Title: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: shin on August 22, 2016, 09:42:27 AM
Post by: shin on August 22, 2016, 09:42:27 AM
My Mother told me harshly to do something when I was an adolescent. I forget what I said back to my Mother, but it seemed like a bright idea at the time. I do remember she slapped me right across the face for it. I learned not to talk back that day.
My Mother was the more strict disciplinarian of the two parents. The only time my Father ever disciplined me was grounding for a week, and he let me go outside after 4 days in. When I was about 10, Mom told me I was allowed to play in the courtyard, but under no circumstances should I cross the street. One day some of the neighborhood kids convinced me that I should go bike riding with them. We went several miles down a busy street. When I got back, she was waiting for me with a belt in hand. She told me to take off my pants and she gave me the whipping of the century.
Other than those precious first time learning experiences with testing the waters, I was a well-behaved kid.
I forget if I asked you guys this, but how do you feel about disciplining a child below the age of 13? Do you think time outs are sufficient, do you opt for grounding, or is a spanking in order in some circumstances?
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 09:47:03 AM
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 09:47:03 AM
By first time, I mean the first time you rebelled against your parents or guardian? What did you think I meant?Quote from: "shin"ac_biggrin
My Mother told me harshly to do something when I was an adolescent. I forget what I said back to my Mother, but it seemed like a bright idea at the time. I do remember she slapped me right across the face for it. I learned not to talk back that day.
My Mother was the more strict disciplinarian of the two parents. The only time my Father ever disciplined me was grounding for a week, and he let me go outside after 4 days in. When I was about 10, Mom told me I was allowed to play in the courtyard, but under no circumstances should I cross the street. One day some of the neighborhood kids convinced me that I should go bike riding with them. We went several miles down a busy street. When I got back, she was waiting for me with a belt in hand. She told me to take off my pants and she gave me the whipping of the century.
Other than those precious first time learning experiences with testing the waters, I was a well-behaved kid.
I forget if I asked you guys this, but how do you feel about disciplining a child below the age of 13? Do you think time outs are sufficient, do you opt for grounding, or is a spanking in order in some circumstances?
I haven't rebelled yet shin.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: shin on August 22, 2016, 09:50:30 AM
Post by: shin on August 22, 2016, 09:50:30 AM
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 10:03:03 AM
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 10:03:03 AM
i sort of get the impression that Asian discipline is harsh and potent... Like "You get straight A's or you don't eat supper for a year!" Well, not quite that bad, but bad enough to scare kids into perfect behavior.Quote from: "shin"
There is a lot of truth to East Asian [parents' expectations.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Thiel on August 22, 2016, 10:24:50 AM
Post by: Thiel on August 22, 2016, 10:24:50 AM
By first time, I mean the first time you rebelled against your parents or guardian? What did you think I meant?Quote from: "shin"ac_biggrin
My Mother told me harshly to do something when I was an adolescent. I forget what I said back to my Mother, but it seemed like a bright idea at the time. I do remember she slapped me right across the face for it. I learned not to talk back that day.
My Mother was the more strict disciplinarian of the two parents. The only time my Father ever disciplined me was grounding for a week, and he let me go outside after 4 days in. When I was about 10, Mom told me I was allowed to play in the courtyard, but under no circumstances should I cross the street. One day some of the neighborhood kids convinced me that I should go bike riding with them. We went several miles down a busy street. When I got back, she was waiting for me with a belt in hand. She told me to take off my pants and she gave me the whipping of the century.
Other than those precious first time learning experiences with testing the waters, I was a well-behaved kid.
I forget if I asked you guys this, but how do you feel about disciplining a child below the age of 13? Do you think time outs are sufficient, do you opt for grounding, or is a spanking in order in some circumstances?
The biggest even that stands for me in my youth, was coming out to my parents. My dad had a hard time getting over that one, if he ever did. That was thirty years ago. No doubt it would be easier today.
As for actual rebellion, I did all the usual things. I stayed out too late on school nights, I came home drunk when I was fifteen, I took my mom's car after being forbidden to do so. Temporary removal of privileges was always the punishment. That included no spending money.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 10:30:16 AM
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 10:30:16 AM
I notice not so much direct rebellion, but she does not want to spend time with me anymore..
She wants to be with her friends all the time..
