Mona, formerly of BF, has decided to give us a try.
Let me make it clear that she is NOT of the ilk of some of the other imbecilic nutjobs from BF that have visited us. She's smart and friendly.
Please make her welcome. Even YOU, Shen.
Hello Mona. Swear to God I'm not white nighting. Hope all is good.
Hi Mona! I've heard great things about you.
Welcome to BC :)
You mean you've heard she has more footwear than a Nike factory?
That she has more shoes than a centipede's shoe shop?
That if all her shoes were laid end to end, they would circle the earth 3 times?
That if there really is a heaven, it wouldn't have as many "soles" as Mona?
That is she took up wearing sneakers, 4 shoe shops in her city of residence would go belly up?
You've heard that?
Something along those lines.
Or that she has a 2 car garage, but has to park the car outside because that's where her shoes are?

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There better be a pair or two of maryjanes in there!
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Mona, formerly of BF, has decided to give us a try.
Let me make it clear that she is NOT of the ilk of some of the other imbecilic nutjobs from BF that have visited us.
She's smart and friendly.
And classy too.
Hi Mona. =)
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There better be a pair or two of maryjanes in there!
Maryjanes???
Quote from: "RW"
There better be a pair or two of maryjanes in there!
Thank you for the welcome, there's a lot more than a pair of two of mary janes in my collection... one of my favourite shoe styles.
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Quote from: "RW"
There better be a pair or two of maryjanes in there!
Maryjanes???
Court shoes with a strap - reminiscent of the style little girls wear (hence the name mary-janes).
Quote from: "Mr Crowley"
You mean you've heard she has more footwear than a Nike factory?
That she has more shoes than a centipede's shoe shop?
That if all her shoes were laid end to end, they would circle the earth 3 times?
That if there really is a heaven, it wouldn't have as many "soles" as Mona?
That is she took up wearing sneakers, 4 shoe shops in her city of residence would go belly up?
You've heard that?
Sadly even with my patronage two of my favourite shoe stores have still gone out of business. One was an Italian leather shoe store and the other an Australian designer who made beautiful shoes but expanded too quickly and went into receivership.
I'm sure you'll find more.
Peter Sheppard's???
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I'm sure you'll find more.
Peter Sheppard's???
No, they're far too conservative for my liking. The brand that closed down was PeepToe Shoes, and the Italian shoes were Mascotte.
But it's okay, I still have Wittner, Jo Mercer, Nine West, Wayne Cooper, Basque and various other brands that are easily obtained.
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There better be a pair or two of maryjanes in there!
Thank you for the welcome, there's a lot more than a pair of two of mary janes in my collection... one of my favourite shoe styles.
I don't have much of a shoe collection but I'm in love with a pair of Fluevog (Canadian designer from Vancouver fluevog.com) maryjanes. They're even a size too big and I don't care :)
These are maryjanes Crow:

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This is more my kind of Mary Jane:

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And these:

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Those are beauties!
I can never walk in small heels. That and I'm 5'9" so 4" heels make me an amazon. Haha
I am more likely to fall or slip in flat shoes. I can't walk or run in joggers. I can, however, do cartwheels in stilettos.
Fortunately, I am only 5'5" so even if I wear stilts of shoes, the majority of men are still taller than me. My exh was 6'6" so I could wear heels as high as I wished.
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Quote from: "RW"
There better be a pair or two of maryjanes in there!
Thank you for the welcome, there's a lot more than a pair of two of mary janes in my collection... one of my favourite shoe styles.
I don't have much of a shoe collection but I'm in love with a pair of Fluevog (Canadian designer from Vancouver fluevog.com) maryjanes. They're even a size too big and I don't care :)
These are maryjanes Crow:

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Ohhh...you mean whores hooves.
ac_toofunny
Oh, by the way...
Mona
is

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Quote from: "RW"
There better be a pair or two of maryjanes in there!
Thank you for the welcome, there's a lot more than a pair of two of mary janes in my collection... one of my favourite shoe styles.
I don't have much of a shoe collection but I'm in love with a pair of Fluevog (Canadian designer from Vancouver fluevog.com) maryjanes. They're even a size too big and I don't care :)
These are maryjanes Crow:

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I like those, not only are they so much safer to walk in but they give a high definition of a strong foot :thumbup:
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Oh, by the way...
Mona
is

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Seems the retardation only runs in the Aussie males.
HAHAHAHA
/runs
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Quote from: "RW"
There better be a pair or two of maryjanes in there!
Thank you for the welcome, there's a lot more than a pair of two of mary janes in my collection... one of my favourite shoe styles.
Welcome Mona. I am the Iron Chink.
Welcome Mona.
Where do you live in Australia Mona? My son is in Tasmania at the moment. He'll be coming home broke and needing a place to crash soon though I would imagine.
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Oh, by the way...
Mona
is

