That bitch makes me want to claw my eyes out. Halfway through the video I think I had an epileptic fit.
Whoever edits her videos should be electrocuted until they shit themselves. :sdfjh(2):
I suddenly have a headache.
I am so thankful I am not single.
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It's not all bad.
I'm tutoring a grade 12 student and there is so much drama around dating. Nothing is simple.
Nicole Arbor is a bad human but she illustrates it fairly well. The silly dating games need to end.
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Nicole Arbor is a bad human but she illustrates it fairly well. The silly dating games need to end.
Games suck. :negative:
Between the end of my first marriage and meeting my second wife I dated a lot of women from every country, from every ethnicity. I had fun. It's a little different now I gather.
I find the games still happen even at the more advanced ages.
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You might be right about that. Being single has changed so much in such a short time.
Dating has always been weird, awkward ànd complicated. The only place it isn't, is on pre-1970s TV shows.
Mostly it's not even worth the effort.
Gesus fuck!!! I shut it off.
Some women find themselves cute when they act this way. They have no clue that it is bimboesque.
I just realize how irritating it is to watch someone speak with hand motions. Speaking with your hands is not impressive, folks.
All I see is a big black square :mad: But by the comments I see maybe it's best I can't see it lol
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I just realize how irritating it is to watch someone speak with hand motions. Speaking with your hands is not impressive, folks.
Calling Nicole Arbor a bimbo would be a compliment.
She's an ignorant, attention whore, skank who jabbers out her sezure inducing, mean spirited crap under the guise of comedic social commentary.
She's the kid of girl that when I was in HS, I would have beaten senseless, shaved her head and left her tied to the sink in nothing but her underwear on the floor of a gas station bathroom. A total waste of skin.
Oh... my .... GOD!!
Are young women really like that today? The human race is doomed if that's the case. She's not uncute, but her speech would make me leave within the first 10 minutes of a date. Shallow is not the word for her.
I'm SO glad I am old enough to date mature women who know how to speak and enjoy being spoken to in a civilized manner.
I could not understand. ac_blush
I remember talking to a law graduate at a party and taking about how he perfected playing this game where you don't show or tell a girl you like her. You just string her along to get laid. This guy was no kid either. And yes, I laughed at him and told him his way about dating would see him lonely until he dies.
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How do you string a woman along when you aren't giving any indication that you like her? I never could figure out why some girls would want to be with a guy when he clearly was acting like he couldn't care less.
Is it just cluelessness or desperation that makes so many women fall for and get caught up in that kind of head game?
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I just realize how irritating it is to watch someone speak with hand motions. Speaking with your hands is not impressive, folks.
Calling Nicole Arbor a bimbo would be a compliment.
She's an ignorant, attention whore, skank who jabbers out her sezure inducing, mean spirited crap under the guise of comedic social commentary.
She's the kid of girl that when I was in HS, I would have beaten senseless, shaved her head and left her tied to the sink in nothing but her underwear on the floor of a gas station bathroom. A total waste of skin.
What do you really think of her Renee?
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I just realize how irritating it is to watch someone speak with hand motions. Speaking with your hands is not impressive, folks.
Calling Nicole Arbor a bimbo would be a compliment.
She's an ignorant, attention whore, skank who jabbers out her sezure inducing, mean spirited crap under the guise of comedic social commentary.
She's the kid of girl that when I was in HS, I would have beaten senseless, shaved her head and left her tied to the sink in nothing but her underwear on the floor of a gas station bathroom. A total waste of skin.
What do you really think of her Renee?
I was never good at all at game-playing. Woman always know when I am attracted to them, and when I am not. Not all of my relationships have been deep and meaningful, but the woman always knew how I felt about them.
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I just realize how irritating it is to watch someone speak with hand motions. Speaking with your hands is not impressive, folks.
Calling Nicole Arbor a bimbo would be a compliment.
She's an ignorant, attention whore, skank who jabbers out her sezure inducing, mean spirited crap under the guise of comedic social commentary.
She's the kid of girl that when I was in HS, I would have beaten senseless, shaved her head and left her tied to the sink in nothing but her underwear on the floor of a gas station bathroom. A total waste of skin.
What do you really think of her Renee?
I was never good at all at game-playing. Woman always know when I am attracted to them, and when I am not. Not all of my relationships have been deep and meaningful, but the woman always knew how I felt about them.
Are you single ELPHUPPHY?
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I just realize how irritating it is to watch someone speak with hand motions. Speaking with your hands is not impressive, folks.
Calling Nicole Arbor a bimbo would be a compliment.
She's an ignorant, attention whore, skank who jabbers out her sezure inducing, mean spirited crap under the guise of comedic social commentary.
She's the kid of girl that when I was in HS, I would have beaten senseless, shaved her head and left her tied to the sink in nothing but her underwear on the floor of a gas station bathroom. A total waste of skin.
What do you really think of her Renee?