I was a bit like that at her age, but I didn't dare be as bold about it as my daughter is.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 11:37:19 AM
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 11:37:19 AM
The only time I directly defied my parents was over a guy I was dating. They felt it was getting too serious.....besides, he was white.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Twenty Dollars on August 22, 2016, 11:53:48 AM
Post by: Twenty Dollars on August 22, 2016, 11:53:48 AM
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 11:58:35 AM
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 11:58:35 AM
I need to ask in a non judgmental way. What is theQuote from: "Twenty Dollars"signifagenceof being from East Asia? I ask because I don't know. Hermans wife, Fashionista, maybe others? Never been to that part of the world.
Is that anything like significance?
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 12:53:32 PM
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 12:53:32 PM
I need to ask in a non judgmental way. What is the signifagence of being from East Asia? I ask because I don't know. Hermans wife, Fashionista, maybe others? Never been to that part of the world.Quote from: "Twenty Dollars"
It is called cultural differences.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 12:56:05 PM
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 12:56:05 PM
By first time, I mean the first time you rebelled against your parents or guardian? What did you think I meant?Quote from: "shin"ac_biggrin
My Mother told me harshly to do something when I was an adolescent. I forget what I said back to my Mother, but it seemed like a bright idea at the time. I do remember she slapped me right across the face for it. I learned not to talk back that day.
My Mother was the more strict disciplinarian of the two parents. The only time my Father ever disciplined me was grounding for a week, and he let me go outside after 4 days in. When I was about 10, Mom told me I was allowed to play in the courtyard, but under no circumstances should I cross the street. One day some of the neighborhood kids convinced me that I should go bike riding with them. We went several miles down a busy street. When I got back, she was waiting for me with a belt in hand. She told me to take off my pants and she gave me the whipping of the century.
Other than those precious first time learning experiences with testing the waters, I was a well-behaved kid.
I forget if I asked you guys this, but how do you feel about disciplining a child below the age of 13? Do you think time outs are sufficient, do you opt for grounding, or is a spanking in order in some circumstances?
I was rebellious for as long as I can remember. At school, at home, with the police, I was in shit on a constant basis.
One thing that stands out for me, is my mom catching me with a girl in the barn when I was fifteen. She screamed.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Twenty Dollars on August 22, 2016, 01:03:35 PM
Post by: Twenty Dollars on August 22, 2016, 01:03:35 PM
I need to ask in a non judgmental way. What is the signifagence of being from East Asia? I ask because I don't know. Hermans wife, Fashionista, maybe others? Never been to that part of the world.Quote from: "Twenty Dollars"
It is called cultural differences.
How different?
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 01:39:56 PM
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 01:39:56 PM
I need to ask in a non judgmental way. What is the signifagence of being from East Asia? I ask because I don't know. Hermans wife, Fashionista, maybe others? Never been to that part of the world.Quote from: "Twenty Dollars"
It is called cultural differences.
How different?
We're exactly like white folks except completely different.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 02:24:52 PM
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 02:24:52 PM
I need to ask in a non judgmental way. What is the signifagence of being from East Asia? I ask because I don't know. Hermans wife, Fashionista, maybe others? Never been to that part of the world.Quote from: "Twenty Dollars"
It is called cultural differences.
How different?
Academic expectations are often different..
How time is managed outside of school hours is frequently different too..
Interactions with friends are controlled too..
I had no concept of a
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 05:06:54 PM
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 05:06:54 PM
I need to ask in a non judgmental way. What is the signifagence of being from East Asia? I ask because I don't know. Hermans wife, Fashionista, maybe others? Never been to that part of the world.Quote from: "Twenty Dollars"
It is called cultural differences.
How different?
Academic expectations are often different..
How time is managed outside of school hours is frequently different too..
Interactions with friends are controlled too..
I had no concept of asleep overwhen I was a young girl.
TD still won't understand.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 06:12:44 PM
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 06:12:44 PM
I need to ask in a non judgmental way. What is the signifagence of being from East Asia? I ask because I don't know. Hermans wife, Fashionista, maybe others? Never been to that part of the world.Quote from: "Twenty Dollars"
It is called cultural differences.
How different?
Academic expectations are often different..
How time is managed outside of school hours is frequently different too..
Interactions with friends are controlled too..
I had no concept of asleep overwhen I was a young girl.
TD still won't understand.
We know.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Twenty Dollars on August 22, 2016, 07:48:10 PM
Post by: Twenty Dollars on August 22, 2016, 07:48:10 PM
I need to ask in a non judgmental way. What is the signifagence of being from East Asia? I ask because I don't know. Hermans wife, Fashionista, maybe others? Never been to that part of the world.Quote from: "Twenty Dollars"
It is called cultural differences.
