turns out to be.
Shit... nearly thirty years on forums, I reckon I've seen and heard it all at this point. Let the justification roll out, we can get on to the next embarrassing reenactment.
The biggest turnoff for me about the old SG was the constant Dove-KM drama. Dove had to share every single personal mistake of her life with a bunch of fucking strangers. Like we want to read that crap let alone giving a shit.
Yeah, well maybe the fracas turned genuine at the tail of it and maybe not. It's possible, I knew pretty much from the outset that it was a troll designed to get the community's tongues wagging and if Martini had to throw her under the bus to make that happen, I can well imagine he'd do it. He's not the only one that would either, I can think of a few people from the troll and flaming communities with that mindset.
Either way it got ground into the dirt as it was intended to be from the get-go. I was jaded with it long before Martini hit his stride with the TV crew more than a decade ago, though I did appreciate his efforts on the podcast front... second only to my own brief run as Calvin Cuntkicker some years before.
I heard tell a couple of those got posted over at BF recently to the total bemusement of the uninitiated. Even if the persons and events they dealt with were current, I imagine they'd sail clear over their pointy little heads.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 18, 2023, 07:04:14 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 18, 2023, 07:04:14 PM
The biggest turnoff for me about the old SG was the constant Dove-KM drama. Dove had to share every single personal mistake of her life with a bunch of fucking strangers. Like we want to read that crap let alone giving a shit.
Yeah, well maybe the fracas turned genuine at the tail of it and maybe not. It's possible, I knew pretty much from the outset that it was a troll designed to get the community's tongues wagging and if Martini had to throw her under the bus to make that happen, I can well imagine he'd do it. He's not the only one that would either, I can think of a few people from the troll and flaming communities with that mindset.
Either way it got ground into the dirt as it was intended to be from the get-go. I was jaded with it long before Martini hit his stride with the TV crew more than a decade ago, though I did appreciate his efforts on the podcast front... second only to my own brief run as Calvin Cuntkicker some years before.
I heard tell a couple of those got posted over at BF recently to the total bemusement of the uninitiated. Even if the persons and events they dealt with were current, I imagine they'd sail clear over their pointy little heads.
Since I saw the first Dove post, there has been a constant theme. She screws up her life and runs straight to the forums to share her latest real life drama. Enough is enough. She can fuck off with that shit.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Trump’s Niece on April 18, 2023, 07:14:23 PM
Post by: Trump’s Niece on April 18, 2023, 07:14:23 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 18, 2023, 07:38:24 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 18, 2023, 07:38:24 PM
Aye Dovey. Sigh
I thought you and Biggz would defend her no matter what. I thought you might even delete this thread. I think both of you are being better friends to her by at least acknowledging that she's screwing up again.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Trump’s Niece on April 18, 2023, 08:09:06 PM
Post by: Trump’s Niece on April 18, 2023, 08:09:06 PM
Aye Dovey. Sigh
I thought you and Biggz would defend her no matter what. I thought you might even delete this thread. I think both of you are being better friends to her by at least acknowledging that she's screwing up again.
Of course I don't agree. Her husband is a very good guy. She's not gonna listen to me tho.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 18, 2023, 08:18:18 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 18, 2023, 08:18:18 PM
I thought you and Biggz would defend her no matter what. I thought you might even delete this thread. I think both of you are being better friends to her by at least acknowledging that she's screwing up again.
Of course I don't agree. Her husband is a very good guy.She's not gonna listen to me tho.
She is self destructive.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: It's Poppy on April 18, 2023, 08:29:01 PM
Post by: It's Poppy on April 18, 2023, 08:29:01 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Trump’s Niece on April 18, 2023, 08:33:45 PM
Post by: Trump’s Niece on April 18, 2023, 08:33:45 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: formosan on April 18, 2023, 08:53:25 PM
Post by: formosan on April 18, 2023, 08:53:25 PM
I was curious about the great white whale's latest antics, so I took a peek at the flame forum. I couldn't find what I was looking for, but I did find this:I feel it nessesary to point out that while I'm separated and divorcing, I'm living with my male besty and getting intensely turned on by his cooking skills, writing skills, amazing sense of humor and his enduring care for my well being and devotion to it.Quote
If I marry this guy the weekend after my divorce is final absolutely no one should be surprised lol. The 4th pancake is usually the winner for me.
I get it Dove, you are a turmoil-junkie mess of a woman. You''ll never change. However, why the fuck do you always have to share your latest self-inflicted wounds with a tiny group of strangers on an obscure forum. Nobody needs to be reminded again, again and again what a total fuck up you are . No normal person wants to know these details of your life either.
I won't comment on Dove's personal life, but I do wish her well..
On the topic of sharing personal details of our lives, it's probably best not to do that..
I'm speaking from personal experience......I regret posting that I lost my daughter who was special needs..
Certain people will use that to troll with.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 18, 2023, 09:28:45 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 18, 2023, 09:28:45 PM
I was curious about the great white whale's latest antics, so I took a peek at the flame forum. I couldn't find what I was looking for, but I did find this:
I get it Dove, you are a turmoil-junkie mess of a woman. You''ll never change. However, why the fuck do you always have to share your latest self-inflicted wounds with a tiny group of strangers on an obscure forum. Nobody needs to be reminded again, again and again what a total fuck up you are . No normal person wants to know these details of your life either.
I won't comment on Dove's personal life, but I do wish her well..On the topic of sharing personal details of our lives, it's probably best not to do that..
I'm speaking from personal experience......I regret posting that I lost my daughter who was special needs..
Certain people will use that to troll with.
Dove can't sleep at night unless she shares with total fucking strangers her latest example of how unstable she is.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 18, 2023, 09:29:31 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 18, 2023, 09:29:31 PM
Consider this...that was posted on BF, who the hell is going to read that...maybe three people at most, one of whom is Flynn?If you posted all of that dirty laundry on Facebook,it would almost certainly be used in the divorce proceedings.
No doubt Dove did that too.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 03:10:52 AM
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 03:10:52 AM
It's so funny when people online get worked over shit that doesn't impact them.
Shen, focus on your life and impending move to another country. Stop getting all emo over a couple in Michigan.
Used in divorce proceedings in a no fault state? Okay sure. The ex can say he took his family and ditched them at a male best friend's house and wouldn't let his mother stop interfering with their life if he WANTS to but I think he has had enough embarrassing moments
Thanks for worrying about it and all.....but don't. *finger gun*
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: DKG on April 19, 2023, 10:40:36 AM
Post by: DKG on April 19, 2023, 10:40:36 AM
I was curious about the great white whale's latest antics, so I took a peek at the flame forum. I couldn't find what I was looking for, but I did find this:I feel it nessesary to point out that while I'm separated and divorcing, I'm living with my male besty and getting intensely turned on by his cooking skills, writing skills, amazing sense of humor and his enduring care for my well being and devotion to it.Quote
If I marry this guy the weekend after my divorce is final absolutely no one should be surprised lol. The 4th pancake is usually the winner for me.
I get it Dove, you are a turmoil-junkie mess of a woman. You''ll never change. However, why the fuck do you always have to share your latest self-inflicted wounds with a tiny group of strangers on an obscure forum. Nobody needs to be reminded again, again and again what a total fuck up you are . No normal person wants to know these details of your life either.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 19, 2023, 11:07:20 AM
Post by: Anonymous on April 19, 2023, 11:07:20 AM
I won't comment on Dove's personal life, but I do wish her well..On the topic of sharing personal details of our lives, it's probably best not to do that..
I'm speaking from personal experience......I regret posting that I lost my daughter who was special needs..
Certain people will use that to troll with.
Dove can't sleep at night unless she shares with total fucking strangers her latest example of how unstable she is.
Look who speaks. The family that eats anything that moves.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 19, 2023, 11:11:37 AM
Post by: Anonymous on April 19, 2023, 11:11:37 AM
Dove can't sleep at night unless she shares with total fucking strangers her latest example of how unstable she is.
Look who speaks. The family that eats anything that moves.
What are you doing licking at her family's windows? Not looking to borrow her children to start a family of your own I hope.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: DKG on April 19, 2023, 11:21:05 AM
Post by: DKG on April 19, 2023, 11:21:05 AM
Look who speaks. The family that eats anything that moves.
What are you doing licking at her family's windows? Not looking to borrow her children to start a family of your own I hope.
Of course he is.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 19, 2023, 02:35:01 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 19, 2023, 02:35:01 PM
LoL.
It's so funny when people online get worked over shit that doesn't impact them.
Shen, focus on your life and impending move to another country. Stop getting all emo over a couple in Michigan.
Thanks for worrying about it and all.....but don't. *finger gun*
Dove, read the fucking title of this thread. Then read the op. I don't give two fucks about your latest self destructive move. Nobody gives a fuck and nobody is worrying for you. We all know UR an unstable, white trash skank. We don't need you reminding us.
The point of this thread is that you feel the need to share your Trailer Park Boys drama with us. Newsflash, UR aren't going to get affirmation for your unethical behaviour on a fucking message board.
The ex can say he took his family and ditched them at a male best friend's house and wouldn't let his mother stop interfering with their life if he WANTS to but I think he has had enough embarrassing momentsQuote
Excuses, justification, just STFU already Dove. Talk about abortion ffs. This shit is nauseating.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: It's Poppy on April 19, 2023, 04:00:07 PM
Post by: It's Poppy on April 19, 2023, 04:00:07 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 19, 2023, 04:15:49 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 19, 2023, 04:15:49 PM
Every time I see a Dovey post, I hear Jerry Springer chants...what next, is Michael Moore going to do a docu-drama on this latest relationship disaster.
I hear that too except these forums aren't the Springer show. And yes to your question.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 19, 2023, 04:19:27 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 19, 2023, 04:19:27 PM
LoL.
It's so funny when people online get worked over shit that doesn't impact them.
Shen, focus on your life and impending move to another country. Stop getting all emo over a couple in Michigan.
Thanks for worrying about it and all.....but don't. *finger gun*
Dove, read the fucking title of this thread. Then read the op. I don't give two fucks about your latest self destructive move. Nobody gives a fuck and nobody is worrying for you. We all know UR an unstable, white trash skank. We don't need you reminding us.
The point of this thread is that you feel the need to share your Trailer Park Boys drama with us. Newsflash, UR aren't going to get affirmation for your unethical behaviour on a fucking message board.The ex can say he took his family and ditched them at a male best friend's house and wouldn't let his mother stop interfering with their life if he WANTS to but I think he has had enough embarrassing momentsQuote
Excuses, justification, just STFU already Dove. Talk about abortion ffs. This shit is nauseating.
Calm down godzuki
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Biggie Smiles on April 19, 2023, 04:21:09 PM
Post by: Biggie Smiles on April 19, 2023, 04:21:09 PM
LoL.
It's so funny when people online get worked over shit that doesn't impact them.
Shen, focus on your life and impending move to another country. Stop getting all emo over a couple in Michigan.
Thanks for worrying about it and all.....but don't. *finger gun*
Dove, read the fucking title of this thread. Then read the op. I don't give two fucks about your latest self destructive move. Nobody gives a fuck and nobody is worrying for you. We all know UR an unstable, white trash skank. We don't need you reminding us.
The point of this thread is that you feel the need to share your Trailer Park Boys drama with us. Newsflash, UR aren't going to get affirmation for your unethical behaviour on a fucking message board.The ex can say he took his family and ditched them at a male best friend's house and wouldn't let his mother stop interfering with their life if he WANTS to but I think he has had enough embarrassing momentsQuote
Excuses, justification, just STFU already Dove. Talk about abortion ffs. This shit is nauseating.
Actually murdys nudes are nauseating
Just saying
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 19, 2023, 04:30:01 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 19, 2023, 04:30:01 PM
Dove, read the fucking title of this thread. Then read the op. I don't give two fucks about your latest self destructive move. Nobody gives a fuck and nobody is worrying for you. We all know UR an unstable, white trash skank. We don't need you reminding us.
The point of this thread is that you feel the need to share your Trailer Park Boys drama with us. Newsflash, UR aren't going to get affirmation for your unethical behaviour on a fucking message board.
Excuses, justification, just STFU already Dove. Talk about abortion ffs. This shit is nauseating.
Calm down godzuki
This is as calm as it gets. I am the Mighty Iron Chink afterall.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 19, 2023, 04:30:28 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 19, 2023, 04:30:28 PM
Dove, read the fucking title of this thread. Then read the op. I don't give two fucks about your latest self destructive move. Nobody gives a fuck and nobody is worrying for you. We all know UR an unstable, white trash skank. We don't need you reminding us.
The point of this thread is that you feel the need to share your Trailer Park Boys drama with us. Newsflash, UR aren't going to get affirmation for your unethical behaviour on a fucking message board.
Excuses, justification, just STFU already Dove. Talk about abortion ffs. This shit is nauseating.
Actually murdys nudes are nauseating
Just saying
Blinding too no doubt.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Biggie Smiles on April 19, 2023, 04:32:25 PM
Post by: Biggie Smiles on April 19, 2023, 04:32:25 PM
Actually murdys nudes are nauseating
Just saying
Blinding too no doubt.
Gross
and it's far fucking worse in person.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 19, 2023, 04:37:06 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 19, 2023, 04:37:06 PM
Blinding too no doubt.
Gross
and it's far fucking worse in person.
You're lucky you don't have PTSD.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 19, 2023, 05:17:22 PM
Post by: JOE on April 19, 2023, 05:17:22 PM
I was curious about the great white whale's latest antics, so I took a peek at the flame forum. I couldn't find what I was looking for, but I did find this:I feel it nessesary to point out that while I'm separated and divorcing, I'm living with my male besty and getting intensely turned on by his cooking skills, writing skills, amazing sense of humor and his enduring care for my well being and devotion to it.Quote
If I marry this guy the weekend after my divorce is final absolutely no one should be surprised lol. The 4th pancake is usually the winner for me.
I get it Dove, you are a turmoil-junkie mess of a woman. You''ll never change. However, why the fuck do you always have to share your latest self-inflicted wounds with a tiny group of strangers on an obscure forum. Nobody needs to be reminded again, again and again what a total fuck up you are . No normal person wants to know these details of your life either.
So is Dove divorcing her current husband and marrying again?
Real or Fake News?
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 05:22:43 PM
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 05:22:43 PM
LoL.
It's so funny when people online get worked over shit that doesn't impact them.
Shen, focus on your life and impending move to another country. Stop getting all emo over a couple in Michigan.
Thanks for worrying about it and all.....but don't. *finger gun*
Dove, read the fucking title of this thread. Then read the op. I don't give two fucks about your latest self destructive move. Nobody gives a fuck and nobody is worrying for you. We all know UR an unstable, white trash skank. We don't need you reminding us.
The point of this thread is that you feel the need to share your Trailer Park Boys drama with us. Newsflash, UR aren't going to get affirmation for your unethical behaviour on a fucking message board.The ex can say he took his family and ditched them at a male best friend's house and wouldn't let his mother stop interfering with their life if he WANTS to but I think he has had enough embarrassing momentsQuote
Excuses, justification, just STFU already Dove. Talk about abortion ffs. This shit is nauseating.
Oh I've read it, Shen. It's pretty incredible you are over reading posts at BF and coming here having a meltdown over it and actually believing its me who is a "turmoil junkie".
I think you are far too invested in posts you are reading on another board (and a troll board at that) and making many unhinged assumptions as well as making yourself overly important by believing someone would bother trying to "justify" anything to you. I think we are gathered here today in this thread BECAUSE Shen is giving a heavy round of fucks.
I don't particularly give a fuck what most posters here are up to.....so you probably wouldn't see me grabbing their posts and throwing it up on a thread so I can vent my disapproval of what they are posting. THAT is not giving fucks. This? This is giving fucks. You are mad about posts you read and are airing out your feels on the matter.
What on earth do I have to justify? I think you should ask yourself who I'm reminding you of in your life that you didn't like or care for.
What I find actually interesting here is the comment about socail media. So you are saying you don't see how anonymous forums and socail media are different?
So chill for a minute....take a deep breath....and answer this. Do you think people who post on forums like reddit, Surviving Infidelity, Loveshack....or any of the message boards....post everything they post on the forum to their socail media? Usually the purpose of message board forums goes from advice to venting to trolling to posting things you wouldn't say publically to people in your actual life. That's kinda the point....I don't think anyone else here would disagree with me on that.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 19, 2023, 05:24:10 PM
Post by: JOE on April 19, 2023, 05:24:10 PM
The suspense builds....your life is so interesting
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 19, 2023, 05:24:40 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 19, 2023, 05:24:40 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 19, 2023, 05:28:16 PM
Post by: JOE on April 19, 2023, 05:28:16 PM
The fuck is this, Coronation Street?
I thought it more like this...
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 05:29:29 PM
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 05:29:29 PM
so are you getting a divorce, Dove?
The suspense builds....your life is so interesting
Yeah I actually am. Its a whole thing I haven't gone into.
It's been pretty much all the same issues and they got a lot worse and I just cannot do this for the rest of my life. The trust and respect is completely gone.
I'll probably make a thread and talk about it eventually when I can focus and be serious... it's just been pretty hectic in my world lately so I've preferred to stick to shit posting at BF.
I don't know so much about my life being interesting though but thanks lol.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 05:30:18 PM
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 05:30:18 PM
The fuck is this, Coronation Street?
I don't know but is anyone else getting logged out every two minutes?
Kinda hard to post when you gotta log in every minute. The heck?!
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 19, 2023, 05:33:40 PM
Post by: JOE on April 19, 2023, 05:33:40 PM
so are you getting a divorce, Dove?
The suspense builds....your life is so interesting
Yeah I actually am. Its a whole thing I haven't gone into.
It's been pretty much all the same issues and they got a lot worse and I just cannot do this for the rest of my life. The trust and respect is completely gone.
I'll probably make a thread and talk about it eventually when I can focus and be serious... it's just been pretty hectic in my world lately so I've preferred to stick to shit posting at BF.
I don't know so much about my life being interesting though but thanks lol.
...Oh it's terribly interesting Dove.
I suspect the OP is a tad jalous of all the attention you git.
Y'know how girls are.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 05:39:13 PM
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 05:39:13 PM
Yeah I actually am. Its a whole thing I haven't gone into.
It's been pretty much all the same issues and they got a lot worse and I just cannot do this for the rest of my life. The trust and respect is completely gone.
I'll probably make a thread and talk about it eventually when I can focus and be serious... it's just been pretty hectic in my world lately so I've preferred to stick to shit posting at BF.
I don't know so much about my life being interesting though but thanks lol.
...Oh it's terribly interesting Dove.
I suspect the OP is a tad jalous of all the attention you git.
Y'know how girls are.:wink:
Nah I wouldn't say that at all.
I think I remind her of someone she has unpleasant memories of. She has a whole character wrote up lol.
The whole thing about how I'm oversharing my life in all its detail or how I'm blasting things on socail media is funny. I almost wish I could be that open. I'm a needy introvert and I don't talk about shit or ever ask for help.
I think most people on forums are that way....hence why we use them as outlets.
Or that I'm some weak approval people pleaser who would try to "justify" ANY thing I do. I do what the fuck I want and I'm far more likely to tell someone to go ahead and suck my taint until they can see their reflection in it then I am to care what they think about what I do lol. I rarely even correct people.
I'm here for my entertainment.
She's remembering someone. That's all.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 19, 2023, 05:42:15 PM
Post by: JOE on April 19, 2023, 05:42:15 PM
...Oh it's terribly interesting Dove.
I suspect the OP is a tad jalous of all the attention you git.
Y'know how girls are.:wink:
Nah I wouldn't say that at all.
I think I remind her of someone she has unpleasant memories of. She has a whole character wrote up lol.
The whole thing about how I'm oversharing my life in all its detail or how I'm blasting things on socail media is funny. I almost wish I could be that open. I'm a needy introvert and I don't talk about shit or ever ask for help.
I think most people on forums are that way....hence why we use them as outlets.
Or that I'm some weak approval people pleaser who would try to "justify" ANY thing I do. I do what the fuck I want and I'm far more likely to tell someone to go ahead and suck my taint until they can see their reflection in it then I am to care what they think about what I do lol. I rarely even correct people.
I'm here for my entertainment.ac_drinks
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 05:45:49 PM
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 05:45:49 PM
Nah I wouldn't say that at all.
I think I remind her of someone she has unpleasant memories of. She has a whole character wrote up lol.
The whole thing about how I'm oversharing my life in all its detail or how I'm blasting things on socail media is funny. I almost wish I could be that open. I'm a needy introvert and I don't talk about shit or ever ask for help.
I think most people on forums are that way....hence why we use them as outlets.
Or that I'm some weak approval people pleaser who would try to "justify" ANY thing I do. I do what the fuck I want and I'm far more likely to tell someone to go ahead and suck my taint until they can see their reflection in it then I am to care what they think about what I do lol. I rarely even correct people.
I'm here for my entertainment.ac_drinks https://youtu.be/_jaSFtcDEiE
Murd wants to take the "Dovey wants Biggie back and still has hope!!" angle so bad but I'm fucking it up for her lol
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 19, 2023, 05:47:40 PM
Post by: JOE on April 19, 2023, 05:47:40 PM
Murd wants to take the "Dovey wants Biggie back and still has hope!!" angle so bad but I'm fucking it up for her lolQuote from: Dove post_id=498203 time=1681940749 user_id=3266
...I thought there was a motive.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 06:03:41 PM
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 06:03:41 PM
Murd wants to take the "Dovey wants Biggie back and still has hope!!" angle so bad but I'm fucking it up for her lolQuote from: Dove post_id=498203 time=1681940749 user_id=3266
...I thought there was a motive.:icon_wink:
There is always a motive
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 19, 2023, 06:11:14 PM
Post by: Herman on April 19, 2023, 06:11:14 PM
I won't comment on Dove's personal life, but I do wish her well..On the topic of sharing personal details of our lives, it's probably best not to do that..
I'm speaking from personal experience......I regret posting that I lost my daughter who was special needs..
Certain people will use that to troll with.
Dove can't sleep at night unless she shares with total fucking strangers her latest example of how unstable she is.
You made your point. But, if old Dove wants to reveal all the sordid details of her life on these boards she is going to do that. And there aint anything you can do about that.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 06:23:48 PM
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 06:23:48 PM
No one knows any extra stuff about me than anyone else. Unless they are someone I talk to privately. What are these "sordid details" people think they are reading?
Are we new to forums here? Have you guys seen what people share on reddit?
Is it because my posts are somehow more noticeable and exciting?
There is plenty of shit that I consider too personal to post about. Some of which was blasted FOR me by an asswipe who regularly does that sort of thing but stuff I blather about on my own is definately not all that personal.
Usually people go to forums for the direct purpose of posting sordid details of their life because they don't tell anyone that knows them. You come to forums to be more personal.
But even still the people in my actual life know far more and far more realistic things about me and my life than people on a forum know jesus....why does this get said JUST about me? People know more personal shit about Murdock than about me. Js.
If I fucked a cab driver I doubt I would have to pay my fair lol.
Don't make it weird....just go with the flow lol. I think grown individuals can manage posting on a forum and making decisions on what they feel like posting. If some people want to "over share" I wouldn't dream of trying to stop them....oh lord no. Please, feel free
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 19, 2023, 06:34:40 PM
Post by: Herman on April 19, 2023, 06:34:40 PM
But what am I even sharing that is such personal details for a forum?
No one knows any extra stuff about me than anyone else. Unless they are someone I talk to privately. What are these "sordid details" people think they are reading?
