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Title: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Annie on December 21, 2014, 01:59:43 AM
I find every year, the last week leading up to Christmas is the worst for me and New Year's. I hide it well from my family but I do a lot of crying. I reflect back on the past year and worry about the year to follow. I also think about all the loved ones that have passed and I miss them dearly. I am thankful for having what we have but feel sad that I can't provide more and at the same time I feel bad for others who have less and how they must feel while it looks like everyone around is celebrating and with family.  I hear about people killed in stupid accidents and how this must effect they're family right before Christmas.   I have a small family left but I feel sad for others who may not have anyone  ac_crying
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Obvious Li on December 21, 2014, 07:18:21 AM
i really really do hate everything about christmas....i have my reasons but suffice to say i fucking hate this time of year....another compelling argument against divorce.........life was so much simpler back in the day........ ac_beating  ac_drinks
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Annie on December 21, 2014, 10:40:41 AM
So you hurt at Christmas too?   ac_drinks
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: keeper on December 21, 2014, 01:10:22 PM
I try to make the best of this time of year, although i do have family they dont wish to celebrate it with me and dont even bother asking what i am doing...This year i focused on my job and getting "healthy", If it was up to me i would have stayed in Arizona for xmas but the company didnt want to pay me.

I try not to think about it but like you Annie ,im good at hiding how lonely i am. When i got home Friday i went to pick up my puppy at the Kennel and i just sat in my Truck sobbing how much i missed her...So, i will spend xmas with my dog ac_wub and i get a few more days off since om on rotation now. Im sure there are people who have it ALOT worse then me so im thank full for what i have.



I do miss the BIG turkey dinner though acc_angry
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: cc on December 21, 2014, 01:11:04 PM
Thanks for posting this Annie ... and not only posting it but describing the feelings that some of us have.



While the expenditure / presents expenditure / presents expenditure / presents part of it would alone rule it out for me, as would the increased traffic en route  to the malls, in parking lots and NOT happy unfriendly people inside the malls supposedly buying happy presents. Increased traffic / hassle alone stops me and keeps me at home a lot at this time of year



Part of that is driven by the pressure / expectation to buy presents for people they know ..... "obligation" so many feel



But one deep personal reason is having lost so many close to me, 2 kids of 3, 1 brother of 2 and many more people. No way I can feel good at this time of year - in fact, it all makes me feel totally lousy - except when I can ignore it (not easy as it is in your face everywhere).

I am sad less for myself, as I can often just turn it off "at times", and more  so for  many others out there in similar and often worse personal situations  ... many of whom cannot turn it off what with it being in their face ALL the time



Another deep personal reason  I feel sad is that I know there are so many others who do not have the opportunities I have. So many cannot afford it.



Another deep personal reason is that I know there are others who have lost a lot, many have lost more than I have and cannot cope. It is such an un bearable  sad time for them



Another deep personal reason  I feel sad is that I know there are so many others with nobody  .. nada .. to share it with. The hoopla is demeaning to them and makes life hell for many



It is the worse time of the year for so many people. I'm lucky in that for the most part I can "cave" to partially" escape the terrible feelings it brings to me



I am not finished, but have to go now. Will continue with my feelings about it later if I can
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: cc on December 21, 2014, 01:53:29 PM
BTW. I'm being candid here. I don't rain on the parades of people around me unless invited and we have common feelings



I fake it and try to make others who are sad this time of year feel a bit less sad
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 21, 2014, 02:00:18 PM
Quote from: "Annie"I find every year, the last week leading up to Christmas is the worst for me and New Year's. I hide it well from my family but I do a lot of crying. I reflect back on the past year and worry about the year to follow. I also think about all the loved ones that have passed and I miss them dearly. I am thankful for having what we have but feel sad that I can't provide more and at the same time I feel bad for others who have less and how they must feel while it looks like everyone around is celebrating and with family.  I hear about people killed in stupid accidents and how this must effect they're family right before Christmas.   I have a small family left but I feel sad for others who may not have anyone  ac_crying

