I am thinking about being back Pink Heat. How do you folks feel about having something sexual in nature without pornography? Nudity was also allowed but in an artistic and tasteful way.
I'm looking to you here Fash.
IF Fash is OK with it, I'll go along with it
*It might help me with my prudishness and shyness with sexuality
Over the years, I seem to have gone through phases. It must be the hormones. I've been prude, salacious, inactive, inflamed. Now I'm comfortably calm. When I first joined the forums in 2008, I unleashed my sensuality with wild abandon. It brought me attention that I did not realize I did not want. So, now, years later, and comfortably mature, I am not as lustful. I'll comment now and then but I doubt I will be an active participant but I do hope it thrives. More power to it.
No, that shit is history.
Much of it attached to bad history. Reviving PH will just give the cockroaches from that shit hole something else to kackle and snicker about.
I know you think it's great when the shit monkeys obsess over us but for the life of me, I cannot see how it really helps this place.
Just my 2 cents.
Perhaps consider naming it something else then. Retire the name Pink Heat and resurrect it with a fresh new name.
I do have my reputation to think about. If it's here i might pop in for a peek or two.
It will not have the same name.
It is not a den of sexual debauchery.
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Much of it attached to bad history. Reviving PH will just give the cockroaches from that shit hole something else to kackle and snicker about.
I know you think it's great when the shit monkeys obsess over us but for the life of me, I cannot see how it really helps this place.
Just my 2 cents.
Renee, I love it when those from MB snicker and cackle. If they are snickering and cackling, what does it hurt *this* place? They aren't doing it here.
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It is not a den of sexual debauchery.
Wahoo! ac_drinks
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Much of it attached to bad history. Reviving PH will just give the cockroaches from that shit hole something else to kackle and snicker about.
I know you think it's great when the shit monkeys obsess over us but for the life of me, I cannot see how it really helps this place.
Just my 2 cents.
Renee, I love it when those from MB snicker and cackle. If they are snickering and cackling, what does it hurt *this* place? They aren't doing it here.
It just keeps the juvenile bullshit alive. It means more Opies and more excuses to troll us. That's all I'm saying.
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Much of it attached to bad history. Reviving PH will just give the cockroaches from that shit hole something else to kackle and snicker about.
I know you think it's great when the shit monkeys obsess over us but for the life of me, I cannot see how it really helps this place.
Just my 2 cents.
I respectfully disagree.
Sexuality is part of the human experience.
Even religious groups which try to suppress its existence, end up getting caught up in their own sex scandals and then end up looking downright silly when their hand is caught in the cookie jar.
Didn't Sarah Palin, who represents the Christian Right of the Republican Party, have a sexual affair or two when she was governor of Alaska?
I'd say the time is ripe for a revival of the Pink HEat.
....go for it, 'Real!
I think it's a good idea, just because it is good to have a section to post content on a theme.
Like the topic of virginity or Christianity's take in sexual relations. I'd love of Sex and the Bible thread (seriously) or the great pubic hair debate.
Frank, I don't recall you being overly interested in PH before. Why now?
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Much of it attached to bad history. Reviving PH will just give the cockroaches from that shit hole something else to kackle and snicker about.
I know you think it's great when the shit monkeys obsess over us but for the life of me, I cannot see how it really helps this place.
Just my 2 cents.
Renee, I love it when those from MB snicker and cackle. If they are snickering and cackling, what does it hurt *this* place? They aren't doing it here.
It just keeps the juvenile bullshit alive. It means more Opies and more excuses to troll us. That's all I'm saying.
Fair enough. Would a name change help or should it be left alone altogether?
I'm ambivalent...but it pains me to say that Renee makes a good point.
Frankly, I'd prefer a "behind closed doors - ladies only" scenario...only selected members access. That way, prying eyes from hostile lands don't get to fuck around with it.
Not just members...but selected members. Like a mod section that no-one can see...
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I'm looking to you here Fash.
It was one of the most successful subforums ever on VF.
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I'm looking to you here Fash.
... yes, yes, revive pink heat, RW. it will certainly add to the greatness of the forum ...
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I'm looking to you here Fash.
... yes, yes, revive pink heat, RW. it will certainly add to the greatness of the forum ...
You get turned on by chicks taking kinky dontcha SH? ac_razz
I think if you are going to revive it. I think it needs a totally different name.
Your boyfriend brings up a good idea (possibly a first). It should be by approved members only. Those who want to take part, male or female, should seek approval from the moderator before they can read or enter the form and obtain posting privileges. It should be closed to public view because I know that shit weasel SMP lurks all over this forum and the last thing any of us needs is his prying eyes. If it is not a closed forum then you can count me out.
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Your boyfriend brings up a good idea (possibly a first). It should be by approved members only. Those who want to take part, male or female, should seek approval from the moderator before they can read or enter the form and obtain posting privileges. It should be closed to public view because I know that shit weasel SMP lurks all over this forum and last thing any of us needs is his prying eyes. If it is not a closed forum then you can count me out.
Hmmm, I never read Sox's suggestion. I like it. Make participation by approval only. ac_drinks
Why? Do you guys want it to get more personal than the original!
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ONLY if it is closed to public viewing.
So you would open up more if it was an invite only setting?