I was never good at all at game-playing. Woman always know when I am attracted to them, and when I am not. Not all of my relationships have been deep and meaningful, but the woman always knew how I felt about them.
I never have been either. The attraction is either there or it isn't.
Ok, I see it now, ya nooo I couldn't stand it for more than a few seconds. How many cups of coffee did she have before making this?
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I just realize how irritating it is to watch someone speak with hand motions. Speaking with your hands is not impressive, folks.
Calling Nicole Arbor a bimbo would be a compliment.
She's an ignorant, attention whore, skank who jabbers out her sezure inducing, mean spirited crap under the guise of comedic social commentary.
She's the kid of girl that when I was in HS, I would have beaten senseless, shaved her head and left her tied to the sink in nothing but her underwear on the floor of a gas station bathroom. A total waste of skin.
What do you really think of her Renee?
I was never good at all at game-playing. Woman always know when I am attracted to them, and when I am not. Not all of my relationships have been deep and meaningful, but the woman always knew how I felt about them.
Are you single ELPHUPPHY?
Yes I am. Divorced and single, to fully disclose.
I'm a little confused here.
When I started watching the video, I was sure i was looking at Jenna Marbles, but everyone here is calling her Nicole Arbour. Are they the same person, did she change her name, or is it a case of mistaken identity?
In case no one here has heard of her, I think they're both doing the same exact thing on YouTube.
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Whoever edits her videos should be electrocuted until they shit themselves. :sdfjh(2):
Ha, i thought it was just me.
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When I started watching the video, I was sure i was looking at Jenna Marbles, but everyone here is calling her Nicole Arbour. Are they the same person, did she change her name, or is it a case of mistaken identity?
In case no one here has heard of her, I think they're both doing the same exact thing on YouTube.
They are doing the same thing but are different people.
The world is full of these narcissistic fucksticks who think the world can't survive without their edgy, irreverent and oh so clever point of view.
Everyone of them are the epitome the "look at me, look at me" disease that afflicts more than half of humanity.
In a perfect world I'd like to be given 10 mins alone with each one of them in a sound proof room. Just me, them and a bag of oranges. acc_devil
I'd shoot myself if I ever became famous for being an idiot.
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No you wouldn't, because if you were an "idiot", chances are you wouldn't realize it.
Just look at half the fools on VF for example.....they're all idiots but they have no clue. :laugh3:
My favourite idiot is evs who sits there wondering why no one stuck up for Inky. The dumb twat doesn't understand passive aggressiveness or things happened behind the scenes. I preferred to be straight up in my approach because I'm upfront like that. It's funny that Inky doesn't post there much now that evs threw her favourite toys out of the playpen. To still be scratching her ass over a year later is fucking hilarious.
If I was as much of a hateful idiot as evs, I would also shoot myself.
[size=85]There, I said it.[/size]
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No you wouldn't, because if you were an "idiot", chances are you wouldn't realize it.
Just look half the fools on VF for example.....they're all idiots but they have no clue. :laugh3:
Ahahahahahahaha! I love you, my American sistah! I laughed so hard at your post. :laugh3:
Just to make it less funny for you, she wasn't implying I'm an idiot.
I was referring to her second sentence though. That made me burst out laughing.
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That was pretty funny haha
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I just realize how irritating it is to watch someone speak with hand motions. Speaking with your hands is not impressive, folks.
Calling Nicole Arbor a bimbo would be a compliment.
She's an ignorant, attention whore, skank who jabbers out her sezure inducing, mean spirited crap under the guise of comedic social commentary.
She's the kid of girl that when I was in HS, I would have beaten senseless, shaved her head and left her tied to the sink in nothing but her underwear on the floor of a gas station bathroom. A total waste of skin.
What do you really think of her Renee?
I was never good at all at game-playing. Woman always know when I am attracted to them, and when I am not. Not all of my relationships have been deep and meaningful, but the woman always knew how I felt about them.
Are you single ELPHUPPHY?
Yes I am. Divorced and single, to fully disclose.
Oh I see ELPHUPPHY.
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No you wouldn't, because if you were an "idiot", chances are you wouldn't realize it.
Just look at half the fools on VF for example.....they're all idiots but they have no clue. :laugh3:
I took a look at that forum and saw Donky D and odinson as the most frequent handles on the first page. They are idiots and I do not care if they have a clue or not.
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No you wouldn't, because if you were an "idiot", chances are you wouldn't realize it.
Just look at half the fools on VF for example.....they're all idiots but they have no clue. :laugh3:
I took a look at that forum and saw Donky D and odinson as the most frequent handles on the first page. They are idiots and I do not care if they have a clue or not.
The owner is the biggest hateful moron in that place.
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No you wouldn't, because if you were an "idiot", chances are you wouldn't realize it.
Just look at half the fools on VF for example.....they're all idiots but they have no clue. :laugh3:
I took a look at that forum and saw Donky D and odinson as the most frequent handles on the first page. They are idiots and I do not care if they have a clue or not.
