Ladies, what makes a guy "creepy" in your eyes?
Guys, what makes a woman boring/uninteresting?
Do you tend to find something you like in everyone, or are you difficult to please?
You create some great threads shin..
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Men with smoking and drinking habits, although not creepy are unappealing to me..
I may be the wrong person to respond because I have never dated any man other than my husband, but I would say a man who likes a lot of porn would be creepy to me.
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Shin is not you Mel, he doesn't have a problem with everyone.
To me, women who are "boring/uninteresting" are the the kind that think they need a man in their lives to be complete. There are tons of them out there, internet dating sites are flooded with them. They are the kind of women that brings nothing but a pussy and a mouth to feed to the table. They will jump from guy to guy just to say they are in a relationship because being in some kind of relationship is the only thing that gives them a purpose.
This kind of woman is not only "boring/uninteresting", they are to be avoided at all costs.
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Guys, what makes a woman boring/uninteresting?
Do you tend to find something you like in everyone, or are you difficult to please?
Creepy to me is a vibe or a feeling I get from a guy. I almost instantly know if someone doesn't feel right. For example, I was in a mall last weekend with my husband and this guy kept staring at me and then he'd show up in every store I went into. That was creepy. I also don't like it when guys push you to reject them because they can't take a hint.
Overly complimentary guys are creepy too.
Women with too much emotional baggage from previous relationships.
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Your insight into the male psyche is superb, and your wit and wisdom exemplary.
I just love the way you write.
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Awww thanks. ac_wub
Does the make me creepy.
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Would I be overly complimentary if I yell out "hey, nice tits" if I see you on the street?
Just checking because I wouldn't want to creep you out or anything.
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Would I be overly complimentary if I yell out "hey, nice tits" if I see you on the street?
Just checking because I wouldn't want to creep you out or anything.
Funny story...
My husband and I were leaving a restaurant (The Keg in Banff) when I walked by two guys at the bar area who were absolutely sloshed. The one guy turned to me and said, "Nice tits" and without missing a beat my husband said, "Thanks. They're mine." I gutted myself Haha
Guys have said all sorts of piggish things in passing. It's when they stop and keep talking or touch that things get creepy.
The guys that give me the heebies are the ones that go on and on about things. They'll tell you you're beautiful. That you have beautiful eyes and pretty hair and kissable lips. On and on about how they could stare at your face all day or how they'd love to take you for dinner sometime. You aren't attracted to them but they'll keep on and on. They don't take the hint and fuck off. That's creepy!!!
And no Obi, you aren't creepy. :p
Another creeper move is when a guy asks to buy you a drink or dinner or asks you to dance and you politely refuse, he calls flips out and says something douches like you're a slut anyway or your loss. Those creeps make me super nervous.
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And no Obi, you aren't creepy. :p
But you're so beautiful. I stare at your pictures all day...even the ones where you're wearing clothes.
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And no Obi, you aren't creepy. :p
But you're so beautiful. I stare at your pictures all day...even the ones where you're wearing clothes.
Now I feel less creepy for drawing pictures of your face every day.
I'm told someone who walks around with a toothpick sticking out of their mouth is someone to keep an eye on.
Another one...I'm told to keep an eye on those folks with short nails on all their fingers except one finger has a very long nail. Creepy that one. What is that used for? I dread the answer.
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Guys, what makes a woman boring/uninteresting?
Do you tend to find something you like in everyone, or are you difficult to please?
Creepy to me is a vibe or a feeling I get from a guy. I almost instantly know if someone doesn't feel right. For example, I was in a mall last weekend with my husband and this guy kept staring at me and then he'd show up in every store I went into. That was creepy. I also don't like it when guys push you to reject them because they can't take a hint.
Me too RW. If I get a negative vibe, my instincts are usually right.
I echo that. Creepy indeed.
What's worse are those who actually know you and you know them such as in the work place. Just because you greet them and smile at them, they think you are going to date them. Creepy.
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What's worse are those who actually know you and you know them such as in the work place. Just because you greet them and smile at them, they think you are going to date them. Creepy.
That has never happened to me, but my niece had a workplace stalker. She quit.
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If it's the little finger nail it's nose picking or snorting coke.
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What's worse are those who actually know you and you know them such as in the work place. Just because you greet them and smile at them, they think you are going to date them. Creepy.
Those guys SUCK!
A few years back I had to deal with a guy who turned a business meeting into a date. After he got fired, it escalated until the police got involved.
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^^ This.
I was seeing a guy last summer...honestly, I just wanted the summer booty call....he was a nice guy but just not for me. Anyhow, I stopped texting him and didnt return any texts at all....he kept texting me all the time...finally I text him and told him I wasnt interested in a relationship and that he should find someone else...he texts me back and says he understands but we can still be friends and he'll come hang out...he still kept texting me...sending me kisses, roses, inviting me out to things and texting how he wanted to spank me....I just kept ignoring him and this went on for months....like holy fuck!! Creepy or what....he finally stopped a few weeks ago...thank God!!