Are we new to forums here? Have you guys seen what people share on reddit?
Is it because my posts are somehow more noticeable and exciting?
There is plenty of shit that I consider too personal to post about. Some of which was blasted FOR me by an asswipe who regularly does that sort of thing but stuff I blather about on my own is definately not all that personal.
Usually people go to forums for the direct purpose of posting sordid details of their life because they don't tell anyone that knows them. You come to forums to be more personal.
But even still the people in my actual life know far more and far more realistic things about me and my life than people on a forum know jesus....why does this get said JUST about me? People know more personal shit about Murdock than about me. Js.
If I fucked a cab driver I doubt I would have to pay my fair lol.
Don't make it weird....just go with the flow lol. I think grown individuals can manage posting on a forum and making decisions on what they feel like posting. If some people want to "over share" I wouldn't dream of trying to stop them....oh lord no. Please, feel free:laugh3:
Look kid, I do not want to get into this shit too much. I will say this, I have been married twice. If I had been on forums during my divorce from my first wife, I would not have been spilling the beans to folks like the deadbeat dad and his Flynn alt. But, you do you.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 19, 2023, 06:38:22 PM
Post by: Herman on April 19, 2023, 06:38:22 PM
I was curious about the great white whale's latest antics, so I took a peek at the flame forum. I couldn't find what I was looking for, but I did find this:
I get it Dove, you are a turmoil-junkie mess of a woman. You''ll never change. However, why the fuck do you always have to share your latest self-inflicted wounds with a tiny group of strangers on an obscure forum. Nobody needs to be reminded again, again and again what a total fuck up you are . No normal person wants to know these details of your life either.
So is Dove divorcing her current husband and marrying again?
Real or Fake News?
Look at old Joe. Getting all horny over some gossip.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Biggie Smiles on April 19, 2023, 06:46:03 PM
Post by: Biggie Smiles on April 19, 2023, 06:46:03 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 19, 2023, 06:49:19 PM
Post by: Herman on April 19, 2023, 06:49:19 PM
Admin does suck cock tho
Biother, that is the truest statment in the entire Rejected sub.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 06:53:07 PM
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 06:53:07 PM
But what am I even sharing that is such personal details for a forum?
No one knows any extra stuff about me than anyone else. Unless they are someone I talk to privately. What are these "sordid details" people think they are reading?
Are we new to forums here? Have you guys seen what people share on reddit?
Is it because my posts are somehow more noticeable and exciting?
There is plenty of shit that I consider too personal to post about. Some of which was blasted FOR me by an asswipe who regularly does that sort of thing but stuff I blather about on my own is definately not all that personal.
Usually people go to forums for the direct purpose of posting sordid details of their life because they don't tell anyone that knows them. You come to forums to be more personal.
But even still the people in my actual life know far more and far more realistic things about me and my life than people on a forum know jesus....why does this get said JUST about me? People know more personal shit about Murdock than about me. Js.
If I fucked a cab driver I doubt I would have to pay my fair lol.
Don't make it weird....just go with the flow lol. I think grown individuals can manage posting on a forum and making decisions on what they feel like posting. If some people want to "over share" I wouldn't dream of trying to stop them....oh lord no. Please, feel free:laugh3:
Look kid, I do not want to get into this shit too much. I will say this, I have been married twice. If I had been on forums during my divorce from my first wife, I would not have been spilling the beans to folks like the deadbeat dad and his Flynn alt. But, you do you.
Yeah but people go to forums and share very intimate details of their relationships and divorces. There are boards for people to intimately discuss their extra martial affairs.
Personally I enjoy fucking with people. That's my thing.
I'm just pointing out that forums literally exist for people to air out their issues and be heard. They go share shit they wouldn't share openly with anyone in their life.
So it's WEIRD to me to see the response to me simply stating I'm filing divorce and have that be considered such intimate detail that it shouldn't be said on a forum. You know? I haven't even gone into why or what is going on much and people freak the fuck out like I'm showing pictures of my cervix or handing out my address.
I don't really consider my relationship status that private. Is it too personal to know Big has a girlfriend? Or that Flea is married? Or that you've been divorced twice? I don't think it is so how is me posting that I'm currently divorcing THAT personal to illicit such a strong response? No one here should care THAT much what some idiot burnette in MI does.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 06:53:25 PM
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 06:53:25 PM
Admin does suck cock tho
So much cock.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 19, 2023, 07:13:33 PM
Post by: Herman on April 19, 2023, 07:13:33 PM
Look kid, I do not want to get into this shit too much. I will say this, I have been married twice. If I had been on forums during my divorce from my first wife, I would not have been spilling the beans to folks like the deadbeat dad and his Flynn alt. But, you do you.
Yeah but people go to forums and share very intimate details of their relationships and divorces. There are boards for people to intimately discuss their extra martial affairs.
Personally I enjoy fucking with people. That's my thing.
I'm just pointing out that forums literally exist for people to air out their issues and be heard. They go share shit they wouldn't share openly with anyone in their life.
So it's WEIRD to me to see the response to me simply stating I'm filing divorce and have that be considered such intimate detail that it shouldn't be said on a forum. You know? I haven't even gone into why or what is going on much and people freak the fuck out like I'm showing pictures of my cervix or handing out my address.
I don't really consider my relationship status that private. Is it too personal to know Big has a girlfriend? Or that Flea is married? Or that you've been divorced twice? I don't think it is so how is me posting that I'm currently divorcing THAT personal to illicit such a strong response? No one here should care THAT much what some idiot burnette in MI does.
I do not think it is a good idea to reveal as much negative shit going on in your life as you do. Not anymore anyway. I like ya kid, but I agree with old Shen Li about that. I mean look at the wankers we got now on these boards. We got the deadbeat dad and his Flynn alt, Apegirl, Seamidget. These aint the type of folks you want to be sharing details of your life with. They aint no Flea, Raven or Biggie Smiles.
But, I also know it's Shen Li who is making a stink about this. If you were not White, I doubt she would be harping on you to shut up about your personal life. I don't know. As I say kid, you do you.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 19, 2023, 07:17:36 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 19, 2023, 07:17:36 PM
Now, fair do's if this is another "troll". I don't know, I don't care to know and after watching the Dove v Martini saga spread itself out (just like the Flea v sc`T and the Feral v Frood ones that preceded it) I feel safe in assuring you there's a good many others that find it tedious and unentertaining as well. The sympathies any of us might express for anyone entering the long and torturous trudge of divorce will be long forgotten by the time the Lunchbox Legends get through with it.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 19, 2023, 07:24:48 PM
Post by: Herman on April 19, 2023, 07:24:48 PM
I see what Herman is getting at. So I imagine does Flea, who spent close to five years riding a wave of frustration and anger because of it. Some people will go with what you tell them and beat it like a dead horse. You say there are forums for personal relationship discussions, I'd point out BitchFest isn't one of them.
Butthurt Fagtory defintely aint one of them.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 07:47:08 PM
Post by: Dove on April 19, 2023, 07:47:08 PM
Politics. Religion. Flaming Scrotini. Anything that may or may not be details of your life. Divorce. Sex.
I miss anything? Should we just kinda play it by ear and add to the list as I post and hit topics people get upset over?
I wasn't saying BF is a board for that.....and I hardly posting details of my life compared to what other people do post and my point was its a forum.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 19, 2023, 08:06:22 PM
Post by: JOE on April 19, 2023, 08:06:22 PM
Okay so topics to avoid
Politics. Religion. Flaming Scrotini. Anything that may or may not be details of your life. Divorce. Sex.
I miss anything? Should we just kinda play it by ear and add to the list as I post and hit topics people get upset over?
I wasn't saying BF is a board for that.....and I hardly posting details of my life compared to what other people do post and my point was its a forum.
Dove...Shen Li is Asian born in China
YOu're White born in the US.
Hence, the clash of civilizations.
Everythign is taboo and button downed in those cultures.
I suppose They don't discuss those kinda things in them
Thats probably another reason
why she gets upset aside from a tinge of jaelousy because of all the attention you're getting.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 19, 2023, 08:09:31 PM
Post by: JOE on April 19, 2023, 08:09:31 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 19, 2023, 08:18:49 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 19, 2023, 08:18:49 PM
so are you getting a divorce, Dove?
The suspense builds....your life is so interesting
Yeah I actually am. Its a whole thing I haven't gone into.
It's been pretty much all the same issues and they got a lot worse and I just cannot do this for the rest of my life. The trust and respect is completely gone.
I'll probably make a thread and talk about iteventually when I can focus and be serious... it's just been pretty hectic in my world lately so I've preferred to stick to shit posting at BF.
I don't know so much about my life being interesting though but thanks lol.
Oh ffs, please don't. Forums aren't the Dr Phil show.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 19, 2023, 08:21:56 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 19, 2023, 08:21:56 PM
I see what Herman is getting at. So I imagine does Flea, who spent close to five years riding a wave of frustration and anger because of it. Some people will go with what you tell them and beat it like a dead horse. You say there are forums for personal relationship discussions, I'd point out BitchFest isn't one of them.
Now, fair do's if this is another "troll". I don't know, I don't care to know and after watching the Dove v Martini saga spread itself out (just like the Flea v sc`T and the Feral v Frood ones that preceded it) I feel safe in assuring you there's a good many others that find it tedious and unentertaining as well. The sympathies any of us might express for anyone entering the long and torturous trudge of divorce will be long forgotten by the time the Lunchbox Legends get through with it.
It goes right over Dove's head.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 19, 2023, 08:30:54 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 19, 2023, 08:30:54 PM
Okay so topics to avoid
Politics. Religion. Flaming Scrotini. Anything that may or may not be details of your life. Divorce. Sex.
I miss anything? Should we just kinda play it by ear and add to the list as I post and hit topics people get upset over?
I wasn't saying BF is a board for that.....and I hardly posting details of my life compared to what other people do post and my point was its a forum.
Dove...Shen Li is Asian born in China
YOu're White born in the US.
Hence, the clash of civilizations.
Everythign is taboo and button downed in those cultures.
I suppose They don't discuss those kinda things in them
Thats probably another reason
why she gets upset aside from a tinge of jaelousy because of all the attention you're getting.
You're on the right track Joe. I don't understand the need of certain whites to air all their dirty laundry in public.That is so fucking alien to me.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 19, 2023, 08:32:58 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 19, 2023, 08:32:58 PM
Okay so topics to avoid
Politics. Religion. Flaming Scrotini. Anything that may or may not be details of your life. Divorce. Sex.
I miss anything? Should we just kinda play it by ear and add to the list as I post and hit topics people get upset over?
I wasn't saying BF is a board for that.....and I hardly posting details of my life compared to what other people do post and my point was its a forum.
And my point was that people are done with it. We are knee deep in the eating each other phase now.
Make of that what you will, but in the absence of a few hundred people invested in creating engaging flaming content (ie:
For at least as long as people insist on dragging it back here, or until someone pulls the plug on the forum entirely. You have to face up to it I'm afraid: what is passed off as "flaming" these days is the stuff that got dismissed as Hating back in the day. Hate requires energy and people get weary of it.
Things were a lot easier when people cared enough to make each other laugh.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 19, 2023, 08:37:38 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 19, 2023, 08:37:38 PM
Okay so topics to avoid
Politics. Religion. Flaming Scrotini. Anything that may or may not be details of your life. Divorce. Sex.
I miss anything? Should we just kinda play it by ear and add to the list as I post and hit topics people get upset over?
I wasn't saying BF is a board for that.....and I hardly posting details of my life compared to what other people do post and my point was its a forum.
And my point was that people are done with it. We are knee deep in the eating each other phase now.
Make of that what you will, but in the absence of a few hundred people invested in creating engaging flaming content (ie:humourous insult aimed explicitly at getting their opponents to laugh along with it) this is the scenario you're left with. A pale echo of the ~T~D~T~ created Brawl-Hall ethos. A bunch of hate-fueled content as people snipe from the sidelines that it sucks. Or vote with their mouse clicks when something shinier presents itself.
For at least as long as people insist on dragging it back here, or until someone pulls the plug on the forum entirely. You have to face up to it I'm afraid: what is passed off as "flaming" these days is the stuff that got dismissed as Hating back in the day. Hate requires energy and people get weary of it.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PgcvqxWx6Kg
Things were a lot easier when people cared enough to make each other laugh.
Eggs ackly. There is no "content" in Dove using these forums like a therapist's couch or a priest's confessional box.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 19, 2023, 09:23:05 PM
Post by: Herman on April 19, 2023, 09:23:05 PM
Okay so topics to avoid
Politics. Religion. Flaming Scrotini. Anything that may or may not be details of your life. Divorce. Sex.
Did anybody say the first four aint fair game. Details of your life, it is best to use some discretion. How much do you really want some of the forum wankers to know about what is going on in your life. If I was in your shoes, I would tell the folks you like privately or on Facebook.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Lokmar on April 19, 2023, 11:09:20 PM
Post by: Lokmar on April 19, 2023, 11:09:20 PM
so are you getting a divorce, Dove?
The suspense builds....your life is so interesting
You aint getting any, josephine. Lay the fuk down.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 19, 2023, 11:10:38 PM
Post by: Herman on April 19, 2023, 11:10:38 PM
so are you getting a divorce, Dove?
The suspense builds....your life is so interesting
You aint getting any, josephine. Lay the fuk down.
Aint that the truth
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 19, 2023, 11:53:23 PM
Post by: JOE on April 19, 2023, 11:53:23 PM
In fact I'm the least judgmental person here.
Instead casting aspersions on this person, just listen to what they have ta say.
Be interesting to find out why some people managed to stay married an others don't.
Maybe she just needs somebody to talk to in which case I suggest she contact friends or a support group of similarly affected individuals or women just to talk things out.
Anyways you have a few issues yerself having gone through a bruising divorce, eh Lokmar? Herman too. Maybe you 2 need a support group, Bud. All the agony yer exes put you through and the money you shelled out on a failed marriage.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 19, 2023, 11:58:02 PM
Post by: Herman on April 19, 2023, 11:58:02 PM
Unlike many here, I don't care if Dove talks about her intent to divorce.
Don't care.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 12:01:35 AM
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 12:01:35 AM
Unlike many here, I don't care if Dove talks about her intent to divorce.
Don't care.ac_toofunny You love gossip more than any gal I ever met.
and you, having gone through a divorce, now you're in failing health and you have alcohol and drug addictions problems.
Are you gonna even make it to 60 Herman?
What do you have to say to that?I'm gonna outlast you by at least 20 maybe30 years.
Survival of the fittest, hey Herm?
And yer simply not fit ta survive in this world cuz you won't be around long.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 20, 2023, 12:07:27 AM
Post by: Herman on April 20, 2023, 12:07:27 AM
Don't care.ac_toofunny You love gossip more than any gal I ever met.
and you, having gone through a divorce, now you're in failing health and you have alcohol and drug addictions problems.
Are you gonna even make it to 60 Herman?
What do you have to say to that?I'm gonna outlast you by at least 20 maybe30 years.
Survival of the fittest, hey Herm?
And yer simply not fit ta survive in this world cuz you won't be around long.:laugh3:
Thisw thread is not about my superior physical condition or my super successful marriage. Your jealousy of me is blatantly obvious for all to see. But, it is your problem and this tread should not derailed because of it.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 12:08:23 AM
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 12:08:23 AM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 20, 2023, 12:12:45 AM
Post by: Herman on April 20, 2023, 12:12:45 AM
Y'know Herm....maybe you 'n Lokmar ought read or listen to what Dove has ta say because then it'd give ya 2 time to reflect and realize why your marriages failed and how you failed as husbands, eh?
You can reflect all you want about how jealous you are of my super successful marriage while you remain a broke seventy year old virgin. Reflect how you got to this point at the end of your life. But do it in another thread. As I said, your jealosuy of me is obvious, but it is your problem. Stop derailing discussions.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 20, 2023, 12:43:48 AM
Post by: Anonymous on April 20, 2023, 12:43:48 AM
Okay so topics to avoid
Politics. Religion. Flaming Scrotini. Anything that may or may not be details of your life. Divorce. Sex.
Did anybody say the first four aint fair game.
Thanks for pointing out what I had left out for the sake of brevity. Though I'm sure if she cared to, Dovey could point to instances where complaint had been made about the topics in question. Part of the whole "sniping from the sidelines" thing I was getting at earlier.
Everyone's a critic these days. Or so it seems.
Details of your life, it is best to use some discretion. How much do you really want some of the forum wankers to know about what is going on in your life. If I was in your shoes, I would tell the folks you like privately or on Facebook.Quote from: Herman post_id=498255 time=1681953785 user_id=3396
Both solutions you offer have their problems. Believe me, I know first hand about this. As a matter of fact, I am a staunch advocate of the ethic that once you have divulged such information, what the other does with it is really beyond your control at that point, since the knowledge is now theirs.
Which is why you should be careful of who you tell things to, along with seeking their understanding and assurance that it go no further. If you trust them to honour their word of course.
I've had that trust betrayed before. No big deal, since I am more ready to accept my mistakes and forgive myself for them, but it does come with the added caveat that I don't repeat that same mistake in future. Or to put it another way, if I've shared something in confidence and it ends up getting blabbed, no further confidence will I share with that person.
DMs and Fecesbook are accessible by third parties. Regardless what you think of their sanctity, anything you post there is only private for as long as the person(s) running them say it is. For our purposes, this means that everything Dovey might have or did say there could be considered as public as what she said in open forum on a site that makes no secret of itself being a haven for... well, bastards.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 20, 2023, 12:59:33 AM
Post by: Shen Li on April 20, 2023, 12:59:33 AM
Y'know Herm....maybe you 'n Lokmar ought read or listen to what Dove has ta say because then it'd give ya 2 time to reflect and realize why your marriages failed and how you failed as husbands, eh?
You can reflect all you want about how jealous you are of my super successful marriage while you remain a broke seventy year old virgin. Reflect how you got to this point at the end of your life. But do it in another thread. As I said, your jealosuy of me is obvious, but it is your problem. Stop derailing discussions.
As soon as you and Joe start with the repetitive playground crap in a thread, the topic has been hijacked and any discussion is officially deceased.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 20, 2023, 01:14:35 AM
Post by: Herman on April 20, 2023, 01:14:35 AM
Both solutions you offer have their problems. Believe me, I know first hand about this. As a matter of fact, I am a staunch advocate of the ethic that once you have divulged such information, what the other does with it is really beyond your control at that point, since the knowledge is now theirs.
Which is why you should be careful of who you tell things to, along with seeking their understanding and assurance that it go no further. If you trust them to honour their word of course.
I've had that trust betrayed before. No big deal, since I am more ready to accept my mistakes and forgive myself for them, but it does come with the added caveat that I don't repeat that same mistake in future. Or to put it another way, if I've shared something in confidence and it ends up getting blabbed, no further confidence will I share with that person.
DMs and Fecesbook are accessible by third parties. Regardless what you think of their sanctity, anything you post there is only private for as long as the person(s) running them say it is. For our purposes, this means that everything Dovey might have or did say there could be considered as public as what she said in open forum on a site that makes no secret of itself being a haven for... well, bastards.
I know my suggestions aint perfect. I still think telling her friends Biggie Smiles, and Flea privately is preferable than posting something so personal on a forum for the likes of the deadbeat dad/Flynn, Seamoron, and Apegirl to get their jollies.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 20, 2023, 03:51:46 AM
Post by: Anonymous on April 20, 2023, 03:51:46 AM
Both solutions you offer have their problems. Believe me, I know first hand about this. As a matter of fact, I am a staunch advocate of the ethic that once you have divulged such information, what the other does with it is really beyond your control at that point, since the knowledge is now theirs.
Which is why you should be careful of who you tell things to, along with seeking their understanding and assurance that it go no further. If you trust them to honour their word of course.
I've had that trust betrayed before. No big deal, since I am more ready to accept my mistakes and forgive myself for them, but it does come with the added caveat that I don't repeat that same mistake in future. Or to put it another way, if I've shared something in confidence and it ends up getting blabbed, no further confidence will I share with that person.
DMs and Fecesbook are accessible by third parties. Regardless what you think of their sanctity, anything you post there is only private for as long as the person(s) running them say it is. For our purposes, this means that everything Dovey might have or did say there could be considered as public as what she said in open forum on a site that makes no secret of itself being a haven for... well, bastards.
I know my suggestions aint perfect. I still think telling her friends Biggie Smiles, and Flea privately is preferable than posting something so personal on a forum for the likes of the deadbeat dad/Flynn, Seamoron, and Apegirl to get their jollies.
If your intent is discretion and private discourse, then yeah.
If otherwise... well I'm sure she has her reasons, be it grandstanding, ignorance of consequences or something completely different entirely.
My standpoint is this avenue of "entertainment" has been largely done to death already, even prior to the earliest of the three examples I gave earlier. It's funny you know... of all the people who could claim to be bored by it, I'd have said Treasurer and myself were the two most qualified to raise complaint (tenure, wot?); instead it's ShenLi on the warpath.
Perhaps us older dogs have realised the surest path is to let it run its course uncommented. Yes, that seems likely.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 08:20:38 AM
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 08:20:38 AM
And yeah it seems no matter what I post at least one person has an issue with it.
I DO find it interesting that saying I'm filing divorce is seen as some very private detail of my life. I just don't view my relationship status as some intensely private thing. I don't see it as anymore private than the fact I homeschool.
Now going into WHY I'm filing and all that emotional stuff to me would be a bit more private but I wouldn't see it as "sordid".....the issues that have collapsed my marriage are disturbingly common. Common enough where I was prepared for this possibility for a long time. I even filed once before and went back on it for the sake of keeping my family in tact.
There is no drama going on or anything sordid. I'm not having some affair with my best friend. I enjoy fucking around with people on the troll board. It's so often that people will question any narrative except ones I create .....people take me far too seriously.
And no my stbx is not glued to the boards reading my posts and no nothing I'm posting can be used as any ammo in a divorce. I live in a no fault state and neither of us want any drama. The goal is to build a good coparenting relationship and I'm honestly not optimistic on that happening but he went ahead and went into counseling so we shall see.
It wasn't my intent to bore people with the real details of my kinda boring life and my current relationship problems. I'm unwilling to be a third party in my marriage and I poured my all into it to no avail. So I'm stepping out of it. This isn't some super private matter imo. At least not to earn some big discussion over what should be discussed on forums.
That's just like....my opinion though. I'm not at all worried about peopke getting "jollies" at my expense. Appearances are not the thing I bother worrying about and I've never invested in some front where I'm perfect or without issues....in fact I go pretty opposite.
I wasn't even sure if I was gonna post about it here or post seriously about it. I did save the more serious dialog on this with people like Vitty and such. Most people know I'm a clown and you can't take shit I spew on an open forum all that seriously. I'm having fun with the fact that due to an unpleasant and rather shocking (though it shouldn't be really) twist in events I am now living with my best friend with my mother, kids and cats and rabbit and tree frogs with us.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Garraty_47 on April 20, 2023, 09:03:29 AM
Post by: Garraty_47 on April 20, 2023, 09:03:29 AM
Never having been married or had kids I'm the last person someone should solicit for marital advice.
As Sam L. Jackson so eloquently stated:
"I don't take relationship advice from single mutherfuckers."
When a grown-ass woman is making grown-ass decisions about her own life it's not about me or what I'd do.
How would I even know *what* I'd do?
I'll leave the judgements to others.