How different?
Academic expectations are often different..
How time is managed outside of school hours is frequently different too..
Interactions with friends are controlled too..
I had no concept of asleep overwhen I was a young girl.
Are you saying its a control issue regarding ones parents? Is this a commonality from house hold to house hold with kids?
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Twenty Dollars on August 22, 2016, 07:50:36 PM
Post by: Twenty Dollars on August 22, 2016, 07:50:36 PM
I need to ask in a non judgmental way. What is the signifagence of being from East Asia? I ask because I don't know. Hermans wife, Fashionista, maybe others? Never been to that part of the world.Quote from: "Twenty Dollars"
It is called cultural differences.
How different?
Academic expectations are often different..
How time is managed outside of school hours is frequently different too..
Interactions with friends are controlled too..
I had no concept of asleep overwhen I was a young girl.
TD still won't understand.
I understand that you're a kiss ass sissy. Clear for all to see. Even for a dummy like me.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Renee on August 22, 2016, 07:57:43 PM
Post by: Renee on August 22, 2016, 07:57:43 PM
I need to ask in a non judgmental way. What is the signifagence of being from East Asia? I ask because I don't know. Hermans wife, Fashionista, maybe others? Never been to that part of the world.Quote from: "Twenty Dollars"
It is called cultural differences.
How different?
Academic expectations are often different..
How time is managed outside of school hours is frequently different too..
Interactions with friends are controlled too..
I had no concept of asleep overwhen I was a young girl.
This is the correct thread.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 08:15:02 PM
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 08:15:02 PM
I need to ask in a non judgmental way. What is the signifagence of being from East Asia? I ask because I don't know. Hermans wife, Fashionista, maybe others? Never been to that part of the world.Quote from: "Twenty Dollars"
It is called cultural differences.
How different?
Academic expectations are often different..
How time is managed outside of school hours is frequently different too..
Interactions with friends are controlled too..
I had no concept of asleep overwhen I was a young girl. (//%3C/s%3E%3CURL%20url=%22https://cdn.meme.am/instances/500x/15564631.jpg%22%3Ehttps://cdn.meme.am/instances/500x/15564631.jpg%3C/URL%3E%3Ce%3E)
This is the correct thread.:laugh3:
I know you got it in the wrong thread the first time. It was true in my house.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 08:24:24 PM
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 08:24:24 PM
I need to ask in a non judgmental way. What is the signifagence of being from East Asia? I ask because I don't know. Hermans wife, Fashionista, maybe others? Never been to that part of the world.Quote from: "Twenty Dollars"
It is called cultural differences.
How different?
Academic expectations are often different..
How time is managed outside of school hours is frequently different too..
Interactions with friends are controlled too..
I had no concept of asleep overwhen I was a young girl. (//%3C/s%3E%3CURL%20url=%22https://cdn.meme.am/instances/500x/15564631.jpg%22%3Ehttps://cdn.meme.am/instances/500x/15564631.jpg%3C/URL%3E%3Ce%3E)
This is the correct thread.:laugh3:
I wish my folks had pushed me harder to succeed. Not that hard though.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Renee on August 22, 2016, 08:26:40 PM
Post by: Renee on August 22, 2016, 08:26:40 PM
I need to ask in a non judgmental way. What is the signifagence of being from East Asia? I ask because I don't know. Hermans wife, Fashionista, maybe others? Never been to that part of the world.Quote from: "Twenty Dollars"
It is called cultural differences.
How different?
Academic expectations are often different..
How time is managed outside of school hours is frequently different too..
Interactions with friends are controlled too..
I had no concept of asleep overwhen I was a young girl. (//%3C/s%3E%3CURL%20url=%22https://cdn.meme.am/instances/500x/15564631.jpg%22%3Ehttps://cdn.meme.am/instances/500x/15564631.jpg%3C/URL%3E%3Ce%3E)
This is the correct thread.:laugh3:
I know you got it in the wrong thread the first time. It was true in my house.
I had a Japanese girlfriend and teamate in HS. She played a decent second base. I used to bust her chops all the time by saying if her parents ever made her miss a game because she got less than an "A", the rest of us white girls would give her a "blanket party".
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 08:32:15 PM
Post by: Anonymous on August 22, 2016, 08:32:15 PM
I need to ask in a non judgmental way. What is the signifagence of being from East Asia? I ask because I don't know. Hermans wife, Fashionista, maybe others? Never been to that part of the world.Quote from: "Twenty Dollars"
It is called cultural differences.
