Poll
				
Question: 
Is it polite to post about a private message publicly?
					Option 1: Yes
						votes: 1
					
					Option 2: No
						votes: 11
					
					Option 3: Only if the mods like the person who received it and dislike the person who sent it
						votes: 1
					
			 
			
			
				Is it polite to post about a private message publicly onto the forum without the consent of the person who sent it?
			
			
			
				Quote from: "RDL"
Is it polite to post about a private message publicly onto the forum without the consent of the person who sent it?
Under NO CIRCUMSTANCES IS IT ACCEPTABLE. That idiotic slimebag EU did that to me on VF.
			 
			
			
				RW did that to me.
http://thebluecashew.com/the-blue-cashew-f2/the-jury-t2722-20.html#p62729
			
			
			
				I mentioned it vaguely RDL.  Don't PM me with that garbage again.
			
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
I mentioned it vaguely RDL.  Don't PM me with that garbage again.
There you go again, vaguely mentioning it.
You shouldn't be mentioning it at all.
			 
			
			
				You shouldn't be PMing me that shit.  Don't do it again.
			
			
			
				Quote from: "RDL"
RW did that to me.
http://thebluecashew.com/the-blue-cashew-f2/the-jury-t2722-20.html#p62729
Hardly the same thing as what that retarded slimeball EU did. He copied and pasted everything for the main page. When they were handing out brains and ethics, he was in the wrong queue both times.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
I mentioned it vaguely RDL.  Don't PM me with that garbage again.
Quote from: "RW"
You shouldn't be PMing me that shit.  Don't do it again.
I won't PM you again.
Now stop telling me multiple times not to do something I've only done once. MS faker.
			 
			
			
				Yeah, it's not the same at all but the idea is to get him to stop messaging me.  I think this measure will be successful.
			
			
			
				Ah, see. Success!  :D
			
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
Yeah, it's not the same at all but the idea is to get him to stop messaging me.  I think this measure will be successful.
Why is RDL messaging you in the first place?
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "RW"
Yeah, it's not the same at all but the idea is to get him to stop messaging me.  I think this measure will be successful.
Why is RDL messaging you in the first place?
Because she wouldn't let go of what I said to Keeper.
			 
			
			
				Why don't you share with the class what you sent me?
			
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
Why don't you share with the class what you sent me?
Yes, how about it RDL?
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
Why don't you share with the class what you sent me?
Because I want to let it go.  I want all the fighting to stop.  I just want everyone to get along.
			 
			
			
				Then fuck off.
			
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
Then fuck off.
So you're not interested in getting along?
			 
			
			
				I'm not interested in entertaining your garbage.
			
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
I'm not interested in entertaining your garbage.
Are you interested in entertaining anything that I have to offer that isn't garbage?
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RDL"
Quote from: "RW"
Then fuck off.
So you're not interested in getting along?
I am a little curious about the contents of that email, but it's entirely up to you RDL if you want details of it being made public knowledge.
			 
			
			
				^WHY??
			
			
			
				Quote from: "Shen Li"
^WHY??
She wouldn't drop her vendetta against me.  She's still mad about my comment to Keeper:
http://thebluecashew.com/the-blue-cashew-f2/welcome-our-new-home-t2620-120.html#p62441
Who knows why she won't drop her vendetta against me.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RDL"
Quote from: "Shen Li"
^WHY??
She wouldn't drop her vendetta against me.  She's still mad about my comment to Keeper:
http://thebluecashew.com/the-blue-cashew-f2/welcome-our-new-home-t2620-120.html#p62441
Who knows why she won't drop her vendetta against me.
I think it's threads like this one that makes people think YOU are the one who won't drop it.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "RDL"
Quote from: "Shen Li"
^WHY??
She wouldn't drop her vendetta against me.  She's still mad about my comment to Keeper:
http://thebluecashew.com/the-blue-cashew-f2/welcome-our-new-home-t2620-120.html#p62441
Who knows why she won't drop her vendetta against me.
I think it's threads like this one that makes people think YOU are the one who won't drop it.
I tried to be nice to her on several other threads but she keeps on telling me to fuck off.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RDL"
I tried to be nice to her on several other threads but she keeps on telling me to fuck off.
The fuck offs are totally unjustified? You sure about that?
			 
			
			
				I told him once and I meant it.
			