The owner is the biggest hateful moron in that place.
No arguments here.
Some of the stupid and frankly nasty crap that dribbles out of that woman's head is simply jaw dropping. If it wasn't for the fact that more than a few good people were and in some cases still are subjected to her vile nastiness, I would find her vicious, puerile ranting comical. But instead I find it frighteningly sad.
IMHO, even more disturbing is her penchant for collecting, protecting and even nurturing psyhcopaths, deviants and other assorted creeps. She's like a fucking wet nurse for shit monkeys and rat fucks.
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No you wouldn't, because if you were an "idiot", chances are you wouldn't realize it.
Just look at half the fools on VF for example.....they're all idiots but they have no clue. :laugh3:
I took a look at that forum and saw Donky D and odinson as the most frequent handles on the first page. They are idiots and I do not care if they have a clue or not.
The owner is the biggest hateful moron in that place.
No arguments here.
Some of the stupid and frankly nasty crap that dribbles out of that woman's head is simply jaw dropping. If it wasn't for the fact that more than a few good people were and in some cases still are subjected to her vile nastiness, I would find her vicious, puerile ranting comical. But instead I find it frighteningly sad.
IMHO, even more disturbing is her penchant for collecting, protecting and even nurturing psyhcopaths, deviants and other assorted creeps. She's like a fucking wet nurse for shit monkeys and rat fucks.
BINGO!
In and amoungst there are still some decent people who I miss very much. Many have written so I miss them less than I would otherwise but to not be subjected to her hatred is such a relief. I'm glad me and this place are out of her reach.
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No you wouldn't, because if you were an "idiot", chances are you wouldn't realize it.
Just look at half the fools on VF for example.....they're all idiots but they have no clue. :laugh3:
I took a look at that forum and saw Donky D and odinson as the most frequent handles on the first page. They are idiots and I do not care if they have a clue or not.
The owner is the biggest hateful moron in that place.
No arguments here.
Some of the stupid and frankly nasty crap that dribbles out of that woman's head is simply jaw dropping. If it wasn't for the fact that more than a few good people were and in some cases still are subjected to her vile nastiness, I would find her vicious, puerile ranting comical. But instead I find it frighteningly sad.
IMHO, even more disturbing is her penchant for collecting, protecting and even nurturing psyhcopaths, deviants and other assorted creeps. She's like a fucking wet nurse for shit monkeys and rat fucks.
BINGO!
You think so, eh?
Well you had a different relationship with them than I. You were a star at one time over there. You had an assload of fans, probably still do. But what still puzzels me was the silence that was almost deafening from those "decent" people while you were being actively persecuted by the forum owner.
What was done to me was really no surprise. In fact I probably deserved it to some degree and I certainly never expected anyone to stick up for me. But I did expect your friends/fans to make some small amount of noise in your defense. Frankly I was shocked by the way most of them simply clammed-up and allowed you to be maligned the way you were.
You call them "decent people", that's your prerogative, you know them better than I. But from where I stand and from the POV of any other objective viewer, they would most likely garner a very different label.
Well that's enough of that shit, it's negative and unnecessary. Sorry, I just had to get that off my chest.
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No you wouldn't, because if you were an "idiot", chances are you wouldn't realize it.
Just look at half the fools on VF for example.....they're all idiots but they have no clue. :laugh3:
I took a look at that forum and saw Donky D and odinson as the most frequent handles on the first page. They are idiots and I do not care if they have a clue or not.
It's a troll forum Herman and the owner does not deny her forum is not for everyone.
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No you wouldn't, because if you were an "idiot", chances are you wouldn't realize it.
Just look at half the fools on VF for example.....they're all idiots but they have no clue. :laugh3:
I took a look at that forum and saw Donky D and odinson as the most frequent handles on the first page. They are idiots and I do not care if they have a clue or not.
It's a troll forum Herman and the owner does not deny her forum is not for everyone.
As long as she stays out of this forum, she can do what she wants.
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No you wouldn't, because if you were an "idiot", chances are you wouldn't realize it.
Just look at half the fools on VF for example.....they're all idiots but they have no clue. :laugh3:
I took a look at that forum and saw Donky D and odinson as the most frequent handles on the first page. They are idiots and I do not care if they have a clue or not.
The owner is the biggest hateful moron in that place.
No arguments here.
Some of the stupid and frankly nasty crap that dribbles out of that woman's head is simply jaw dropping. If it wasn't for the fact that more than a few good people were and in some cases still are subjected to her vile nastiness, I would find her vicious, puerile ranting comical. But instead I find it frighteningly sad.
IMHO, even more disturbing is her penchant for collecting, protecting and even nurturing psyhcopaths, deviants and other assorted creeps. She's like a fucking wet nurse for shit monkeys and rat fucks.
BINGO!
You think so, eh?
