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General Discussion => The Flea Trap => Topic started by: Bricktop on June 29, 2015, 08:08:05 PM

Title: Dear Renee
Post by: Bricktop on June 29, 2015, 08:08:05 PM
You know full well we love you dearly, and that you are a vital part of our community.



I think many of us understand that this forum is far from the most important issue in your life right now. That you've taken a sequester is sorrowful, but understandable. Personally, I don't buy into your chagrin at some of the discussion points being the cause of your separation, because you're tougher than that.



In my view, real life struggles are causing you deep and unendurable stress, and so pinpricks that you may feel in the forum become irritants you do not have the time to deal with.



And that's perfectly normal.



I know you will recover, and be strong again, because you aren't the kind to let life beat you down. You may get a few blows to the chin that put you on your knees, but that's some way off the full 10 count.



Take it easy...we are all your friends and wish you only well. I know you'll come back, because I know you care for us too. And you will be welcomed.



Good luck in meeting the difficult challenges in your path. You will overcome them all, eventually.



In the meantime, we, your friends, will keep a candle burning in the window.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: deadskinmask on June 29, 2015, 08:11:39 PM
damn, captain.... that was nice. i didn't think you had it in ya..... well done.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: RW on June 29, 2015, 08:20:37 PM
I want our Renee back!



 :4jn79i:
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Anonymous on June 29, 2015, 09:02:44 PM
Quote from: "RW"I want our Renee back!



 :4jn79i:

Why did Renee leave?
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: deadskinmask on June 29, 2015, 09:03:35 PM
anti-american sentiment.... :(
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Anonymous on June 29, 2015, 09:05:19 PM
Quote from: "deadskinmask"anti-american sentiment.... :(

 ac_wot
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: deadskinmask on June 29, 2015, 09:07:33 PM
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "deadskinmask"anti-american sentiment.... :(

 ac_wot

i dunno either.... i pulled it from three different threds.... :(
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Anonymous on June 29, 2015, 09:10:01 PM
Quote from: "deadskinmask"
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "deadskinmask"anti-american sentiment.... :(

 ac_wot

i dunno either.... i pulled it from three different threds.... :(

What a terrible shame deadskinmask.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: deadskinmask on June 29, 2015, 09:11:15 PM
i agree. she seemed cool.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Anonymous on June 29, 2015, 09:22:59 PM
Quote from: "deadskinmask"i agree. she seemed cool.

She is deadskinmask.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on June 29, 2015, 09:30:35 PM
I wish you treated her better, Spectre. Anyway, nice letter to her. I hope she does come back.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: RW on June 29, 2015, 09:30:55 PM
Cool?  She's so beyond cool.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Anonymous on June 29, 2015, 09:32:05 PM
Quote from: "Azhya Aryola"I wish you treated her better, Spectre. Anyway, nice letter to her. I hope she does come back.

We all do Azhya, but if she needs a break, I understand.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Bricktop on June 29, 2015, 09:42:12 PM
Quote from: "Azhya Aryola"I wish you treated her better, Spectre. Anyway, nice letter to her. I hope she does come back.


Fash, I treated her just fine, and she knows it.



Do not judge on what you read in the forum...it may not be anything but theatrics.



On the other hand, we may be serious combatants...who knows?



Trust me on this...she is taking a break because of real life issues. Forum banter runs off her like an egg from teflon.



She will come back when she regains her strength. And I'll be the first she will lambast and abuse.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Anonymous on June 29, 2015, 09:44:22 PM
Quote from: "SPECTRE"
Quote from: "Azhya Aryola"I wish you treated her better, Spectre. Anyway, nice letter to her. I hope she does come back.


Fash, I treated her just fine, and she knows it.



Do not judge on what you read in the forum...it may not be anything but theatrics.



On the other hand, we may be serious combatants...who knows?



Trust me on this...she is taking a break because of real life issues. Forum banter runs off her like an egg from teflon.



She will come back when she regains her strength. And I'll be the first she will lambast and abuse.

Yes, I agree she will be back when she wants to be here again..



And right now she has more important priorities.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on June 29, 2015, 09:58:33 PM
Real life issues have also beaten me to a pulp more than once. Thank God I'm still here today. I'm grateful for hope, supportive family and friends, and sheer determination to fight on. This too shall pass, as the saying goes. We are stronger than we realize.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: RW on June 29, 2015, 10:01:50 PM
And Azh, we know you've had a hard time.  We are here for each other whether we want to admit it or not.



This forum has been a source of support for me as well and I will be ever grateful.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Anonymous on June 29, 2015, 10:03:24 PM
Quote from: "Azhya Aryola"Real life issues have also beaten me to a pulp more than once. Thank God I'm still here today. I'm grateful for hope, supportive family and friends, and sheer determination to fight on. This too shall pass, as the saying goes. We are stronger than we realize.