I'm only qualified to listen, at best.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 09:16:09 AM
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 09:16:09 AM
I'm just glad you had others with whom you could vent as well.
Never having been married or had kids I'm the last person someone should solicit for marital advice.
As Sam L. Jackson so eloquently stated:
"I don't take relationship advice from single mutherfuckers."
When a grown-ass woman is making grown-ass decisions about her own life it's not about me or what I'd do.
How would I even know *what* I'd do?
I'll leave the judgements to others.
I'm only qualified to listen, at best.
Obviously I'm not looking for marital advice lol
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Garraty_47 on April 20, 2023, 09:20:11 AM
Post by: Garraty_47 on April 20, 2023, 09:20:11 AM
Obviously I'm not looking for marital advice lol
Good, 'cause I got nothin'. LoL
As long as you're all safe and happy the rest is only details.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: DKG on April 20, 2023, 10:00:42 AM
Post by: DKG on April 20, 2023, 10:00:42 AM
I'm just glad you had others with whom you could vent as well.
Never having been married or had kids I'm the last person someone should solicit for marital advice.
As Sam L. Jackson so eloquently stated:
"I don't take relationship advice from single mutherfuckers."
When a grown-ass woman is making grown-ass decisions about her own life it's not about me or what I'd do.
How would I even know *what* I'd do?
I'll leave the judgements to others.
I'm only qualified to listen, at best.
I too have never been married nor have I had kids. My second career will not be a marriage and family therapist. In the mean time, I'll restrict my advice to investment and retirement strategies.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 10:05:00 AM
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 10:05:00 AM
Obviously I'm not looking for marital advice lol
Good, 'cause I got nothin'. LoL
As long as you're all safe and happy the rest is only details.
Safe and happy but sick as fuck. And paranoid because M has a compromised immune system from his MS meds. So I'm in here with him while he tries to tell me it's "not like it's AIDs". He sleeps to Tim Pool podcasts and I had Tim Pool discussing trannies in my dreams lol.
The second I feel the body temperature go up I'm hauling him to the hospital. I have mom immunity and even my ass is kicked. Even the kids are down. Haven't even HEARD them yet today. Everyone is down.
Yesterday I thought this was just a mild cold.....today I feel like absolute death and I'm completely freaked out about M. Sent my stbx mother in law a strongly worded email about how Squish cannot be bringing germs over here so she has to let me know if anyone is sick. She's got weird ideas about viruses and I don't want my last living close person to die.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: It's Poppy on April 20, 2023, 10:12:38 AM
Post by: It's Poppy on April 20, 2023, 10:12:38 AM
The most entertaining thread I saw so far this year was when Erica Mena went to Chunky-E-E-Cheesey and told us all about it, that was fun.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: DKG on April 20, 2023, 10:20:19 AM
Post by: DKG on April 20, 2023, 10:20:19 AM
But...but these are not really old style flame forums anymore, do you think people like Seacreeper and Admin, 75 plus year old men would even be acknowledged in Alt.flame or Brawl Hall at it's peak, nope...they would have been plonked and shit-canned within a day. The whole summer of Poofer as content was the end of entertaining flaming and the beginning of toxic trash talking and PI leaking. Now if you actually read BF all you see is a weird and quite disturbing fascination with mentioning children and calling that flaming...or old men spamming the same photos day after day...or rehashing the details of past failed relationships day after day.
The most entertaining thread I saw so far this year was when Erica Mena went to Chunky-E-E-Cheesey and told us all about it, that was fun.
I don't believe flaming ever was as enetertaining as some of you claim it was. But, Seamoron and Admin are forum filler and nothing more. Neither is capable of being entertaining, or even posting a cogent thought for that matter.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 11:01:53 AM
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 11:01:53 AM
I mean this has been a 5 page discussion at this point.
And yeah it seems no matter what I post at least one person has an issue with it.
....because they're (ultra) conservatives, Dove.
Often very self-righteous types.
And they think everything should fit a routine or profile - even if it means fitting a square peg into a round hole.
Interestingly, those of us who are more liberal tend to be more accepting of your posts even tho you often think otherwise.
Actually from a detached non-judgmental POV I'd like to understand why marriages break apart, as so many do. What the issues are in them etc.
Anyways not my life or to pass judgment upon it.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 20, 2023, 11:08:51 AM
Post by: Anonymous on April 20, 2023, 11:08:51 AM
I mean this has been a 5 page discussion at this point.
And yeah it seems no matter what I post at least one person has an issue with it.
....because I am a gossip seeking old virgin Dove.
And I think I am entitled to other people's PI which I can use against them.
Interestingly, those of us who are more nosy tend to be less accepting of your posts even tho you often think otherwise.
Actually from a busy-body POV I'd like to understand why marriages break apart, so I can talk about why I am glad I am still a virgin. What my poor socialization issues areetc.
Anyways your life tell me more about it and I will write it down.
This is what I meant to post.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 11:12:38 AM
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 11:12:38 AM
I mean this has been a 5 page discussion at this point.
And yeah it seems no matter what I post at least one person has an issue with it.
....because they're (ultra) conservatives, Dove.
Often very self-righteous types.
And they think everything should fit a routine or profile - even if it means fitting a square peg into a round hole.(//%3C/s%3E%3CURL%20url=%22https://www.jobjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/square-peg-round-hole_opt.jpg%22%3E%3CLINK_TEXT%20text=%22https://www.jobjoy.com/wp-content/uploa%20...%20le_opt.jpg%22%3Ehttps://www.jobjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/square-peg-round-hole_opt.jpg%3C/LINK_TEXT%3E%3C/URL%3E%3Ce%3E)
Interestingly, those of us who are more liberal tend to be more accepting of your posts even tho you often think otherwise.
Actually from a detached non-judgmental POV I'd like to understand why marriages break apart, as so many do. What the issues are in them etc.
Anyways not my life or to pass judgment upon it.
Joe the left is far more judgy and sanctimonious and part of the reason these "ultra cons" don't like me talking about this is because they don't want the leftards to get "jollies" off of it.
You see much more self righteous preaching from the leftists.
Authentically liberal minded people are considered far right by today's standards. Most of us have issues and have been divorced and have experienced failures. That's just life.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 11:13:19 AM
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 11:13:19 AM
....because I am a gossip seeking old virgin Dove.
And I think I am entitled to other people's PI which I can use against them.
Interestingly, those of us who are more nosy tend to be less accepting of your posts even tho you often think otherwise.
Actually from a busy-body POV I'd like to understand why marriages break apart, so I can talk about why I am glad I am still a virgin. What my poor socialization issues areetc.
Anyways your life tell me more about it and I will write it down.
This is what I meant to post.
Okay then lol
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 11:20:13 AM
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 11:20:13 AM
....because they're (ultra) conservatives, Dove.
Often very self-righteous types.
And they think everything should fit a routine or profile - even if it means fitting a square peg into a round hole.(//%3C/s%3E%3CURL%20url=%22https://www.jobjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/square-peg-round-hole_opt.jpg%22%3E%3CLINK_TEXT%20text=%22https://www.jobjoy.com/wp-content/uploa%20...%20le_opt.jpg%22%3Ehttps://www.jobjoy.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/square-peg-round-hole_opt.jpg%3C/LINK_TEXT%3E%3C/URL%3E%3Ce%3E)
Interestingly, those of us who are more liberal tend to be more accepting of your posts even tho you often think otherwise.
Actually from a detached non-judgmental POV I'd like to understand why marriages break apart, as so many do. What the issues are in them etc.
Anyways not my life or to pass judgment upon it.
Joe the left is far more judgy and sanctimonious and part of the reason these "ultra cons" don't like me talking about this is because they don't want the leftards to get "jollies" off of it.
You see much more self righteous preaching from the leftists.
Authentically liberal minded people are considered far right by today's standards. Most of us have issues and have been divorced and have experienced failures. That's just life.
...and yet, who's bitching the most about your posts, Dove?
All the ultra conservatives in this forum Shen Li, Herman, etc.
Me? I don't care. Do what you want.
Same with your body. Get an abortion whatever.
I don't pass judgement on others over personal decisions they make in their own lives.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 20, 2023, 11:20:34 AM
Post by: Anonymous on April 20, 2023, 11:20:34 AM
But...but these are not really old style flame forums anymore, do you think people like Seacreeper and Admin, 75 plus year old men would even be acknowledged in Alt.flame or Brawl Hall at it's peak, nope...they would have been plonked and shit-canned within a day. The whole summer of Poofer as content was the end of entertaining flaming and the beginning of toxic trash talking and PI leaking. Now if you actually read BF all you see is a weird and quite disturbing fascination with mentioning children and calling that flaming...or old men spamming the same photos day after day...or rehashing the details of past failed relationships day after day.
The most entertaining thread I saw so far this year was when Erica Mena went to Chunky-E-E-Cheesey and told us all about it, that was fun.
Is that why you're there every day? Another man/women with dolls
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 20, 2023, 11:22:14 AM
Post by: Anonymous on April 20, 2023, 11:22:14 AM
This is what I meant to post.
Okay then lol
You're a good poster Dove. Keep up the good work
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 20, 2023, 11:26:23 AM
Post by: Anonymous on April 20, 2023, 11:26:23 AM
Joe the left is far more judgy and sanctimonious and part of the reason these "ultra cons" don't like me talking about this is because they don't want the leftards to get "jollies" off of it.
You see much more self righteous preaching from the leftists.
Authentically liberal minded people are considered far right by today's standards. Most of us have issues and have been divorced and have experienced failures. That's just life.
...and yet, who wants more of your PI, Dove?
Not the normal married people in this forum Shen Li, Herman, etc.
Me? I care. Do what you want, but I want to write down all the details.
Same with your body. Get an abortion whatever, but tell me about it.
I always pass judgement on others over personal decisions they make in their own lives, but I need PI to do that.
Sorry, I made a mistake again. This is what I meant.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 11:33:04 AM
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 11:33:04 AM
This is what I meant to post.
Okay then lol
While I rather enjoy reading your posts & the exuberant personality you bring to tese forums, I tend to think of you as somewhat of a 'Hot Mess' Dove.
...not exactly 'wifey material'.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 12:40:48 PM
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 12:40:48 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Lokmar on April 20, 2023, 12:50:34 PM
Post by: Lokmar on April 20, 2023, 12:50:34 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 12:57:06 PM
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 12:57:06 PM
I'm sick and on that time of the month. I use reusable period products. So the dog went into the bathroom at some point today and had a party with my used menstrual underwear and cloth pads. They were drug all over the bathroom.
Good shit.
This is him right now....sitting here looking like this
Yeah I know it's a mess....I'm still moving in.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 01:03:50 PM
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 01:03:50 PM
Joe totally doesn't judge people. Except when he is judging people lol.
Well Dove, here's how I'd judge myself....
I'm definitely not 'parenting material', just the easy uncle type.
In that regard, if I were to become a Dad, I'd probably wanna be more like Lokmar.
Tough Love, Touch Cop kinda guy. Lay on the wood when necessary. Slightly evil to his kids at times.
I'd think a guy would have ta be in these challenging times or else he'd git eaten alive by his own kids.
If I were a Dad, I wanna be more like that, eh?
Geez I'd make a terrible dad
lol
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 01:36:44 PM
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 01:36:44 PM
Cheating and meddling mothers. Or any meddling people really. Marriage should involve TWO people only.
I'm not marriage material because I don't chose proper partners.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Trump’s Niece on April 20, 2023, 01:38:46 PM
Post by: Trump’s Niece on April 20, 2023, 01:38:46 PM
I feel you're gonna regret this just like you did with Poofer. It's literally the same situation. First you were mad at Gene cuz of video games. Now it's cuz he asked his for help in buying a place for you guys to live. I think you're living in the moment and not realizing the impact this will have.
I wouldn't be your friend if I sat here said nothing. Gene is a good guy and I hope you don't end up regretting this.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 20, 2023, 02:32:07 PM
Post by: Herman on April 20, 2023, 02:32:07 PM
I know my suggestions aint perfect. I still think telling her friends Biggie Smiles, and Flea privately is preferable than posting something so personal on a forum for the likes of the deadbeat dad/Flynn, Seamoron, and Apegirl to get their jollies.
If your intent is discretion and private discourse, then yeah.
If otherwise... well I'm sure she has her reasons, be it grandstanding, ignorance of consequences or something completely different entirely.
My standpoint is this avenue of "entertainment" has been largely done to death already, even prior to the earliest of the three examples I gave earlier. It's funny you know... of all the people who could claim to be bored by it, I'd have said Treasurer and myself were the two most qualified to raise complaint (tenure, wot?); instead it's ShenLi on the warpath.
Perhaps us older dogs have realised the surest path is to let it run its course uncommented. Yes, that seems likely.
Ya, I think discretion is important. Like I said, who the hell wants the deadbeat dad/Flynn, Seamoron, Apegirl, plus the two gossiping stalking incels, Joe and Eddie the Chug knowing shit that aint their business.
Ya bring up a good point that Dove might be doing this for enetertainment reasons. But, with what got left on forums, is anybody really entertained?
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 02:35:41 PM
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 02:35:41 PM
Dovey, we have been friends a long time. So I need to be straight with you.
I feel you're gonna regret this just like you did with Poofer. It's literally the same situation. First you were mad at Gene cuz of video games. Now it's cuz he asked his for help in buying a place for you guys to live. I think you're living in the moment and not realizing the impact this will have.
I wouldn't be your friend if I sat here said nothing. Gene is a good guy and I hope you don't end up regretting this.
....what I was talkin about earlier Erica.
I think Dove needs a Big Sistah like you to guide and counsel her.
A support person or group. A confidant.
Maybe you guys oughta talk on the phone to dicuss her situation.
Since yer a no nonsense straight talkin type.
Sista ta Sistah. That's what I think she oughta do 1st before pullin' the trigga.
Maybe that's why sometimes talking about it out loud but then in private with someone such as yourself might be beneficial to all parties involved.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 20, 2023, 02:43:08 PM
Post by: Herman on April 20, 2023, 02:43:08 PM
...and yet, who wants more of your PI, Dove?
Not the normal married people in this forum Shen Li, Herman, etc.
Me? I care. Do what you want, but I want to write down all the details.
Same with your body. Get an abortion whatever, but tell me about it.
I always pass judgement on others over personal decisions they make in their own lives, but I need PI to do that.
Sorry, I made a mistake again. This is what I meant.
There ya have it Dove. A known online stalker wants your personal info. Joe and Eddie the Chug are the only two people on these forums that have been known to stalk posters in real life. They are two sides of the same coin. These are the type of folks that want you to spill the beans about everything going on in your life. Think about that.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 02:49:13 PM
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 02:49:13 PM
Dovey, we have been friends a long time. So I need to be straight with you.
I feel you're gonna regret this just like you did with Poofer. It's literally the same situation. First you were mad at Gene cuz of video games. Now it's cuz he asked his for help in buying a place for you guys to live. I think you're living in the moment and not realizing the impact this will have.
I wouldn't be your friend if I sat here said nothing. Gene is a good guy and I hope you don't end up regretting this.
....what I was talkin about earlier Erica.
I think Dove needs a Big Sistah like you to guide and counsel her.
A support person or group. A confidant.
Maybe you guys oughta talk on the phone to dicuss her situation.
Since yer a no nonsense straight talkin type.
Sista ta Sistah. That's what I think she oughta do 1st before pullin' the trigga.
Maybe that's why sometimes talking about it out loud but then in private with someone such as yourself might be beneficial to all parties involved.
Herman, I know yer still an overgrown middle aged adolescent with a drinking problem, but hey - try ta be an adult for once.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 20, 2023, 02:55:50 PM
Post by: Herman on April 20, 2023, 02:55:50 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 03:02:33 PM
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 03:02:33 PM
Sorry, I made a mistake again. This is what I meant.
There ya have it Dove. A known online stalker wants your personal info. Joe and Eddie the Chug are the only two people on these forums that have been known to stalk posters in real life. They are two sides of the same coin. These are the type of folks that want you to spill the beans about everything going on in your life. Think about that.
Okay but what are they gonna do? Besides possibly masturbate?
They don't have my address.....don't know any of our names...wouldn't know any of us if they passed us on the street.
I'm divorcing. A very common thing (sadly) that millions of people do every year. It's really not that exciting lol.
What is Joe or Eddie gonna do besides be weird on the internet? Absolutely nothing. Now if they start showing up at my house or contacting me and people in my life....that's a whole other ball game.
Do you think they are THAT weird? I mean all they can do here is give us material to make fun of them with.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 03:04:14 PM
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 03:04:14 PM
See Dove, why you shouldn't post personal struggles in your life. Who wants to know your business the most. Why it is the two RCMP known stalkers Joe and Eddie the Chug.
actually Herman I just suggested that Dove and Erica should talk about the matter in private and off the forum. Dove expressed her situation and that's OK, but she should take the next step and talk to Erica in private about it ad keep the details to themselves
See? I didn't pass any judgment on her situation. Nor do I wish to pry beyond the initial stage.
Oh an BTW what White folk and others in this forum oughta understand about Shen Li's culture - there's a lot of mental illness and suicides because too many people keep too much bottled up inside for too long There's a lotta mental illness in Chinese culture which is never talked about publicy
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 03:05:05 PM
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 03:05:05 PM
See Dove, why you shouldn't post personal struggles in your life. Who wants to know your business the most. Why it is the two RCMP known stalkers Joe and Eddie the Chug.
I'm not struggling, Herman. This wasn't an easy decision and I mulled over it hard for a while. The whole fuckery with the house sold the D. It's not a struggle. I'm certain.
Just shifting into single status after 12 years is kinda weird and scary but I'm good
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 03:08:45 PM
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 03:08:45 PM
There ya have it Dove. A known online stalker wants your personal info. Joe and Eddie the Chug are the only two people on these forums that have been known to stalk posters in real life. They are two sides of the same coin. These are the type of folks that want you to spill the beans about everything going on in your life. Think about that.
Okay but what are they gonna do? Besides possibly masturbate?
They don't have my address.....don't know any of our names...wouldn't know any of us if they passed us on the street.
I'm divorcing. A very common thing (sadly) that millions of people do every year. It's really not that exciting lol.
What is Joe or Eddie gonna do besides be weird on the internet? Absolutely nothing. Now if they start showing up at my house or contacting me and people in my life....that's a whole other ball game.
Do you think they are THAT weird? I mean all they can do here is give us material to make fun of them with.
Without passing judgment on your situation, I think you should contact Erica and discuss the matter in private Dove. Maybe you can resolve the situation better that way.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 20, 2023, 03:10:42 PM
Post by: Herman on April 20, 2023, 03:10:42 PM
See Dove, why you shouldn't post personal struggles in your life. Who wants to know your business the most. Why it is the two RCMP known stalkers Joe and Eddie the Chug.
I'm not struggling, Herman. This wasn't an easy decision and I mulled over it hard for a while. The whole fuckery with the house sold the D. It's not a struggle. I'm certain.
Just shifting into single status after 12 years is kinda weird and scary but I'm good:thumbup:
Anything you decide to do online aint none of my affairs kid. You do you. I am merely pointing out the unsavoury characters like the elderly stalking virgin who record personal info. They aint the type of folks I would be telling anything when I am sober. Notice I said sober. I went on a three day booze and cocaine bender when I posted about my cancer scare. I would not have have told the gossiping stalkers that if I was straight at the time.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 03:18:51 PM
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 03:18:51 PM
Dovey, we have been friends a long time. So I need to be straight with you.
I feel you're gonna regret this just like you did with Poofer. It's literally the same situation. First you were mad at Gene cuz of video games. Now it's cuz he asked his for help in buying a place for you guys to live. I think you're living in the moment and not realizing the impact this will have.
I wouldn't be your friend if I sat here said nothing. Gene is a good guy and I hope you don't end up regretting this.
He didn't ask for help. Him and his mother plotted this behind my back and intentionally lied and didn't tell me anything until I was moved out of the old house and here at my best friend's.
And on top of this his controling mother brought conditions to the table and one of which is a medication my mother takes. They figured once I was at a friend's house I'd be motivated enough to leave that i would just agree to anything.
This whole thing wasn't even nessesary because we didn't even need any help.
It wasn't just video games. This shit with his mother has been a problem for a long time, even his counselors at the program put restrictions on how much communication and "help" he could have from his mother while there. It is a PROBLEM.
And this was the one damn thing I wanted in order to work this marriage. Let our life and decisions be between us. I gave this YEARS and at this point my options are accept thar his mother will be the one making all the decisions in my life or move on and be free of it. I'm chosing to let him and his mother have it. I can't change him.
And HER husband has even said he will divorce her if she doesn't stop getting involved like this with her adult sons. It's taken everything in me not to contact him and tell him what happened because he doesn't know and he would be furious.
What they did is mental. And disgusting. And I have no respect or trust for him anymore. He knows what he did was wrong.....he blew my input and suggestions off for two years and planned this shit with his mother.
Right now the only thing I regret is wasting the past several years of my life in a 3 way marriage with a man who will deceive and manipulate me. Hopefully I'll be less angry and bitter given some time.
He is a decent guy. He isn't a bad guy. No one is that simple though. He is way too dependent emotionally and mentally on his mother and she's controling. If I stay in this marriage I may as well not bother having any boundaries or even pretending IM the wife. I won't be.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 03:20:36 PM
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 03:20:36 PM
I'm not struggling, Herman. This wasn't an easy decision and I mulled over it hard for a while. The whole fuckery with the house sold the D. It's not a struggle. I'm certain.
Just shifting into single status after 12 years is kinda weird and scary but I'm good:thumbup:
Anything you decide to do online aint none of my affairs kid. You do you. I am merely pointing out the unsavoury characters like the elderly stalking virgin who record personal info. They aint the type of folks I would be telling anything when I am sober. Notice I said sober. I went on a three day booze and cocaine bender when I posted about my cancer scare. I would not have have told the gossiping stalkers that if I was straight at the time.
You should be able to talk about heavy things like a cancer scare and give those of us who care about you the opportunity to be supportive. Don't worry about the unsavory characters.....none of them can do anything bit be weird on the internet.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 20, 2023, 04:28:05 PM
Post by: Herman on April 20, 2023, 04:28:05 PM
Anything you decide to do online aint none of my affairs kid. You do you. I am merely pointing out the unsavoury characters like the elderly stalking virgin who record personal info. They aint the type of folks I would be telling anything when I am sober. Notice I said sober. I went on a three day booze and cocaine bender when I posted about my cancer scare. I would not have have told the gossiping stalkers that if I was straight at the time.
You should be able to talk about heavy things like a cancer scare and give those of us who care about you the opportunity to be supportive. Don't worry about the unsavory characters.....none of them can do anything bit be weird on the internet.
I regret handling it the way I did. Like I said, if I was sober at the time, I would not have shot my mouth off on Flea Trap knowing some of the wankers that are on these boards.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 04:46:01 PM
Post by: JOE on April 20, 2023, 04:46:01 PM
One important thing - is ho wil this affect the development of your young daughter Squish? Seems she is very close to her father.
I'd be concerned about the daughter and how a divorce might affect her.
Not my child but I empathize with her situation.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 05:40:02 PM
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 05:40:02 PM
Dove, while I don't think it was wrong to bring up this situation as the OP had suggessted, I think at this pointyou should seek some intervention of a professional & talk it over more with your friends and a support group of similarly affected women.
One important thing - is ho wil this affect the development of your young daughter Squish? Seems she is very close to her father.
I'd be concerned about the daughter and how a divorce might affect her.