Well you had a different relationship with them than I. You were a star at one time over there. You had an assload of fans, probably still do. But what still puzzels me was the silence that was almost deafening from those "decent" people while you were being actively persecuted by the forum owner.
What was done to me was really no surprise. In fact I probably deserved it to some degree and I certainly never expected anyone to stick up for me. But I did expect your friends/fans to make some small amount of noise in your defense. Frankly I was shocked by the way most of them simply clammed-up and allowed you to be maligned the way you were.
You call them "decent people", that's your prerogative, you know them better than I. But from where I stand and from the POV of any other objective viewer, they would most likely garner a very different label.
Well that's enough of that shit, it's negative and unnecessary. Sorry, I just had to get that off my chest.
People did stick up for me.
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No you wouldn't, because if you were an "idiot", chances are you wouldn't realize it.
Just look at half the fools on VF for example.....they're all idiots but they have no clue. :laugh3:
I took a look at that forum and saw Donky D and odinson as the most frequent handles on the first page. They are idiots and I do not care if they have a clue or not.
I was invited to register there a long time ago. I knew it was not for me. It has gotten a lot more troll happy since then too.
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No you wouldn't, because if you were an "idiot", chances are you wouldn't realize it.
Just look at half the fools on VF for example.....they're all idiots but they have no clue. :laugh3:
I took a look at that forum and saw Donky D and odinson as the most frequent handles on the first page. They are idiots and I do not care if they have a clue or not.
The owner is the biggest hateful moron in that place.
No arguments here.
Some of the stupid and frankly nasty crap that dribbles out of that woman's head is simply jaw dropping. If it wasn't for the fact that more than a few good people were and in some cases still are subjected to her vile nastiness, I would find her vicious, puerile ranting comical. But instead I find it frighteningly sad.
IMHO, even more disturbing is her penchant for collecting, protecting and even nurturing psyhcopaths, deviants and other assorted creeps. She's like a fucking wet nurse for shit monkeys and rat fucks.
BINGO!
You think so, eh?
Well you had a different relationship with them than I. You were a star at one time over there. You had an assload of fans, probably still do. But what still puzzels me was the silence that was almost deafening from those "decent" people while you were being actively persecuted by the forum owner.
What was done to me was really no surprise. In fact I probably deserved it to some degree and I certainly never expected anyone to stick up for me. But I did expect your friends/fans to make some small amount of noise in your defense. Frankly I was shocked by the way most of them simply clammed-up and allowed you to be maligned the way you were.
You call them "decent people", that's your prerogative, you know them better than I. But from where I stand and from the POV of any other objective viewer, they would most likely garner a very different label.
Well that's enough of that shit, it's negative and unnecessary. Sorry, I just had to get that off my chest.
People did stick up for me.
Some did but they were careful not to do it too vigorously.
Well at least they were cognizant of the limitations of their fortitude. I guess they got that going for them. :laugh3:
Does it make me a bad person if I have nothing but contempt for those ,"decent people"? Better yet, do I really give a flying fuck one way or the other? :nea:
That leaves you with much in common with Mr. Crow.
When she talked about the child abuse thing, people got pretty vocal.
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When she talked about the child abuse thing, people got pretty vocal.
As much as I loathed to admit it......this is one time I don't mind having something in common with the old Crow.
The child abuse thing doesn't count. On a societal level alone, those awful comments required an irate response. Anyone who didn't take issue with that load of vile tripe is a moral deviant.
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When she talked about the child abuse thing, people got pretty vocal.
As much as I loathed to admit it......this is one time I don't mind having something in common with the old Crow.
The child abuse thing doesn't count. On a societal level alone, those awful comments required an irate response. Anyone who didn't take issue with that load of vile tripe is a moral deviant.
People did stick their necks out. It caused evs a great deal of consternation, the lingering paranoia of which is still causing her grief as she demands others hate me to show their loyalty to her. It continues to be the M.O. of someone who is insecure and filled with hate.
I realize this VF discussion is a tangent topic, and I don't know the forum or the people who've been mentioned. But I imagine that each of us has horror forums in their past. I know I do, and this evs person sounds like a clone of someone I know as Amy, or Lady Dragon. I know Phupphy is acquainted with her. She isn't an exact match for evs, but a lot of the same mental health issues are present.
In recent times, this is the second or third forum I've happened upon that seemed like a sort of "lifeboat" to which some refugees from unhealthy forums still in existence had escaped. I'm happy to see it, and it gives me a place to come in from the cold for a while.
I needed to hear that Peaches.
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I agree Peaches, evs does have a mental health issue. I think she has several. The way she treats people is disgusting :beurk:
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When she talked about the child abuse thing, people got pretty vocal.
As much as I loathed to admit it......this is one time I don't mind having something in common with the old Crow.
The child abuse thing doesn't count. On a societal level alone, those awful comments required an irate response. Anyone who didn't take issue with that load of vile tripe is a moral deviant.
