...while running some errands.
It almost saddened me to see the look on her face. Almost... acc_devil
you mustve been just thrilled! Should've flagged her down and gave her some money and cat food!
The bank is closed. I made that very clear to her. Brutally clear, in fact.
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She still occupies a special place in your heart doesn't she Mel Gibson?
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They always do, I suppose.
However, as time passes, one realizes the difference between what was, and what is...
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They always do, I suppose.
However, as time passes, one realizes the difference between what was, and what is...
It must be very difficult to end a relationship..
I cannot relate, but it must be difficult.
It can be very difficult. Especially if you are the one sitting there wondering WTF as they walk out smiling...
Carry around a bag of Temptations...next time you see her, shake the bag and throw her some treats...
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I cannot relate to that Mel, sorry.
I don't know whats going on with my ex...but apparently there is a lot of shit going on in his "fabulous" relationship....LO says there is constant fighting with his gf and her daughter (apparently the daughter is a real rebel)...I don't like arguing and I don't yell and scream at LO, nor do I solve any problems that way...I have a scream-free home...we work by talking things out calmly...and I love it that way!
Now I see why LO gets massive anxiety before a visit with her dad, cause she doesn't like the fighting...a few weeks ago she came home saying her dad told her he's moving back to my area...and I'm like great, I don't want him and his trash here...but LO said he's coming on his own...I really raised an eyebrow on that one!
The poor girl is faced with moving back home soon, which is an uncomfortable environment for her.
I can no longer feel sorry for her. It is of her own doing. I have no doubt the Platinum ring I had custom made for her has long been pawned.
No more feeling bad. No more nothing. She is not my problem anymore.
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Now I see why LO gets massive anxiety before a visit with her dad, cause she doesn't like the fighting...a few weeks ago she came home saying her dad told her he's moving back to my area...and I'm like great, I don't want him and his trash here...but LO said he's coming on his own...I really raised an eyebrow on that one!
That is unfortunate for your daughter Berry Sweet.
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Asian culture is somewhat more "honourable."
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Now I see why LO gets massive anxiety before a visit with her dad, cause she doesn't like the fighting...a few weeks ago she came home saying her dad told her he's moving back to my area...and I'm like great, I don't want him and his trash here...but LO said he's coming on his own...I really raised an eyebrow on that one!
That is unfortunate for your daughter Berry Sweet.
Yeah it's sad on her part...I have told him for the past year to stop hanging out with his gf and her kid when he has LO, cause she needs her dad and he needs to spend one on one time with her (she has also requested this) but he doesn't...I gave up telling him anything and LO lost all faith in this...I actually do hope he moves out and goes out on his own...LO is very happy about this...and I feel its a better move on LO's part...I do not want to have anything to do with my ex, but Im happy for LO if this turns out...her visits will be less stressful and she will have her dads full attention, which is very important at her age right now...so I hope he has woken up and sees this.
He picked her up today and he looked so old and tired...nuts! And he showed up with the kid cause he has no choice but to watch her...he seemed very annoyed to have her around...I was trying to ask him about playland and going halfers with me to get LO a season pass we could both share and the kid just burst in about how my ex should take her to playland and pay for her rides, games so she could have fun...like holy shit! She was very boisterous about it....I was actually really turned off by it cause LO was right there....I can only imagine the amount of stress he is under...he's got this fuckin kid hes gotta live with asking for shit all the time, same with his gf..meanwhile he's gotta give me child support and his kid is asking for shit from him too...sounds like a great life!
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If he has child support payments that have not been met, then spending money on rides might not be a good idea.
Berry's ex is a chug. Little wonder there why things are the way they are...
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What is a chug?
Is that a slang word for his job?
ac_dunno
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If he has child support payments that have not been met, then spending money on rides might not be a good idea.
He pays his didly squat amount...he helps with nothing else...like nothing!...I do everything...I buy clothes, school supplies, toys, I take her out to restaurants, movies, swimming, concerts, events, etc....I don't care how broke he is, he has to take her out and do things....summer is coming, he has to take her places...he can't just sit at home and do nothing all summer...this is getting ridiculous! The last 6 months they haven't done much...just stay home and watch movies...most likely cause he's paying for 4 everytime LO visits him....well duh! Another reason tot ake into account when I say, it should be one-on-one time with your daughter...it's #1.more affordable #2..LO gets dads full attention. And it's only fair to her cause he missed out on 5 years of her life growing up...she doesn't need these other people who yell all the time in her life. No wonder I put her in councelling!
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What is a chug?
Is that a slang word for his job?
ac_dunno
basically its slang for Mel being jealous....but chug is slang for native indian.
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Is that a slang word for his job?
ac_dunno
Native Indian... ac_angel
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What is a chug?
Is that a slang word for his job?
ac_dunno
basically its slang for Mel being jealous....but chug is slang for native indian.
Oh my, what a terrible thing to say..
I should have known because Gary Oak uses similar racial slurs.
Don't worry Fash. Berry herself referred to him as a chugaboo, which is an offshoot of jigaboo, which is offensive to Niggers, which is offensive to Coloureds, which is offensive to Blacks, and also offensive to Native Indians...
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That is the word Gary Oak uses to insult Aboriginal Canadians.
I don't use racial slurs, Mel.
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Since when? You used to!
I liked the dirty Berry better!
There may have been a couple times in the past...but at that time I had too much going on, too much stress and I was a miserable bitch...lol...im so chill now...
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Stress is impossible to avoid, but try to avoid stress.
I saved myself A LOT of stress by telling useless people in my life to fuck off. Seriously..no doubt I did...had enough of stupid people. I had this one friend, she's a new mommy...her kid is 18 mo old....she was always telling em how to parents and what I'm doing wrong...or accusing me of always talking about her behind her back...she even went as far as to complain that I don't like all he selfies on fb...it was getting to the edge of stupid...she even complained I didn't "try hard enough" with our friendship...like really!?!?! omg! what more do women like this want!? Needless to say I kicked her to the curb...go get your "likes" off someone else...good riddance!
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I want the dirty Berry back, LO be damned! acc_angry
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maybe one day I'll have a couple drinks and come talk nasty for a while...but I prefer who I am now...it's less stressful.
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maybe one day I'll have a couple drinks and come talk nasty for a while...but I prefer who I am now...it's less stressful.
I like this Berry, just with less clothes please. ac_flower
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You gotta pay to play with Berry, Keeper.
ac_biggrin I had some good times...but can't be like that all the time.
A little charm goes a long way, Mel
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just thinking...she probably got a great deal on kitty litter...
Life is funny that way...
Fash, have you not ended a relationship before? Are you involved in your family's financial activities? Do you know where your funds together are going? Is your name also in all the properties you own together?
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Azhya, I have never dated anyone besides my husband..
My husband and are actively involved in our financial investments..
Our funds are a mixture of savings and investments..
Both of our names are on the deed to our home.
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Azhya, I have never dated anyone besides my husband..
My husband and are actively involved in our financial investments..
Our funds are a mixture of savings and investments..
Both of our names are on the deed to our home.
Very good, Fash. I am pleased for you.