Not my child but I empathize with her situation.
See I draw the line at discussing my daughters that deeply or going into any sort of counseling and other people we have in our life.
And I think it's weird to think that a few forum posts with the basic current event is the entirety of a whole ass situation and assuming that a person saying they are filing divorce isn't talking to people in their real lives.
Why are you making these wild assumptions?
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 20, 2023, 08:42:23 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 20, 2023, 08:42:23 PM
Joe wrote:Quote
I'm the least judgmental person here.
BUT
Joe wrote:Quote
you, having gone through a divorce, now you're in failing health and you have alcohol and drug addictions problems.
Are you gonna even make it to 60 Herman?
Joe wrote:Quote
Herman, I know yer still an overgrown middle aged adolescent with a drinking problem
And Dove commented on Joe the judgmental mole
Dove wrote:Quote
Joe totally doesn't judge people. Except when he is judging people
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 09:03:06 PM
Post by: Dove on April 20, 2023, 09:03:06 PM
At least Shen is forward and open with her disapproval and judgements lol
"Hey Dove I'm the least judgey person here. But you should get counseling and think of the kids....you just ain't marriage material. But I ain't judging ya!"
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 20, 2023, 09:06:36 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 20, 2023, 09:06:36 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 20, 2023, 09:12:22 PM
Post by: Herman on April 20, 2023, 09:12:22 PM
Not much worse than a judgey fucker who thinks he is the least judgey.
At least Shen is forward and open with her disapproval and judgements lol
"Hey Dove I'm the least judgey person here. But you should get counseling and think of the kids....you just ain't marriage material. But I ain't judging ya!":laugh3:
Joe is a lonely attention starved old wanker. Ignore his trolling and he will disappear.
I do not think old Shen Li is judging your actions in your private life, but she is judging the way you disclose them. I think she said something like she accepts the way you people are, but. Wait a minute, she is being judgmental and racist.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 20, 2023, 09:41:55 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 20, 2023, 09:41:55 PM
Dovey, we have been friends a long time. So I need to be straight with you.
I feel you're gonna regret this just like you did with Poofer. It's literally the same situation. First you were mad at Gene cuz of video games. Now it's cuz he asked his for help in buying a place for you guys to live. I think you're living in the moment and not realizing the impact this will have.
I wouldn't be your friend if I sat here said nothing. Gene is a good guy and I hope you don't end up regretting this.
White trash being herself. Dove likes living her life like Jerry Springer episodes. That is none of my business and it was not why I started this thread.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 20, 2023, 09:45:32 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 20, 2023, 09:45:32 PM
Dovey, we have been friends a long time. So I need to be straight with you.
I feel you're gonna regret this just like you did with Poofer. It's literally the same situation. First you were mad at Gene cuz of video games. Now it's cuz he asked his for help in buying a place for you guys to live. I think you're living in the moment and not realizing the impact this will have.
I wouldn't be your friend if I sat here said nothing. Gene is a good guy and I hope you don't end up regretting this.
He didn't ask for help. Him and his mother plotted this behind my back and intentionally lied and didn't tell me anything until I was moved out of the old house and here at my best friend's.
And on top of this his controling mother brought conditions to the table and one of which is a medication my mother takes. They figured once I was at a friend's house I'd be motivated enough to leave that i would just agree to anything.
This whole thing wasn't even nessesary because we didn't even need any help.
It wasn't just video games. This shit with his mother has been a problem for a long time, even his counselors at the program put restrictions on how much communication and "help" he could have from his mother while there. It is a PROBLEM.
And this was the one damn thing I wanted in order to work this marriage. Let our life and decisions be between us. I gave this YEARS and at this point my options are accept thar his mother will be the one making all the decisions in my life or move on and be free of it. I'm chosing to let him and his mother have it. I can't change him.
And HER husband has even said he will divorce her if she doesn't stop getting involved like this with her adult sons. It's taken everything in me not to contact him and tell him what happened because he doesn't know and he would be furious.
What they did is mental. And disgusting. And I have no respect or trust for him anymore. He knows what he did was wrong.....he blew my input and suggestions off for two years and planned this shit with his mother.
Right now the only thing I regret is wasting the past several years of my life in a 3 way marriage with a man who will deceive and manipulate me. Hopefully I'll be less angry and bitter given some time.
He is a decent guy. He isn't a bad guy. No one is that simple though. He is way too dependent emotionally and mentally on his mother and she's controling. If I stay in this marriage I may as well not bother having any boundaries or even pretending IM the wife. I won't be.
Thank you for sharing more of your personal drama :. Now I can sleep soundly tonight.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 20, 2023, 11:39:22 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 20, 2023, 11:39:22 PM
But...but these are not really old style flame forums anymore, do you think people like Seacreeper and Admin, 75 plus year old men would even be acknowledged in Alt.flame or Brawl Hall at it's peak, nope...they would have been plonked and shit-canned within a day. The whole summer of Poofer as content was the end of entertaining flaming and the beginning of toxic trash talking and PI leaking. Now if you actually read BF all you see is a weird and quite disturbing fascination with mentioning children and calling that flaming...or old men spamming the same photos day after day...or rehashing the details of past failed relationships day after day.
The most entertaining thread I saw so far this year was when Erica Mena went to Chunky-E-E-Cheesey and told us all about it, that was fun.
I don't believe flaming ever was as enetertaining as some of you claim it was.
That's probably because you've never seen it. Time has long since passed since actual flaming was being attempted on the regular, it was an infrequent enough occurrence by the time Bricktop arrived at BH and that was two decades ago now.
But, Seamoron and Admin are forum filler...Quote from: DKG post_id=498323 time=1682000419 user_id=3390
Not even.
If your intent is discretion and private discourse, then yeah.
If otherwise... well I'm sure she has her reasons, be it grandstanding, ignorance of consequences or something completely different entirely.
My standpoint is this avenue of "entertainment" has been largely done to death already, even prior to the earliest of the three examples I gave earlier. It's funny you know... of all the people who could claim to be bored by it, I'd have said Treasurer and myself were the two most qualified to raise complaint (tenure, wot?); instead it's ShenLi on the warpath.
Perhaps us older dogs have realised the surest path is to let it run its course uncommented. Yes, that seems likely.
Ya, I think discretion is important. Like I said, who the hell wants the deadbeat dad/Flynn, Seamoron, Apegirl, plus the two gossiping stalking incels, Joe and Eddie the Chug knowing shit that aint their business.
Ya bring up a good point that Dove might be doing this for enetertainment reasons. But, with what got left on forums, is anybody really entertained?
Some probably are I imagine, perhaps the kind of people who would run about pretending the very fact people are responding to it at all as proof of intertest... which kinda says more about their own low expectations than it does anyone else's state of mind. Not that they see anything wrong in that of course, they revel in their mediocrity. Pigs wallowing in mud have more dignity.
BTW what White folk and others in this forum oughta understand about Shen Li's culture - there's a lot of mental illness and suicides because too many people keep too much bottled up inside for too long There's a lotta mental illness in Chinese culture which is never talked about publicy
You say that as though the various western cultures are strangers to mental illness and suicides. They aren't.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 21, 2023, 12:42:24 AM
Post by: Anonymous on April 21, 2023, 12:42:24 AM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 21, 2023, 12:50:22 AM
Post by: Anonymous on April 21, 2023, 12:50:22 AM
Dove reminds me of that old Beatles song, Whole Lotta Love. She has got a lotta love to give and that is a good thing so don't trash her for it. Mick Jagger was right about her she does have a Whole Lotta Love. Some of those 1950's classics are timeless. Let Dove do her own rockin'.
Pssst, that was Led Zeppelin.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 21, 2023, 03:20:22 AM
Post by: JOE on April 21, 2023, 03:20:22 AM
Not much worse than a judgey fucker who thinks he is the least judgey.
At least Shen is forward and open with her disapproval and judgements lol
"Hey Dove I'm the least judgey person here. But you should get counseling and think of the kids....you just ain't marriage material. But I ain't judging ya!":laugh3:
Ah Dove....but did I side with you husband? No
did I side with his mother/your mother in law? No
Did I side with you? No
with regards to seeking professional help, I omitted to mention that your husband should seek counselling as well. So if you sought counselling so should he. I think that's an equal and impartial assessment don't you?
At no point did I state that you should or should not stay together.
I didn't favor one outcome nor the other.
So, I think that is unbiased, don't you?
And it was Erica who stated a rather strong opinion that divorce should be averted if possible. However, I didn't weigh in with that opinion, only that a conversation with her might be helpful. That's all I said, and I never took sides in your latest life chapter
BTW Dove, where I live in Canada when couples get a divorce, I believe the family court often sets a requirement that they attend courses to reflect upon their actions. among other things, to determine where and why their relationship faltered. I know friends of mine did along with hefty child support. I'm sure that Herman, who had gone though a divorce had also been asked to undertake a similar process as well.
When I was paying off my parking fines at the court house, there was a division for family court next to the traffic fines and I saw men and women in rooms who were required to study course material following their marital breakup.
It almost look like some purgatory or penance. A remedial school for divorced couples. The reality setting in after the party is over and the bills come due. Does such a process exist in Michigan?
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 21, 2023, 03:34:35 AM
Post by: Anonymous on April 21, 2023, 03:34:35 AM
Dove reminds me of that old Beatles song, Whole Lotta Love. She has got a lotta love to give and that is a good thing so don't trash her for it. Mick Jagger was right about her she does have a Whole Lotta Love. Some of those 1950's classics are timeless. Let Dove do her own rockin'.
Pssst, that was Led Zeppelin.
Pssst, that Guest was Muddying the Waters.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 21, 2023, 04:46:58 AM
Post by: Dove on April 21, 2023, 04:46:58 AM
The mother in law must be quite old, is there any chance she'll die soon and things will be naturally sorted?
Noooo....she's in her 60s, super healthy and well off. She's just like this. A micromanager and meddler.
There js a lot of history there and I can kinda see why she is the way she is. I've tried very hard to foster a normal relationship with her but she's always very agenda driven.
Besides even if she was old and kicked soon, I can't just get over the lying and manipulation and the betrayal.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 21, 2023, 04:50:13 AM
Post by: Dove on April 21, 2023, 04:50:13 AM
Not much worse than a judgey fucker who thinks he is the least judgey.
At least Shen is forward and open with her disapproval and judgements lol
"Hey Dove I'm the least judgey person here. But you should get counseling and think of the kids....you just ain't marriage material. But I ain't judging ya!":laugh3:
Ah Dove....but did I side with you husband? No
did I side with his mother/your mother in law? No
Did I side with you? No
with regards to seeking professional help, I omitted to mention that your husband should seek counselling as well. So if you sought counselling so should he. I think that's an equal and impartial assessment don't you?
At no point did I state that you should or should not stay together.
I didn't favor one outcome nor the other.
So, I think that is unbiased, don't you?
And it was Erica who stated a rather strong opinion that divorce should be averted if possible. However, I didn't weigh in with that opinion, only that a conversation with her might be helpful. That's all I said, and I never took sides in your latest life chapter
BTW Dove, where I live in Canada when couples get a divorce, I believe the family court often sets a requirement that they attend courses to reflect upon their actions. among other things, to determine where and why their relationship faltered. I know friends of mine did along with hefty child support. I'm sure that Herman, who had gone though a divorce had also been asked to undertake a similar process as well.
When I was paying off my parking fines at the court house, there was a division for family court next to the traffic fines and I saw men and women in rooms who were required to study course material following their marital breakup.
It almost look like some purgatory or penance. A remedial school for divorced couples. The reality setting in after the party is over and the bills come due. Does such a process exist in Michigan?
You were still judgey though after saying you were the least judgey lol
Family court is a nightmare for some. I do not forsee that being a nightmare for us. 50/50 custody and I'm not gonna be bent on child support. He wouldn't neglect taking care of the kids at all.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 21, 2023, 04:58:31 AM
Post by: Dove on April 21, 2023, 04:58:31 AM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 21, 2023, 04:58:39 AM
Post by: Dove on April 21, 2023, 04:58:39 AM
He didn't ask for help. Him and his mother plotted this behind my back and intentionally lied and didn't tell me anything until I was moved out of the old house and here at my best friend's.
And on top of this his controling mother brought conditions to the table and one of which is a medication my mother takes. They figured once I was at a friend's house I'd be motivated enough to leave that i would just agree to anything.
This whole thing wasn't even nessesary because we didn't even need any help.
It wasn't just video games. This shit with his mother has been a problem for a long time, even his counselors at the program put restrictions on how much communication and "help" he could have from his mother while there. It is a PROBLEM.
And this was the one damn thing I wanted in order to work this marriage. Let our life and decisions be between us. I gave this YEARS and at this point my options are accept thar his mother will be the one making all the decisions in my life or move on and be free of it. I'm chosing to let him and his mother have it. I can't change him.
And HER husband has even said he will divorce her if she doesn't stop getting involved like this with her adult sons. It's taken everything in me not to contact him and tell him what happened because he doesn't know and he would be furious.
What they did is mental. And disgusting. And I have no respect or trust for him anymore. He knows what he did was wrong.....he blew my input and suggestions off for two years and planned this shit with his mother.
Right now the only thing I regret is wasting the past several years of my life in a 3 way marriage with a man who will deceive and manipulate me. Hopefully I'll be less angry and bitter given some time.
He is a decent guy. He isn't a bad guy. No one is that simple though. He is way too dependent emotionally and mentally on his mother and she's controling. If I stay in this marriage I may as well not bother having any boundaries or even pretending IM the wife. I won't be.
Thank you for sharing more of your personal drama :. Now I can sleep soundly tonight.:001_rolleyes:
Lol the only drama here is you starting a thread like this in the first place. I wasn't even posting about it here.
You must be really sheltered if you think any of my "personal drama" qualifies for Jerry Springer. You shouldn't get so invested in shit people post that you end up having a cyber tantrum.
So far YOU have brought more drama to the topic than anyone else.
We hear you, Shen. You don't approve of divorce or people posting about anything happening in their lives. You think I'm "white trash" and "self destructing" and a host of other nonsense that just isn't gonna be taken seriously by me in the slightest. People are actively chosing not to care. Your options now are stick around and gnash your teeth about all the shit you don't like about it and waste that energy OR move on and read things you enjoy reading.
I hope for the latter but I'm expecting the former because you clearly can't help yourself. I'm gonna get another round of "You don't get it! I don't like this content that I brought over here and you should feel bad! Wah!"
Just don't read it, Shen. I'm not going to accommodate your preferences with my posts. I simply don't agree that what I'm posting is that intensely private or dramatic. People divorce everyday for a plethora of reasons. Sometimes it's even nessesary to keep the overall emotional and mental health of the family in tact. Adults understand this. I wasn't even posting this here until you decided to grab bait posts from another board to have some dramatic confrontation over it HERE.
No amount of bitching is gonna make me change for you. Or make me feel bad if you don't like me.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: DKG on April 21, 2023, 08:43:16 AM
Post by: DKG on April 21, 2023, 08:43:16 AM
I don't believe flaming ever was as enetertaining as some of you claim it was.
That's probably because you've never seen it. Time has long since passed since actual flaming was being attempted on the regular, it was an infrequent enough occurrence by the time Bricktop arrived at BH and that was two decades ago now.
I suspect it's entertainment quality was exaggerated. But, like you said, I never saw it.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Lokmar on April 21, 2023, 09:23:25 AM
Post by: Lokmar on April 21, 2023, 09:23:25 AM
Not much worse than a judgey fucker who thinks he is the least judgey.
At least Shen is forward and open with her disapproval and judgements lol
"Hey Dove I'm the least judgey person here. But you should get counseling and think of the kids....you just ain't marriage material. But I ain't judging ya!":laugh3:
Ah Dove....but did I side with you husband? No
did I side with his mother/your mother in law? No
Did I side with you? No
with regards to seeking professional help, I omitted to mention that your husband should seek counselling as well. So if you sought counselling so should he. I think that's an equal and impartial assessment don't you?
At no point did I state that you should or should not stay together.
I didn't favor one outcome nor the other.
So, I think that is unbiased, don't you?
And it was Erica who stated a rather strong opinion that divorce should be averted if possible. However, I didn't weigh in with that opinion, only that a conversation with her might be helpful. That's all I said, and I never took sides in your latest life chapter
BTW Dove, where I live in Canada when couples get a divorce, I believe the family court often sets a requirement that they attend courses to reflect upon their actions. among other things, to determine where and why their relationship faltered. I know friends of mine did along with hefty child support. I'm sure that Herman, who had gone though a divorce had also been asked to undertake a similar process as well.
When I was paying off my parking fines at the court house, there was a division for family court next to the traffic fines and I saw men and women in rooms who were required to study course material following their marital breakup.
It almost look like some purgatory or penance. A remedial school for divorced couples. The reality setting in after the party is over and the bills come due. Does such a process exist in Michigan?
Your shitty jackbooted country should stay out of peoples business. I swear you assholes are like some semi polite nazi's.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Lokmar on April 21, 2023, 09:24:23 AM
Post by: Lokmar on April 21, 2023, 09:24:23 AM
The mother in law must be quite old, is there any chance she'll die soon and things will be naturally sorted?
Noooo....she's in her 60s, super healthy and well off. She's just like this. A micromanager and meddler.
There js a lot of history there and I can kinda see why she is the way she is. I've tried very hard to foster a normal relationship with her but she's always very agenda driven.
Besides even if she was old and kicked soon, I can't just get over the lying and manipulation and the betrayal.
I recommend antifreeze.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Biggie Smiles on April 21, 2023, 09:58:32 AM
Post by: Biggie Smiles on April 21, 2023, 09:58:32 AM
There are plenty of AWFUL men out there. Your husband isn't one of them. And unless you've been lying to me all these years it's going to be a really hard road convincing me otherwise at this juncture.
He doesn't deserve to be reading stuff like this. Not now. Not in response to what has happened. Okay, he fibbed - I get that. His mother is overbearing and controlling and he wimps out. I get that too. But was the intent behind securing a home in a better area to hurt you or did he truly believe he was doing what was best for his entire family? Himself included? I suspect the latter. And while this may not sit well with you it's hardly deserving of a public humiliation which is essentially what you are giving him. .
So he's getting this in addition to the deprivation of his family. I'm sorry but I consider the deprivation enough of a consequence for his infraction. Now if he were beating you, cheating on you or putting you in danger's way we'd be having a different conversation. But he's not.
If you need to break up do so with honor and dignity. What I'm reading is neither honorable nor dignified and true to my form I've only read about 5% of it all. Don't go blasting new love interests on public mediums the man might be reading. Please. For the sake of yourself, for him and the rest of your family.
And if I'm correct he is fully aware of these forums even if he hasn't visited frequently. Trust me, if he loves you and hasn't been visiting them he's certainly doing so now.
Additionally, you don't know if this "meddling" mother in law of yours (and I put meddling in double quotes because I don't know the woman) will end up screen capping your posts to preserve in state until her granddaughter is old enough to read them. Do you want or need that? Does she?
I Love you to death, Dovey, and I want what's best for you. THIS isn't what's best for you. At least not in my opinion it's not.
Some things are best left private. This is one of those things.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 21, 2023, 11:12:59 AM
Post by: JOE on April 21, 2023, 11:12:59 AM
Even yer friends are judgin' ya.
So who's 'judgey' hea'? Not me!
You got the wrong man, Bustah!
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Trump’s Niece on April 21, 2023, 11:22:21 AM
Post by: Trump’s Niece on April 21, 2023, 11:22:21 AM
Here's my take and then I'm going to go back to remaining silent on the matter. I normally reserve advice like this for a private setting but since it's up and open for public comment anyway here goes.
There are plenty of AWFUL men out there. Your husband isn't one of them. And unless you've been lying to me all these years it's going to be a really hard road convincing me otherwise at this juncture.
He doesn't deserve to be reading stuff like this. Not now. Not in response to what has happened. Okay, he fibbed - I get that. His mother is overbearing and controlling and he wimps out. I get that too. But was the intent behind securing a home in a better area to hurt you or did he truly believe he was doing what was best for his entire family? Himself included? I suspect the latter. And while this may not sit well with you it's hardly deserving of a public humiliation which is essentially what you are giving him. .
So he's getting this in addition to the deprivation of his family. I'm sorry but I consider the deprivation enough of a consequence for his infraction. Now if he were beating you, cheating on you or putting you in danger's way we'd be having a different conversation. But he's not.
If you need to break up do so with honor and dignity. What I'm reading is neither honorable nor dignified and true to my form I've only read about 5% of it all. Don't go blasting new love interests on public mediums the man might be reading. Please. For the sake of yourself, for him and the rest of your family.
And if I'm correct he is fully aware of these forums even if he hasn't visited frequently. Trust me, if he loves you and hasn't been visiting them he's certainly doing so now.
Additionally, you don't know if this "meddling" mother in law of yours (and I put meddling in double quotes because I don't know the woman) will end up screen capping your posts to preserve in state until her granddaughter is old enough to read them. Do you want or need that? Does she?
I Love you to death, Dovey, and I want what's best for you. THIS isn't what's best for you. At least not in my opinion it's not.
Some things are best left private. This is one of those things.
This 1000%
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Lokmar on April 21, 2023, 11:41:57 AM
Post by: Lokmar on April 21, 2023, 11:41:57 AM
...ya see Dove?
Even yer friends are judgin' ya.
So who's 'judgey' hea'? Not me!
You got the wrong man, Bustah!
I judge you as being a lil bitch. I'm never wrong!
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 21, 2023, 02:19:13 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 21, 2023, 02:19:13 PM
Lol the only drama here is you starting a thread like this in the first place. I wasn't even posting about it here.
You must be really sheltered if you think any of my "personal drama" qualifies for Jerry Springer. You shouldn't get so invested in shit people post that you end up having a cyber tantrum.
So far YOU have brought more drama to the topic than anyone else.
We hear you, Shen. You don't approve of divorce or people posting about anything happening in their lives. You think I'm "white trash" and "self destructing" and a host of other nonsense that just isn't gonna be taken seriously by me in the slightest. People are actively chosing not to care. Your options now are stick around and gnash your teeth about all the shit you don't like about it and waste that energy OR move on and read things you enjoy reading.
I hope for the latter but I'm expecting the former because you clearly can't help yourself. I'm gonna get another round of "You don't get it! I don't like this content that I brought over here and you should feel bad! Wah!"
Just don't read it, Shen. I'm not going to accommodate your preferences with my posts. I simply don't agree that what I'm posting is that intensely private or dramatic. People divorce everyday for a plethora of reasons. Sometimes it's even nessesary to keep the overall emotional and mental health of the family in tact. Adults understand this. I wasn't even posting this here until you decided to grab bait posts from another board to have some dramatic confrontation over it HERE.
No amount of bitching is gonna make me change for you. Or make me feel bad if you don't like me.
Everytime you treat your husband like garbage you run to the forumz to share it with social misfits. And yet, according to your warped reasoning, it's the people who tell you to take it to a marriage counsellor, your friendz privately or better yet your husband. who are creating drama.
These forumz are all fucking connected. My stomach turned when you were bragging about cheating on your husband with some penniless forum blowhard, but I held my nose. Enough is enough. We come here to have a few laughs, debate polics/current events, talk about our hobbies, etc. Nobody wants to read some lowlife badmouth their spouse. And worse yet, try to justify their parasitic behaviour over and over, post after post, page after page.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 21, 2023, 02:35:17 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 21, 2023, 02:35:17 PM
I normally reserve advice like this for a private setting but since it's up and open for public comment anyway here goes.Quote
This never should've been open for public comment in the first place. Nobody who isn't a friend should be privy to any of this.