People did stick their necks out. It caused evs a great deal of consternation, the lingering paranoia of which is still causing her grief as she demands others hate me to show their loyalty to her. It continues to be the M.O. of someone who is insecure and filled with hate.
I can see why mental cases are attracted to her forum. They have so much in common with the owner.
They're her little pets, Herman :laugh3:
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You might be right about that. Being single has changed so much in such a short time.
I just watched the whole video, despite her annoying split personality way of making her point... she actually does have a point. But games are not a new concept. "The rules" book on dating came out in 1995. And that was just a return to the way dating used to be handled by women. It's ALWAYS been games. And she's right, it's fucked.
I've never had the patience or time for games. If I liked a guy (even in school) EVERYBODY knew, including him. I had no problem walking up to a guy in a club or at a party or even at a theme park, and telling him that I thought he was cute. Saved all the will he/won't he bullshit. And most were grateful that I took the rejection out of it for them.
Say what you mean, and mean what you say. And if a person says no, it's not the end of the world. Whatever their reason, it's their issue, it's still better to know so that you can move on and stop wasting time on something that will never happen.
Some of the people who play games, do so because they like the drama. I drummed into my son, that no matter what he chooses to do with a girl, in the dating scene, he is to be honest and not tell her it's something that it's not in order to get what he wants out of it. So far, I've had a total of zero pissed off fathers on my doorstep, and he seems to stay friends with most of his exes and hookups, so I think I got through to him.
I find guys don't like that in reverse. You say no thanks and it's like you've insulted them.
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Yes, many of them get aggressive and feel that they have a right to you, whether you like it or not. This is the main reason I have never allowed men to buy me drinks. That and after having a drink (that I had bought myself) spiked, I didn't want to risk going through that again. i once had a guy who was hanging out in a group with my friends, offer to buy me a drink, and when I said, No thanks, I'll get my own, went to the other end of the bar and paid for my drink. I immediately passed the drink to my friend and ordered and paid for another one. A few weeks later (after I had started dating his friend), he complained to me that I had never "thanked" him for the drink he bought me. I ripped him a new one, and pointed out that a. I had asked him NOT to buy me a drink, and b. that I had not been the one to drink it, anyway and c. that the reason I had refused his drink was so that he wouldn't have grounds for expecting me to owe him anything.
I'm the same way when it comes to men paying for anything. It comes with an expectation that I can do without.
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It's called "rejection" and no one likes it, no matter what they claim. It's how they handle it that separates the men from the boys.
In my expierence when I would brush off a guy's advances most times I would either get the attitude like.... "How dare you reject me. A pig like you should be grateful for any attention you get" or I would get "the wounded puppy act". Both reactions showcase how childlike men can be and how easily their egos can be damaged.
If they throw a tantrum or if they go off and sit in the corner and cry........you get validation that you did the right thing by saying " no" because you just saved yourself a whole assload of grief.
All 3 of you were hanging around a bunch of BOYS, you needed a man beside you :wink: ac_drinks
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ac_smile Deep down.....aren't all men boys? Well if you listen to some men all women are "bitches" or "cunts". :laugh3: Who is right and who is wrong is a matter of perspective, I guess.
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ac_smile Deep down.....aren't all men boys? Well if you listen to some men all women are "bitches" or "cunts". :laugh3: Who is right and who is wrong is a matter of perspective, I guess.
The real problem with men is, about 80% of them are not really hard-wired to accept themselves as they are. They aren't capable of real humility, nor do they know how to have a healthy ego without having third parties to prop them up. Those third parties are more easily found among "buddies" who will all mutually reinforce how "manly" they are. It's hard for men to get ego reinforcement from women because women (generally speaking) see them either as lovable unfinished masterpieces needing only the right feminine hand to finesse them into shape, or as chumps to be exploited.
The other 20% of men handle rejection fairly well.
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Not only that, but meeting men bars and buying drinks?
Not where I want to be and not where I would expect to meet someone I would want to meet.
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ac_smile Deep down.....aren't all men boys? Well if you listen to some men all women are "bitches" or "cunts". :laugh3: Who is right and who is wrong is a matter of perspective, I guess.
The real problem with men is, about 80% of them are not really hard-wired to accept themselves as they are. They aren't capable of real humility, nor do they know how to have a healthy ego without having third parties to prop them up. Those third parties are more easily found among "buddies" who will all mutually reinforce how "manly" they are. It's hard for men to get ego reinforcement from women
The other 20% of men handle rejection fairly well.
I used to think like that when I was younger but now that I'm older and hopefully wiser, I don't think men can ever be truly molded into a "masterpieces". There is always going to be some major flaw waiting to jump out at you. Yeah sure, you can get them to stop wearing sweat pants all the time or to use coupons at the grocery store or even use a fork at the dinner table but you can never fully "house break" or domesticate them.