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This kind of woman is not only "boring/uninteresting", they are to be avoided at all costs.
^^ there are a lot of guys like this too.
I will not go on dating sites...all the desperates on there...snakes, liars, whores, fuckin weirdos...the list goes on...
I have no desire to be in a relationship at all. I have goals I want to accomplish and a guy would just be in my way causing problems I dont need in my life...plus im not interested in having sex like all the fuckin time. Life is more than just sex...there are things to accomplish and to be done. Im busy and im tired....I dont mind booty call when time allows for it...but most guys dont get the point in a booty call...its not a 24/7 service and its not going to turn into a relationship....ffs...its when I feel like it...do the deed and then go the fuck home.
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^^ This.
I was seeing a guy last summer...honestly, I just wanted the summer booty call....he was a nice guy but just not for me. Anyhow, I stopped texting him and didnt return any texts at all....he kept texting me all the time...finally I text him and told him I wasnt interested in a relationship and that he should find someone else...he texts me back and says he understands but we can still be friends and he'll come hang out...he still kept texting me...sending me kisses, roses, inviting me out to things and texting how he wanted to spank me....I just kept ignoring him and this went on for months....like holy fuck!! Creepy or what....he finally stopped a few weeks ago...thank God!!
Yeah they do that. Months is getting off light. I didn't have feelings for a guy so he shacked up with my best friend just so he could hang around.
The ones that really give me the no-no feeling are the ones that get angry or aggressive when you tell them no. Nothing turns out well with those fuckers.
I dont date a whole lot. I dont like the feeling of a man trying to dominate me...im uncomfortable with it, plus it turns me off.
I hate it when guys try to pick up gals and act like chickens n peacocks....
One thing I also cannot stand is both male a female fb posters, post about going to the gym (but forgot to include its been months or a year since) and all of a sudden they are buff, healthy and just fab....but you never see the damn post again...
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I think there might be one of those that hangs out here.
Not naming any names but we all know who HE is. ac_biggrin
I find it difficult to relate to what Berry Sweet and RW are saying..
I have never had a man stalk me, pursue me or show any romantic interest in me besides my husband..
I was not asked out on date until I was 21 and I always wanted a permanent committed relationship..
Berry wants to remain single and guys pursue her..
It makes me wonder if it's because I'm East Asian.
ac_umm
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I think there might be one of those that hangs out here.
Not naming any names but we all know who HE is. ac_biggrin
You're bang on. He's a total creeper.
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I think there might be one of those that hangs out here.
Not naming any names but we all know who HE is. ac_biggrin
You're bang on. He's a total creeper.
And I think he likes you...... :laugh3:
Lucky me!
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Must be your nice tits.
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Is this thread about houses?
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Is this thread about houses?
No, but TD never reads posts anyway.
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Is this thread about houses?
Of course it isn't..
Twenty Dollars sometimes forgets he hasn't been in junior high for well over half a century.
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I have never had a man stalk me, pursue me or show any romantic interest in me besides my husband..
I was not asked out on date until I was 21 and I always wanted a permanent committed relationship..
Berry wants to remain single and guys pursue her..
It makes me wonder if it's because I'm East Asian.
ac_umm
It's a cultural diff thing. Whites value independence.
As for the white guys pursuing white chicks and wanting relationships, that's all horseshit games. The white guys want to conquer these chicks, they don't have feelings for them. They sure don't want a future with them. The white chicks win if they push them away first. It's an adolescent game to see who can fuck with the others feelings first and dump them.
I have been observing whites for years in their natural habitat and I have seen this pattern of behaviour.
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I have been observing whites for years in their natural habitat and I have seen this pattern of behaviour.
So true. We never see any married white couples or white couples with kids. :001_rolleyes:
I never knew people's desire for relationships was based on their skin colour. How insightful!
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I have been observing whites for years in their natural habitat and I have seen this pattern of behaviour.
So true. We never see any married white couples or white couples with kids. :001_rolleyes:
I never knew people's desire for relationships was based on their skin colour. How insightful!
And of course there are never any cultural differences when it comes to engaging in or pursuing relationships right?
:oeudC:
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I have never had a man stalk me, pursue me or show any romantic interest in me besides my husband..
I was not asked out on date until I was 21 and I always wanted a permanent committed relationship..
Berry wants to remain single and guys pursue her..
It makes me wonder if it's because I'm East Asian.
ac_umm
It's a cultural diff thing. Whites value independence.
As for the white guys pursuing white chicks and wanting relationships, that's all horseshit games. The white guys want to conquer these chicks, they don't have feelings for them. They sure don't want a future with them. The white chicks win if they push them away first. It's an adolescent game to see who can fuck with the others feelings first and dump them.
I have been observing whites for years in their natural habitat and I have seen this pattern of behaviour.