I find New Year's brings a tear to my eye as I reflect on the sadness of the year that has passed.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: keeper on December 21, 2014, 03:23:36 PM
Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "Annie"I find every year, the last week leading up to Christmas is the worst for me and New Year's. I hide it well from my family but I do a lot of crying. I reflect back on the past year and worry about the year to follow. I also think about all the loved ones that have passed and I miss them dearly. I am thankful for having what we have but feel sad that I can't provide more and at the same time I feel bad for others who have less and how they must feel while it looks like everyone around is celebrating and with family.  I hear about people killed in stupid accidents and how this must effect they're family right before Christmas.   I have a small family left but I feel sad for others who may not have anyone  ac_crying

I find New Year's brings a tear to my eye as I reflect on the sadness of the year that has passed.


Well Said Shen acc_hugz

Edit:  ac_crying  My apologies for making the comments i did, I just didnt want to spew my heart ache and opted for stupid humor. Sorry about that.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 21, 2014, 03:27:24 PM
Quote from: "Keeper"
Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "Annie"I find every year, the last week leading up to Christmas is the worst for me and New Year's. I hide it well from my family but I do a lot of crying. I reflect back on the past year and worry about the year to follow. I also think about all the loved ones that have passed and I miss them dearly. I am thankful for having what we have but feel sad that I can't provide more and at the same time I feel bad for others who have less and how they must feel while it looks like everyone around is celebrating and with family.  I hear about people killed in stupid accidents and how this must effect they're family right before Christmas.   I have a small family left but I feel sad for others who may not have anyone  ac_crying

I find New Year's brings a tear to my eye as I reflect on the sadness of the year that has passed.


Well Said Shen acc_hugz



I always have hopeful thoughts that the new year to come will be better then the last.



And, that Santa will set me up with a nice 25-30 year old Asian beauty that doesnt want to get married and loves latex,rubber spoons,2 different color socks on a man, sleeping in, farting in the tub, long walks through wall mart, butt massages and lastly doesnt mind that i leave the toilet seat up.  ac_dance

 ac_blush
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Obvious Li on December 21, 2014, 06:40:31 PM
Quote from: "Annie"So you hurt at Christmas too?   ac_drinks




not sure annie.....i truly think i got over that years ago...but i do miss what was, for sure...and i am angered by the fact that fathers get sidelined in a divorce and generally ripped apart....i have not spent  a christmas with my kids, and now grandkids since 1990.....they have developed their own traditions with their mother.....i am used to missing it...but i resent my kids for choosing their mother 100% of the time.....there is a terrible karma awaiting my two sons that they aren't even aware of yet......hopefully their luck holds.....what really bothers me is that i could/may/will die in the next couple of decades and they will not even know who i was......considering the life we had prior to 1990 that is a tragedy.......that's my 2014 xmas cheer
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 21, 2014, 06:51:11 PM
Quote from: "Obvious Li"
Quote from: "Annie"So you hurt at Christmas too?   ac_drinks




not sure annie.....i truly think i got over that years ago...but i do miss what was, for sure...and i am angered by the fact that fathers get sidelined in a divorce and generally ripped apart....i have not spent  a christmas with my kids, and now grandkids since 1990.....they have developed their own traditions with their mother.....i am used to missing it...but i resent my kids for choosing their mother 100% of the time.....there is a terrible karma awaiting my two sons that they aren't even aware of yet......hopefully their luck holds.....what really bothers me is that i could/may/will die in the next couple of decades and they will not even know who i was......considering the life we had prior to 1990 that is a tragedy.......that's my 2014 xmas cheer

All I can say is your sons are making a big mistake handsome. On the other hand, in some ways I understand them. I would be lying the yellow off my shapely ass if I said my feelings towards my Daddy have not changed this past year. However, I owe it to my son to have his grandpa a part of his life. It's not always easy and I find it hard sometimes keeping my emotions in check, but that would be terribly selfish of me to deny my son his grandpa. Besides, I will eventually get over what I am feeling....I hope!!
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on December 21, 2014, 08:30:26 PM
ac_crying
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on December 21, 2014, 09:07:30 PM
The "frills" that go with Christmas seem to be meant for the children only. I find it sad if an adult still gets excited over that, then again, who knows. Maybe some adults like to get excited that way.