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Seems the retardation only runs in the Aussie males.
HAHAHAHA
/runs
I am English. ac_razz
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I am English. ac_razz
That is nothing to be proud of. :001_tongue:
Yeah?
We bitchslapped and owned YOUR country, before Mao got all uppity.
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Yeah?
We bitchslapped and owned YOUR country, before Mao got all uppity.
Britain had nothing to offer China besides opium.
That's why we left the place alone.
Nothing of interest except coolies and rice.
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Where do you live in Australia Mona? My son is in Tasmania at the moment. He'll be coming home broke and needing a place to crash soon though I would imagine.
Maybe he will surprise you in a good way Herman.
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Where do you live in Australia Mona? My son is in Tasmania at the moment. He'll be coming home broke and needing a place to crash soon though I would imagine.
I live on the Eastern Coast. Have never actually been to Tasmania... I'm not good on the sea (I got seasick on the Manly ferry in Sydney going to the zoo). Plus I prefer to migrate towards warmer weather than what I believe is available in Tasmania.
How has your son enjoyed his visit to Australia? I hope he found us welcoming, we tend to be friendly towards tourists... generally.
Hi Mona, I'm Annie, I just became a Grandma ac_smile I'm in Vancouver area, Canada.
Hi Annie. Congratulations on achieving Grandma status. I love babies!!! Probably why I had so many - I forgot that once they start walking and talking they utilise that ability against you.
Thank you! It's a wonderful experience, I only had my two, one boy one girl. Son is the new Daddy ac_smile
My two littlest ones were discussing a few years ago about having grandkids for me to fuss over...
S: When I get kids I'm going to spoil them with treats like you do with us, Mummy.
Z: I don't want to get kids. If I get any kids, I am going to give them to S.
Me: I think the mother may have something to say about that.
S: If I get a girl, you can have her, mummy.
Cool kids :thumbup:
I kinda like them... most of the time.
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I kinda like them... most of the time.
lol, same with mine Mona.
ac_smile
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Where do you live in Australia Mona? My son is in Tasmania at the moment. He'll be coming home broke and needing a place to crash soon though I would imagine.
I live on the Eastern Coast. Have never actually been to Tasmania... I'm not good on the sea (I got seasick on the Manly ferry in Sydney going to the zoo). Plus I prefer to migrate towards warmer weather than what I believe is available in Tasmania.
How has your son enjoyed his visit to Australia? I hope he found us welcoming, we tend to be friendly towards tourists... generally.
I guess he has had a good time. He doesn't working or paying for stuff, so he did couch surfing from some site when he got there. He did a little work to eat, but then he found a girlfriend to mooch off of. Even welcoming Aussies will get sick of that in a hurry.
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Quote from: "Mona"
Quote from: "Herman"
Where do you live in Australia Mona? My son is in Tasmania at the moment. He'll be coming home broke and needing a place to crash soon though I would imagine.
I live on the Eastern Coast. Have never actually been to Tasmania... I'm not good on the sea (I got seasick on the Manly ferry in Sydney going to the zoo). Plus I prefer to migrate towards warmer weather than what I believe is available in Tasmania.
How has your son enjoyed his visit to Australia? I hope he found us welcoming, we tend to be friendly towards tourists... generally.
I guess he has had a good time. He doesn't working or paying for stuff, so he did couch surfing from some site when he got there. He did a little work to eat, but then he found a girlfriend to mooch off of. Even welcoming Aussies will get sick of that in a hurry.
I guess that would be one way to wear out a welcome fast.
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Quote from: "Herman"
Quote from: "Mona"
Quote from: "Herman"
Where do you live in Australia Mona? My son is in Tasmania at the moment. He'll be coming home broke and needing a place to crash soon though I would imagine.
I live on the Eastern Coast. Have never actually been to Tasmania... I'm not good on the sea (I got seasick on the Manly ferry in Sydney going to the zoo). Plus I prefer to migrate towards warmer weather than what I believe is available in Tasmania.
How has your son enjoyed his visit to Australia? I hope he found us welcoming, we tend to be friendly towards tourists... generally.
I guess he has had a good time. He doesn't working or paying for stuff, so he did couch surfing from some site when he got there. He did a little work to eat, but then he found a girlfriend to mooch off of. Even welcoming Aussies will get sick of that in a hurry.
I guess that would be one way to wear out a welcome fast.
I hope he decides to grow up pretty frickin soon.
Tough love might be in order. How old is he?
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Tough love might be in order. How old is he?
He will be twenty five soon.
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Tough love might be in order. How old is he?
I think so too Mona.
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Tough love might be in order. How old is he?
He will be twenty five soon.
