I thought I should let the forum know that I had to place my wife in a home this weekend. I know she had some history here, and this is the only reason I have decided to publicize this fact.
Life was getting unbearable at home. The abuse, the erratic behaviour. It was simply becoming overwhelming. I could not tend to my work duties, while also playing caregiver 24/7.
The last straw was when my children and I returned home from running some errands. We enter our home and my wife was having a psychotic breakdown, completely nude except for her diaper.
How can I explain this behaviour to my children? Their Mother dancing around, yelling and screaming, wearing nothing but a diaper?
I just couldn't take it anymore. Hopefully the complex care facility is equipped to properly handle her needs. I didn't want to have to do this, but it is the only way.
They do have wi-fi there, so I'll assume she will still be able to contact her friends on these message boards once she gets stable and settled in at the facility.
God Bless,
Tom.
Hopefully this thread will just vanish .. P O O F !!!!
NO...NO!!! Its all TRUE.
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Sadly I have three children now. And only two of them will ever grow up. If it wasn't for my faith, and the support of my church, I don't think I would have remained as strong as I have.
God Bless,
Tom.
Fash, I wish you would ban from here this psychopath. He is deranged, suicidal, demented, and does not even show you any respect. Why do you keep letting him post here? Let him self-destruct but not in your forum. He is bound to implode.
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Perhaps you are confusing me for another person? I don't really post on message boards, but thought I would do so in this instance since I knew my wife had online friends here.
Cards and flowers are on the way...er...where is this sanitarium?
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Life was getting unbearable at home. The abuse, the erratic behaviour. It was simply becoming overwhelming. I could not tend to my work duties, while also playing caregiver 24/7.
The last straw was when my children and I returned home from running some errands. We enter our home and my wife was having a psychotic breakdown, completely nude except for her diaper.
How can I explain this behaviour to my children? Their Mother dancing around, yelling and screaming, wearing nothing but a diaper?
I just couldn't take it anymore. Hopefully the complex care facility is equipped to properly handle her needs. I didn't want to have to do this, but it is the only way.
They do have wi-fi there, so I'll assume she will still be able to contact her friends on these message boards once she gets stable and settled in at the facility.
God Bless,
Tom.
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Isn't that a re-post?
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Life was getting unbearable at home. The abuse, the erratic behaviour. It was simply becoming overwhelming. I could not tend to my work duties, while also playing caregiver 24/7.
The last straw was when my children and I returned home from running some errands. We enter our home and my wife was having a psychotic breakdown, completely nude except for her diaper.
How can I explain this behaviour to my children? Their Mother dancing around, yelling and screaming, wearing nothing but a diaper?
I just couldn't take it anymore. Hopefully the complex care facility is equipped to properly handle her needs. I didn't want to have to do this, but it is the only way.
They do have wi-fi there, so I'll assume she will still be able to contact her friends on these message boards once she gets stable and settled in at the facility.
God Bless,
Tom.
How did you put up with loon for so many years.
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My faith, and telling myself that at one point things just might get better. Having two beautiful children with her obviously doesn't make these decisions any easier.
I guess I figured that things would just "work themselves out" in time. I was hoping that we could have at least made it work until the kids are out of the house.
I just could not. As a religious man, I am burdened with my decision. It goes against every belief that was instilled upon me. Nonetheless, there are times when one must make a choice that is neither popular, nor goes 'with the flow.'
God Bless,
Tom.
What religion is that Tom?
If this were true, what we were told was a "jackass" Mormon ..... would become a jackassoff Mormon
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What's a "jackass" mormon?
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I am a devout Mormon. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints if you prefer a more exacting answer.
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Mormon in name only ... a common term in Mormon areas
That's the term whats her name applied to her guy long ago
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Mormon in name only ... a common term in Mormon areas
That's the term whats her name applied to her guy long ago
His parents are Mormon, but he doesn't follow Mormon theology..
Many people like that in Southern Alberta.
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Mormon in name only ... a common term in Mormon areas
That's the term whats her name applied to her guy long ago
What's her name, perfect. :thumbup:
I cannot help but wonder why Tom speaks with a distinct Chinese lilt?
:laugh:
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Mormon in name only ... a common term in Mormon areas
That's the term whats her name applied to her guy long ago
His parents are Mormon, but he doesn't follow Mormon theology..
Many people like that in Southern Alberta.
Yes. Lived and worked out of Lethbridge (and south into Mormon areas) for a while ..... there are many very religious and also many jackass Mormons
Mormonism is only slightly less subversive and deluded than Scientology.
Very slightly.
Mormons you say...I put a pot of coffee on...
Why?
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Quote from: "Bricktop"
Mormon in name only ... a common term in Mormon areas
That's the term whats her name applied to her guy long ago
His parents are Mormon, but he doesn't follow Mormon theology..
Many people like that in Southern Alberta.
Yes. Lived and worked out of Lethbridge (and south into Mormon areas) for a while ..... there are many very religious and also many jackass Mormons
I heard they had dry towns in Southern Alberta.
Ya. Raymond, Cardston, Magrath, Stirling are strong Mormon .. Claresholm to an extent also ... Lethbridge not so much
Did a golf course project in Cardston .. . got on well with them
Very lonely in those places for someone who leaves the flock or at least does not participate ... most move to Lethbridge and join a new crowd
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Did a golf course project in Cardston .. . got on well with them
Very lonely in those places for someone who leaves the flock or at least does not participate ... most move to Lethbridge and join a new crowd
Are there fines in those towns if the authorities catch someone drinking?