I ride a shuttle each day and when I hear the Christmas songs that include Jingle Bells or Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer, I find myself annoyed with it. Christmas is not about Rudolph or bells. I find it irritating now actually.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: RW on December 21, 2014, 09:11:06 PM
cc, I know it is not intended but I cannot read your heartache without crying.  I still can't fathom how difficult this time of year is for you.  I wish I could give you a big hug.



Edit



This year, I suffered a significant MS relapse which is why I'm in Van.  I get extreme facial pain but this time, my right leg hurt as well and ended up going numb.  It really hard to deal with a body that just doesn't work right.  I'm finding myself extremely depressed.  I've started pushing people away because I don't want anyone close to me right now.



I hope I feel better once I get back home to my husband and midgets.  Sorry to be a drag but I opted for honesty rather than fake optimism.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: cc on December 21, 2014, 10:15:15 PM
Thanks for being honest. That is what I was doing also.



I know words are easy to type, but I think you know that I mean it when I say  ... I'm sorry for your pain and guilt



I did not know about what I think you likely wisely chose to remove but I am so glad it worked out the way it did.


QuoteI wish I could give you a big hug
 You just did!!!



One back for you. You are very special.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 21, 2014, 10:20:11 PM
Quote from: "cc li tarte"Thanks for posting this Annie ... and not only posting it but describing the feelings that some of us have.



While the expenditure / presents expenditure / presents expenditure / presents part of it would alone rule it out for me, as would the increased traffic en route  to the malls, in parking lots and NOT happy unfriendly people inside the malls supposedly buying happy presents. Increased traffic / hassle alone stops me and keeps me at home a lot at this time of year



Part of that is driven by the pressure / expectation to buy presents for people they know ..... "obligation" so many feel



But one deep personal reason is having lost so many close to me, 2 kids of 3, 1 brother of 2 and many more people. No way I can feel good at this time of year - in fact, it all makes me feel totally lousy - except when I can ignore it (not easy as it is in your face everywhere).

I am sad less for myself, as I can often just turn it off "at times", and more  so for  many others out there in similar and often worse personal situations  ... many of whom cannot turn it off what with it being in their face ALL the time



Another deep personal reason  I feel sad is that I know there are so many others who do not have the opportunities I have. So many cannot afford it.



Another deep personal reason is that I know there are others who have lost a lot, many have lost more than I have and cannot cope. It is such an un bearable  sad time for them



Another deep personal reason  I feel sad is that I know there are so many others with nobody  .. nada .. to share it with. The hoopla is demeaning to them and makes life hell for many



It is the worse time of the year for so many people. I'm lucky in that for the most part I can "cave" to partially" escape the terrible feelings it brings to me



I am not finished, but have to go now. Will continue with my feelings about it later if I can

Hello cc li tarte, I saw this before, but I did not how to respond..



I could not imagine how that kind of loss..



I feel guilty because I enjoy this time of year so much.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 21, 2014, 10:22:39 PM
Quote from: "Azhya Aryola"The "frills" that go with Christmas seem to be meant for the children only. I find it sad if an adult still gets excited over that, then again, who knows. Maybe some adults like to get excited that way.



I ride a shuttle each day and when I hear the Christmas songs that include Jingle Bells or Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer, I find myself annoyed with it. Christmas is not about Rudolph or bells. I find it irritating now actually.

I love Christmas very much, but I share your feelings about those songs.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: cc on December 21, 2014, 10:26:27 PM
Quote I did not how to respond
I understand and posted it only to be honest and NOT for response ... response that is not easy or maybe even impossible to give.



I thank you for caring. That matters to me



Please don't let me or anyone take from you and your family's celebration.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 21, 2014, 10:27:09 PM
Quote from: "Real Woman"cc, I know it is not intended but I cannot read your heartache without crying.  I still can't fathom how difficult this time of year is for you.  I wish I could give you a big hug.



Edit



This year, I suffered a significant MS relapse which is why I'm in Van.  I get extreme facial pain but this time, my right leg hurt as well and ended up going numb.  It really hard to deal with a body that just doesn't work right.  I'm finding myself extremely depressed.  I've started pushing people away because I don't want anyone close to me right now.