I haven't found that to be true of all white men. Some definitely do that.
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I have been observing whites for years in their natural habitat and I have seen this pattern of behaviour.
So true. We never see any married white couples or white couples with kids. :001_rolleyes:
I never knew people's desire for relationships was based on their skin colour. How insightful!
And of course there are never any cultural differences when it comes to engaging in or pursuing relationships right?
:oeudC:
I never said anything like that. Are you responding to me?
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I have been observing whites for years in their natural habitat and I have seen this pattern of behaviour.
So true. We never see any married white couples or white couples with kids. :001_rolleyes:
I never knew people's desire for relationships was based on their skin colour. How insightful!
And of course there are never any cultural differences when it comes to engaging in or pursuing relationships right?
:oeudC:
I never said anything like that. Are you responding to me?
It was a question and yes, it was directed at you.
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I have been observing whites for years in their natural habitat and I have seen this pattern of behaviour.
So true. We never see any married white couples or white couples with kids. :001_rolleyes:
I never knew people's desire for relationships was based on their skin colour. How insightful!
Putting words in other people's mouths is lame.
You can't tell I'm having some fun with her? I didn't use enough *rolleyes* emoticons for you?
:laugh:
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No, I don't think we could tell. Moar emoticons please.
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Do you tend to find something you like in everyone, or are you difficult to please?
Most women are actually quite useless...
They often bring debt and children from previous bad decisions that they've made in their lives, and are now looking for their saviour.
This is why I do not date women with kids. They can ride on another cock for the rent money.
And this is why myself and my ex-wife are still "together." We know we can't find any better match.
Most men have issues, and most women do also. I do NOT put up with crap.
Don't settle until you've found the one that you can work with.
And my Ex? I'd kick her to the curb in a second if she started any funny shit. She knows that. In return, she gets to live a life that not many others would...
And I don't even want sex from her. My little limp noodle most certainly won't be in any porn shoots.
She doesn't care.
I'm not a Negro, so I don't need sex all the time. This allows me to become choosy. I am in a position to be choosy.
Never settle just to not be alone. However, if you find one that's like you, keep her. Oddly enough, if it's going to work, you don't actually have to work at it.
What makes a woman uninteresting to me is an inability to hold a conversation about something they're supposedly very interested in.
Also, to a lesser degree.... constantly speaking in code where everything is a mixed euphemism and nothing is addressed directly or by name.
This one is conditional: the ones whose nervous systems are attached to their cell phones and feel the need to respond to notifications immediately are often scatterbrained, but if they have a job that requires them to be on call it's somewhat understandable. I always get a little concerned when I respond to a post on FB and they respond within 5 seconds.
I'm so picky it's no wonder I'm single. Right, Mel? :tease:
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Is this thread about houses?
No, but TD never reads posts anyway.
Wrong. It's just that she has communicated to me how big her ranch style is 20 times. Looks like your impressed Herman?
It's a 4 level split TYVM.
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I have never had a man stalk me, pursue me or show any romantic interest in me besides my husband..
I was not asked out on date until I was 21 and I always wanted a permanent committed relationship..
Berry wants to remain single and guys pursue her..
It makes me wonder if it's because I'm East Asian.
ac_umm
It's a cultural diff thing. Whites value independence.
As for the white guys pursuing white chicks and wanting relationships, that's all horseshit games. The white guys want to conquer these chicks, they don't have feelings for them. They sure don't want a future with them. The white chicks win if they push them away first. It's an adolescent game to see who can fuck with the others feelings first and dump them.
I have been observing whites for years in their natural habitat and I have seen this pattern of behaviour.
I liked a challenge when I was single.
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I have been observing whites for years in their natural habitat and I have seen this pattern of behaviour.
So true. We never see any married white couples or white couples with kids. :001_rolleyes:
I never knew people's desire for relationships was based on their skin colour. How insightful!
Putting words in other people's mouths is lame.
Meh, he hasn't been anywhere, but assumes everyone on earth shares his white prog leftist ideology.
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I have been observing whites for years in their natural habitat and I have seen this pattern of behaviour.
So true. We never see any married white couples or white couples with kids. :001_rolleyes:
I never knew people's desire for relationships was based on their skin colour. How insightful!
Putting words in other people's mouths is lame.
Meh, he hasn't been anywhere, but assumes everyone on earth shares his white prog leftist ideology.
No, he does not assume or believe that. He knows he is full of shit.
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I have been observing whites for years in their natural habitat and I have seen this pattern of behaviour.
So true. We never see any married white couples or white couples with kids. :001_rolleyes:
I never knew people's desire for relationships was based on their skin colour. How insightful!
Putting words in other people's mouths is lame.
Meh, he hasn't been anywhere, but assumes everyone on earth shares his white prog leftist ideology.
I've met people who haven't much international exposure that see foreign lands through Canadian rose coloured glasses.