There are plenty of AWFUL men out there. Your husband isn't one of them. And unless you've been lying to me all these years it's going to be a really hard road convincing me otherwise at this juncture.Quote
I wouldn't trust Dove's opinion on the men in her life if she was in church standing on a stack of bibles. I can only handle Dove when she isn't shit talking the men in her life. However, she can't seem to go very long without cheating on her husband. That's none of my business and I don't give a fuck either. It's about what I expect from lowlife white trash. But, the Springer guest side of her has to go brag about it on the forumz.
If you need to break up do so with honor and dignity. What I'm reading is neither honorable nor dignified and true to my form I've only read about 5% of it all. Don't go blasting new love interests on public mediums the man might be reading. Please. For the sake of yourself, for him and the rest of your family.Quote
What a sleazy fucking thing to do.
And if I'm correct he is fully aware of these forums even if he hasn't visited frequently. Trust me, if he loves you and hasn't been visiting them he's certainly doing so now.Quote
What a stupid fucking thing to do.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 21, 2023, 02:42:02 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 21, 2023, 02:42:02 PM
Here's my take and then I'm going to go back to remaining silent on the matter. I normally reserve advice like this for a private setting but since it's up and open for public comment anyway here goes.
There are plenty of AWFUL men out there. Your husband isn't one of them. And unless you've been lying to me all these years it's going to be a really hard road convincing me otherwise at this juncture.
He doesn't deserve to be reading stuff like this. Not now. Not in response to what has happened. Okay, he fibbed - I get that. His mother is overbearing and controlling and he wimps out. I get that too. But was the intent behind securing a home in a better area to hurt you or did he truly believe he was doing what was best for his entire family? Himself included? I suspect the latter. And while this may not sit well with you it's hardly deserving of a public humiliation which is essentially what you are giving him. .
So he's getting this in addition to the deprivation of his family. I'm sorry but I consider the deprivation enough of a consequence for his infraction. Now if he were beating you, cheating on you or putting you in danger's way we'd be having a different conversation. But he's not.
If you need to break up do so with honor and dignity. What I'm reading is neither honorable nor dignified and true to my form I've only read about 5% of it all. Don't go blasting new love interests on public mediums the man might be reading. Please. For the sake of yourself, for him and the rest of your family.
And if I'm correct he is fully aware of these forums even if he hasn't visited frequently. Trust me, if he loves you and hasn't been visiting them he's certainly doing so now.
Additionally, you don't know if this "meddling" mother in law of yours (and I put meddling in double quotes because I don't know the woman) will end up screen capping your posts to preserve in state until her granddaughter is old enough to read them. Do you want or need that? Does she?
I Love you to death, Dovey, and I want what's best for you. THIS isn't what's best for you. At least not in my opinion it's not.
Some things are best left private. This is one of those things.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 21, 2023, 02:43:35 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 21, 2023, 02:43:35 PM
Here's my take and then I'm going to go back to remaining silent on the matter. I normally reserve advice like this for a private setting but since it's up and open for public comment anyway here goes.
There are plenty of AWFUL men out there. Your husband isn't one of them. And unless you've been lying to me all these years it's going to be a really hard road convincing me otherwise at this juncture.
He doesn't deserve to be reading stuff like this. Not now. Not in response to what has happened. Okay, he fibbed - I get that. His mother is overbearing and controlling and he wimps out. I get that too. But was the intent behind securing a home in a better area to hurt you or did he truly believe he was doing what was best for his entire family? Himself included? I suspect the latter. And while this may not sit well with you it's hardly deserving of a public humiliation which is essentially what you are giving him. .
So he's getting this in addition to the deprivation of his family. I'm sorry but I consider the deprivation enough of a consequence for his infraction. Now if he were beating you, cheating on you or putting you in danger's way we'd be having a different conversation. But he's not.
If you need to break up do so with honor and dignity. What I'm reading is neither honorable nor dignified and true to my form I've only read about 5% of it all. Don't go blasting new love interests on public mediums the man might be reading. Please. For the sake of yourself, for him and the rest of your family.
And if I'm correct he is fully aware of these forums even if he hasn't visited frequently. Trust me, if he loves you and hasn't been visiting them he's certainly doing so now.
Additionally, you don't know if this "meddling" mother in law of yours (and I put meddling in double quotes because I don't know the woman) will end up screen capping your posts to preserve in state until her granddaughter is old enough to read them. Do you want or need that? Does she?
I Love you to death, Dovey, and I want what's best for you. THIS isn't what's best for you. At least not in my opinion it's not.
Some things are best left private. This is one of those things.
:416:
Biggz hit a BULLSEYE!!
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 21, 2023, 03:24:12 PM
Post by: JOE on April 21, 2023, 03:24:12 PM
I normally reserve advice like this for a private setting but since it's up and open for public comment anyway here goes.Quote
This never should've been open for public comment in the first place. Nobody who isn't a friend should be privy to any of this.There are plenty of AWFUL men out there. Your husband isn't one of them. And unless you've been lying to me all these years it's going to be a really hard road convincing me otherwise at this juncture.Quote
I wouldn't trust Dove's opinion on the men in her life if she was in church standing on a stack of bibles. I can only handle Dove when she isn't shit talking the men in her life. However, she can't seem to go very long without cheating on her husband. That's none of my business and I don't give a fuck either. It's about what I expect from lowlife white trash. But, the Springer guest side of her has to go brag about it on the forumz.If you need to break up do so with honor and dignity. What I'm reading is neither honorable nor dignified and true to my form I've only read about 5% of it all. Don't go blasting new love interests on public mediums the man might be reading. Please. For the sake of yourself, for him and the rest of your family.Quote
What a sleazy fucking thing to do.And if I'm correct he is fully aware of these forums even if he hasn't visited frequently. Trust me, if he loves you and hasn't been visiting them he's certainly doing so now.Quote
What a stupid fucking thing to do.
Shen, there's a marriage counsellor named Al who once said...
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 21, 2023, 03:26:17 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 21, 2023, 03:26:17 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: It's Poppy on April 21, 2023, 03:30:04 PM
Post by: It's Poppy on April 21, 2023, 03:30:04 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 21, 2023, 03:31:41 PM
Post by: JOE on April 21, 2023, 03:31:41 PM
^I know that show. I never saw it while it was on air, but I've seen an episode or two since it went off air.
Anyways Shen, what Al said....
"Do 'em don't woo 'em. Bed 'em don't Wed 'em. Date 'em, but don't mate 'em."
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 21, 2023, 03:33:46 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 21, 2023, 03:33:46 PM
^I know that show. I never saw it while it was on air, but I've seen an episode or two since it went off air.
AnywaysSen, what Al said....
"Do 'em don't woo 'em. Bed 'em don't Wed 'em. Date 'em, but don't mate 'em."
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 21, 2023, 03:34:42 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 21, 2023, 03:34:42 PM
Yep...I was expecting Dovey to start accusing her husband of playing Fortnite with King Martini...work out these family matter in private...damn I would not even post a photo of our birds on these troll forums, never mind discussing family business.
FUCKING BULLSEYE!!!
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 21, 2023, 11:36:03 PM
Post by: JOE on April 21, 2023, 11:36:03 PM
Dove reminds me of that old Beatles song, Whole Lotta Love. She has got a lotta love to give and that is a good thing so don't trash her for it. Mick Jagger was right about her she does have a Whole Lotta Love. Some of those 1950's classics are timeless. Let Dove do her own rockin'.
Actually Dove reminds me of another Beatles song...
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 22, 2023, 12:55:49 AM
Post by: Dove on April 22, 2023, 12:55:49 AM
I'm not staying married and I'm not making decisions based on what other people think. I don't think my ONE requirement .....my ONE deal breaker is unreasonable.
I am not ever staying in a 3 way relationship with anyone's mother. I'm not living everyday of my life with someone who is perpetually negative, disrespectful and refuses to make any life plans with his own wife and instead does so with his mother.
I'd rather be single and alone than feel like a 3rd wheel in my own marriage and my standards aren't so low where I'm gonna be shit on my entire life just because he doesn't beat me.
I'm sorry if you guys have an issue with that but unless it's any of you dealing with what I've been dealing with you have NO idea what it's actually like. So be glad you guys don't have these issues, realize I haven't asked anyone for their advice or thoughts, stop taking shit you read on BF so seriously and move on from it.
Personally I'm at peace with the amount of effort I put into it before pulling the plug. If you guys want to pretend him lying to me for over a year, picking fights and talking to me like I'm total shit, and having his mother do everything regardless of how many people have told him its a PROBLEM isn't a big deal that's fine. I'm NOT okay with it. I am NOT going to stay in it either.
IM the one who has the live with it and my kids who BTW will tell you they are glad this is happening because they can finally relax. I'm not spending the rest of my life tip toeing around a man I'm legally bound to and "submitting" to everything his mother tells him we need to do.
I have said ONLY positive and good things about my marriage because I'm big on not blasting our problems all over the place. That's IT. And even openly posting that I'm separated due to dishonesty and this shit with his mother.....dude I am homeless living at my best friend's house, and this was completely unessesary. He intentionally LIED FOR OVER A YEAR. After 12 years of knowing full fucking well he needed to draw proper boundaries with his mother.
Why don't I suck it up because he doesn't beat me, and let her decide where I live and how we eat and how my kids are raised and maybe I can also fuck her and everything. Yeah? I hung around TRIED so hard for so long and j am DONE. I want to be left the fuck alone and to figure out what I'm doing now. Just because I make light of shit on the internet does not mean any of you have a clue what is happening in my actual intimate life. A few of you are taking my posts way too seriously and these venues are not for that. I was full on ready to divorce over this same shit 4 or 5 years ago. And I blamed it on video games BECAUSE I didn't want to embarrass him by saying "his mommy controls our life and he allows it and his attitude is nasty". At this point I don't give a shit if he reads my posts and feels bad....did he give a single fuck about my feelings for the past two years? No. And I BEGGED. I TOLD him over and over. I went to counseling and IM the one who worked with the counseling.
I'm not gonna be forced to be the one who has to eat shit for the rest of my life and constantly deal with shit I don't want to deal with while running myself so thin trying to make someone else happy. I don't want to do that while having to hear daily tantrums and deal with someone's total lack of patience especially. I mean he started yelling about how Squish was gonna end up in prison because she KNOCKED OVER MILK and I don't spank her! She can't have an accident without him making a huge fucking deal. Ever see your little girl completely crumble because she accidently knocked over milk and daddy has to go for 20 fucking minutes about how she's gonna fuck her whole life up because she "can't even be careful"?
If you really care about this maybe instead of preaching on a forum where I never even asked for input come and talk to me privately. This wasn't some easy decision I made on a whim and I don't HAVE any new "love interests". I have my best friend who I love dearly yeah. He isn't a new "love interest" regardless of what I post on BASTARD FACTORY but I will say I'd much rather spend my life shacked up in a friend zoned platonic relationship with someone who loves me and had my back for 30 years who shouldn't ever be living alone due to his MS than going through the nightmare I just went through.
Of my husband had been doing something normal like fucking a coworker I'd be far more likely to want to work it out but he has an umbilical cord attached to his mother to the point where even HER husband has threatened divorce. This isn't normal. And it's humiliating and frustrating and SAD.
Why is it SO important for me to stay married and hate my life every day? Because it LOOKS better? You guys don't think my heroic last efforts for the past 5 years were good enough? Go tell him. Some of you know how to reach him. Go tell him he has a wife and kids and should maybe consider working on thar himself instead of judging ME when I DID waste the past 5 years trying.
I have NO trust or respect for him at this moment and we could have bought the stupid house ourselves. We have enough to buy it outright. It was fucking 48k. I already agreed to ride it out down in the metro area.....I'm NOT going to agree to this. If I'm so horrible and unreasonable that I should look past people plotting behind my back to manipulate me like this than they should be HAPPY I'm leaving the situation and won't be getting in their way, right? Right.
Jesus fuck. I come here to get AWAY from my emotions and my issues and make light of things and make it amusing. Not have my fucking face rubbed in and get cornered into explaining shit I didn't want to explain at this point while fucking Shen wails and bitches because she's too fucking emotional for troll boards and needs to spew her two cents about shit she knows nothing about.
Big did I ever come on the boards and spew OUR whole story? Did I ever go into the issues WE had in their depth and entirety? WHY do you think I would be different now and come online and blast the problems I have in my marriage?
I have slept on a couch for SEVEN YEARS. When we were moving? This guy was throwing a fit about getting things packed and then screaming at me over what can fit in a storage unit. Because nothing can happen without a shit ton of complaining and bullshit. Nothing. Everything is met with stunning negativity and shittiness.....he needs therapy. Actual recovery therapy without a motive like getting ME back he needs to go actually work on his problems. I'm not going to allow anyone to destroy me because they want to be perpetually miserable and allow outside people to direct their life.
Sorry if you disapprove of that but if you are my friend you don't want to know the person I will become if I stay on that path.
And this is far more than I wanted to even share on the matter.
Any points anyone wants to make are gonna be completely futile because I am dead set and if this makes someone think differently of me that's sad but it is what it is. You don't know what you are expecting me to do and live with. My daughters agree with this divorce and believe it's the best for ALL of us and thats what matters. I have two of my best friends and biggest supporters here who see the whole picture who know this isn't easy but its what is best and I'm perfectly fine with the idea of being single until I die. I won't be alone because I have a great relationship with my kids and plenty of things I'll be able to pour myself into now where my efforts will actually matter.
Sorry this is difficult for the forums. I promise you guys....you won't care in a month but I'll still be living it so leave me to my path. I've never preached or judged any of you even when I think you deserve better than what you are doing. I didn't like Flea getting plastic surgery and that hurt my heart but I didn't come down on her. I dont love Bigs certain private situations but I don't come down on him.
But you guys want to make me feel worse about something that is already difficult as fuck? Just stop. No one here would have tolerated what I have so far. No one. You guys want me to be less than who I am for what? Do you want me to be a miserable and bitter person?
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 22, 2023, 01:07:31 AM
Post by: JOE on April 22, 2023, 01:07:31 AM
Give it a couple years.
It's understandable that things don't always work out and time outs are needed.
Maybe partners just need time away from another.
happens all the time.
See if these problems can be worked out.
And if after certain period they can't, then all means consider filing for divorce.
Anyways I think in a lotta places separation is mandatory for a certain period before divorce is granted.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Lokmar on April 22, 2023, 01:21:24 AM
Post by: Lokmar on April 22, 2023, 01:21:24 AM
I think you should separate rather than outright divorce, Dove.
Give it a couple years.
It's understandable that things don't always work out and time outs are needed.
Maybe partners just need time away from another.
happens all the time.
See if these problems can be worked out.
And if after certain period they can't, then all means consider filing for divorce.
Anyways I think in a lotta places separation is mandatory for a certain period before divorce is granted.
josephine, you're such a lil weenie. I'd like to push you down in the mud and take a wiz on you.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on April 22, 2023, 01:33:32 AM
Post by: Dove on April 22, 2023, 01:33:32 AM
I gave up A LOT to try to make this happen and he can go these insane lengths doing the ONE thing I was done with.
Nope I'm done.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Berry Sweet on April 22, 2023, 01:47:38 AM
Post by: Berry Sweet on April 22, 2023, 01:47:38 AM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 22, 2023, 10:07:13 AM
Post by: Anonymous on April 22, 2023, 10:07:13 AM
Well frankly i don't care what people think I should do. I never came to the forums, dumped all my issues (regardless of what more bored and simple minded people like Shen and whatnot may believe) nor did I seek any advice. I'd like someone to show me where I came and asked or even said much.
I'm not staying married and I'm not making decisions based on what other people think. I don't think my ONE requirement .....my ONE deal breaker is unreasonable.
I am not ever staying in a 3 way relationship with anyone's mother. I'm not living everyday of my life with someone who is perpetually negative, disrespectful and refuses to make any life plans with his own wife and instead does so with his mother.
I'd rather be single and alone than feel like a 3rd wheel in my own marriage and my standards aren't so low where I'm gonna be shit on my entire life just because he doesn't beat me.
I'm sorry if you guys have an issue with that but unless it's any of you dealing with what I've been dealing with you have NO idea what it's actually like. So be glad you guys don't have these issues, realize I haven't asked anyone for their advice or thoughts, stop taking shit you read on BF so seriously and move on from it.
Personally I'm at peace with the amount of effort I put into it before pulling the plug. If you guys want to pretend him lying to me for over a year, picking fights and talking to me like I'm total shit, and having his mother do everything regardless of how many people have told him its a PROBLEM isn't a big deal that's fine. I'm NOT okay with it. I am NOT going to stay in it either.
IM the one who has the live with it and my kids who BTW will tell you they are glad this is happening because they can finally relax. I'm not spending the rest of my life tip toeing around a man I'm legally bound to and "submitting" to everything his mother tells him we need to do.
I have said ONLY positive and good things about my marriage because I'm big on not blasting our problems all over the place. That's IT. And even openly posting that I'm separated due to dishonesty and this shit with his mother.....dude I am homeless living at my best friend's house, and this was completely unessesary. He intentionally LIED FOR OVER A YEAR. After 12 years of knowing full fucking well he needed to draw proper boundaries with his mother.
Why don't I suck it up because he doesn't beat me, and let her decide where I live and how we eat and how my kids are raised and maybe I can also fuck her and everything. Yeah? I hung around TRIED so hard for so long and j am DONE. I want to be left the fuck alone and to figure out what I'm doing now. Just because I make light of shit on the internet does not mean any of you have a clue what is happening in my actual intimate life. A few of you are taking my posts way too seriously and these venues are not for that. I was full on ready to divorce over this same shit 4 or 5 years ago. And I blamed it on video games BECAUSE I didn't want to embarrass him by saying "his mommy controls our life and he allows it and his attitude is nasty". At this point I don't give a shit if he reads my posts and feels bad....did he give a single fuck about my feelings for the past two years? No. And I BEGGED. I TOLD him over and over. I went to counseling and IM the one who worked with the counseling.
I'm not gonna be forced to be the one who has to eat shit for the rest of my life and constantly deal with shit I don't want to deal with while running myself so thin trying to make someone else happy. I don't want to do that while having to hear daily tantrums and deal with someone's total lack of patience especially. I mean he started yelling about how Squish was gonna end up in prison because she KNOCKED OVER MILK and I don't spank her! She can't have an accident without him making a huge fucking deal. Ever see your little girl completely crumble because she accidently knocked over milk and daddy has to go for 20 fucking minutes about how she's gonna fuck her whole life up because she "can't even be careful"?
If you really care about this maybe instead of preaching on a forum where I never even asked for input come and talk to me privately. This wasn't some easy decision I made on a whim and I don't HAVE any new "love interests". I have my best friend who I love dearly yeah. He isn't a new "love interest" regardless of what I post on BASTARD FACTORY but I will say I'd much rather spend my life shacked up in a friend zoned platonic relationship with someone who loves me and had my back for 30 years who shouldn't ever be living alone due to his MS than going through the nightmare I just went through.
Of my husband had been doing something normal like fucking a coworker I'd be far more likely to want to work it out but he has an umbilical cord attached to his mother to the point where even HER husband has threatened divorce. This isn't normal. And it's humiliating and frustrating and SAD.
Why is it SO important for me to stay married and hate my life every day? Because it LOOKS better? You guys don't think my heroic last efforts for the past 5 years were good enough? Go tell him. Some of you know how to reach him. Go tell him he has a wife and kids and should maybe consider working on thar himself instead of judging ME when I DID waste the past 5 years trying.
I have NO trust or respect for him at this moment and we could have bought the stupid house ourselves. We have enough to buy it outright. It was fucking 48k. I already agreed to ride it out down in the metro area.....I'm NOT going to agree to this. If I'm so horrible and unreasonable that I should look past people plotting behind my back to manipulate me like this than they should be HAPPY I'm leaving the situation and won't be getting in their way, right? Right.
Jesus fuck. I come here to get AWAY from my emotions and my issues and make light of things and make it amusing. Not have my fucking face rubbed in and get cornered into explaining shit I didn't want to explain at this point while fucking Shen wails and bitches because she's too fucking emotional for troll boards and needs to spew her two cents about shit she knows nothing about.
Big did I ever come on the boards and spew OUR whole story? Did I ever go into the issues WE had in their depth and entirety? WHY do you think I would be different now and come online and blast the problems I have in my marriage?
I have slept on a couch for SEVEN YEARS. When we were moving? This guy was throwing a fit about getting things packed and then screaming at me over what can fit in a storage unit. Because nothing can happen without a shit ton of complaining and bullshit. Nothing. Everything is met with stunning negativity and shittiness.....he needs therapy. Actual recovery therapy without a motive like getting ME back he needs to go actually work on his problems. I'm not going to allow anyone to destroy me because they want to be perpetually miserable and allow outside people to direct their life.
Sorry if you disapprove of that but if you are my friend you don't want to know the person I will become if I stay on that path.
And this is far more than I wanted to even share on the matter.
Any points anyone wants to make are gonna be completely futile because I am dead set and if this makes someone think differently of me that's sad but it is what it is. You don't know what you are expecting me to do and live with. My daughters agree with this divorce and believe it's the best for ALL of us and thats what matters. I have two of my best friends and biggest supporters here who see the whole picture who know this isn't easy but its what is best and I'm perfectly fine with the idea of being single until I die. I won't be alone because I have a great relationship with my kids and plenty of things I'll be able to pour myself into now where my efforts will actually matter.
Sorry this is difficult for the forums. I promise you guys....you won't care in a month but I'll still be living it so leave me to my path. I've never preached or judged any of you even when I think you deserve better than what you are doing. I didn't like Flea getting plastic surgery and that hurt my heart but I didn't come down on her. I dont love Bigs certain private situations but I don't come down on him.
But you guys want to make me feel worse about something that is already difficult as fuck? Just stop. No one here would have tolerated what I have so far. No one. You guys want me to be less than who I am for what? Do you want me to be a miserable and bitter person?
Fuck the haters Dove. You'll always be a good person in my mind
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: DKG on April 22, 2023, 10:08:13 AM
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Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Biggie Smiles on April 22, 2023, 10:12:24 AM
Post by: Biggie Smiles on April 22, 2023, 10:12:24 AM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 22, 2023, 10:28:38 AM
Post by: Anonymous on April 22, 2023, 10:28:38 AM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Trump’s Niece on April 22, 2023, 11:30:47 AM
Post by: Trump’s Niece on April 22, 2023, 11:30:47 AM
Why is sucking cock always on you mind? Think it has to do with your oversized head?
Why? Is that muy exotica to you?
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 22, 2023, 12:33:20 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 22, 2023, 12:33:20 PM
Apeman sucks cock
Everyday and twice on Sunday.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 22, 2023, 12:54:53 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 22, 2023, 12:54:53 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 22, 2023, 03:38:01 PM
Post by: JOE on April 22, 2023, 03:38:01 PM
I am not ever staying in a 3 way relationship with anyone's mother. I'm not living everyday of my life with someone who is perpetually negative, disrespectful and refuses to make any life plans with his own wife and instead does so with his mother.Quote from: Dove post_id=498516 time=1682139349 user_id=3266
...y'know Dove, the other comment I was gonna make (without being JUDGMENTAL) IS that maternal interference exists in EVERY family whether it's a poor or great one.