I hope I feel better once I get back home to my husband and midgets.  Sorry to be a drag but I opted for honesty rather than fake optimism.

You are in my prayers Real Woman.

 acc_hugz
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Annie on December 21, 2014, 10:50:59 PM
Sending you warm hugs RW and if there was a way to give the gift of taking away pain, I would give it to you.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 21, 2014, 10:58:51 PM
Quote from: "Annie"Sending you warm hugs RW and if there was a way to give the gift of taking away pain, I would give it to you.

We all feel that way Annie..



I sometimes think I should contain my happiness at this time of the year..



My husband and I love Christmas, but I realize not everyone is as fortunate as we are..



Some of you have bravely shared very personal reasons why this season makes you feel sad..



Everyone in my family is healthy and the only family member who is not with us anymore is my father in law..



We also have more than we need..



I am sad to read about the pain some of you feel at this time of year, but I am glad you highlighted that this season is a mixed one for many people Annie.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Annie on December 21, 2014, 11:02:19 PM
I love and hate Christmas every year, I think ever since one of my brothers died on Boxing Day 17 years ago :( I was the last person to see him alive and I regret not saying I Love You to him :(
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 21, 2014, 11:05:22 PM
Quote from: "Annie"I love and hate Christmas every year, I think ever since one of my brothers died on Boxing Day 17 years ago :( I was the last person to see him alive and I regret not saying I Love You to him :(

 ac_crying
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Renee on December 22, 2014, 10:58:02 AM
It's funny but we all communicate with each other here pretty much daily and I know for me, I sometimes forget that you are all very real people. It's threads like this that bring the reality of your lives and existence home.  ac_hithere



For all of you who are having a rough time this holiday season I want to wish you all the best and I wish I could help make some of your pain go away for even just a little while. This thread is heart wrenching and those of you who know my personality know that I'm not given to responding to mushy stuff but this thread has put a lump in my throat.



All the best, guys. ac_crying
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 22, 2014, 12:28:47 PM
Quote from: "Renee"It's funny but we all communicate with each other here pretty much daily and I know for me, I sometimes forget that you are all very real people. It's threads like this that bring the reality of your lives and existence home.  ac_hithere



For all of you who are having a rough time this holiday season I want to wish you all the best and I wish I could help make some of your pain go away for even just a little while. This thread is heart wrenching and those of you who know my personality know that I'm not given to responding to mushy stuff but this thread has put a lump in my throat.



All the best, guys. ac_crying

Well said Renee!!
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Annie on December 22, 2014, 04:01:29 PM
Ditto Renee, all the best to you and everyone to have a Merry Christmas or whatever you celebrate.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 22, 2014, 04:24:29 PM
Quote from: "Annie"Ditto Renee, all the best to you and everyone to have a Merry Christmas or whatever you celebrate.

You as well Annie. acc_bath
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: cc on December 22, 2014, 05:11:32 PM
Best wishes to EVERY ONE of you



from a  horny dear
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Frost on December 22, 2014, 06:41:22 PM
I find Christmas more than depressing, they are rotten times.

There is bright moments, and good people I notice, but mostly self centered, self absorbed people.

Christmas has depressed me since I was a kid, I never really got what i wanted, and my parents couldn't afford really what we did get.

I'm sorry if I offend, but to hell with the holiday the way it has evolved with commercialism.

I really can't make it special for a kid anymore, they get to much during the year.



I think I need to find some needy family, and just do Christmas for them for my pleasure, and theirs.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 22, 2014, 08:24:35 PM
Quote from: "Blue"I find Christmas more than depressing, they are rotten times.

There is bright moments, and good people I notice, but mostly self centered, self absorbed people.

Christmas has depressed me since I was a kid, I never really got what i wanted, and my parents couldn't afford really what we did get.

I'm sorry if I offend, but to hell with the holiday the way it has evolved with commercialism.

I really can't make it special for a kid anymore, they get to much during the year.



I think I need to find some needy family, and just do Christmas for them for my pleasure, and theirs.