They're kinda like keeping a semi-wild dog for a pet. It never really works out and it's not a real good idea. At some point they are always going to go sniffing off into a direction that you don't want them to go. :laugh3:
As for the "chumps", I've never viewed a guy that way. It's incredibly disrespectful. And I could never have any respect for a guy that would allow a woman to do that to them. There is a certain amount of self-respect that is required in order for you to be a viable dating or relationship partner. If you don't have at least that, then I'm not interested.
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Not only that, but meeting men bars and buying drinks?
Not where I want to be and not where I would expect to meet someone I would want to meet.
Why? its just another place to meet someone, just like outside of a coffee shop. i dont drink or judge.
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Not only that, but meeting men bars and buying drinks?
Not where I want to be and not where I would expect to meet someone I would want to meet.
Why? its just another place to meet someone, just like outside of a coffee shop. i dont drink or judge.
Maybe she means meet markets, alcohol and healthy relationships don't mix.
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Not where I want to be and not where I would expect to meet someone I would want to meet.
I am with Fash on this. I was never in the bar scene anyway. It's just not my place to hang out and it does not draw me in. I'm not pining to go to a bar. I'll go if I am going with a bunch of friends or with my significant other but never alone. ac_sothere
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Not where I want to be and not where I would expect to meet someone I would want to meet.
I am with Fash on this. I was never in the bar scene anyway. It's just not my place to hang out and it does not draw me in. I'm not pining to go to a bar. I'll go if I am going with a bunch of friends or with my significant other but never alone. ac_sothere
I was into the bar scene when I was young because I wanted a meaningful overnight relationship with alcohol involved. At my age and even if I was single, not anymore.
I used to go to a couple bars when I was teen with friends but it was the thrill of being able to get in under age or use a fake id.
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That is fun for a minor.
haha, it was! I never got caught! lolol
A little bonus dating/pick up advice:
NEVER ruin a woman's favourite karaoke song by inviting yourself to sing it with her then butchering it.
Fuck you whatever your name was! That was MY Bad Romance!
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NEVER ruin a woman's favourite karaoke song by inviting yourself to sing it with her then butchering it.
Fuck you whatever your name was! That was MY Bad Romance!
I did some bonehead moves when I was single, but I never did that.
I got called for my song and he came right up with me. I stopped singing halfway through.
What a dick move.
Maybe you should have "accidently" "bumped" him off the stage? :laugh:
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Next time ;)
I loved going to the bar to meet people good times.
Oh and FYI... there OTHER things to do in a bar then just drink.
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Oh and FYI... there OTHER things to do in a bar then just drink.
Yeah like play pool ya shark.
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Oh and FYI... there OTHER things to do in a bar then just drink.
I like KTV, but not bars.
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Oh and FYI... there OTHER things to do in a bar then just drink.
I like KTV, but not bars.
Why dont you like bars?
You can mingle, play pool, karaoke , play darts, shuffle board , listen to live bands (FREE most of the time). and you dont have to drink one drop of alcohol.
Truthfully I miss frequenting an old smelly neighborhood bar....with a brass foot rail, a pool table, some out of date video games or a bowling machine and decent pub food.
There were several of them around campus when I was in college. Some were within walking distance of the dorm, so that was a plus.
They were great places to meet up with friends, get polluted, release your drama and then puke in the parking lot. :laugh3:
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Oh and FYI... there OTHER things to do in a bar then just drink.
I like KTV, but not bars.
Why dont you like bars?
You can mingle, play pool, karaoke , play darts, shuffle board , listen to live bands (FREE most of the time). and you dont have to drink one drop of alcohol.
But, other people are often intoxicated and I don't like that..
I go to Chili's occasionally with my family..
They have a bar and patio.
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There were several of them around campus when I was in college. Some were within walking distance of the dorm, so that was a plus.
They were great places to meet up with friends, get polluted, release your drama and then puke in the parking lot. :laugh3:
AMEN!
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There were several of them around campus when I was in college. Some were within walking distance of the dorm, so that was a plus.
They were great places to meet up with friends, get polluted, release your drama and then puke in the parking lot. :laugh3:
I used to go with some friends to a strip club that had the most amazing Dry Ribs EVER!!!! , nothing like tits,beer and ribs to kill an afternoon.
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Oh and FYI... there OTHER things to do in a bar then just drink.
I like KTV, but not bars.
Why dont you like bars?
You can mingle, play pool, karaoke , play darts, shuffle board , listen to live bands (FREE most of the time). and you dont have to drink one drop of alcohol.
But, other people are often intoxicated and I don't like that..
I go to Chili's occasionally with my family..
They have a bar and patio.
Nothing like playing a game of pool with a drunk for $20 bucks :wink:
I like your new avatar Keeper.
Speaking of avatars, we should do a new screen of us in my new outfit Keeps.
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Coming!
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There were several of them around campus when I was in college. Some were within walking distance of the dorm, so that was a plus.
They were great places to meet up with friends, get polluted, release your drama and then puke in the parking lot. :laugh3:
I like those pubs too, especially if it has a sports bar feel to it as well.
