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Title: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Bricktop on April 01, 2017, 06:54:42 AM
"PP is now a women's only sanctuary

As of today the private area everyone is talking about has been changed to a ladies only area. It was my suggestion to Fash to do this. It is nothing the men have done but it is something that we believe needed to be done for the ladies. It is NOT because of any member or arguments that may be going on at this time. I fully support this change and I trust that the rest of the guys that just got kicked out will do the same. If you want to complain about it take it to RR, but the change is done and that's it. Yes I was kicked out too......."



Firstly, RR is NOT the place for reasonable discussion. It is a place for threads and posts that are beyond the bounds of reasonable dialogue and conduct.



Secondly, does this mean that the females in this forum advocate sexual discrimination?



And finally...if there is to be a section specifically for women, then it is only fair and reasonable to have one for men.



It would be nice, kiebers, that instead of being a fucking panel demagogue, you MIGHT consider entering into discussion on initiatives such as this before you make an asshole of yourself.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: kiebers on April 01, 2017, 12:15:44 PM
Quote from: "Bricktop"
It would be nice, kiebers, that instead of being a fucking panel demagogue, you MIGHT consider entering into discussion on initiatives such as this before you make an asshole of yourself.

Since I hold no value at all what so ever in your opinions, I see no need to discuss my reasons for any of my decisions with you. I don't answer to you. I discuss them with the forum owner when needed, and do not require your input. There was a discussion with the ones that mattered and that was all that was needed.  



Oh and careful how you respond. I might move it to RR.... :laugh3:  :laugh3:

Meh....I will just copy it. That way your precious thread is still on the main board. Now lets hear you cry about the copy.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Blazor on April 01, 2017, 03:26:23 PM
Quote from: "Bricktop"


Secondly, does this mean that the females in this forum advocate sexual discrimination?



And finally...if there is to be a section specifically for women, then it is only fair and reasonable to have one for men.


It doesnt matter to me since I was never in there, but here is my opinion on the whole thing, and this is simply coming from the new guy to the board, though Im not a noob in the least. Some forums do have a female only section. Totally fine. Its their safety zone, kinda like when women run to the restroom to talk, though those days have scaled down since its just as easy now for them to text across the table. So when it gets you down, just think of that zone as the bathroom  :laugh:



In fairness, I see why there is a zone in the first place. A lot of immature fuckers have ruined things for them, so they feel they cant be themselves around certain men. This isnt just here, its all over the place. And its getting worse. Feminism is on the rise. Sure its a lil sexist, but I see how it gets to that point. I will say its not fair for that side to totally discriminate against all men. Man hate has been on the rise lately too. The scary part is they feel entitled even more than the blacks or whites, and openly hate. Shit, I just realized I went off from "this board" to abroad lol. So back to this board, I see how it became that way, and its ok. We will miss some of y'all's humor and such simply cause we wont be able to see it. Whatever. Have fun. No ill from me on the matter.



I do agree, as I was thinking the same as I started to read you post, that there should be a guy section as well. It'll be like the garage, where the guys go and have a beer and talk about women, trucks, and how big our shit was this morning  :laugh:  Women wont have to see it. Be a win win. We wont see what they dont want us to see, and they wont see what they dont want to see. Then there may be a common ground on the main board where we can all get along lol  ac_drinks
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: kiebers on April 01, 2017, 03:34:48 PM
Quote from: "Blazor"
I do agree, as I was thinking the same as I started to read you post, that there should be a guy section as well. It'll be like the garage, where the guys go and have a beer and talk about women, trucks, and how big our shit was this morning  :laugh:  Women wont have to see it. Be a win win. We wont see what they dont want us to see, and they wont see what they dont want to see. Then there may be a common ground on the main board where we can all get along lol  ac_drinks

Pick a name.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: RW on April 01, 2017, 03:52:04 PM
I'd rather see PP be dissolved than pull more conversation from the board.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: RW on April 01, 2017, 03:53:48 PM
Blazor, PP is not a hopping forum by any stretch.  It sees the occasional discussion, usually about a poster's personal life.  We all still post regularly on the board so you aren't missing anything.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Blazor on April 01, 2017, 04:55:05 PM
Quote from: "kiebers"
Quote from: "Blazor"
I do agree, as I was thinking the same as I started to read you post, that there should be a guy section as well. It'll be like the garage, where the guys go and have a beer and talk about women, trucks, and how big our shit was this morning  :laugh:  Women wont have to see it. Be a win win. We wont see what they dont want us to see, and they wont see what they dont want to see. Then there may be a common ground on the main board where we can all get along lol  ac_drinks

Pick a name.