I don't mind Xmas, but it doesn't mean as much to me as Native-born Canadians. Lunar New Year in China though is really something though. All about being with family. Fuck, I miss it.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on December 22, 2014, 09:49:53 PM
Group hug, team ACC. Chin up, everyone. We are not alone. We have each other to comfort. I like the ladies here in ACC and the gentlemen too.  ac_hithere



Annie, you're so sweet. Thanks.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Obvious Li on December 22, 2014, 10:01:34 PM
Quote from: "Azhya Aryola"Group hug, team ACC. Chin up, everyone. We are not alone. We have each other to comfort. I like the ladies here in ACC and the gentlemen too.  ac_hithere



Annie, you're so sweet. Thanks.




fuck that noise........... acc_devil
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 22, 2014, 10:09:32 PM
Quote from: "Azhya Aryola"Group hug, team ACC. Chin up, everyone. We are not alone. We have each other to comfort. I like the ladies here in ACC and the gentlemen too.  ac_hithere



Annie, you're so sweet. Thanks.

Annie has known setbacks in her life and always bounced back. A tuff chick!!
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Annie on December 22, 2014, 10:16:41 PM
Haha, ya I could write a book, or even a whole series, the stories I could tell you.....lol
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Annie on December 22, 2014, 10:17:37 PM
Quote from: "Obvious Li"
Quote from: "Azhya Aryola"Group hug, team ACC. Chin up, everyone. We are not alone. We have each other to comfort. I like the ladies here in ACC and the gentlemen too.  ac_hithere



Annie, you're so sweet. Thanks.




fuck that noise........... acc_devil




Aww group hug, even you Obvious Li  acc_hugz  acc_hugz  acc_hugz  acc_hugz
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 22, 2014, 10:19:52 PM
Quote from: "Annie"Haha, ya I could write a book, or even a whole series, the stories I could tell you.....lol

What's on the agenda for Wednesday and Thursday Annie?
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Annie on December 22, 2014, 10:27:55 PM
Wednesday will be hanging out with home family and Thursday we're going to my brother and his family for the day. Bringing chocolates and a gingerbread house kit. Maybe my little niece and nephew will want to build it with me :) Friday we will have a family dinner at home, I'm making bacon and sausage cabbage rolls. What about you Shen?
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: cc on December 22, 2014, 10:29:12 PM
Quote from: "Shen Li"
Annie has known setbacks in her life and always bounced back. A tuff chick!!

YUP!!!
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Annie on December 22, 2014, 10:30:25 PM
Our daughter needs new glasses really bad so tomorrow after her eye appointment, she's getting new frames. I'm hoping someone has a deal, she likes the tint when the sun hits, safer for the eyes.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 22, 2014, 10:35:53 PM
Quote from: "Annie"Wednesday will be hanging out with home family and Thursday we're going to my brother and his family for the day. Bringing chocolates and a gingerbread house kit. Maybe my little niece and nephew will want to build it with me :) Friday we will have a family dinner at home, I'm making bacon and sausage cabbage rolls. What about you Shen?

Our plans have changed for Xmas eve. We'll have dim sum at home, just the three of us, but one of my husband's single buddies is supposed to come over for a visit and drinks. Thursday is turkey and stuffing day at home. My Daddy will drop by that day too(alone) to see his grandson, but won't stay for the meal.



As my son gets a little older I will enjoy giving him a good Xmas. For myself though, it doesn't mean all that much. As I said, I miss Lunar New Year back in China. IMO, that was a lot more fun and traditional than this high stress holiday.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 22, 2014, 10:52:20 PM
I like Botticelli Hedgehogs.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Annie on December 22, 2014, 10:55:19 PM
I did my shopping months ago and it's a lot less every year. Kids are adults and they don't really want much. I always get them and hubby a year supply of under wear and socks and they love it. Also, t shirts, sweaters, stuff they need and will use. I wore my Santa hat today when I went to get cat food and a guy honked at me and waved lol So that was nice.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 22, 2014, 11:00:45 PM
Quote from: "Annie"I did my shopping months ago and it's a lot less every year. Kids are adults and they don't really want much. I always get them and hubby a year supply of under wear and socks and they love it. Also, t shirts, sweaters, stuff they need and will use. I wore my Santa hat today when I went to get cat food and a guy honked at me and waved lol So that was nice.