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
I told him once and I meant it.
So what can I do to stay on here and not feel other people's hostility towards me?
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RDL"
Quote from: "RW"
I told him once and I meant it.
So what can I do to stay on here and not feel other people's hostility towards me?
Go post on VF.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
Quote from: "RDL"
Quote from: "RW"
I told him once and I meant it.
So what can I do to stay on here and not feel other people's hostility towards me?
Go post on VF.
So you're still being hostile to me, in spite of my desire to repair the damage?
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RDL"
Quote from: "RW"
I told him once and I meant it.
So what can I do to stay on here and not feel other people's hostility towards me?
Don't send pm's like that one to any of us.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RDL"
So you're still being hostile to me, in spite of my desire to repair the damage?
I answered you.  If you want to repair the damage, go post on VF instead.
Win/win.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
Quote from: "RDL"
So you're still being hostile to me, in spite of my desire to repair the damage?
I answered you.  If you want to repair the damage, go post on VF instead.
Win/win.
So I can't post on here and be welcomed with open arms, ever?
			 
			
			
				You can post, but it may not be on your terms. Expecting to be welcomed with open arms? RU serious?
			
			
			
				Quote from: "RDL"
Quote from: "RW"
Quote from: "RDL"
So you're still being hostile to me, in spite of my desire to repair the damage?
I answered you.  If you want to repair the damage, go post on VF instead.
Win/win.
So I can't post on here and be welcomed with open arms, ever?
I don't often say much to your posts at all - I never have.  But I can't say I am interested in a single word you have to say.  I see you as a spammer.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
Quote from: "RDL"
Quote from: "RW"
I answered you.  If you want to repair the damage, go post on VF instead.
Win/win.
So I can't post on here and be welcomed with open arms, ever?
I don't often say much to your posts at all - I never have.  But I can't say I am interested in a single word you have to say.  I see you as a spammer.
So everything I say is spam and nothing I say or do can ever be construed as constructive?
Keeper seems to think the same.
Leo only sides with Keeper because they're good friends, and you only side with Leo because you have a thing for each other.
Sorry for not being part of your in-crowd.
			 
			
			
				RDL, I think only for myself.  I don't blindly agree with anyone.
Before you continue on with this crap, keep in mind that when I was on VF and a subforum mod, never once did I censor you.  I never warned you.  I never banned you.
I don't want to be followed around and hounded.  I am one person on this forum with my own opinion.  Do what you want with it.
			
			
			
				Quote from: "RDL"
So everything I say is spam and nothing I say or do can ever be construed as constructive?
Keeper seems to think the same.
Leo only sides with Keeper because they're good friends, and you only side with Leo because you have a thing for each other.
Sorry for not being part of your in-crowd.
You are an oddball for sure. However, I would take you any fucking day over oddstain or the Langley Ladyboy's threadbombing.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
Before you continue on with this crap, keep in mind that when I was on VF and a subforum mod, never once did I censor you.  I never warned you.  I never banned you.
That's right.  You didn't.  And for that, I'm grateful. ac_smile
			 
			
			
				mimi did that to me and when I answered her and quoted her post on it, she claimed it was me. evs did it to me as well.
			
			
			
				Quote from: "Annie"
mimi did that to me and when I answered her and quoted her post on it, she claimed it was me. evs did it to me as well.
Is evs pulling the plug on VF?
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "Annie"
mimi did that to me and when I answered her and quoted her post on it, she claimed it was me. evs did it to me as well.
Is evs pulling the plug on VF?
Nice try ac_rollseyes
			 
			
			
				What happened to RDLs pic post?
			
			
			
				Quote from: "RDL"
Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "Annie"
mimi did that to me and when I answered her and quoted her post on it, she claimed it was me. evs did it to me as well.
Is evs pulling the plug on VF?
Nice try ac_rollseyes
What are you talking about? I am asking a serious question. I just took a peek over there and joe troll is babbling about he's willing to host it. That makes me think old evs is thinking about packing it in.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
What happened to RDLs pic post?
I have delete privs, but I never touched it RW. ac_dunno
Maybe it was Annie?
			 
			
			
				I would think we'd welcome many VF posters here should that be the case, no?
			