This is inevitable. It was in mine too.
While I loved my beloved mother very much when she was alive and appreciated her kindness, even she had a tendency to meddle and interfere in the private affairs of her children, in lanws and grandchildren.
We (my siblings and inlaws) all knew that, were fullly aware of it, but we still loved her. She was an incredibly sweet generous kind and loving person.
It's just one of those things, that where there's a mother, there's always outside interference or politics.
And it doesn't matter if it's your current husband or a future one or boyfriend.
You have to live with it, get around it somehow.
Anyways, that's been my experience and observations of other families and friends as well.
bTW, doesn't seem you have any brothers and sisters, but just to let know know, they can be just as more controlling and interfering in your life as a domineering mother. That's also been my experience as well.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 22, 2023, 03:46:30 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 22, 2023, 03:46:30 PM
I am not ever staying in a 3 way relationship with anyone's mother. I'm not living everyday of my life with someone who is perpetually negative, disrespectful and refuses to make any life plans with his own wife and instead does so with his mother.Quote from: Dove post_id=498516 time=1682139349 user_id=3266
...y'know Dove, the other comment I was gonna make (without being JUDGMENTAL) IS that maternal interference exists in EVERY family whether it's a poor or great one.
This is inevitable. It was in mine too.
While I loved my beloved mother very much when she was alive and appreciated her kindness, even she had a tendency to meddle and interfere in the private affairs of her children, in lanws and grandchildren.
We (my siblings and inlaws) all knew that, were fullly aware of it, but we still loved her. She was an incredibly sweet generous kind and loving person.
It's just one of those things, that where there's a mother, there's always outside interference or politics.
And it doesn't matter if it's your current husband or a future one or boyfriend.
You have to live with it, get around it somehow.
Anyways, that's been my experience and observations of other families and friends as well.
Fuck that Joe. White trash scumbags like Dove deseverved to be judged for the bag of shit that she is.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 22, 2023, 03:53:08 PM
Post by: JOE on April 22, 2023, 03:53:08 PM
...y'know Dove, the other comment I was gonna make (without being JUDGMENTAL) IS that maternal interference exists in EVERY family whether it's a poor or great one.
This is inevitable. It was in mine too.
While I loved my beloved mother very much when she was alive and appreciated her kindness, even she had a tendency to meddle and interfere in the private affairs of her children, in lanws and grandchildren.
We (my siblings and inlaws) all knew that, were fullly aware of it, but we still loved her. She was an incredibly sweet generous kind and loving person.
It's just one of those things, that where there's a mother, there's always outside interference or politics.
And it doesn't matter if it's your current husband or a future one or boyfriend.
You have to live with it, get around it somehow.
Anyways, that's been my experience and observations of other families and friends as well.
Fuck that Joe. White trash scumbags like Dove deseverved to be judged for the bag of shit that she is.
I'd rather try to avoid character judgments, Shen.
But Dove ought to realize whatever significant other she meets in the future, this issue of maternal interference or those of her children will always be an issue. there's always another family or someone else's mother to deal with.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 22, 2023, 03:54:54 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 22, 2023, 03:54:54 PM
Fuck that Joe. White trash scumbags like Dove deseverved to be judged for the bag of shit that she is.
I'd rather try to avoid character judgments, Shen.
But Dove ought to realize whatever significant other she meets in the future, this issue of maternal interference or those of her children will always be an issue. there's always another family or someone else's mother to deal with.
That's because you are white. I hate white trash like Dove.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 22, 2023, 04:39:37 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 22, 2023, 04:39:37 PM
Why is sucking cock always on you mind? Think it has to do with your oversized head?
Why? Is that muy exotica to you?
Not all. Bet I can guess what's Muy Exotica for you? Bet you know already.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 22, 2023, 04:41:30 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 22, 2023, 04:41:30 PM
I'd rather try to avoid character judgments, Shen.
But Dove ought to realize whatever significant other she meets in the future, this issue of maternal interference or those of her children will always be an issue. there's always another family or someone else's mother to deal with.
Tha's because you are white. I hate white trash like Dove.
In your wildest of dog dreams, do you think ant white person cares? Fucking ignorant Asian
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Trump’s Niece on April 22, 2023, 04:49:10 PM
Post by: Trump’s Niece on April 22, 2023, 04:49:10 PM
Why? Is that muy exotica to you?
Not all. Bet I can guess what's Muy Exotica for you? Bet you know already.
Skipper be fucking you up at VF
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 22, 2023, 07:03:02 PM
Post by: JOE on April 22, 2023, 07:03:02 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Odinson on April 22, 2023, 07:44:26 PM
Post by: Odinson on April 22, 2023, 07:44:26 PM
She breaks stuff because she wants attention.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 23, 2023, 01:28:29 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 23, 2023, 01:28:29 PM
Skipper be fucking you up at VF:roll:
That doesn't require a lot of effort.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 23, 2023, 01:33:45 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 23, 2023, 01:33:45 PM
Its like living with a child...
She breaks stuff because she wants attention.
You mean Dove?
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Odinson on April 23, 2023, 01:45:57 PM
Post by: Odinson on April 23, 2023, 01:45:57 PM
Its like living with a child...
She breaks stuff because she wants attention.
You mean Dove?
I mean the video Joe posted about wives filing for divorce just to get attention.
And apparently its one of the most frequent reasons why wives file for divorce.
The husbands then call their bluff and see the divorce through.
Pretty funny.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 23, 2023, 01:49:59 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 23, 2023, 01:49:59 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 23, 2023, 01:51:32 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 23, 2023, 01:51:32 PM
Skipper be fucking you up at VF:roll:
That doesn't require a lot of effort.
Ever Sniffer wouldn't take a stab at Caddy Culo
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 23, 2023, 04:36:46 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 23, 2023, 04:36:46 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 23, 2023, 04:48:35 PM
Post by: JOE on April 23, 2023, 04:48:35 PM
I'd rather try to avoid character judgments, Shen.
But Dove ought to realize whatever significant other she meets in the future, this issue of maternal interference or those of her children will always be an issue. there's always another family or someone else's mother to deal with.
That's because you are white. I hate white trash like Dove.
actually Shen, I bet the problem of the meddling mother issue is much worse in your culture. Or relatives. Or uncles and aunts. Or nosy brothers and sisters.
There's even more peer pressure, pecking order and someone dominating another in Asian Cultures, Shen.
Am I right?
Please correct me if I'm wrong.
Not defending nor supporting Dove, just stating what I believe is fact.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 23, 2023, 04:54:51 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 23, 2023, 04:54:51 PM
That's because you are white. I hate white trash like Dove.
actually Shen, I bet the problem of the meddling mother issue is much worse in your culture. Or relatives. Or uncles and aunts. Or nosy brothers and sisters.
There's even more peer pressure, pecking order and someone dominating another in Asian Cultures, Shen.
Am I right?
Please correct me if I'm wrong.
Not defending nor supporting Dove, just stating what I believe is fact.
The problem is not her mother-in-law. The problem is DOVE herself. She is a white trash skank. That is fine except she feels the need to tell us what a white trash nincompoop she is.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on April 23, 2023, 05:07:52 PM
Post by: JOE on April 23, 2023, 05:07:52 PM
The problem is not her mother-in-law. The problem is DOVE herself. She is a white trash skank. That is fine except she feels the need to tell us what a white trash nincompoop she is.Quote from: "Shen Li" post_id=498670 time=1682283291 user_id=3389
...well Shen, I believe Dove had talked about a previous husband or EX of hers named Walid where the same family problems and overcontrolling spouse or his family's meddling were also prevelant.
Point being - those problems exist in every family.
I don't think you can escape them
And I think Dove is being a tad unrealistic if she believes she can, and won't encounter them in a future relationship or new family she is introduced to.
Family politics are always gonna be there.
I know they certainly exist in my family.
The only saving grace being in mine is that both parents have passed away, so the moral authority they had and supposedly will be passed to the older siblings won't be imposed upon me anymore.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 23, 2023, 05:12:21 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 23, 2023, 05:12:21 PM
The problem is not her mother-in-law. The problem is DOVE herself. She is a white trash skank. That is fine except she feels the need to tell us what a white trash nincompoop she is.Quote from: "Shen Li" post_id=498670 time=1682283291 user_id=3389
...well Shen, I believe Dove had talked about a previous husband or EX of hers named Walid where the same family problems and overcontrolling spouse or his family's meddling were also prevelant.
Point being - those problems exist in every family.
I don't think you can escape them
And I think Dove is being a tad unrealistic if she believes she can, and won't encounter them in a future relationship
Family politics are always gonna be there.
Dove always has excuses for her disgusting behaviour. Again, that's all fine and good, and nobody expects anything more from trailer park trash like her, but she thinks these forumz are Springer forum episodes. She tells us about it. Like who fucking cares about her white trash drama.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 24, 2023, 05:43:45 AM
Post by: Anonymous on April 24, 2023, 05:43:45 AM
Why are people such assholes to each other on this forumac_dunno
I can't speak for many on this forum in this regard, but I will speak for Semenjaw. He is hoping if his asshole is wide enough, one of us might be compelled to fuck it. He is, you see, quite desperate for a decent assgasm, but so far is flat out scraping the pesos together for a rough looking trans prozzie with a sounding rod inserted in its weenis.
True story.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: DKG on April 24, 2023, 09:47:27 AM
Post by: DKG on April 24, 2023, 09:47:27 AM
Why are people such assholes to each other on this forumac_dunno
I can't speak for many on this forum in this regard, but I will speak for Semenjaw. He is hoping if his asshole is wide enough, one of us might be compelled to fuck it. He is, you see, quite desperate for a decent assgasm, but so far is flat out scraping the pesos together for a rough looking trans prozzie with a sounding rod inserted in its weenis.
True story.
Absolutely true.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 24, 2023, 12:02:20 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 24, 2023, 12:02:20 PM
Title: agoyy103
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Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 24, 2023, 12:04:47 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 24, 2023, 12:04:47 PM
...well Shen, I believe Dove had talked about a previous husband or EX of hers named Walid where the same family problems and overcontrolling spouse or his family's meddling were also prevelant.
Point being - those problems exist in every family.
I don't think you can escape them
And I think Dove is being a tad unrealistic if she believes she can, and won't encounter them in a future relationship
Family politics are always gonna be there.
Dove always has excuses for her disgusting behaviour. Again, that's all fine and good, and nobody expects anything more from trailer park trash like her, but she thinks these forumz are Springer forum episodes. She tells us about it. Like who fucking cares about her white trash drama.
Fuck off dog eater. Dove is twice the women you can ever hope to be.m
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 28, 2023, 11:42:32 AM
Post by: Anonymous on April 28, 2023, 11:42:32 AM
Dove always has excuses for her disgusting behaviour. Again, that's all fine and good, and nobody expects anything more from trailer park trash like her, but she thinks these forumz are Springer forum episodes. She tells us about it. Like who fucking cares about her white trash drama.
Fuck off dog eater. Dove is twice the women you can ever hope to be.m
Stop sucking up Dovey's ass Semen, she's not going to let you bumfuck her children.
No, not even for 20 pesos.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 28, 2023, 12:01:03 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 28, 2023, 12:01:03 PM
Fuck off dog eater. Dove is twice the women you can ever hope to be.m
Stop sucking up Dovey's ass Semen, she's not going to let you bumfuck her children.
No, not even for 20 pesos.
What is Seadunce going to do with all that candy and lube he bought.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 28, 2023, 06:47:42 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 28, 2023, 06:47:42 PM
Stop sucking up Dovey's ass Semen, she's not going to let you bumfuck her children.
No, not even for 20 pesos.
What is Seadunce going to do with all that candy and lube he bought.
Wax his surfboard with them and headbutt a coral reef most probably.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: DKG on April 28, 2023, 08:22:14 PM
Post by: DKG on April 28, 2023, 08:22:14 PM
Stop sucking up Dovey's ass Semen, she's not going to let you bumfuck her children.
No, not even for 20 pesos.
What is Seadunce going to do with all that candy and lube he bought.
You chased off a good poster because of something that is none of your business. Good going.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 28, 2023, 09:04:28 PM
Post by: Anonymous on April 28, 2023, 09:04:28 PM
What is Seadunce going to do with all that candy and lube he bought.
You chased off a good poster because of something that is none of your business. Good going.:sneaky2:
Mea culpa, I keep forgetting that Words cause Permanent Damage to the "good posters" in this day and age.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on April 29, 2023, 04:18:27 AM
Post by: Herman on April 29, 2023, 04:18:27 AM
You chased off a good poster because of something that is none of your business. Good going.:sneaky2:
Mea culpa, I keep forgetting that Words cause Permanent Damage to the "good posters" in this day and age.ac_biggrin
Dove did bring this up on forums. I gave my two cents. I do not think telling the deadbeat dad, Apegirl and Seamidget was a good idea.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on April 29, 2023, 05:05:00 AM
Post by: Anonymous on April 29, 2023, 05:05:00 AM
Mea culpa, I keep forgetting that Words cause Permanent Damage to the "good posters" in this day and age.ac_biggrin
Dove did bring this up on forums. I gave my two cents. I do not think telling the deadbeat dad, Apegirl and Seamidget was a good idea.
Probably not, but free will is free will and I for one do not expect that all and sundry are going to march in lockstep with whatever you or I might consider a "good idea". Like you, I'll offer a considered opinion on a good many matters... it's up to the individual if they use it to better themselves or otherwise.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on April 29, 2023, 01:16:05 PM
Post by: Shen Li on April 29, 2023, 01:16:05 PM
What is Seadunce going to do with all that candy and lube he bought.
You chased off a good poster because of something that is none of your business. Good going.:sneaky2:
Fuck off, Dove has never been a regular here. She posts where Biggie is and he's at BF.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on May 01, 2023, 05:22:53 PM
Post by: Dove on May 01, 2023, 05:22:53 PM
Dove is an excellent poster. That is all that matters.
Thank you!
It's wild to me how if you share something going on people think they are getting every private detail of your life.
It's divorce ffs. It's not gonna be some gritty secret that I was married and divorced. Going into a rough draft of the reasons why is a bit more private and even then it's still not going really deep and sharing it all which I have not done at all.
I wasn't expecting anyone to care enough to be mad and start threads about it....outside of baiting Turdock with it.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on May 01, 2023, 05:24:18 PM
Post by: Dove on May 01, 2023, 05:24:18 PM
What is Seadunce going to do with all that candy and lube he bought.
You chased off a good poster because of something that is none of your business. Good going.:sneaky2:
I'm not chased off.
I haven't been posting much anywhere the past few weeks. I have a lot going on
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on May 01, 2023, 05:44:49 PM
Post by: Dove on May 01, 2023, 05:44:49 PM
...well Shen, I believe Dove had talked about a previous husband or EX of hers named Walid where the same family problems and overcontrolling spouse or his family's meddling were also prevelant.
Point being - those problems exist in every family.
I don't think you can escape them
And I think Dove is being a tad unrealistic if she believes she can, and won't encounter them in a future relationship
Family politics are always gonna be there.
Dove always has excuses for her disgusting behaviour. Again, that's all fine and good, and nobody expects anything more from trailer park trash like her, but she thinks these forumz are Springer forum episodes. She tells us about it. Like who fucking cares about her white trash drama.
This post is delusional.
Let's get this straight, Shen. I do not give a single flying fuck who thinks my "behavoir" is disgusting. Your problem here is you thinking FAR too much of yourself. What "excuses" have you hallucinated here? Do you feel as though you are some authority over other posters on a forum and that people need to "excuse" themselves for behavior that YOU find disgusting?
You really need to get over yourself. And YOU are the one who started a thread throwing a tizzy fit over this, now you are wailing about trailor trash and how no one cares about my "drama".
You need to connect with reality and ask yourself why you brought this topic here for the purpose of creating drama and then blaming ME for YOUR drama. You are the ONLY person here making a drama out of something that you shouldn't even be concerned with.
Do you imagine that you matter so much to me that in invested in how you feel about my posts and what I post about that I'm gonna feel bad here? Or alter my posting style go accommodate your idiotic and sanctimonious opinions? Because you don't and I'm not.
So again suck it up, scroll past, realize you ain't shit but a person on a message board so no one is obligated to tend to your feelings and biases on the message board. If you are gonna hump my posts for the purpose of whining and bitching you are opening yourself up for critism and mocking. Which you clearly think is more meaningful than it is.
You are absolutely welcome to view me as trailor trash or white trash or whatever you feel most fits what you read. I don't care. However, don't go blaming me for your dramatic response to what I post. I didn't even bring this up here and it's not a topic you should be emotionally invested in. Get a grip. You are offended, it happens.
So hopefully it's out of your system. I'm not sure if you've also accused me of being on welfare, of being a skank, or relapsing on drugs ....let me know. I can mark it off on my "asshurt for no reason cry baby" bingo card.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Lokmar on May 01, 2023, 06:14:59 PM
Post by: Lokmar on May 01, 2023, 06:14:59 PM
Dove always has excuses for her disgusting behaviour. Again, that's all fine and good, and nobody expects anything more from trailer park trash like her, but she thinks these forumz are Springer forum episodes. She tells us about it. Like who fucking cares about her white trash drama.
This post is delusional.
Let's get this straight, Shen. I do not give a single flying fuck who thinks my "behavoir" is disgusting. Your problem here is you thinking FAR too much of yourself. What "excuses" have you hallucinated here? Do you feel as though you are some authority over other posters on a forum and that people need to "excuse" themselves for behavior that YOU find disgusting?
You really need to get over yourself. And YOU are the one who started a thread throwing a tizzy fit over this, now you are wailing about trailor trash and how no one cares about my "drama".
You need to connect with reality and ask yourself why you brought this topic here for the purpose of creating drama and then blaming ME for YOUR drama. You are the ONLY person here making a drama out of something that you shouldn't even be concerned with.
Do you imagine that you matter so much to me that in invested in how you feel about my posts and what I post about that I'm gonna feel bad here? Or alter my posting style go accommodate your idiotic and sanctimonious opinions? Because you don't and I'm not.
So again suck it up, scroll past, realize you ain't shit but a person on a message board so no one is obligated to tend to your feelings and biases on the message board. If you are gonna hump my posts for the purpose of whining and bitching you are opening yourself up for critism and mocking. Which you clearly think is more meaningful than it is.
You are absolutely welcome to view me as trailor trash or white trash or whatever you feel most fits what you read. I don't care. However, don't go blaming me for your dramatic response to what I post. I didn't even bring this up here and it's not a topic you should be emotionally invested in. Get a grip. You are offended, it happens.:howdy:
So hopefully it's out of your system. I'm not sure if you've also accused me of being on welfare, of being a skank, or relapsing on drugs ....let me know. I can mark it off on my "asshurt for no reason cry baby" bingo card.
Wanna hear something retardedly funny? Aidsman gets all butthurt when I type "faggit", insisting I type "faggot" properly. When you type "trailor" I think I have the same irrational and stupid reaction.
Keep it up tho. I'm a firm believer when someone strikes a nerve, they need to punch that motherfucker into oblivion!!! Even if its mine!!!!
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Melson Gibson on May 01, 2023, 06:52:22 PM
Post by: Melson Gibson on May 01, 2023, 06:52:22 PM
I'll never forget my trailer trash dream girl. 20 years ago, in my 20's, I long haul trucked through Nevada quite frequently for a couple of years. In Alamo, Nevada, a place that most people would never pass through even once in their entire lives... A small, dusty town in the middle of nowhere, in the middle of a hell blast furnace desert. Why anyone would live there is beyond my comprehension...
Anyhow, there's a Sinclair grocery store there, so I go in to buy some shit. Girl at till is about my age, and beautiful. Blond, blue eyes, slim, about my age. She looked perfect in every way. She had a bit of a Southern drawl, so it's possible that she wasn't born and raised in Nevada.
So she asks me, "Are you Dan, friends with so & so?" I say, "No, I'm Steve, and I live in Canada, so it's unlikely that I know any of your friends." And that was that. In retrospect, I find it hard to believe that in a town of a few hundred people, I would be confused as being one of the locals. What I should've asked is if she wanted to blow this town, and hop in my truck with me, or at least made some small talk since the store wasn't busy at all. But I'm retarded that way...
All these years later I still remember her. Oh well, she's probably still sweating away in a trailer in the desert there, except with six kids from six different daddies now. I missed my opportunity to save her.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Trump’s Niece on May 01, 2023, 07:24:10 PM
Post by: Trump’s Niece on May 01, 2023, 07:24:10 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Melson Gibson on May 01, 2023, 07:43:42 PM
Post by: Melson Gibson on May 01, 2023, 07:43:42 PM
Is it true you killed your wife's cat?
No.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Trump’s Niece on May 01, 2023, 07:51:31 PM
Post by: Trump’s Niece on May 01, 2023, 07:51:31 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on May 01, 2023, 09:00:07 PM
Post by: Dove on May 01, 2023, 09:00:07 PM
This post is delusional.
Let's get this straight, Shen. I do not give a single flying fuck who thinks my "behavoir" is disgusting. Your problem here is you thinking FAR too much of yourself. What "excuses" have you hallucinated here? Do you feel as though you are some authority over other posters on a forum and that people need to "excuse" themselves for behavior that YOU find disgusting?
You really need to get over yourself. And YOU are the one who started a thread throwing a tizzy fit over this, now you are wailing about trailor trash and how no one cares about my "drama".
You need to connect with reality and ask yourself why you brought this topic here for the purpose of creating drama and then blaming ME for YOUR drama. You are the ONLY person here making a drama out of something that you shouldn't even be concerned with.
Do you imagine that you matter so much to me that in invested in how you feel about my posts and what I post about that I'm gonna feel bad here? Or alter my posting style go accommodate your idiotic and sanctimonious opinions? Because you don't and I'm not.
So again suck it up, scroll past, realize you ain't shit but a person on a message board so no one is obligated to tend to your feelings and biases on the message board. If you are gonna hump my posts for the purpose of whining and bitching you are opening yourself up for critism and mocking. Which you clearly think is more meaningful than it is.
You are absolutely welcome to view me as trailor trash or white trash or whatever you feel most fits what you read. I don't care. However, don't go blaming me for your dramatic response to what I post. I didn't even bring this up here and it's not a topic you should be emotionally invested in. Get a grip. You are offended, it happens.:howdy:
So hopefully it's out of your system. I'm not sure if you've also accused me of being on welfare, of being a skank, or relapsing on drugs ....let me know. I can mark it off on my "asshurt for no reason cry baby" bingo card.
Wanna hear something retardedly funny? Aidsman gets all butthurt when I type "faggit", insisting I type "faggot" properly. When you type "trailor" I think I have the same irrational and stupid reaction.:laugh3:
Keep it up tho. I'm a firm believer when someone strikes a nerve, they need to punch that motherfucker into oblivion!!! Even if its mine!!!!
There are words that my phone always spells a certain way and if I type it the right way my phone changes it and I don't always notice or even bother often at all.
Sorry! Lol.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Melson Gibson on May 01, 2023, 09:03:32 PM
Post by: Melson Gibson on May 01, 2023, 09:03:32 PM
There are words that my phone always spells a certain way and if I type it the right way my phone changes it and I don't always notice or even bother often at all.
Sorry! Lol.
You're fibbing now. 'Trailor' doesn't exist in the English language, so no autocorrect would ever default to that spelling.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on May 01, 2023, 09:16:59 PM
Post by: Dove on May 01, 2023, 09:16:59 PM
I'd rather try to avoid character judgments, Shen.