I would think it will be like that for my children when they grow up..



My son likes Xbox games, but I ration how much time he is allowed to spend on it in a week..



One new game per Christmas..



I bought my husband and my son a new remote control airplane..



I got them a beginner model last year, but their flying skills have improved..



It's a good bonding exercise for them.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Annie on December 22, 2014, 11:03:31 PM
Our kids still have they're wii, playstation consoles and a few games they regularly play with they're friends. The old Nintendo is the favorite with the old Mario games, they never get bored with it. Oh and Pokemon Stadium, they've been playing that game for the last 15 years at least! lol
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Annie on December 22, 2014, 11:05:03 PM
A few years back I bought our son a remote control helicopter. The next day his best friend came over and promptly got it stuck and broken under the bed, so no more remote control anything.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 22, 2014, 11:06:15 PM
Quote from: "Annie"Our kids still have they're wii, playstation consoles and a few games they regularly play with they're friends. The old Nintendo is the favorite with the old Mario games, they never get bored with it. Oh and Pokemon Stadium, they've been playing that game for the last 15 years at least! lol

Grown men who are still gamers? Once in a while is OK, but as their main hobby?? No way.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 22, 2014, 11:15:25 PM
Quote from: "Annie"A few years back I bought our son a remote control helicopter. The next day his best friend came over and promptly got it stuck and broken under the bed, so no more remote control anything.

My son is not allowed to take out the remote control plane without his father's supervision..



There is a flying club in my city that I want them to join..



The new plane I bought them is more sophisticated than the one they had..



They both enjoy flying very much.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Annie on December 22, 2014, 11:19:07 PM
Haha it's funny when his buddies come over, they have a few beers and play Nintendo. They're all 22 and up but act like little boys, it's super funny.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 22, 2014, 11:32:18 PM
Quote from: "Annie"Haha it's funny when his buddies come over, they have a few beers and play Nintendo. They're all 22 and up but act like little boys, it's super funny.

I have never seen that Annie, but it sounds like it would be a spectacle to see.

 ac_biggrin
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: RW on December 23, 2014, 02:05:01 PM
Quote from: "cc li tarte"Thanks for being honest. That is what I was doing also.



I know words are easy to type, but I think you know that I mean it when I say  ... I'm sorry for your pain and guilt



I did not know about what I think you likely wisely chose to remove but I am so glad it worked out the way it did.


QuoteI wish I could give you a big hug
 You just did!!!



One back for you. You are very special.

This means a lot to me cc.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 23, 2014, 03:30:10 PM
^You home yet RW? Shopping all done?
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: RW on December 23, 2014, 04:15:14 PM
Yes!  I made it home late last night and I am sooooo glad to have slept in my own damn bed after 3 attempts to get home and a city detour.  



My shopping is almost all done but not quite.  I need to finish with some stocking stuffers.  I was hoping to make my daughter a dress but I don't have time now.  I also have to get ready for our Christmas eve appie party we host every year and Christmas turkey dinner.  As soon as my helper gets here, I am off to the races :)



How about you?
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 23, 2014, 04:18:29 PM
Quote from: "Real Woman"Yes!  I made it home late last night and I am sooooo glad to have slept in my own damn bed after 3 attempts to get home and a city detour.  



My shopping is almost all done but not quite.  I need to finish with some stocking stuffers.  I was hoping to make my daughter a dress but I don't have time now.  I also have to get ready for our Christmas eve appie party we host every year and Christmas turkey dinner.  As soon as my helper gets here, I am off to the races :)



How about you?

Mommy ordered in some dim sum for tomorrow. We'll pick it up cold and steam it ourselves. My husband likes those appies too, but we wanted something different this year.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: RW on December 23, 2014, 04:53:51 PM
I made wontons last week for the first time.  What a pain in the ass!
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 23, 2014, 05:21:44 PM
Quote from: "Real Woman"I made wontons last week for the first time.  What a pain in the ass!