These days a 25 year old is still feeling their way in the world. And while it's good to have family to fall back on as a safety net, it's about time he realised that nobody works for the joy of it, they work in order to have a home, and food, and clothing and to fund their lifestyle, and what they do want to do. Until you make him take responsibility for providing for himself, he will continue to rely upon you.
My 20 yr old still lives at home, and has taken a job that doesn't inspire him, but he does enjoy the idea of regular money to fund his social life, because I won't. Not that he actually ever asked me to, he occasionally borrows money, but he pays it back.
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Tough love might be in order. How old is he?
He will be twenty five soon.
These days a 25 year old is still feeling their way in the world. And while it's good to have family to fall back on as a safety net, it's about time he realised that nobody works for the joy of it, they work in order to have a home, and food, and clothing and to fund their lifestyle, and what they do want to do. Until you make him take responsibility for providing for himself, he will continue to rely upon you.
My 20 yr old still lives at home, and has taken a job that doesn't inspire him, but he does enjoy the idea of regular money to fund his social life, because I won't. Not that he actually ever asked me to, he occasionally borrows money, but he pays it back.
A sense of entitlement is a dangerous thing....for parents and taxpayers.
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Tough love might be in order. How old is he?
He will be twenty five soon.
These days a 25 year old is still feeling their way in the world. And while it's good to have family to fall back on as a safety net, it's about time he realised that nobody works for the joy of it, they work in order to have a home, and food, and clothing and to fund their lifestyle, and what they do want to do. Until you make him take responsibility for providing for himself, he will continue to rely upon you.
My 20 yr old still lives at home, and has taken a job that doesn't inspire him, but he does enjoy the idea of regular money to fund his social life, because I won't. Not that he actually ever asked me to, he occasionally borrows money, but he pays it back.
I see it as my job as a parent to prepare my children for the world..
I would not be overly concerned if at twenty five if my son or daughter were not on a trajectory for independence..
But another year or two and I would start to worry.
I would be worried if at 25 my child was neither studying for a career, or working, and considered work to be something other people did to support him.
As a parent, it is my duty to prepare my child for the world, not only so that he can cope with the world, but so that the world can handle having to cope with him.
Even my ten year olds don't see their toys, or belongings, as their right, but as a privilege that they should appreciate being given. I don't pay them pocket money for doing jobs around the house, that is their duty as members of our family to contribute in this way.
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I would be worried if at 25 my child was neither studying for a career, or working, and considered work to be something other people did to support him.
As a parent, it is my duty to prepare my child for the world, not only so that he can cope with the world, but so that the world can handle having to cope with him.
Even my ten year olds don't see their toys, or belongings, as their right, but as a privilege that they should appreciate being given. I don't pay them pocket money for doing jobs around the house, that is their duty as members of our family to contribute in this way.
I agree with you, but it is Herman's son..
Besides, I have seen his picture and he's big and strong looking.
:laugh:
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I would be worried if at 25 my child was neither studying for a career, or working, and considered work to be something other people did to support him.
As a parent, it is my duty to prepare my child for the world, not only so that he can cope with the world, but so that the world can handle having to cope with him.
Even my ten year olds don't see their toys, or belongings, as their right, but as a privilege that they should appreciate being given. I don't pay them pocket money for doing jobs around the house, that is their duty as members of our family to contribute in this way.
It seems Herman's son suffers from Peter Pan syndrome.
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I would be worried if at 25 my child was neither studying for a career, or working, and considered work to be something other people did to support him.
As a parent, it is my duty to prepare my child for the world, not only so that he can cope with the world, but so that the world can handle having to cope with him.
Even my ten year olds don't see their toys, or belongings, as their right, but as a privilege that they should appreciate being given. I don't pay them pocket money for doing jobs around the house, that is their duty as members of our family to contribute in this way.
I agree with you, but it is Herman's son..
Besides, I have seen his picture and he's big and strong looking.
:laugh:
Oh, I wasn't passing judgement on Herman's son, simply responding to your your comments and stating how I personally parent my children. There is no right or wrong, only what is right for each individual family.
Having said that, I married the result of overly permissive parenting. It wasn't pretty.
^Even if you were, I doubt Herm is offended.
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^Even if you were, I doubt Herm is offended.
If he's critical of his son, that's one thing, if he do it that's another.