I'm not sure how I feel about this.
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I'm not sure how I feel about this.
As Renee pointed out, I do not want the prying eyes of deranged stalkers reading it. Like Renee, if it's open, count me out.
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I'm looking to you here Fash.
If posters want it, I have no problem with it..
I will not participate in it though.
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Frank, I don't recall you being overly interested in PH before. Why now?
...because then it puts all the threads of this subject matter where they belong, and prevents the main forum from getting too cluttered up with them. Then Fashionista can move all the like threads there.
PH was good for memebee, because it cleaned up the main forum.
Yes, its true, I wasn't that much of a follower/contributor to PH, but its conscept was good for the reason I stated.
Anyways, it'll soon become apparent who or what belongs there and what doesn't. As for the pervs the Nervous Nellies are so concerned about, their threads can be locked or errant comments thrown into a dumpster. As simple as that, no apologies needed.
Also, there's a difference between pornography and sexuality. The forum can also include topics on sexual health, such as preventing cancers, or treating various health disorders that contribute to dysfunction. That's not 'sexy', but provides information that's needed or can be helpful.
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Your boyfriend brings up a good idea (possibly a first). It should be by approved members only. Those who want to take part, male or female, should seek approval from the moderator before they can read or enter the form and obtain posting privileges.
That might be a good compromise Renee.
ac_smile
And expulsion for those who cannot understand the word "PRIVACY".
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That's a given.
What if I don't want it to be where we talk about our own sex shit?
Maybe I can do both in one sub...Hrm...
What should it be called?
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Maybe I can do both in one sub...Hrm...
What should it be called?
If we can't talk about our own fantasies/desires/experiences then what's the point? If it is not away from public view it's a bad idea and I won't touch it. If it's private and by approval only, count me in.
Can it be make to be by invite only? Or can it only be open to everyone registered on the board?
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Maybe I can do both in one sub...Hrm...
What should it be called?
Then what are you going to talk about? If you can't draw from your own experience, likes and dislikes, what's the point? If you are going to make it some sanitized, clinical discussion then we might as well have the topics of discussion on the main forum.
^ true - I guess I'm not in the loop here yet
"invite" would be hard to do and may miss some. How about anyone who wants to be in it "asks" and mod decides yes or no ..... and of course mod has ability to monitor, suggest, spank, ban ... in that order or just plain ban if appropriate
I'm assuming it will be private and open enough to being frank and open .
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Maybe I can do both in one sub...Hrm...
What should it be called?
SPECTRE'S SEX PIT???
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"invite" would be hard to do and may miss some. How about anyone who wants to be in it "asks" and mod decides yes or no ..... and of course mod has ability to monitor, suggest, spank, ban ... in that order or just plain ban if appropriate
I'm assuming it will be private and open enough to being frank and open .
Spank! Let's call it that!
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Maybe I can do both in one sub...Hrm...
What should it be called?
SPECTRE'S SEX PIT???
Hahaha ac_toofunny
Leopardsock's Love Lair?
I vote for The Spank Pit!
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Hey. That can be fun play .... but there are sooooooo many other ways to play ... also
Let's be all inclusive
ac_smile
I think the main problem is that people often confuse pornography with sexuality.
And therefore, they think its a 'dirty' subject.
However, they're not really the same. Actually the latter may have little to do with with being or feeling 'sexy', but relate to the physical well-being of the individual.
I suggested Spectres Spank Pit!!!
As usual RW vetoed it. She hates it when I get good ideas.
Here's a list of other words for sex that might help with a name. I like Forbidden Polka or Rumpy Pumpy! Haha
This list is pretty hilarious:
http://thoughtcatalog.com/jim-goad/2014/12/400-euphemisms-for-sexual-intercourse/
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As usual RW vetoed it. She hates it when I get good ideas.
I'm still waiting for the first :P
The poke and piddle
Kiss and Tell
The Soft Nutz.
The Rub
The Purple Onion
The Wet Cafe
The Spank & Paddle
i can't participate. please exclude me from this sub forum.
If it is closed - then less people will want to go through the effort to get past the initial barrier to see it at all, imho. I'm tired of registering for things, etc.
Purple onion is funny
if i could indulge the first 60 seconds of percussion would be the sound i would be looking to reproduce.
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It is not closed.
If you have access you will see it.
If you don't, you won't.
Simple.
^ok, that sounds better.
I got into a car (240/one half hour, no kissing) and heard the sex & candy song. I think "sex and candy" is a candidate for a name.
//https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-KT-r2vHeMM
Good luck with it whatever you decide to call it.
ac_smile
I chucked up a name. There is a public and private space in the Forbidden Polka subforum. If you can't see the private forum (Private Polka), you haven't been invited to it .... yet. For those who can see it, please post something so I can make sure I have the right settings please.
Congratulations, 'Real upon reviving the Pink Heat (or whatever it's called now).
Long may she/it prevail!
Cheerz! ac_drinks
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ac_wot
That Keeper is one kinky mofo.
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I actually like it. One side for everyone's eyes and the best stuff by admin acceptance only.
i'm going in for a look
if i get lost pull me out[no pun intended]
I can't post in it, the little black box thingy doesn't show up :confused1:
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they should let you in. talk to the boss
it's still being tweaked lol