I have seen the time Mommy puts into making spring rolls. No thank you....unless someone else is making them.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on December 23, 2014, 09:28:02 PM
Among recent items I've made are duck and Brussels sprouts. I'm looking for Turkish figs. I have a renewed interest in Yukon gold potatoes. They are truly yummy as they roast in the same pan as the duck. I'm not usually into potatoes but these were yummy. Always use a pan rack when roasting duck.



Merry Christmas everyone!
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 23, 2014, 09:32:35 PM
Quote from: "Azhya Aryola"Among recent items I've made are duck and Brussels sprouts. I'm looking for Turkish figs. I have a renewed interest in Yukon gold potatoes. They are truly yummy as they roast in the same pan as the duck. I'm not usually into potatoes but these were yummy. Always use a pan rack when roasting duck.



Merry Christmas everyone!

Merry Christmas to you as well Azhya Aryola and thank you for the tips.

 ac_smile
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Annie on December 23, 2014, 11:09:34 PM
Glad you made it home safely, RW  Merry Christmas!  ac_drinks
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 24, 2014, 12:19:19 AM
Quote from: "Azhya Aryola"Among recent items I've made are duck and Brussels sprouts. I'm looking for Turkish figs. I have a renewed interest in Yukon gold potatoes. They are truly yummy as they roast in the same pan as the duck. I'm not usually into potatoes but these were yummy. Always use a pan rack when roasting duck.



Merry Christmas everyone!

How do Turkish figs figure into the meal?
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: RW on December 24, 2014, 04:49:42 AM
Quote from: "Annie"Glad you made it home safely, RW  Merry Christmas!  ac_drinks

Thanks Annie!  Merry Christmas to you as well.  I hope it is a happy one on your end as well :)   acc_hugz
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Gary Oak on December 24, 2014, 12:27:23 PM
Quote from: "Real Woman"
Quote from: "Annie"Glad you made it home safely, RW  Merry Christmas!  ac_drinks

Thanks Annie!  Merry Christmas to you as well.  I hope it is a happy one on your end as well :)   acc_hugz

If you want to give your kids a great Christmas, you should give them an IOU for the epic, illustrious novel The Tartan Dragon.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: RW on December 24, 2014, 01:29:28 PM
That would ruin their Christmas.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: cc on December 24, 2014, 02:29:04 PM
lol @ dead horse flogger Gary
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: keeper on December 24, 2014, 02:57:10 PM
Quote from: "Real Woman"That would ruin their Christmas.


Look at them lips - Them both yours RW?  ac_tongue
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 24, 2014, 04:16:50 PM
Quote from: "Real Woman"That would ruin their Christmas.

They would have the satisfaction though of knowing they helped Oak earn a commission. That just has to brighten their day. ac_razz
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: RW on December 24, 2014, 04:55:59 PM
Quote from: "Keeper"
Quote from: "Real Woman"That would ruin their Christmas.


Look at them lips - Them both yours RW?  ac_tongue

They actually belong to my sister. :)
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: RW on December 24, 2014, 04:56:59 PM
Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "Real Woman"That would ruin their Christmas.

They would have the satisfaction though of knowing they helped Oak earn a commission. That just has to brighten their day. ac_razz

That has to be one of the most poorly written books I have read in my entire life.  I swear, my kid wrote a story about a Christmas corn dog when he was in Grade 1 and was more riveting than the Tartan Dragon.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on December 24, 2014, 08:02:36 PM
Quote from: "Shen Li"How do Turkish figs figure into the meal?


I think it will go well with the duck after it has roasted along with the juices from the duck. I followed a recipe, Shen, and I will share it here.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on December 24, 2014, 08:30:58 PM
Shen, this is the photo that went with the recipe I was following in Bon Appetit. It shows two ducks and the figs and Yukon Gold potatoes arranged around the ducks. I made this but just with one duck and the Yukon Gold potatoes. I could not find the figs. I have one more place to check out, the International Market.