But Dove ought to realize whatever significant other she meets in the future, this issue of maternal interference or those of her children will always be an issue. there's always another family or someone else's mother to deal with.
That's because you are white. I hate white trash like Dove.
Well damn. That sucks for you.
I don't much like, love, dislike, or hate you. So you've got unrequited hate for someone who doesn't much think about you unless I'm scrolling a thread.
I'm pretty neutral. And if I start poking at you and satisfying your needs for my attention....it's just gonna get harder for you. It's gonna go down with you posting nonsense like you have been and amping it up while I stay just as I am. Chill.
And you'll possibly begin all cap shrieking about how I should die some horrible death and how everyone I know is a victim of my trashy whoreness in yet another frantic attempt to invoke some emotion that just isn't there for me at all. You'll continue to use words like "we" and "us" because you believe your passion for me is shared by everyone...even with evidence to the contrary.
So let me ask you while you're hot and all.....why is it whenever someone gets all pissy and full of hatred towards someone on a forum, they need everyone else to join them or pretend everyone else has joined them and shares the same opinion? There is also the whole trying to jump on something to start drama and blaming their target for their own drama? And why need to your feels validated?
Why burden everyone with your problems? Not everything is about you, Shen. Especially not my divorce....as much as you'd make it about yourself and imagine I am owing you excuses or any sort of justification.
Just be comfortable believing I'm everything you feel I am and let go of the need to be validated in it. You don't need anyone else to care or agree and you don't actually need me to be upset about it. I'm totally at peace and cool with it.
I'm gonna crawl on the half deflated air mattress with frayed towels draped on it for sheets next to my brother in about an hour after I'm done washing the plastic cutlery we used for dinner. He just looks hot in his old t shirt, shorts and his bathrobe. Totally my type. I might even stick this one out.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on May 01, 2023, 09:19:54 PM
Post by: Dove on May 01, 2023, 09:19:54 PM
There are words that my phone always spells a certain way and if I type it the right way my phone changes it and I don't always notice or even bother often at all.
Sorry! Lol.
You're fibbing now. 'Trailor' doesn't exist in the English language, so no autocorrect would ever default to that spelling.:wink:
No, I'm not. The issue is I intentionally misspell words to fuck with opponents and get them red penning my posts. So my auto error will now default to misspellings. It does the same thing with "socail" and a handful of other words I've used and spelled incorrectly. "Trailor" was one I used for Oak in my trailer park thread on BF.
It's a motherfucker but eh....I don't really care that much. I'm otherwise coherent in my posts so it's not as if people don't understand what I'm saying.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Melson Gibson on May 01, 2023, 09:27:50 PM
Post by: Melson Gibson on May 01, 2023, 09:27:50 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on May 01, 2023, 09:30:07 PM
Post by: Dove on May 01, 2023, 09:30:07 PM
Just giving you a hard time. Trailors are actually quite versatile. When it's time to move, you just have to call the trailor truck to come out, and he can deliver it to the new address...
Lol it's okay. I don't mind at all.
I sold the trailer and I'm living at my best friend's house now and for the foreseeable future. I've been coming here since I was 14 so it definately feels like home.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: DKG on May 02, 2023, 10:05:43 AM
Post by: DKG on May 02, 2023, 10:05:43 AM
Dove is an excellent poster. That is all that matters.
Thank you!
It's wild to me how if you share something going on people think they are getting every private detail of your life.
It's divorce ffs. It's not gonna be some gritty secret that I was married and divorced. Going into a rough draft of the reasons why is a bit more private and even then it's still not going really deep and sharing it all which I have not done at all.
I wasn't expecting anyone to care enough to be mad and start threads about it....outside of baiting Turdock with it.
I am glad you returned.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Biggie Smiles on May 02, 2023, 11:43:24 AM
Post by: Biggie Smiles on May 02, 2023, 11:43:24 AM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Lokmar on May 02, 2023, 12:21:03 PM
Post by: Lokmar on May 02, 2023, 12:21:03 PM
Can we all agree that liberals are the scum of the earth and sewage mutant is a fucking idiot?
HELL YEA!!
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on May 02, 2023, 05:40:07 PM
Post by: Dove on May 02, 2023, 05:40:07 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on May 02, 2023, 09:25:07 PM
Post by: Herman on May 02, 2023, 09:25:07 PM
Can we all agree that liberals are the scum of the earth
I had to remind a certain Chinese poster about that.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on May 03, 2023, 03:41:36 AM
Post by: Anonymous on May 03, 2023, 03:41:36 AM
Can we all agree that liberals are the scum of the earth
I had to remind a certain Chinese poster about that.
You mean West Taiwanese of course.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: DKG on May 03, 2023, 09:40:58 AM
Post by: DKG on May 03, 2023, 09:40:58 AM
I had to remind a certain Chinese poster about that.
You mean West Taiwanese of course.:evilthoughts2:
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on May 03, 2023, 01:54:48 PM
Post by: JOE on May 03, 2023, 01:54:48 PM
You mean West Taiwanese of course.:evilthoughts2:
:laugh3:
hey DKG, any news on the Money Sense Front?
will ya be posting an update about the US Fed rate hike today?
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on May 03, 2023, 02:12:19 PM
Post by: Anonymous on May 03, 2023, 02:12:19 PM
:laugh3:
hey DKG, any news on the Money Sense Front?
will ya be posting an update about the US Fed rate hike today?
I don't think he wants to talk with you. You can't blame him for that.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on May 03, 2023, 03:04:55 PM
Post by: JOE on May 03, 2023, 03:04:55 PM
hey DKG, any news on the Money Sense Front?
will ya be posting an update about the US Fed rate hike today?
I don't think he wants to talk with you. You can't blame him for that.
Well I'm planning to invest $100,000 minimum in the future.
So I don't care if he ignores or not.
I'm waiting for the right time.
But thanks anyway.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Lokmar on May 03, 2023, 03:07:20 PM
Post by: Lokmar on May 03, 2023, 03:07:20 PM
I don't think he wants to talk with you. You can't blame him for that.
Well I'm planning to invest $100,000 minimum in the future.
So I don't care if he ignores or not.
I'm waiting for the right time.
But thanks anyway.
You plan on scoring $100K in the lotto?
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on May 05, 2023, 07:54:50 AM
Post by: Anonymous on May 05, 2023, 07:54:50 AM
I was curious about the great white whale's latest antics, so I took a peek at the flame forum. I couldn't find what I was looking for, but I did find this:I feel it nessesary to point out that while I'm separated and divorcing, I'm living with my male besty and getting intensely turned on by his cooking skills, writing skills, amazing sense of humor and his enduring care for my well being and devotion to it.Quote
If I marry this guy the weekend after my divorce is final absolutely no one should be surprised lol. The 4th pancake is usually the winner for me.
I get it Dove, you are a turmoil-junkie mess of a woman. You''ll never change. However, why the fuck do you always have to share your latest self-inflicted wounds with a tiny group of strangers on an obscure forum. Nobody needs to be reminded again, again and again what a total fuck up you are . No normal person wants to know these details of your life either.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: DKG on May 05, 2023, 10:03:37 AM
Post by: DKG on May 05, 2023, 10:03:37 AM
Well I'm planning to invest $100,000 minimum in the future.
So I don't care if he ignores or not.
I'm waiting for the right time.
But thanks anyway.
You plan on scoring $100K in the lotto?
The Joe retirment strategy.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on May 05, 2023, 11:09:15 AM
Post by: JOE on May 05, 2023, 11:09:15 AM
You plan on scoring $100K in the lotto?
The Joe retirment strategy.:laugh3:
Whatever DKG.
I wouldn't buy inta this stock market these days.
It seems a tad (or terribly) overpriced, wouldn't you agree?
Where do they get a DOW at 34,000 when the US economy and its banks are going bust? When the US economy was at peak capacity, doing well, the DOW was only 29,000 in 2019.
I'd rather wait on the sidelines cuz if there's a big drop then deals galore will appear.
You know what my good friend cc said DKG: "Buy Low & Sell High"
Or what Warren Buffet said:
[be] "fearful when others are greedy, and greedy when others are fearful."
As you're probably aware, the Big Investors like him and Ray Dalio are just sitting on the sidelines waiting for a decent buying opportunity.
Even with the billions they have at their disposal, they're not buying inta an overpriced market, DKG.
But they're waiting to swoop down and scoop up the spoils when the market takes a hit.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Lokmar on May 05, 2023, 11:11:37 AM
Post by: Lokmar on May 05, 2023, 11:11:37 AM
The Joe retirment strategy.:laugh3:
Whatever DKG.
I wouldn't buy inta this stock market these days.
It seems a tad (or terribly) overpriced, wouldn't you agree?
Where do they get a DOW at 34,000 when the US economy and its banks are going bust? When the US economy was at peak capacity, doing well, the DOW was only 29,000.
I'd rather wait on the sidelines cuz if there's a big drop then deals galore will appear.
You know what my good friend cc said DKG: "Buy Low & Sell High"
Or what Warren Buffet said:
[be] "fearful when others are greedy, and greedy when others are fearful."https://youtu.be/Vtyrsh1Po5Y
As you're probably aware, the Big Investors like him and Ray Dalio are just sitting on the sidelines waiting for a decent buying opportunity.
Even with the billions they have at their disposal, they're not buying inta an overpriced market, DKG.
What? You cant even afford a decent fukin car, josephine!
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: JOE on May 05, 2023, 11:18:40 AM
Post by: JOE on May 05, 2023, 11:18:40 AM
Whatever DKG.
I wouldn't buy inta this stock market these days.
It seems a tad (or terribly) overpriced, wouldn't you agree?
Where do they get a DOW at 34,000 when the US economy and its banks are going bust? When the US economy was at peak capacity, doing well, the DOW was only 29,000.
I'd rather wait on the sidelines cuz if there's a big drop then deals galore will appear.
You know what my good friend cc said DKG: "Buy Low & Sell High"
Or what Warren Buffet said:
[be] "fearful when others are greedy, and greedy when others are fearful."https://youtu.be/Vtyrsh1Po5Y
As you're probably aware, the Big Investors like him and Ray Dalio are just sitting on the sidelines waiting for a decent buying opportunity.
Even with the billions they have at their disposal, they're not buying inta an overpriced market, DKG.
What? You cant even afford a decent fukin car, josephine!
Many cars will be on sale same time next year, Lokmar!
Just like yer banks, I hear your car industry is goin' broke in the USA these days eh Lokmar?
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on May 05, 2023, 11:22:52 AM
Post by: Anonymous on May 05, 2023, 11:22:52 AM
You plan on scoring $100K in the lotto?
The Joe retirment strategy.:laugh3:
Why do many posters call you Seoulcuck?
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on May 05, 2023, 11:25:31 AM
Post by: Anonymous on May 05, 2023, 11:25:31 AM
The Joe retirment strategy.:laugh3:
Why do many posters call you Seoulcuck?
Hey Ed. I've wondered the same.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on May 05, 2023, 09:11:14 PM
Post by: Anonymous on May 05, 2023, 09:11:14 PM
Why do many posters call you Seoulcuck?
Hey Ed. I've wondered the same.:2r4ml1j_th:
Rubbish, you were too busy grifting leftie parents to send you their trannie kids to even notice the nick change, much less any juvie namelames you nonce.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: DKG on May 06, 2023, 10:22:07 AM
Post by: DKG on May 06, 2023, 10:22:07 AM
The Joe retirment strategy.:laugh3:
Why do many posters call you Seoulcuck?
Because I'm not a beardless pimple-faced stalker? Is that the right answer?
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on May 07, 2023, 07:48:00 PM
Post by: Shen Li on May 07, 2023, 07:48:00 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: It's Poppy on May 07, 2023, 08:07:23 PM
Post by: It's Poppy on May 07, 2023, 08:07:23 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on May 07, 2023, 08:08:35 PM
Post by: Shen Li on May 07, 2023, 08:08:35 PM
I wonder if Dove did an Amber Turd on her husband's bed before moving out.
I wouldn't be at all surprised if she did.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on May 09, 2023, 03:15:52 AM
Post by: Herman on May 09, 2023, 03:15:52 AM
Dove is at the other place bragging how she is going to get married the second she signs her divorce papers. I hope the guy she's sinking her talons gets as far away from her as he possibly can.
Enough of this shit.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on May 10, 2023, 02:22:34 PM
Post by: Anonymous on May 10, 2023, 02:22:34 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on May 10, 2023, 03:45:27 PM
Post by: Anonymous on May 10, 2023, 03:45:27 PM
I enjoy hearing it.Quote from: Sam post_id=500283 time=1683742954
People with no life would.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on May 10, 2023, 06:39:28 PM
Post by: Anonymous on May 10, 2023, 06:39:28 PM
I wonder if Dove did an Amber Turd on her husband's bed before moving out.
What an ugly post. More like something you'd do. Creep
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on May 10, 2023, 09:52:12 PM
Post by: Anonymous on May 10, 2023, 09:52:12 PM
I wonder if Dove did an Amber Turd on her husband's bed before moving out.
If she did Seamidget would save a picture of it on his Photobucket account.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on May 16, 2023, 12:30:16 AM
Post by: Anonymous on May 16, 2023, 12:30:16 AM
Chien Li, make cents for change.
I get it Dove, you are a turmoil-junkie mess of a woman. You''ll never change. However, why the fuck do you always have to share your latest self-inflicted wounds with a tiny group of strangers on an obscure forum. Nobody needs to be reminded again, again and again what a total fuck up you are . No normal person wants to know these details of your life either.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Oerdin on May 16, 2023, 01:51:26 AM
Post by: Oerdin on May 16, 2023, 01:51:26 AM
Dovey, we have been friends a long time. So I need to be straight with you.
I feel you're gonna regret this just like you did with Poofer. It's literally the same situation. First you were mad at Gene cuz of video games. Now it's cuz he asked his for help in buying a place for you guys to live. I think you're living in the moment and not realizing the impact this will have.
I wouldn't be your friend if I sat here said nothing. Gene is a good guy and I hope you don't end up regretting this.
I don't know any details but if the guy's son is he tried to borrow money from his parents so he could afford a house for his family then there are worse things.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Oerdin on May 16, 2023, 02:49:07 AM
Post by: Oerdin on May 16, 2023, 02:49:07 AM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: reel on May 16, 2023, 07:27:15 PM
Post by: reel on May 16, 2023, 07:27:15 PM
Decent character development on the Columbidae as main protagonist. Dragon made a reasonable antagonist, if a little repetitive; but she's always a strong actor. The side characters were somewhat one-dimensional and I didn't really buy the naivete of their advice, but I suppose they added to the plot development by providing a counter narrative to the protagonist. It helped create a more organic vector for plot development, though it progressed too slowly. I get that it helped the character arc that the details of the story had to be drawn out slowly, but pacing was an issue.
There was definitely too much filler. Several of the background characters should have been eliminated entirely and it was tiresome to have to skip over those sections of the text. Fire the fucking editor.
The strength of the character development helped to cover for the plot being a tad trite, though one could almost interpret that as a literary mechanism to make the Columbidae more relatable.
Overall, I'd rate it as a successful exploration of the impact of the marital deficiencies of a post-modern mama's boy from a female perspective. I found myself rooting for the protagonist as she attempts to find her way out of the morass without being strangled by stray umbilical tubing, and while the side characters counsel at first appeared artless and childish, I came to appreciate the dichotomy they highlighted between the reality of a failed marriage and the artificial domain of this online environment.
I'd rate it a 5.5 out of 10. Could have been a 6 with better editing.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on May 16, 2023, 07:31:53 PM
Post by: Anonymous on May 16, 2023, 07:31:53 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: reel on May 16, 2023, 07:40:35 PM
Post by: reel on May 16, 2023, 07:40:35 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on May 16, 2023, 07:56:53 PM
Post by: Anonymous on May 16, 2023, 07:56:53 PM
What do you use?
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: reel on May 16, 2023, 08:00:49 PM
Post by: reel on May 16, 2023, 08:00:49 PM
I use a lavender bath with a gentle balance of epsom salts. I also favour egyptian cotton. Your regimen sounds delightful. I may have to consider switching up the routine.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on May 16, 2023, 08:08:08 PM
Post by: Anonymous on May 16, 2023, 08:08:08 PM
You might even re-rate this thread an 8 or a 9 then.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: reel on May 16, 2023, 08:20:19 PM
Post by: reel on May 16, 2023, 08:20:19 PM
One cannot dress shit in trousers, slap on a Sinatra LP, and expect others to call the trousers Frank. Mediocrity should not be celebrated based solely on the influence of sexual gratification. While I appreciate that you are a guest and thus to be treated with the utmost civility, I would ask you to please refrain from such acts of blatant and undue influence!
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on May 16, 2023, 08:45:43 PM
Post by: Anonymous on May 16, 2023, 08:45:43 PM
One cannot dress shit in trousers, slap on a Sinatra LP, and expect others to call the trousers Frank.
I don't know, have you seen the state of the entertainment industry lately?
At least the chatter about getting The Beatles back together seems to be a distant memory nowadays. Though I imagine it's possible Sir Paul and Ringo might yet have their JK Rowling moment. One troon and two bullets later...
And speaking of entertainment, I do appreciate your gentlemanly demeanor by the way. Most civilised and I fancy a few of the itinerants might learn a thing or two by your example. You needn't feel at pains to stand on protocol where I am concerned of course, for I am as they say, a complete rogue. A miscreant who delights in a good natured rattling of the cage to see what shakes out.
It does bug a few people I'll admit... but it puts a smile on my face when I encounter those comfortable enough to take it in their stride.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Oerdin on May 16, 2023, 09:15:54 PM
Post by: Oerdin on May 16, 2023, 09:15:54 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: reel on May 17, 2023, 02:34:19 AM
Post by: reel on May 17, 2023, 02:34:19 AM
One cannot dress shit in trousers, slap on a Sinatra LP, and expect others to call the trousers Frank.
I don't know, have you seen the state of the entertainment industry lately?ac_biggrin
At least the chatter about getting The Beatles back together seems to be a distant memory nowadays. Though I imagine it's possible Sir Paul and Ringo might yet have their JK Rowling moment. One troon and two bullets later...
And speaking of entertainment, I do appreciate your gentlemanly demeanor by the way. Most civilised and I fancy a few of the itinerants might learn a thing or two by your example. You needn't feel at pains to stand on protocol where I am concerned of course, for I am as they say, a complete rogue. A miscreant who delights in a good natured rattling of the cage to see what shakes out.
It does bug a few people I'll admit... but it puts a smile on my face when I encounter those comfortable enough to take it in their stride.:wink: [size=50]No perfect ten? Dovey will be crushed.[/size] ac_biggrin
Naturally, being of said gentlemanly demeanor, I appreciate your candor and honesty. I can also appreciate a good natured roguish disposition, properly applied. Those distraught may lack the depth of character to comport themselves with confidence in face of an adventurer's spirit, which ultimately is their loss.
That said, civil discourse has been a casualty most violent of the modern paradigm and thus I find it beneficial to comport myself with a dignity, aligned, at a minimum, to the state of the present conversation, even where protocol may not require it.
I've no intent to crush the spirit of the Columbidae. In fact, flaws aside, I found her persona compelling in this dramatic tale. I am also conscious that an overly effusive response will elicit the wrath of our irascible Dragon, who, while I've no doubt loves me unquestionably, will not hesitate to drag her sharpened nails cross my face should I not be forthright in my assessment of the facts of the matter.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Adolf Oliver Bush on May 19, 2023, 07:25:25 PM
Post by: Adolf Oliver Bush on May 19, 2023, 07:25:25 PM
I don't know, have you seen the state of the entertainment industry lately?ac_biggrin
At least the chatter about getting The Beatles back together seems to be a distant memory nowadays. Though I imagine it's possible Sir Paul and Ringo might yet have their JK Rowling moment. One troon and two bullets later...
And speaking of entertainment, I do appreciate your gentlemanly demeanor by the way. Most civilised and I fancy a few of the itinerants might learn a thing or two by your example. You needn't feel at pains to stand on protocol where I am concerned of course, for I am as they say, a complete rogue. A miscreant who delights in a good natured rattling of the cage to see what shakes out.
It does bug a few people I'll admit... but it puts a smile on my face when I encounter those comfortable enough to take it in their stride.:wink: [size=50]No perfect ten? Dovey will be crushed.[/size] ac_biggrin
Naturally, being of said gentlemanly demeanor, I appreciate your candor and honesty. I can also appreciate a good natured roguish disposition, properly applied. Those distraught may lack the depth of character to comport themselves with confidence in face of an adventurer's spirit, which ultimately is their loss.
That said, civil discourse has been a casualty most violent of the modern paradigm and thus I find it beneficial to comport myself with a dignity, aligned, at a minimum, to the state of the present conversation, even where protocol may not require it.
I've no intent to crush the spirit of the Columbidae. In fact, flaws aside, I found her persona compelling in this dramatic tale. I am also conscious that an overly effusive response will elicit the wrath of our irascible Dragon, who, while I've no doubt loves me unquestionably, will not hesitate to drag her sharpened nails cross my face should I not be forthright in my assessment of the facts of the matter.
So give her a gold star and a smiley elephant stamp. I'm sure she will appreciate that.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on May 20, 2023, 06:24:12 AM
Post by: Anonymous on May 20, 2023, 06:24:12 AM
I don't know, have you seen the state of the entertainment industry lately?ac_biggrin
At least the chatter about getting The Beatles back together seems to be a distant memory nowadays. Though I imagine it's possible Sir Paul and Ringo might yet have their JK Rowling moment. One troon and two bullets later...
And speaking of entertainment, I do appreciate your gentlemanly demeanor by the way. Most civilised and I fancy a few of the itinerants might learn a thing or two by your example. You needn't feel at pains to stand on protocol where I am concerned of course, for I am as they say, a complete rogue. A miscreant who delights in a good natured rattling of the cage to see what shakes out.
It does bug a few people I'll admit... but it puts a smile on my face when I encounter those comfortable enough to take it in their stride.:wink: [size=50]No perfect ten? Dovey will be crushed.[/size] ac_biggrin
Naturally, being of said gentlemanly demeanor, I appreciate your candor and honesty. I can also appreciate a good natured roguish disposition, properly applied. Those distraught may lack the depth of character to comport themselves with confidence in face of an adventurer's spirit, which ultimately is their loss.
That said, civil discourse has been a casualty most violent of the modern paradigm and thus I find it beneficial to comport myself with a dignity, aligned, at a minimum, to the state of the present conversation, even where protocol may not require it.
I've no intent to crush the spirit of the Columbidae. In fact, flaws aside, I found her persona compelling in this dramatic tale. I am also conscious that an overly effusive response will elicit the wrath of our irascible Dragon, who, while I've no doubt loves me unquestionably, will not hesitate to drag her sharpened nails cross my face should I not be forthright in my assessment of the facts of the matter.
Hi there fleamailman
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Adolf Oliver Bush on May 20, 2023, 06:31:27 AM
Post by: Adolf Oliver Bush on May 20, 2023, 06:31:27 AM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on May 22, 2023, 01:46:40 PM
Post by: Shen Li on May 22, 2023, 01:46:40 PM
Naturally, being of said gentlemanly demeanor, I appreciate your candor and honesty. I can also appreciate a good natured roguish disposition, properly applied. Those distraught may lack the depth of character to comport themselves with confidence in face of an adventurer's spirit, which ultimately is their loss.