			
			
				Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "RW"
What happened to RDLs pic post?
I have delete privs, but I never touched it RW. ac_dunno
Maybe it was Annie?
Whoever it was, you backenders really need to cut it out with the post deleting.  Maybe get together and set some rules for it.
I mean it when I say I'm not overly interested in posting on a white washed board.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
I would think we'd welcome many VF posters here should that be the case, no?
Prolly would, some would be an asset, others not so much.
Back to the post deleting, I agree with you.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "Annie"
mimi did that to me and when I answered her and quoted her post on it, she claimed it was me. evs did it to me as well.
Is evs pulling the plug on VF?
I have no idea...I think she's just gonna ride it out as loooong as possible lol
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
What happened to RDLs pic post?
It was deleted and rightfully so because no one wants to see a woman getting punched in the face by a man.....
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "Annie"
Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "Annie"
mimi did that to me and when I answered her and quoted her post on it, she claimed it was me. evs did it to me as well.
Is evs pulling the plug on VF?
I have no idea...I think she's just gonna ride it out as loooong as possible lol
We'll see I guess.
			 
			
			
				I wanted people to see the shit RDL messages me with so they get a taste of the type of person he is.
			
			
			
				evs isn't going anywhere and neither is VF.
			
			
			
				Ohh we already know the type of person he is.
			
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
evs isn't going anywhere and neither is VF.
I read a post by joe saying he is willing to host VF?
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "RDL"
Quote from: "Shen Li"
Is evs pulling the plug on VF?
Nice try ac_rollseyes
What are you talking about? I am asking a serious question. I just took a peek over there and joe troll is babbling about he's willing to host it. That makes me think old evs is thinking about packing it in.
No, Joe was just talking about hosting a forum similar to Pink Heat.  He's thinking of calling it Cool Heat or Blue Heat.
Evs isn't packing it in.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
I wanted people to see the shit RDL messages me with so they get a taste of the type of person he is.
"Messages"?  Should be "messaged".  I only messaged you once, cunt.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "Annie"
Ohh we already know the type of person he is.
Yeah but it would be better to just leave post alone.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RDL"
Quote from: "RW"
I wanted people to see the shit RDL messages me with so they get a taste of the type of person he is.
"Messages"?  Should be "messaged".  I only messaged you once, cunt.
So hostile.
Hey RDL!
Eat shit.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
Quote from: "RDL"
Quote from: "RW"
I wanted people to see the shit RDL messages me with so they get a taste of the type of person he is.
"Messages"?  Should be "messaged".  I only messaged you once, cunt.
So hostile.
Hey RDL!
Eat shit.
Same to you.  My time at the library is up.  Gotta go ac_hithere
			 
			
			
				I'm PMopular today :D
			
			
			
				Quote from: "RDL"
Evs isn't packing it in.
Aha, got it now.
			 
			
			
				Can we stop talking about VF now?  Pwease!
			
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
Can we stop talking about VF now?  Pwease!
Sure thing. I was just curious that's all.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
Quote from: "Annie"
Ohh we already know the type of person he is.
Yeah but it would be better to just leave post alone.
Not when it depicts physical abuse. I for one do not want to see it shoved in my face. If I want to see pictures of men punching women in the face I'll google it, which I do not.
			 
			
			
				Understood Annie.
			
			
			
				This is getting silly.
There are two elements to RDL's conduct that concern me.
First and foremost, I am in NO doubt whatsoever that he is being coached and cajoled by former members of this forum to make as much of a nuisance as he can.
Secondly, his conduct is bordering on harassment if he is PM'ing insult, abuse or offence.
Ban him. Send him back where he belongs. He is here simply to disrupt and gain attention. 
HE DOES NOT BELONG HERE.
			
			
			
				Quote from: "Leopardsocks"
This is getting silly.
There are two elements to RDL's conduct that concern me.
First and foremost, I am in NO doubt whatsoever that he is being coached and cajoled by former members of this forum to make as much of a nuisance as he can.
Secondly, his conduct is bordering on harassment if he is PM'ing insult, abuse or offence.
Ban him. Send him back where he belongs. He is here simply to disrupt and gain attention. 
HE DOES NOT BELONG HERE.
			 
			
			
				Oops...
			
			
			
				Oops....three re-posts...
Bug?
			
			
			
				Speaking of PM etiquette....
Nevermind.
			
			
			
				Quote from: "Leopardsocks"
Oops....three re-posts...
Bug?
I'll look into it.
			 
			
			
				NP.
Just kept re-posting for some weird reason.
			
			
			
				You on a mobile device?
			
			
			
				My MacBook Air is pretty mobile.
			
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
Speaking of PM etiquette....
Nevermind.

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My PM box is pretty clean...
			 
			
			
				Yes, yes it is.  I suspect it will remain that way for some time to come.
On the other hand, mine isn't.
			