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TMI. ac_biggrin
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TMI. ac_biggrin
Hahaha!
She came :wink:
I miss pool, darts and the laughter. But, I can do that at home.
One of my son's jobs is working at a pub. He told me when drunk people play darts he has to be careful. He's had a few darts go whizzing past him a few times. They have really bad aim when drunk lol
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I know all about that Annie.
I used to get in a lot of fights in bars back in the day.
I only got into one fight in a bar....I had to beat the crap out of a women who stole my wedding photos and wouldn't give them back. She had been in our house as a friend but ended up stealing from us. I saw her in a bar and just went nuts on her. I knew the bouncer and he had already known the full story. He just stood there, let me finish and then he threw her ass out lolol.
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Good for you Annie. I used to do some bouncing part time for free drinks. I would look the other way when I thought someone had it coming.
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Oh baby! hahaha :P
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Oh baby! hahaha :P
Magic wand? :thumbup:
Hahaha :)
Keep acc_hugz
Annie acc_hugz
Nice Avatar :empathy:
Thanks hun, he's my old kitty ac_smile
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I never got into a bar fight.....believe it or not.....but I think (actually I know) I instigated a few. :laugh3:
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Okay, I'm going to ask the obvious question.....Why would someone steal you wedding photos? No disrespect...
Just genuinely curious. :confused1:
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Very nice Annie.
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I never got into a bar fight.....believe it or not.....but I think (actually I know) I instigated a few. :laugh3:
I wish I could say that. :/
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I never got into a bar fight.....believe it or not.....but I think (actually I know) I instigated a few. :laugh3:
I wish I could say that. :/
Why in God's name would you?.........Honestly it's kind of embarrassing to have a couple of desperate drunk guys fighting over you because it's getting close to last call. ac_unsure
Not a good way to end an otherwise enjoyable evening. :nea:
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Okay, I'm going to ask the obvious question.....Why would someone steal you wedding photos? No disrespect...
Just genuinely curious. :confused1:
That is not something thieves could exchange for cash at a pawn shop.
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I never got into a bar fight.....believe it or not.....but I think (actually I know) I instigated a few. :laugh3:
I wish I could say that. :/
Why in God's name would you?.........Honestly it's kind of embarrassing to have a couple of desperate drunk guys fighting over you because it's getting close to last call. ac_unsure
Not a good way to end an otherwise enjoyable evening. :nea:
I've been involved in bar fights. A woman punched me in the face because she got told to fuck off after talking shit about my husband then flashing him her tits. I got kicked out another time for slapping a guy across the face for being a rude little fucker.
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I never got into a bar fight.....believe it or not.....but I think (actually I know) I instigated a few. :laugh3:
I wish I could say that. :/
Why in God's name would you?.........Honestly it's kind of embarrassing to have a couple of desperate drunk guys fighting over you because it's getting close to last call. ac_unsure
Not a good way to end an otherwise enjoyable evening. :nea:
I've been involved in bar fights. A woman punched me in the face because she got told to fuck off after talking shit about my husband then flashing him her tits. I got kicked out another time for slapping a guy across the face for being a rude little fucker.
You Canadians are animals. :laugh3:
I'm much too refined and ladylike to get involved in such bellicose hooliganism. ac_sothere
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I never got into a bar fight.....believe it or not.....but I think (actually I know) I instigated a few. :laugh3:
I wish I could say that. :/
Why in God's name would you?.........Honestly it's kind of embarrassing to have a couple of desperate drunk guys fighting over you because it's getting close to last call. ac_unsure
Not a good way to end an otherwise enjoyable evening. :nea:
I've been involved in bar fights. A woman punched me in the face because she got told to fuck off after talking shit about my husband then flashing him her tits. I got kicked out another time for slapping a guy across the face for being a rude little fucker.
You Canadians are animals. :laugh3:
I'm much too refined and ladylike to get involved in such bellicose hooliganism. ac_sothere
You sound EXACTLY like Mr. Crowley hahaha
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I never got into a bar fight.....believe it or not.....but I think (actually I know) I instigated a few. :laugh3:
I wish I could say that. :/
Why in God's name would you?.........Honestly it's kind of embarrassing to have a couple of desperate drunk guys fighting over you because it's getting close to last call. ac_unsure
Not a good way to end an otherwise enjoyable evening. :nea:
I've been involved in bar fights. A woman punched me in the face because she got told to fuck off after talking shit about my husband then flashing him her tits. I got kicked out another time for slapping a guy across the face for being a rude little fucker.