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http://www.bonappetit.com/recipe/roast-ducks-with-potatoes-figs-and-rosemary



Preparation



Preheat oven to 425°. Set ducks, breast side down, on a work surface and score fatty areas along backs and thighs with a paring knife, being careful not to cut into flesh. Turn over and score fat, concentrating mainly on breasts but extending to tops of legs. Poke a few holes around extra-fatty areas of cavity.



Stuff ducks with onions and all but 4 sprigs rosemary; season generously with salt and pepper (much of the seasoning will melt away as the fat renders).



Place ducks, breast side down, in a large roasting pan; pour in ½ cup water. Roast, rotating pan occasionally, until duck fat starts to render, water is evaporated, and skin is golden brown, about 40 minutes. Remove pan from oven and transfer ducks to a platter or baking dish. Carefully pour rendered fat into a heatproof measuring cup.



Toss potatoes and ¼ cup duck fat in roasting pan (save remaining fat for another use); season with salt and pepper. Scoot potatoes to perimeter and return ducks to pan, breast side up. Roast until potatoes and dark meat are tender and an instant-read thermometer inserted into breasts registers 155°, 50–60 minutes. Transfer ducks to a cutting board; let rest at least 10 minutes before carving.



Meanwhile, add figs and remaining 4 rosemary sprigs to pan; toss well. Roast until figs are soft and juicy, 5–8 minutes. Serve duck with figs and potatoes.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 26, 2014, 07:19:30 PM
Quote from: "Azhya Aryola"Shen, this is the photo that went with the recipe I was following in Bon Appetit. It shows two ducks and the figs and Yukon Gold potatoes arranged around the ducks. I made this but just with one duck and the Yukon Gold potatoes. I could not find the figs. I have one more place to check out, the International Market.



(//%3C/s%3E%3CURL%20url=%22http://www.bonappetit.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/roast-ducks-with-potatoes-figs-and-rosemary-940x600.jpg%22%3E%3CLINK_TEXT%20text=%22http://www.bonappetit.com/wp-content/up%20...%2040x600.jpg%22%3Ehttp://www.bonappetit.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/roast-ducks-with-potatoes-figs-and-rosemary-940x600.jpg%3C/LINK_TEXT%3E%3C/URL%3E%3Ce%3E)



http://www.bonappetit.com/recipe/roast-ducks-with-potatoes-figs-and-rosemary



Preparation



Preheat oven to 425°. Set ducks, breast side down, on a work surface and score fatty areas along backs and thighs with a paring knife, being careful not to cut into flesh. Turn over and score fat, concentrating mainly on breasts but extending to tops of legs. Poke a few holes around extra-fatty areas of cavity.



Stuff ducks with onions and all but 4 sprigs rosemary; season generously with salt and pepper (much of the seasoning will melt away as the fat renders).



Place ducks, breast side down, in a large roasting pan; pour in ½ cup water. Roast, rotating pan occasionally, until duck fat starts to render, water is evaporated, and skin is golden brown, about 40 minutes. Remove pan from oven and transfer ducks to a platter or baking dish. Carefully pour rendered fat into a heatproof measuring cup.



Toss potatoes and ¼ cup duck fat in roasting pan (save remaining fat for another use); season with salt and pepper. Scoot potatoes to perimeter and return ducks to pan, breast side up. Roast until potatoes and dark meat are tender and an instant-read thermometer inserted into breasts registers 155°, 50–60 minutes. Transfer ducks to a cutting board; let rest at least 10 minutes before carving.



Meanwhile, add figs and remaining 4 rosemary sprigs to pan; toss well. Roast until figs are soft and juicy, 5–8 minutes. Serve duck with figs and potatoes.

Does that ever look delicious.
Title: Re: Merry or Sad Christmas
Post by: Anonymous on December 28, 2014, 04:11:22 PM
Quote from: "Real Woman"
Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "Real Woman"That would ruin their Christmas.

They would have the satisfaction though of knowing they helped Oak earn a commission. That just has to brighten their day. ac_razz

That has to be one of the most poorly written books I have read in my entire life.  I swear, my kid wrote a story about a Christmas corn dog when he was in Grade 1 and was more riveting than the Tartan Dragon.

Oh, what a cute avatar Real Woman.

 ac_biggrin
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