How different?
Academic expectations are often different..
How time is managed outside of school hours is frequently different too..
Interactions with friends are controlled too..
I had no concept of asleep overwhen I was a young girl. (//%3C/s%3E%3CURL%20url=%22https://cdn.meme.am/instances/500x/15564631.jpg%22%3Ehttps://cdn.meme.am/instances/500x/15564631.jpg%3C/URL%3E%3Ce%3E)
This is the correct thread.:laugh3:
I know you got it in the wrong thread the first time. It was true in my house.
I had a Japanese girlfriend and teamate in HS. She played a decent second base. I used to bust her chops all the time by saying if her parents ever made her miss a game because she got less than an "A", the rest of us white girls would give her a "blanket party".ac_biggrin
I wonder what life would have been like if I had been raised by my Japanese grandmother?
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Thiel on August 23, 2016, 03:18:20 PM
Post by: Thiel on August 23, 2016, 03:18:20 PM
I need to ask in a non judgmental way. What is the signifagence of being from East Asia? I ask because I don't know. Hermans wife, Fashionista, maybe others? Never been to that part of the world.Quote from: "Twenty Dollars"
It is called cultural differences.
How different?
Academic expectations are often different..
How time is managed outside of school hours is frequently different too..
Interactions with friends are controlled too..
I had no concept of asleep overwhen I was a young girl. (//%3C/s%3E%3CURL%20url=%22https://cdn.meme.am/instances/500x/15564631.jpg%22%3Ehttps://cdn.meme.am/instances/500x/15564631.jpg%3C/URL%3E%3Ce%3E)
This is the correct thread.:laugh3:
I know you got it in the wrong thread the first time. It was true in my house.
I had a Japanese girlfriend and teamate in HS. She played a decent second base. I used to bust her chops all the time by saying if her parents ever made her miss a game because she got less than an "A", the rest of us white girls would give her a "blanket party".ac_biggrin
I wonder what life would have been like if I had been raised by my Japanese grandmother?ac_umm
A healthier diet perhaps.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 24, 2016, 08:47:21 AM
Post by: Anonymous on August 24, 2016, 08:47:21 AM
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Twenty Dollars on August 24, 2016, 10:43:26 AM
Post by: Twenty Dollars on August 24, 2016, 10:43:26 AM
And a lot more pressure to succeed Churchill.Quote from: "Fashionista"
To succeed? How would you judge success Fashionista? Real Estate holdings, bank accounts, out side investments? Your statement panders to the vendictive assuming fools who post here.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Renee on August 24, 2016, 02:23:26 PM
Post by: Renee on August 24, 2016, 02:23:26 PM
And a lot more pressure to succeed Churchill.Quote from: "Fashionista"
To succeed? How would you judge success Fashionista? Real Estate holdings, bank accounts, out side investments? Your statement panders to thevendictiveassuming fools who post here. :laugh: You forget my mother was a Jew. Guess it's OK to be smart and bloody broke.
WTF are you blabbering about now? You are probably about the most obtuse SOB to come down the road into this place since this forum's inception.
Each person measures success in different ways and who is to say which way is the correct way. Certainly not YOU.
BTW, the word is "vindictive". I see your spelling is still shit. Honestly I hate resorting to spelling lames; it's so amateur, especially in your case where there is a plethora of stupid shit to work with. But you are so God damn annoyingly dumb, you deserve to have even the most minor of criticisms slammed in your face.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 24, 2016, 06:17:53 PM
Post by: Anonymous on August 24, 2016, 06:17:53 PM
And a lot more pressure to succeed Churchill.Quote from: "Fashionista"
To succeed? How would you judge success Fashionista? Real Estate holdings, bank accounts, out side investments? Your statement panders to the vendictive assuming fools who post here.:laugh: You forget my mother was a Jew. Guess it's OK to be smart and bloody broke.
This is the most assinine I post I have ever seen on this board. Nothing to do with what Fash's post. Just paranoid assumptions from a total, babbling idiot.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 24, 2016, 07:13:50 PM
Post by: Anonymous on August 24, 2016, 07:13:50 PM
And a lot more pressure to succeed Churchill.Quote from: "Fashionista"
To succeed? How would you judge success Fashionista? Real Estate holdings, bank accounts, out side investments? Your statement panders to thevendictiveassuming fools who post here. :laugh: You forget my mother was a Jew. Guess it's OK to be smart and bloody broke.
