Well, no different here than on Memebee.
Funny thing is, I am a poster on a dozen other forums, some for many years, and I am well enough received.
The only constant that I can see here (and on Memebee), is that these two places are run by cranky middle aged women. Most other places that I post are not.
This is the only constant that I can think of.
Well, it is what it is. Until there is a revamp of the powers that be, starting at the very top, I fear that what you see is what you get.
Adios!