You Canadians are animals. :laugh3:
I'm much too refined and ladylike to get involved in such bellicose hooliganism. ac_sothere
You sound EXACTLY like Mr. Crowley hahaha
Good thing for you we aren't in a bar, bitch,.....because I would punch you right in the knee for that.... :laugh3:
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I never got into a bar fight.....believe it or not.....but I think (actually I know) I instigated a few. :laugh3:
I wish I could say that. :/
Why in God's name would you?.........Honestly it's kind of embarrassing to have a couple of desperate drunk guys fighting over you because it's getting close to last call. ac_unsure
Not a good way to end an otherwise enjoyable evening. :nea:
I've been involved in bar fights. A woman punched me in the face because she got told to fuck off after talking shit about my husband then flashing him her tits. I got kicked out another time for slapping a guy across the face for being a rude little fucker.
You Canadians are animals. :laugh3:
I'm much too refined and ladylike to get involved in such bellicose hooliganism. ac_sothere
You sound EXACTLY like Mr. Crowley hahaha
Good thing for you we aren't in a bar, bitch,.....because I would punch you right in the knee for that.... :laugh3:
LOL! You midgets are so adorable when you're mad!
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I never got into a bar fight.....believe it or not.....but I think (actually I know) I instigated a few. :laugh3:
I wish I could say that. :/
Why in God's name would you?.........Honestly it's kind of embarrassing to have a couple of desperate drunk guys fighting over you because it's getting close to last call. ac_unsure
Not a good way to end an otherwise enjoyable evening. :nea:
I've been involved in bar fights. A woman punched me in the face because she got told to fuck off after talking shit about my husband then flashing him her tits. I got kicked out another time for slapping a guy across the face for being a rude little fucker.
You Canadians are animals. :laugh3:
I'm much too refined and ladylike to get involved in such bellicose hooliganism. ac_sothere
You sound EXACTLY like Mr. Crowley hahaha
Good thing for you we aren't in a bar, bitch,.....because I would punch you right in the knee for that.... :laugh3:
LOL! You midgets are so adorable when you're mad!
"MIDGET".....WTF........That's not very politically correct.
FYI, the proper term is "FUCKIN MIDGET". :t1929:
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Okay, I'm going to ask the obvious question.....Why would someone steal you wedding photos? No disrespect...
Just genuinely curious. :confused1:
That is not something thieves could exchange for cash at a pawn shop.
I didn't get why she would steal our wedding photos either. Later on I found out she had a crush on my husband and was jelouse (?) of our marriage. I'm thinking she took them just to be a biotch.
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Okay, I'm going to ask the obvious question.....Why would someone steal you wedding photos? No disrespect...
Just genuinely curious. :confused1:
That is not something thieves could exchange for cash at a pawn shop.
I didn't get why she would steal our wedding photos either. Later on I found out she had a crush on my husband and was jelouse (?) of our marriage. I'm thinking she took them just to be a biotch.
Wow, that's one of the more bizarre thngs I've heard.
Some people are just plain nuts.
Yep she was nuts. She was also quite a bit older and had 2 grown daughters who were our same age. She would also phone and leave stupid messages or have someone else call and say there was n emergency and that she needed my husband's help. None of it worked. When I caught up with her by chance that night, I didn't let her get off so easy.
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Ya, she was nuts alright.
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Okay, I'm going to ask the obvious question.....Why would someone steal you wedding photos? No disrespect...
Just genuinely curious. :confused1:
That is not something thieves could exchange for cash at a pawn shop.
I didn't get why she would steal our wedding photos either. Later on I found out she had a crush on my husband and was jelouse (?) of our marriage. I'm thinking she took them just to be a biotch.
She had some problems Annie.
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That's crazy.
Someone brought up sports bars earlier.
Is it ever ok to bring teenagers into one of these places if they're obviously a bar and not just a restaurant that sells a lot of food?
The last time I walked into a bar like this, I was shocked that anyone would bring kids into such an establishment, yet there they were... even dressed like they were looking for a date.
I just went there to try a few things on the menu like their burgers made from exotic kinds of meat and because it was 2 blocks from where I used to live. I guess the contrast was a place in the opposite direction that required 3 forms of ID to enter.
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Is it ever ok to bring teenagers into one of these places if they're obviously a bar and not just a restaurant that sells a lot of food?
The last time I walked into a bar like this, I was shocked that anyone would bring kids into such an establishment, yet there they were... even dressed like they were looking for a date.
I just went there to try a few things on the menu like their burgers made from exotic kinds of meat and because it was 2 blocks from where I used to live. I guess the contrast was a place in the opposite direction that required 3 forms of ID to enter.
I guess you mean like a Canadian Brew House or an Original Joe's..
I don't know about that shin..
As long as underage customers are in the company of adults and are not served alcohol I suppose it is alright.
Years ago I was out with a couple friends at a bar when a little boy about 7 or 8 came in looking for his Mom. He found her and asked when she was coming home and that he didn't like it when she went to the bar. She pretty much just ignored him. A bouncer had to tell the boy to leave and the mom to take him home. She just sat there and told him "go home" and continued drinking and flirting with some guys. The boy left but came back a couple more times until finally some other women in the bar told her to take him home and get a sitter if she wanted to go out. She was already pretty drunk when she took him home and she didn't come back.
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Some people should not have kids.