WTF are you blabbering about now?You are probably about the most obtuse SOB to come down the road into this place since this forum's inception.
Each person measures success in different ways and who is to say which way is the correct way. Certainly not YOU.
BTW, the word is "vindictive". I see your spelling is still shit. Honestly I hate resorting to spelling lames; it's so amateur, especially in your case where there is a plethora of stupid shit to work with. But you are so God damn annoyingly dumb, you deserve to have even the most minor of criticisms slammed in your face.ac_biggrin
No probably, he is the dumbest waste of skin the different versions of this board has ever seen. That post was proof of that.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 25, 2016, 02:20:30 AM
Post by: Anonymous on August 25, 2016, 02:20:30 AM
And a lot more pressure to succeed Churchill.Quote from: "Fashionista"
To succeed? How would you judge success Fashionista? Real Estate holdings, bank accounts, out side investments? Your statement panders to the vendictive assuming fools who post here.:laugh: You forget my mother was a Jew. Guess it's OK to be smart and bloody broke.
That is a lot of stupidity packed into a short post.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 25, 2016, 06:14:59 PM
Post by: Anonymous on August 25, 2016, 06:14:59 PM
And a lot more pressure to succeed Churchill.Quote from: "Fashionista"
To succeed? How would you judge success Fashionista? Real Estate holdings, bank accounts, out side investments? Your statement panders to the vendictive assuming fools who post here.:laugh: You forget my mother was a Jew. Guess it's OK to be smart and bloody broke.
That is a lot of stupidity packed into a short post.
Have you ever seen the fool post anything else?
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 27, 2016, 09:43:49 AM
Post by: Anonymous on August 27, 2016, 09:43:49 AM
Have you ever seen the fool post anything else?Quote from: "Herman"
TD has a lower IQ than a bunch of carrots and kisses old Vesna's ass. Not my kinda people.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: kiebers on August 27, 2016, 12:36:37 PM
Post by: kiebers on August 27, 2016, 12:36:37 PM
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 27, 2016, 06:30:14 PM
Post by: Anonymous on August 27, 2016, 06:30:14 PM
When I was very young, the rule was I had to have an adult help me cross the street. The first time I rebelled I was 5 maybe 6 years old. Packed my suitcase and left. Mom let me leave and proceeded to call everyone (yes they had phones back then) on the block and tell them not to help me cross the street. I wound up going back home because no one would help me cross the street....LOLQuote from: "kiebers"
You wild man kiebers.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Twenty Dollars on August 28, 2016, 11:45:32 AM
Post by: Twenty Dollars on August 28, 2016, 11:45:32 AM
When I was very young, the rule was I had to have an adult help me cross the street. The first time I rebelled I was 5 maybe 6 years old. Packed my suitcase and left. Mom let me leave and proceeded to call everyone (yes they had phones back then) on the block and tell them not to help me cross the street. I wound up going back home because no one would help me cross the street....LOLQuote from: "kiebers"
100% believable
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on August 28, 2016, 06:27:36 PM
Post by: Anonymous on August 28, 2016, 06:27:36 PM
When I was very young, the rule was I had to have an adult help me cross the street. The first time I rebelled I was 5 maybe 6 years old. Packed my suitcase and left. Mom let me leave and proceeded to call everyone (yes they had phones back then) on the block and tell them not to help me cross the street. I wound up going back home because no one would help me cross the street....LOLQuote from: "kiebers"
Cute story kiebers.
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: shin on September 01, 2016, 09:09:06 AM
Post by: shin on September 01, 2016, 09:09:06 AM
When I was very young, the rule was I had to have an adult help me cross the street. The first time I rebelled I was 5 maybe 6 years old. Packed my suitcase and left. Mom let me leave and proceeded to call everyone (yes they had phones back then) on the block and tell them not to help me cross the street. I wound up going back home because no one would help me cross the street....LOLQuote from: "kiebers"
lol Did you have an idea of where you were going besides across the street?
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: kiebers on September 01, 2016, 09:32:41 AM
Post by: kiebers on September 01, 2016, 09:32:41 AM
Title: Re: Do you remember your first time?
Post by: Anonymous on September 02, 2016, 09:18:43 AM
Post by: Anonymous on September 02, 2016, 09:18:43 AM
Nope, just running away...LOLQuote from: "kiebers"
ha ha