 :laugh:



I honestly was only humoring lol. But if there were one, I think The Garage was an ok name lol. Or The Man Cave. The Turd Temple lol? The Barnyard Bar (I use to think of naming my own forum Blazors Barnyard lol). The Gentlemen's Club. Hmmm, I could think of more lol  :laugh:
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: RW on April 01, 2017, 04:56:48 PM
Just so I have it on record, making space that takes more conversation away from the board is a bad idea.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Blazor on April 01, 2017, 04:57:56 PM
Quote from: "RW"Blazor, PP is not a hopping forum by any stretch.  It sees the occasional discussion, usually about a poster's personal life.  We all still post regularly on the board so you aren't missing anything.


Oh I figured. I dont mind even. Not even against it or for it. I just wanted to throw my 2 cents out there on the discussion  ac_smile
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Blazor on April 01, 2017, 05:01:03 PM
Quote from: "RW"Just so I have it on record, making space that takes more conversation away from the board is a bad idea.


I can agree with this  ac_drinks



But I also think its only fair for those guys that feel if there is a womens area, there should be one for the men too. If not, and a womens area stays, there is unfair treatment in their mind. Would you not agree with this as well  ac_smile
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: RW on April 01, 2017, 05:15:44 PM
Question: Do the woman of this board do something to the men of this board that would warrant a private section?
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Blazor on April 01, 2017, 06:35:12 PM
I have no idea honestly, just wanted to say how I see both sides  ac_smile
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Twenty Dollars on April 01, 2017, 06:57:34 PM
Quote from: "kiebers"
Quote from: "Bricktop"
It would be nice, kiebers, that instead of being a fucking panel demagogue, you MIGHT consider entering into discussion on initiatives such as this before you make an asshole of yourself.

Since I hold no value at all what so ever in your opinions, I see no need to discuss my reasons for any of my decisions with you. I don't answer to you. I discuss them with the forum owner when needed, and do not require your input. There was a discussion with the ones that mattered and that was all that was needed.  



Oh and careful how you respond. I might move it to RR.... :laugh3:  :laugh3:

Meh....I will just copy it. That way your precious thread is still on the main board. Now lets hear you cry about the copy.


Don't see where he responded, and you still moved it. Maybe you're just having a bad day?
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Bricktop on April 01, 2017, 07:16:11 PM
Quote from: "kiebers"
Since I hold no value at all what so ever in your opinions, I see no need to discuss my reasons for any of my decisions with you.


Don't you just wish that were true, Grizzly Adams?



But that's just you trying to mask the fact that YOU do "value" my opinions. Or, more to the point, feel provoked when I raise yet another reason you're an appalling moderator who has no business here.



As you've just demonstrated by your purported indifference to the views of the members here. You DO realise that Miss Malevolent was one of the reasons CJ's died, don't you, buckaroo?



Members concerns at the manner in which this forum operates is very much your concern, and that of the proprietor. Ignore them at your peril.



I see absolutely NO reason for a gender division in this forum. If females are uncomfortable discussing "issues" around males here, then this forum is entirely the wrong place for any such discussion in the first place. This is not a forum for discussing sexual matters. The only other reason that a "girls only" area would be required is if they discuss the male members behind their backs. That would be disappointing.



Yet again, you demonstrate your utter inability to moderate a forum in the best interests of ALL members. And if Fashionista was behind this very stupid initiative, she too should think about the consequences of dividing the forum further.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: RW on April 01, 2017, 08:08:49 PM
I find myself agreeing with you while wanting to slap you at the same time.



YOU see no reason for it but can't even take one minute to think beyond yourself as to why it would exist.  YOU don't see an issue, therefore one must not exist.  That to me is an utterly ridiculous fail in logic and reasoning.