That said, civil discourse has been a casualty most violent of the modern paradigm and thus I find it beneficial to comport myself with a dignity, aligned, at a minimum, to the state of the present conversation, even where protocol may not require it.
I've no intent to crush the spirit of the Columbidae. In fact, flaws aside, I found her persona compelling in this dramatic tale. I am also conscious that an overly effusive response will elicit the wrath of our irascible Dragon, who, while I've no doubt loves me unquestionably, will not hesitate to drag her sharpened nails cross my face should I not be forthright in my assessment of the facts of the matter.
Hi there fleamailmanac_hithere
NO!!
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on May 22, 2023, 07:25:31 PM
Post by: Herman on May 22, 2023, 07:25:31 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Frood on May 23, 2023, 06:31:12 AM
Post by: Frood on May 23, 2023, 06:31:12 AM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on May 23, 2023, 06:46:46 PM
Post by: Herman on May 23, 2023, 06:46:46 PM
Living her life from all accounts....
And posting at Butthurt Fagtory. I looked.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on May 29, 2023, 07:03:50 AM
Post by: Dove on May 29, 2023, 07:03:50 AM
I am amazed a house can be bought for as little as $48,000. I am not bragging but that is trivial. I spent $24,000 in the last month and a half on solar which STILL isn't hooked to the grid2 because SDG&E are assholes..
It was a mobile home that I didn't even want. He led me to believe we were buying it all the while the entire idea was his mother's and SHE was buying it.
It's been a problem for a long time how involved and meddling she is. I've tried hard to work on everything and get him to have an appropriate relationship with his mother. It's just not possible.
Sadly he started drinking and getting black out drunk. Fucked a job interview I had and made my daughter miss an important dental app because he got black out drunk and his family had to step in and babysit him. So he risked the only car we have, his job (and with it the kids insurance) and his place in the nursing program. And no I don't feel bad for him. I was infuriated that he would make such horrid decisions that harm everyone because he isn't getting his way.
He went into the reentry program and I hope he actually participates in the therapy this time. I cannot.....CANNOT be expected to be the glue that holds this man togther. I can't be the reason for his sobriety. He has to do that for himself.
I stayed and tried longer and harder because I've always been afraid if I leave he will literally die. Relapse and die. Or fuck his life beyond repair. I just cannot live like that.
I want to have a good relationship with him so we can raise our daughter but right now I don't know how possible that is. I guess we will see as he goes through therapy. He took a leave from work....one his mother (of course) arranged for him because he just cannot seem to stand the fuck up.
If I have a male partner I NEED him to be stronger than me. This man isn't even AS strong as me and it honestly puts me into a perpetual state of anxiety.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on May 29, 2023, 07:06:01 AM
Post by: Dove on May 29, 2023, 07:06:01 AM
Where is old Dove anyway? Is she at Butthurt Fagtory?
Off and on. I just have a lot going on.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on May 29, 2023, 06:17:00 PM
Post by: Shen Li on May 29, 2023, 06:17:00 PM
Where is old Dove anyway? Is she at Butthurt Fagtory?
Off and on. I just have a lot going on.
Cheating on your man/treating him like toilet tissue and then bragging to strangers about it is tiring is it.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on May 29, 2023, 08:54:10 PM
Post by: Herman on May 29, 2023, 08:54:10 PM
Off and on. I just have a lot going on.
Cheating on your man/treating him like toilet tissue and then bragging to strangers about it is tiring is it.
Knock it off. Dove is an anti prog warrior with bigger balls than most men.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on May 29, 2023, 10:25:19 PM
Post by: Dove on May 29, 2023, 10:25:19 PM
Off and on. I just have a lot going on.
Cheating on your man/treating him like toilet tissue and then bragging to strangers about it is tiring is it.
What?
The fuck do you get this? You just pick sentences out of posts and string them togther to make your own narrative?
You are gonna do this ^^^ no matter what the actual circumstances are and pretend I'm bragging or all this other bullshit you are attaching to me because you dislike me and WANT to believe that.
And I don't care at all Shen. You can spew and fuss and whine all day and lay worthless and unsolicited judgement on whatever personality you've attached to my screen name all you want. I'm not gonna give a shit or argue your spazzy ass.
I can lay out my going ons as I see fit on the forum because there are people who've I've been cool with and posting with for years and years who find it interesting and care to hear it. At this point you are CHOSING whatever you want to believe.
IS getting romantically involved with someone after you've ended your current relationship and have nothing but paperwork left to settle and are open with that involvement actually cheating? Perhaps on a technicality.
Also I dont know how many times I've stated i tried my
hardest to work my marriage out and get past the issues we have and I even stopped the divorce the first time I filed and gave it another 4 or 5 years.....but if you wanna sit here and root for a man who gets black out drunk and tries to drive our only car and doesn't seem to give a fuck about risking the kids insurance and income JUST because I don't want to continue in a 3 way marriage with his mother....by all means, Shen. He probably needs someone because literally everyone knows this is his doing and no one blames me for closing this chapter but you.
Would like to have a contact for him so you can show your support of him now that he is doing his 8th stint in rehab?
Throw him away like toilet tissue.....smdh. Give me a fucking break. What the fuck do you know about this marriage beyond what I've said? Not a gordamn thing. Yet you switch it all up and get outraged at these versions you've created in your head because you have some weird existing beef with me and evidently need an excuse to air it because you are a pussy.
You are also a horrible human being who openly stated you hope a 6 year old little girl suffers and gets ripped from her mother just because you don't like posts on the internet. That's just vile and you are never gonna get a high ground. You are just lowering yourself and making everyone roll their eyes.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on May 29, 2023, 10:26:25 PM
Post by: Dove on May 29, 2023, 10:26:25 PM
Cheating on your man/treating him like toilet tissue and then bragging to strangers about it is tiring is it.
Knock it off. Dove is an anti prog warrior with bigger balls than most men.
Oh no! I'm a cheating man eater and an attention whore who blasts all the details of my life and threw my poor victimized husband out like toilet tissue.
Pass the barrel wash!
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on May 29, 2023, 10:39:56 PM
Post by: Herman on May 29, 2023, 10:39:56 PM
Knock it off. Dove is an anti prog warrior with bigger balls than most men.
Oh no! I'm a cheating man eater and an attention whore who blasts all the details of my life and threw my poor victimized husband out like toilet tissue.
Pass the barrel wash!
You are a gem kid. You are smart, feisty and brave. It is only Shen Li that has a problem with you. I think that is racial, not personal. Ya got to realize though, old Herman likes old Shen Li too. That is when she is not hating on her fellow anti progs for being White and human.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on May 29, 2023, 10:49:16 PM
Post by: Dove on May 29, 2023, 10:49:16 PM
Did I start it while with my soon to be EX? No. But I did have feelings for a long time. Off and on for decades.
And over the last two years when I was taking care of my abusive and horrible mother and M (besty now boyfriend) was taking care of his dying mother.....we were texting constantly. He was always my rock through pretty much my whole life and I really leaned on him the past two years. And vice versa.
The whole time all my husband did was fight me on moving and demand I go along with him. Shut down every discussion. Complain nonstop and snap at me and the kids. And the entire time I find out he had LIED to me about something serious.
I cannot tell you or go into all the issues I have had in my marriage. Joo knows some of them from being a support to me the first time I left. My husband NEEDS to be therapy. He NEEDS to be single. He is not in any position to led and take care of a family as he constantly runs to his mother to fix everything. Even things that do not need fixing. It's DEEPER than just lying about a house and I cannot and will not accept hand outs....moreso when we could have bought it ourselves.
I did not plan this happening with M. He is not the reason I'm divorcing. It's more overlapping circumstances and I have always loved and respected and admired him. I'm not passing up the opportunity to foster a deeper relationship with my best friend. And in my real life everyone knows. Everyone.
The timing is terrible and it looks terrible I know. But any shit talkers are gonna be over this within a year. They would be over this convo LONG before I'd be over M.
I have every right to pursue my own happiness. If people really want to call it cheating? Sure have at it. I have zero intention of making M hide in the shadows of my life while I stay in a marriage that is just flat out not working and not going to work. M is my person and that is all there is to it.
Just because I haven't been coming on the boards to air my marriage problems as they played out over the time I was trying hard to work on it and stay in it doesn't mean it was good. I'm not ever gonna slam my partner publically ever. And I'm not perfect either.....my husband and I are not right for eachother. We just are NOT. How much longer does something need to he worked on before you admit it's not gonna happen? This shit has been going on for a LONG time.
And just because I'm super happy with my M and I'm openly saying so doesn't mean I'm bragging. And I'm definately not cheating so I'm certainly not bragging that I'm cheating. That's drama right there that doesn't exist.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on May 29, 2023, 10:50:17 PM
Post by: Dove on May 29, 2023, 10:50:17 PM
Oh no! I'm a cheating man eater and an attention whore who blasts all the details of my life and threw my poor victimized husband out like toilet tissue.
Pass the barrel wash!
You are a gem kid. You are smart, feisty and brave. It is only Shen Li that has a problem with you. I think that is racial, not personal. Ya got to realize though, old Herman likes old Shen Li too. That is when she is not hating on her fellow anti progs for being White and human.
Thanks Herman
I don't really mind Shen. I think I remind her of someone she hates.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on May 29, 2023, 10:54:27 PM
Post by: Herman on May 29, 2023, 10:54:27 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on May 29, 2023, 10:54:52 PM
Post by: Herman on May 29, 2023, 10:54:52 PM
You are a gem kid. You are smart, feisty and brave. It is only Shen Li that has a problem with you. I think that is racial, not personal. Ya got to realize though, old Herman likes old Shen Li too. That is when she is not hating on her fellow anti progs for being White and human.
Thanks Herman:empathy:
I don't really mind Shen. I think I remind her of someone she hates.
Ya, I think so too.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on May 29, 2023, 10:56:53 PM
Post by: Dove on May 29, 2023, 10:56:53 PM
Kid, I do not think you should reply to this with more personal relationship details. It aint our beeswax and it only gives Shen Li ammo to split the anti prog coalition. it is just my two bits and you can tell me to go fuck myself.
It's not that big of a deal.
Everything is all out in the open now because someone decided black out drunk driving was a good idea. My closest people in real life know everything and the rest have a sort of rough draft.
I hope he participates in therapy this time but I don't have my hopes up.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on May 30, 2023, 10:00:42 PM
Post by: Herman on May 30, 2023, 10:00:42 PM
Kid, I do not think you should reply to this with more personal relationship details. It aint our beeswax and it only gives Shen Li ammo to split the anti prog coalition. it is just my two bits and you can tell me to go fuck myself.
It's not that big of a deal.
Everything is all out in the open now because someone decided black out drunk driving was a good idea. My closest people in real life know everything and the rest have a sort of rough draft.
I hope he participates in therapy this time but I don't have my hopes up.
I aint following what you mean, but that is okay. I do not need to know anyway.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: formosan on May 31, 2023, 02:55:43 PM
Post by: formosan on May 31, 2023, 02:55:43 PM
Where is old Dove anyway? Is she at Butthurt Fagtory?
Off and on. I just have a lot going on.
Hello Dove.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on June 04, 2023, 12:32:02 PM
Post by: Shen Li on June 04, 2023, 12:32:02 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Odinson on June 04, 2023, 02:50:51 PM
Post by: Odinson on June 04, 2023, 02:50:51 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on June 04, 2023, 05:09:09 PM
Post by: Shen Li on June 04, 2023, 05:09:09 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JfmzXsWH65U
Are you channelling ur iunner weebles?
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Odinson on June 04, 2023, 05:16:22 PM
Post by: Odinson on June 04, 2023, 05:16:22 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JfmzXsWH65U
Are you channelling ur iunner weebles?
I thought the Maury show was appropriate for this thread.
Its about the average American relationship and family life.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on June 04, 2023, 05:25:24 PM
Post by: Shen Li on June 04, 2023, 05:25:24 PM
Are you channelling ur iunner weebles?
I thought the Maury show was appropriate for this thread.
Its about the average American relationship and family life.
OK, got ya.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Adolf Oliver Bush on June 05, 2023, 06:48:21 AM
Post by: Adolf Oliver Bush on June 05, 2023, 06:48:21 AM
What you mean "we" paleface?
How long do we give Dove's new relationship?
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on June 12, 2023, 06:08:27 PM
Post by: Herman on June 12, 2023, 06:08:27 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JfmzXsWH65U
Maury's show was stupid too.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Lokmar on June 13, 2023, 11:48:47 AM
Post by: Lokmar on June 13, 2023, 11:48:47 AM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Shen Li on June 14, 2023, 05:34:33 PM
Post by: Shen Li on June 14, 2023, 05:34:33 PM
Bitches aint shit but ho's and trix!!!
Huh???
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Lokmar on June 14, 2023, 09:42:36 PM
Post by: Lokmar on June 14, 2023, 09:42:36 PM
Bitches aint shit but ho's and trix!!!
Huh???
Its a naygarized response to the maury clip.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on June 23, 2023, 01:18:04 AM
Post by: Dove on June 23, 2023, 01:18:04 AM
Bitches aint shit but ho's and trix!!!
Ssshhheeeiiit.
Nikka.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Melson Gibson on June 23, 2023, 01:21:51 AM
Post by: Melson Gibson on June 23, 2023, 01:21:51 AM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on June 23, 2023, 01:25:32 AM
Post by: Dove on June 23, 2023, 01:25:32 AM
It's not that big of a deal.
Everything is all out in the open now because someone decided black out drunk driving was a good idea. My closest people in real life know everything and the rest have a sort of rough draft.
I hope he participates in therapy this time but I don't have my hopes up.
I aint following what you mean, but that is okay. I do not need to know anyway.
I mean there isn't anything out there that I have a problem with. My ex was busy making a huge scene over things by making horrifically bad decisions.
He is back in rehab now. Went in like 3 weeks ago. He took a 60 day leave from work, opened a bank account with his mother and doesn't know where the car is.
So his family swooped in to manage his terrible behavior again and got his diaper back on him and his bottle warmed up.
I had to go to the hospital last week. I have a 7mm kidney stone that has to be removed and he started text bombing me and got some "family pass" and was trying to pressure me into letting him come sleep in my hospital room. I told him no several times. I eventually had to explain the situation to my nurse and have everyone blocked from my room except my M. Right now my ex is refusing to help take care of the kids unless I agree to go back with him. He doesn't care about the kids at all or anyone else's feelings but his.
Which is why he is now an ex.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on June 23, 2023, 01:39:51 AM
Post by: Dove on June 23, 2023, 01:39:51 AM
How long do we give Dove's new relationship? I say that lowlife white scumbag will be cheating on her new man within 6 months.
I only cheat on weak men. And even then I dump them first so I don't consider it cheating. No lies and no sneaking.
Thanks for the concern for my new relationship. We have been close friends for 28 years and dated before. I'm confident he is safe and he seems good to let things progress
I was gonna divorce and remain single. Before we did this ridiculous and dishonesty fueled move I wanted to get an RV and flip it and live in it. The only reason I was good with being back in the metro area was I would be closer to M ("new" guy) and I can help him more. I didn't like him living alone with his MS. And now....I'm here 24/7. But my plan was to separate and divorce and just pour my focus into other things. Get my mother placed somewhere appropriate because she needs way more than I can do. Get my tuxies all settled in an RV and do that. Squish would LOVE it.
There is no one who could make me leave or turn my eye. No one I know and certainly not a stranger. No one can compete with 28 years of being best friends. Not even a billionaire with a vibrating cock who can breath through his ears could steal this low life white scum bag woman from this magnetic force of a man with his beautiful blue eyes I've loved all my life, his comforting, sexy deep voice and the most intriguing mind and big heart. He is the one I've compared every guy to over the years.
If we live to be 80, we will have been in each other's lives for 70 some years and together for 40 some years.
No where else I'll ever wanna be.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: DKG on June 23, 2023, 09:21:49 AM
Post by: DKG on June 23, 2023, 09:21:49 AM
Bitches aint shit but ho's and trix!!!
Ssshhheeeiiit.
Nikka.
Hi Dove. Welcome back. I own this place now. I am not an admin though.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Odinson on June 23, 2023, 05:03:37 PM
Post by: Odinson on June 23, 2023, 05:03:37 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on June 23, 2023, 06:21:09 PM
Post by: Herman on June 23, 2023, 06:21:09 PM
Relationships = Happiness.
With the right gal, ya.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Melson Gibson on June 23, 2023, 06:24:58 PM
Post by: Melson Gibson on June 23, 2023, 06:24:58 PM
Relationships = Happiness.
There's downsides too, like women stinking up the bathroom with shit so potent that it makes your eyes water... I could come up with a long list of similar downsides, but the list would be too long.
But ya, generally it's nice to have someone around.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on June 23, 2023, 10:11:56 PM
Post by: Dove on June 23, 2023, 10:11:56 PM
Ssshhheeeiiit.
Nikka.
Hi Dove. Welcome back. I own this place now. I am not an admin though.
Thank you!
I've had alot going on but I float in on occasion. Life is wonderfully boring right now
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on June 23, 2023, 10:12:56 PM
Post by: Dove on June 23, 2023, 10:12:56 PM
Relationships = Happiness.
Not always. Bad ones can suck the life out of you.
I didn't even know how depressed I was until I was out.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on June 23, 2023, 10:31:05 PM
Post by: Herman on June 23, 2023, 10:31:05 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: DKG on June 24, 2023, 09:56:00 AM
Post by: DKG on June 24, 2023, 09:56:00 AM
Hi Dove. Welcome back. I own this place now. I am not an admin though.
Thank you!
I've had alot going on but I float in on occasion. Life is wonderfully boring right nowac_wub
Personally, I like boring.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on June 24, 2023, 10:00:03 AM
Post by: Dove on June 24, 2023, 10:00:03 AM
Dove is back to sit on old Herman's lap while we drink some barrel wash.
My bf got a subscription to some whiskey company and everything 3 months we get samples of different whiskey and bourbon and a bottle of a bourbon. It's pretty cool and it's supposed to be here today.
So we are gonna be testing out some bourbons tonight and have fun with it
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on June 24, 2023, 10:00:24 AM
Post by: Dove on June 24, 2023, 10:00:24 AM
Thank you!
I've had alot going on but I float in on occasion. Life is wonderfully boring right nowac_wub
Personally, I like boring.
Boring is awesome lol
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: DKG on June 24, 2023, 10:10:02 AM
Post by: DKG on June 24, 2023, 10:10:02 AM
Personally, I like boring.
Boring is awesome lol
I am comfortable with it.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on June 24, 2023, 01:58:32 PM
Post by: Anonymous on June 24, 2023, 01:58:32 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on June 24, 2023, 02:08:31 PM
Post by: Anonymous on June 24, 2023, 02:08:31 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on July 16, 2023, 10:57:59 PM
Post by: Anonymous on July 16, 2023, 10:57:59 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Adolf Oliver Bush on July 17, 2023, 04:16:50 AM
Post by: Adolf Oliver Bush on July 17, 2023, 04:16:50 AM
:crazy: https://bastardfactory.net/threads/ok-bf-its-time.13633/post-812752
A worthwhile contribution to be sure. Tell us, what do you masturbate with, inquiring minds wish to know.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Frood on July 17, 2023, 04:19:02 AM
Post by: Frood on July 17, 2023, 04:19:02 AM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on July 17, 2023, 08:03:37 AM
Post by: Dove on July 17, 2023, 08:03:37 AM
Good job!
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Biggie Smiles on July 17, 2023, 08:45:24 AM
Post by: Biggie Smiles on July 17, 2023, 08:45:24 AM
Still
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Anonymous on July 17, 2023, 12:54:58 PM
Post by: Anonymous on July 17, 2023, 12:54:58 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on July 17, 2023, 01:53:34 PM
Post by: Dove on July 17, 2023, 01:53:34 PM
Dove is so desperate for attention, she is willing to make a complete ass of herself.:ohmy:
Oh yeah you know....i really should mind my behavior around these forums and all the upstanding impressive people who hang out on them. I mean, if you people think I've made an ASS of myself, that could really ruin my whole reputation! It could even impact my ability to work! Or show my face literally anywhere!
I could be.....cast out of society and forced to live in a cave!
Oh please good internet sir.....please look past my ass like behavior. I am but a small, needy forum peasant. Have mercy on me, great and powerful, faceless forum dweller that you are!
How can I possibly get through this day knowing I've made an ASS on myself on a site called Bastard Factory! I'm so ashamed!!
I'll do better, sir!
**belch**
Just on a side note...I don't really get the chance to be "desperate" for attention, I'm literally never at a loss of it considering how often I'm discussed and how I can waltz right into any meltdown thread, snap my fingers and have passionate participation with any argument I feel like having.
Maybe cool the jets a bit and LET me have the opportunity to miss the attention and maybe start to get desperate for it. After all....did I go to you? Nah....nah I didn't. See?
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on July 17, 2023, 03:27:13 PM
Post by: Herman on July 17, 2023, 03:27:13 PM
Dove is so desperate for attention, she is willing to make a complete ass of herself.:ohmy:
If you had written the deadbeat dad, you would be right.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Melson Gibson on July 17, 2023, 04:14:08 PM
Post by: Melson Gibson on July 17, 2023, 04:14:08 PM
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Biggie Smiles on July 17, 2023, 04:16:15 PM
Post by: Biggie Smiles on July 17, 2023, 04:16:15 PM
Dove appears to crave random internet forum poster cock. Not sure I've witnessed this before, and I've witnessed plenty of things online...
You obviously haven't met that progressive pansy admin a.k.a apeass
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Melson Gibson on July 17, 2023, 04:18:40 PM
Post by: Melson Gibson on July 17, 2023, 04:18:40 PM
You obviously haven't met that progressive pansy admin a.k.a apeass
Does it crave forum cock also? This must be a uniquely American phenomenon...
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Biggie Smiles on July 17, 2023, 04:25:47 PM
Post by: Biggie Smiles on July 17, 2023, 04:25:47 PM
You obviously haven't met that progressive pansy admin a.k.a apeass
Does it crave forum cock also? This must be a uniquely American phenomenon...
He loves the cock. without a doubt
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Herman on July 17, 2023, 04:27:18 PM
Post by: Herman on July 17, 2023, 04:27:18 PM
Does it crave forum cock also? This must be a uniquely American phenomenon...
He loves the cock. without a doubt
I never doubted it for a second.
Title: Re: Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up
Post by: Dove on July 17, 2023, 04:27:49 PM
Post by: Dove on July 17, 2023, 04:27:49 PM
Dove appears to crave random internet forum poster cock. Not sure I've witnessed this before, and I've witnessed plenty of things online...
Being a heterosexual female, I do crave cock. I'm not really fussy about whether the cock I currently get fancy on comes organically in real life or I've dug it up online. If it's attached to a man I find intriguing....I'm gonna be into it.
However I met my current bf back in 1994. My best friend at the time and his best friend at the time were boyfriend/girlfriend. So they had thus plan to hook him and I up. So my friend talked me into skipping school (not hard to do) and they came to pick us up and we went to a local park.
.
He is tall....6'7. Had longish, curly dirty blonde hair. Dorky dark framed glasses and a long puffy coat with a rip in it. I was scared of him. He barely looked at me. So .....ibwas mean to him lol.
Felt bad. Got his number. Called him to apologize. We ended up talking ALL night. First of many all night convos. We dated when I was 19. Stayed best friends for 20 years. Now it's way more than friendship.
I did NOT meet him online.
And LOVE talking about him so don't get me started lol