			
			
				Quote from: "Leopardsocks"
My MacBook Air is pretty mobile.
I just had to rule out phone use.
Thank you.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
Yes, yes it is.  I suspect it will remain that way for some time to come.
On the other hand, mine isn't.
Seriously?
You're going to drag this on out here?
			 
			
			
				Drag what out?
 acc_hugz
			
			
			
				ac_boring
			
			
			
				Hello Keep! How's your day going?  ac_hithere
			
			
			
				Quote from: "Annie"
Hello Keep! How's your day going?  ac_hithere
Hey Annie  ac_hithere 
Could be better. thanks for asking...
Hows you.
			 
			
			
				I'm good, hope everything works out for you.
			
			
			
				Quote from: "Annie"
I'm good, hope everything works out for you.
Thank you Annie, I find out tomorrow. ac_crying
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "Keeper"
Quote from: "Annie"
I'm good, hope everything works out for you.
Thank you Annie, I find out tomorrow. ac_crying
Whatever has you worried, I pray it will be good news.
 ac_smile
			 
			
			
				I hope everything turns out okay, Keeper, whatever it is. acc_hugz
			
			
			
				Thanks Ladies...
			
			
			
				Me too Keep, sending you positive vibes  acc_hugz
			
			
			
				Quote from: "Keeper"
Thanks Ladies...
 acc_hugz
			 
			
			
				Moderitis?
Hope all goes well...
			
			
			
				You won't be alone Keeps!
			
			
			
				I hope Keeper got positive results.
 ac_smile
			
			
			
				The real question is, why do anonymous forums like these even have the PM feature enabled?
The whole idea is to post out into the open, not become "friends" via PM's.  No wonder the forums are slowing.  Everyone is sucking cock and twat via PM's, instead of posting shit.
And then when alliances are formed via these cock & twat PM suck-fests, the board then surely will follow suit.
Snitz DV never had any sort of PM'ing abilities, and it worked just fine.  When PM'ing was implemented, I shook my head.  And I still do.  It serves no purpose for a board like this in general, contrary to what some may claim.
			
			
			
				Quote from: "Mel Gibson"
The real question is, why do anonymous forums like these even have the PM feature enabled?
The whole idea is to post out into the open, not become "friends" via PM's.  No wonder the forums are slowing.  Everyone is sucking cock and twat via PM's, instead of posting shit.
And then when alliances are formed via these cock & twat PM suck-fests, the board then surely will follow suit.
Snitz DV never had any sort of PM'ing abilities, and it worked just fine.  When PM'ing was implemented, I shook my head.  And I still do.  It serves no purpose for a board like this in general, contrary to what some may claim.
It's a way for people to share things with others they may not feel comfortable discussing on a message board.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "Fashionista"
It's a way for people to share things with others they may not feel comfortable discussing on a message board.
That's what FaceBook is for!  ac_razz
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "Mel Gibson"
Quote from: "Fashionista"
It's a way for people to share things with others they may not feel comfortable discussing on a message board.
That's what FaceBook is for!  ac_razz
Facebook is people that are already friends.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "Fashionista"
Facebook is people that are already friends.
Well, I think we're almost there!  ac_razz
			 
			
			
				Gotta run.  Early morning comes early, and people want this city built up!
			
			
			
				Quote from: "Mel Gibson"
Gotta run.  Early morning comes early, and people want this city built up!
You need your sleep Mel Gibson and so do I..
Goodnight.
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "Mel Gibson"
Quote from: "Fashionista"
It's a way for people to share things with others they may not feel comfortable discussing on a message board.
That's what FaceBook is for!  ac_razz
Don't compare the mind-numbingly boring world of selfies and narcissistic stupidity of FB to a forum. I like their groups/pages, but little else.
			 
			
			
				Some people mimic narcissism and selfie taking on forums.
			
			
			
				Quote from: "RW"
Some people mimic narcissism and selfie taking on forums.
I have no idea who you have in mind RW. ac_rollseyes
			 
			
			
				Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "RDL"
RW did that to me.
http://thebluecashew.com/the-blue-cashew-f2/the-jury-t2722-20.html#p62729
Hardly the same thing as what that retarded slimeball EU did. He copied and pasted everything for the main page. When they were handing out brains and ethics, he was in the wrong queue both times.
Was or is he for real? Was he really that stupid or poor troll performance? I never thought it was possible for anyone to challenge Oak for the social lunatic title until EU appeared.