I agree with you about the promotion of chatter on the main board and I agree that we don't need segregation.  No one requested the segregation in PP.  We were all told it happened and no one said anything otherwise.  I think mostly because no fucks were really given as the sub isn't a hot bed of chatter.  If someone has an issue he/she wishes to discuss with people who aren't trolls and won't use his/her PI as trolling fodder, that has been the place to do it.  There are some posters who do use it as a sanctuary for purposes that have nothing to do with the forum as well.



As I've already stated, I see more value in creating subforums that promote posting like arts or humour.  The trouble is, flappy gums like yours have advocated to not have those subforums as "we have too many".  Maybe you can justify THAT rationale while we're on the subject of getting posters creating threads and talking.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: kiebers on April 01, 2017, 08:20:08 PM
Quote from: "Twenty Dollars"
Quote from: "kiebers"
Quote from: "Bricktop"
It would be nice, kiebers, that instead of being a fucking panel demagogue, you MIGHT consider entering into discussion on initiatives such as this before you make an asshole of yourself.

Since I hold no value at all what so ever in your opinions, I see no need to discuss my reasons for any of my decisions with you. I don't answer to you. I discuss them with the forum owner when needed, and do not require your input. There was a discussion with the ones that mattered and that was all that was needed.  



Oh and careful how you respond. I might move it to RR.... :laugh3:  :laugh3:

Meh....I will just copy it. That way your precious thread is still on the main board. Now lets hear you cry about the copy.


Don't see where he responded, and you still moved it. Maybe you're just having a bad day?

It was not moved. Did you read my post?
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Bricktop on April 01, 2017, 08:57:30 PM
Why is it in RR then?



Does raising a legitimate question in the common area bug you?
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Bricktop on April 01, 2017, 09:00:09 PM
Quote from: "RW"I find myself agreeing with you while wanting to slap you at the same time.



YOU see no reason for it but can't even take one minute to think beyond yourself as to why it would exist.  YOU don't see an issue, therefore one must not exist.  That to me is an utterly ridiculous fail in logic and reasoning.



I agree with you about the promotion of chatter on the main board and I agree that we don't need segregation.  No one requested the segregation in PP.  We were all told it happened and no one said anything otherwise.  I think mostly because no fucks were really given as the sub isn't a hot bed of chatter.  If someone has an issue he/she wishes to discuss with people who aren't trolls and won't use his/her PI as trolling fodder, that has been the place to do it.  There are some posters who do use it as a sanctuary for purposes that have nothing to do with the forum as well.



As I've already stated, I see more value in creating subforums that promote posting like arts or humour.  The trouble is, flappy gums like yours have advocated to not have those subforums as "we have too many".  Maybe you can justify THAT rationale while we're on the subject of getting posters creating threads and talking.


Please, enlighten me.



What IS the "issue"?
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: RW on April 01, 2017, 09:14:02 PM
I don't know what you want clarification on exactly.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Odinson on April 01, 2017, 09:27:46 PM
Leopardsocks.. No1 wants to hear about your limp willie..



And the PP ladies are talking about vaginal leakage and stuff like that in the PP.





Besides all the ladie here are wayyy over 25years old..



Females marketvalue starts skydiving after they turn 25years old... They dont look good in a bikini anymore..

Its really weird when a 30year old female wears a bikini.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: RW on April 01, 2017, 09:31:04 PM
Can't you find a cliff to fall off of or are you too stupid to figure out gravity?
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: kiebers on April 01, 2017, 09:35:07 PM
Quote from: "Bricktop"Why is it in RR then?

Because of yours and my history. I figured when I told you how I felt about your opinions the thread would denigrate and need to be in RR so I copied it here. No move just a copy.

Why don't you go look in the main forum and find the thread. I guess you can't read either.

http://thebluecashew.net/the-blue-cashew-f2/would-someone-explain-why-promote-sexism-t6722.html
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Odinson on April 01, 2017, 09:43:25 PM
Quote from: "RW"Can't you find a cliff to fall off of or are you too stupid to figure out gravity?


Why cant I say the truth?



25years old is the limit when a female stops looking perky and energetic..

Every1 knows this.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Bricktop on April 01, 2017, 09:46:44 PM
So, you moderate on the basis of personal history???