Did you take a break from forums too Azhya?
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on June 29, 2015, 10:04:47 PM
Yes, Fash. I took breaks, some longer than some. I don't announce it though. Heheh.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Bricktop on June 29, 2015, 10:09:11 PM
Real life has impacted us all.



The forum gives us a refuge. An escape from the maelstrom our lives become enmeshed in. Sometimes its a good thing, but not always...forums can be capricious and somewhat unsympathetic at times.



But people are people...and if we are in distress, for the most part you will receive comfort and understanding here.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Anonymous on June 29, 2015, 10:10:51 PM
Quote from: "Azhya Aryola"Yes, Fash. I took breaks, some longer than some. I don't announce it though. Heheh.

It likely reinvigorated you when you came back..



I think Renee will be back too, at least I hope so.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on June 30, 2015, 07:25:46 AM
Quote from: "RW"And Azh, we know you've had a hard time.  We are here for each other whether we want to admit it or not.



This forum has been a source of support for me as well and I will be ever grateful.


I've had a hard time when times were tough, yes. Like everyone, I've had both good fortune and bad luck too but one just has to get up and go, no pity parties. It's quite a feeling to look back at the bad times and know you can laugh about it now even though it is not funny. I am grateful for the tumultuous times because they toughened me for sure.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Anonymous on June 30, 2015, 02:42:46 PM
Quote from: "Azhya Aryola"
Quote from: "RW"And Azh, we know you've had a hard time.  We are here for each other whether we want to admit it or not.



This forum has been a source of support for me as well and I will be ever grateful.


I've had a hard time when times were tough, yes. Like everyone, I've had both good fortune and bad luck too but one just has to get up and go, no pity parties. It's quite a feeling to look back at the bad times and know you can laugh about it now even though it is not funny. I am grateful for the tumultuous times because they toughened me for sure.

My guess is that you've had a lot more good fortune than bad AA.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on June 30, 2015, 08:28:47 PM
ac_biggrin



Oh, I don't know about that, Shen, but thanks. I think it's like winning the Stanley Cup. Sometimes I win the cup, sometimes I advance to the next round but don't win the cup, and sometimes I don't even make the playoffs. Hehehehe.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: keeper on June 30, 2015, 10:36:38 PM
That was very nice of you Spec, I hope Renee reads this and sees how much we all care for her.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: RW on June 30, 2015, 10:38:50 PM
I still miss our Renee terribly :(
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: keeper on June 30, 2015, 11:00:12 PM
Quote from: "RW"I still miss our Renee terribly :(


She will be back, She cant stay away from me forever you know  ac_dance
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Annie on June 30, 2015, 11:33:34 PM
I wish Renee all the best too and miss her. I hope she does come back.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Anonymous on July 01, 2015, 12:45:03 AM
Quote from: "RW"I still miss our Renee terribly :(

So do I RW.

 ac_crying
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Annie on July 03, 2015, 05:40:37 AM
Baby come back you can blame it all on me  ac_drinks
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: RW on July 03, 2015, 12:57:17 PM
I miss Renee more and more every day.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: cc on July 03, 2015, 01:19:30 PM
Me 2. She is one of the best posters on the entire net
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Anonymous on July 03, 2015, 01:26:53 PM
Quote from: "cc la femme"Me 2. She is one of the best posters on the entire net

You and Renee are among the best posters on the net.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: cc on July 03, 2015, 01:47:01 PM
Required but insincere   blush ac_blush
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Annie on July 03, 2015, 07:34:26 PM
She's def one of toughest, she'll come back   :JC_pray:  ac_unsure
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Bricktop on July 03, 2015, 07:57:03 PM
Quote from: "cc la femme"Me 2. She is one of the best posters on the entire net


Pshaw...she can't hold a candle to me.



Why else would she run away!!! She's frightened to return because she knows I'll kick her ass again.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on July 03, 2015, 07:59:34 PM
I never liked the bickering between her and Socks. I don't care what it was truly about but it was just too much for me. I did not like what Socks wrote about her. I hope she will rejoin us.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Bricktop on July 03, 2015, 08:03:42 PM
What about what she wrote about ME?
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on July 03, 2015, 08:07:19 PM
Oh yeah, I forgot about that part. Heehee. I did not like how you two were putting each other down. I think we should start a trend here, no put downs. Can we stand that?
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Bricktop on July 03, 2015, 08:15:38 PM
But of course.



But beforehand, you may just want to be sure that people aren't simply playing roles for fun and entertainment, and although you see shots being fired, and blood flowing, nobody is actually being hurt.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on July 03, 2015, 08:21:07 PM
Nobody is actually being hurt is debatable.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Bricktop on July 03, 2015, 08:21:41 PM
Well, special effects these days can be terribly convincing.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Annie on July 03, 2015, 11:05:07 PM
If she does come back, maybe Spec could hold his tongue a bit sometimes and not be so harsh?  I know she's tough but I don't know how being called the same thing so many times can't be hurtful. Just saying....
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: RW on July 03, 2015, 11:06:43 PM
They tease each other in jest.  I know Spec has a great deal of respect for Renee.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Bricktop on July 03, 2015, 11:12:09 PM
I do?



Hah!!



She's mah biatch!!!
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: RW on July 03, 2015, 11:13:58 PM
You can't hide that you adore her :P
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on July 03, 2015, 11:20:00 PM
Why can't they just speak nicely to each other then?
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: RW on July 03, 2015, 11:22:20 PM
Quote from: "Azhya Aryola"Why can't they just speak nicely to each other then?

This is flaming as it is meant to be.  It's meant to be funny and make the other person laugh.  I can't tell you the number of times I've burst out laughing reading those two rib each other.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on July 03, 2015, 11:29:02 PM
I only speak for myself. I am quite fed up with it. It's not the sort I find funny, that's why.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Anonymous on July 03, 2015, 11:38:32 PM
Quote from: "GrAnnie"She's def one of toughest, she'll come back   :JC_pray:  ac_unsure

I hope so GrAnnie.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Bricktop on July 04, 2015, 01:05:09 AM
Quote from: "RW"You can't hide that you adore her :P


Scuse me?



Its HER that adores ME!



Requests for pics, my Facebook pages, seeking advice on a variety of personal issues.



She is obsessed.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Annie on July 04, 2015, 01:06:06 AM
Haha, I bet it's the other way around Spec!
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: RW on July 04, 2015, 01:09:03 AM
Quote from: "Azhya Aryola"I only speak for myself. I am quite fed up with it. It's not the sort I find funny, that's why.

Renee is gone so you can quit griping about it.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: cc on July 04, 2015, 02:03:12 AM
Quote from: "SPECTRE"
Quote from: "RW"You can't hide that you adore her :P


Scuse me?



Its HER that adores ME!



Requests for pics, my Facebook pages, seeking advice on a variety of personal issues.



She is obsessed.
  :roll:
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on July 11, 2015, 07:59:40 PM
My tribute to Renee. I posted three videos in The Pulse. She always posted videos in threes.



I only know Renee from here but I miss her, if you can believe that. And, for some strange reason, I feel her pain too. I've been there too and surely others have as well. Life can be cruel. Some times are sweet and then comes bitter, then sweet again, then bitter again. It's a cycle, isn't it? Hugs to Renee. I hope she joins us again. acc_hugz
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: RW on July 11, 2015, 08:02:11 PM
I miss her every day Az.  I too hope she comes back soon.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: @realAzhyaAryola on July 11, 2015, 08:07:45 PM
I don't even know what exactly is going on but I can sense the enormity and impact of it. Every one deserves to be happy in the end.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Annie on July 11, 2015, 09:14:12 PM
Whatever she's up to I hope she's doing well, wish her all the best and wish her back as well.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: cc on July 11, 2015, 09:45:29 PM
Quote from: "RW"They tease each other in jest.  I know Spec has a great deal of respect for Renee.
True. That is obvious



And, 'sides,  he's her biatch



 ac_smile
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Wulf on July 11, 2015, 10:08:30 PM
Renee is very lucky to have friends like she has in the people here. I'm sure she will appreciate all the well wishes and support sent her way.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: RW on July 11, 2015, 10:09:58 PM
We luvs our Renee!!!!!
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Annie on July 11, 2015, 10:34:13 PM
She's one of the toughest online chicks I know. Dammit Renee! Get your butt back here!
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Bricktop on July 12, 2015, 02:34:14 AM
She ain't so tough. She gets out of line, I slap her ass.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: RW on July 12, 2015, 02:38:56 AM
And she rips off yours and makes you eat it haha
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Bricktop on July 12, 2015, 02:41:29 AM
I beg to differ.



She knows what happens if you fuck with me.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Annie on July 12, 2015, 02:45:18 AM
Ohh Spec Renee kicks your ass every time   :laugh3:
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Bricktop on July 12, 2015, 03:33:19 AM
LIES!!!



She fears me.



Where is she? I've run her out of Dodge, and if she comes back she'll get more ass whoopin'.



And that's a LOT of whoopin'.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: RW on July 12, 2015, 03:52:42 AM
Awwww you miss her too!
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Bricktop on July 12, 2015, 06:17:06 AM
She knows who's boss.
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Frood on July 12, 2015, 06:41:11 AM
Quote from: "SPECTRE"I beg to differ.



She knows what happens if you fuck with me.


You'll poop metamucil in our shoes?   :001_tongue:
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: keeper on July 12, 2015, 10:39:48 AM
We do miss her
Title: Re: Dear Renee
Post by: Anonymous on July 12, 2015, 12:22:27 PM
Quote from: "Keeper"We do miss her

Renee was alright.....for a white chick.