Son, if you want to confront me, do it face to face, not hiding behind a fucking panel.



Splitting the forum along gender lines for no logical reason is stupid. That has nothing to do with "history". It is a contemporary act of stupidity.



This is just more bullshit from people who have no clue how to manage a forum.



Given that my contributions are regarded as without value, fuck you, fuck your forum and all who sail in here.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Odinson on April 01, 2017, 09:50:31 PM
Quote from: "Bricktop"So, you moderate on the basis of personal history???



Son, if you want to confront me, do it face to face, not hiding behind a fucking panel.



Splitting the forum along gender lines for no logical reason is stupid. That has nothing to do with "history". It is a contemporary act of stupidity.



This is just more bullshit from people who have no clue how to manage a forum.



Given that my contributions are regarded as without value, fuck you, fuck your forum and all who sail in here.


Guys...



Put your rollators down... No1 needs to get hurt here.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: RW on April 01, 2017, 09:54:24 PM
Quote from: "Bricktop"So, you moderate on the basis of personal history???



Son, if you want to confront me, do it face to face, not hiding behind a fucking panel.



Splitting the forum along gender lines for no logical reason is stupid. That has nothing to do with "history". It is a contemporary act of stupidity.



This is just more bullshit from people who have no clue how to manage a forum.



Given that my contributions are regarded as without value, fuck you, fuck your forum and all who sail in here.

Excuse me?  You better mean in the good sexy way because I'm going to box your balls otherwise.



 ac_beating
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Bricktop on April 01, 2017, 10:55:36 PM
Nah, fuck it.



This asshole is using his mod panel to pursue his belligerency. I hate panel abuse, which HE should know from the CJ's era. Taking on Miss Malevolent for editing posts and sigs was what got me permabanned.



Bozo here hasn't a clue about forums.



Why not ban males altogether and make this a chick haunt. Let me start the ball rolling...
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: RW on April 01, 2017, 10:57:59 PM
Oh bollocks.  The forum owner made a decision.  It wasn't driven by us women nor does anyone want to get rid males, especially you.



Let's be pragmatic about this.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: kiebers on April 01, 2017, 11:24:26 PM
Quote from: "Bricktop"Nah, fuck it.



This asshole is using his mod panel to pursue his belligerency. I hate panel abuse, which HE should know from the CJ's era. Taking on Miss Malevolent for editing posts and sigs was what got me permabanned.



Bozo here hasn't a clue about forums.



Why not ban males altogether and make this a chick haunt. Let me start the ball rolling...

Go ahead and take your toys and go home. You are such a hypocrite. I didn't do a fucking thing to you. You posted PI, I deleted it. You turn a thread in a flame direction and I move it here. I have not banned/timed you out for being an asshole. I cannot edit sigs and I have not edited any of your other posts. I will edit thread titles per the rules. That sure is like Miss Malevolent. She would have already banned your ass 5 times or more.



The issue has nothing at all what so ever about how I mod.



The issue is you just don't want me here, period.



You can't handle it. Rarely do I start the ball rolling. Normally it's you that takes the first swing. Or starts a thread.  



I don't want you to leave. You do add to this forum. But adding our petty bullshit to things isn't productive.



And...I am not going anywhere.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: RW on April 02, 2017, 12:33:27 AM
April fools Brick?
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Bricktop on April 02, 2017, 03:14:11 AM
Not remotely.



He is, of course, correct...although its hardly a secret.



I don't agree with him being made a mod when he did NOTHING to get this place up and running and contributes nothing other than playing megamod with his panel.



Nor do I deny taking the first swing, as he puts it.



But that's because he acts like a fucking school monitor, moving shit around because it hurts his widdle feelings.



He can stay if he wishes...he can compensate for the drop in posts and views that will follow my departure.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: GORDY GAMBINO on April 02, 2017, 04:44:51 AM
Quote from: "RW"I'd rather see PP be dissolved than pull more conversation from the board.

You fucking started this shit .



Kept in on the quiet too.



It will not be forgotten. Cunt.



Fuck you RW you and I was mates but now you can go fuck off.



Not good enough for ya in ya Private Pussy not good enough for ya on the main board.



That's how we feel.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: RW on April 02, 2017, 04:49:51 AM
No fucks given Gord.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: GORDY GAMBINO on April 02, 2017, 04:54:58 AM
Quote from: "RW"No fucks given Gord.

Got something to say post it in ya PP and shove it up ya ass.



This is not an exclusion zone white nigga ho.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: RW on April 02, 2017, 04:55:35 AM
If you are going to dance for me Gord, you gotta do better than that.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: GORDY GAMBINO on April 02, 2017, 04:59:09 AM
.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: RW on April 02, 2017, 04:59:58 AM
.



I have a period too.  If you were in PP, we could talk about it but you aren't so...
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: GORDY GAMBINO on April 02, 2017, 05:00:55 AM
whatever
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Odinson on April 02, 2017, 06:00:02 AM
Quote from: "RW".



I have a period too.  If you were in PP, we could talk about it but you aren't so...


You´ve had your periods about 300 times..



Why talk about it anymore?



One would think you are an expert by now..
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: kiebers on April 02, 2017, 07:20:10 AM
Quote from: "RW".



I have a period too.  If you were in PP, we could talk about it but you aren't so...

 :MG_216:
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: kiebers on April 02, 2017, 07:57:27 AM
Quote from: "Bricktop"
But that's because he acts like a fucking school monitor, moving shit around because it hurts his widdle feelings.



He can stay if he wishes...he can compensate for the drop in posts and views that will follow my departure.

I don't think it's my widdle feelings that are being hurt. I have a delete button if that were the case. I am not the one making threads with my nick in the title and sniping some of my comments and then threatening to leave. And when I have a high school bully acting out, not to mention a few other high schoolers, I am forced to act like a hall monitor. Not what I want to do, but my hand gets forced to act.



You once said you stay on your side of the fence and I will stay on mine. You really followed through with that, eh?. We can still do that, but you will have to keep "your" word.....this time....
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Blurt on April 02, 2017, 01:37:28 PM
Quote from: "RW"Can't you find a cliff to fall off of or are you too stupid to figure out gravity?

Maybe Odie is religious?



Returning to our imaginary friend, the [ancient] Greek hunter]



--David Mills

Atheist Universe, Ulysses Press, Berkeley, CA, 2006, pp.91-92
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: UncleDilf on April 02, 2017, 01:38:45 PM
Quote from: "Blurt"
Quote from: "RW"Can't you find a cliff to fall off of or are you too stupid to figure out gravity?

Maybe Odie is religious?



Returning to our imaginary friend, the [ancient] Greek hunter]



--David Mills

Atheist Universe, Ulysses Press, Berkeley, CA, 2006, pp.91-92


Blurt the fart.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Blurt on April 02, 2017, 01:43:55 PM
Yes, that's exactly what you just did, you avuncular twat.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Odinson on April 02, 2017, 02:05:06 PM
Quote from: "Blurt"
Quote from: "RW"Can't you find a cliff to fall off of or are you too stupid to figure out gravity?

Maybe Odie is religious?



Returning to our imaginary friend, the [ancient] Greek hunter]



--David Mills

Atheist Universe, Ulysses Press, Berkeley, CA, 2006, pp.91-92


Finland is my religion..



The colonel is the pope and the general is my god.



I want Finland to stay the way she is.



Finland and her people comes first.



Finland was a lot stronger when we were allied with the nazis and then with the soviets.

Allying ourselves with the european countries has only caused the prices of products to increase 3x and salaries going down by half.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Odinson on April 02, 2017, 02:14:47 PM
I remember my father earning 12000 finnish marks and the 0,5litre lemonade costing 3 finnish marks..



Now the lemonade costs 9 or 12 finnish marks and my fathers pay would be 7000 finnish marks.



EU serves nothing but give us more middle-men driving the prices higher...



We could do better on our own.. EU is not a military-alliance so we are pretty much on our own if the russians attack.
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Odinson on April 02, 2017, 02:16:39 PM
EU stinks and I wish Brexit causes a domino effect...
Title: Re: Would someone explain to me why we promote sexism?
Post by: Blurt on April 02, 2017, 03:07:05 PM
So, I'll take that to mean that, no, you haven't figured out gravity?  ac_unsure