A couple of friends(Renee and Fash) have talked me into stopping bringing anyone's weight into an argument. It is well high schoolish.
I am asking both of you to accept my apology and I will make an effort not to do it again.
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I am asking both of you to accept my apology and I will make an effort not to do it again.
fat jokes are funny............... :o
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I am asking both of you to accept my apology and I will make an effort not to do it again.
fat jokes are funny............... :o
Jokes are meant to be funny, but cheapshots not so much.
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I am asking both of you to accept my apology and I will make an effort not to do it again.
fat jokes are funny............... :o
Jokes are meant to be funny, but cheapshots not so much.
Please remember that Shen Li.
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fat jokes are funny............... :o
Jokes are meant to be funny, but cheapshots not so much.
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OUCH........................HEHEHEHE........ :evil:
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Jokes are meant to be funny, but cheapshots not so much.
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OUCH........................HEHEHEHE........ :evil:
Shen Li looks like she is a catty high school girl with her threads about Vancouver Forum posters.
Shen li has a good brain.
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She does and she has a good heart too..
I just she would show it more often.
Who are ghost and Renee?
That was a good book.
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Ms. Renee is a poster here and Ms. Ghost is a poster on Vancouver Forum..
Both of them are very nice ladies.
I talk to ghost there too and met irl, she's really cool. I have only talked to Rene a few times on there but she's cool too.
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You met Ms. Ghost in real life?
I exchanged some pm's with her and she knows Romero quite well.
I have read the books she made.
Yep, I've met ghost, romero, jay, me and evs. Good bunch of people. We had fun hanging out a few months ago.
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I exchanged pm's with her and I forgot to ask her about her books..
How forgetful of me.
:oops:
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I wish I could meet all of them..
I know both Shen Li and Pinay who doesn't post here that much anymore.
It was a bee meetup but only us showed up for it :lol:
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I remember VancouverGuy posted a thread about that..
Can I ask you Ms. Annie, did any of them surprise you with either their demeanour or appearance?
Hhmmm no not really, I mean no one had a tree limb growing out of their head or anything. The demeanour was small chatting and then telling jokes and laughing. But ya, a few were shyer irl than on here. I'm the opposite, I'm more open irl and shy online. Is that weird?
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I am the same in real life as I am on here..
Most people are more open in this type of format.
I knew it, I'm weird LoL
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Not at all Ms. Annie.
Ok, whew!
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Was that the first time you met those people?
I wanted to go to that meeting too but I never had an invitation.
Selfish.
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Selfish.
I didn't get one either Chickenfeets.
It was posted in a thread and anyone who wanted to go had to pm evs. She put it together.
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I never expected one either..
I didn't know who evs was then.
I must of missed that thread then.
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It was in the winter time I think.
I can't remember when exactly but it was awhile back and raining.
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I am asking both of you to accept my apology and I will make an effort not to do it again.
Apology accepted but unnecessary. Sorry if I came off a little thin skinned about the issue but I have good reason. In reality I have no problem with a few fat jokes so long as they are done in harmless fun. As everyone probably knows I engage in self-deprecating fat jokes on a regular basis but making weight an issue of personal and vindictive attack is something I can't simply stand by and ignore.
As I said before you are far too intelligent and decent a person to be dragged down to where flinging petty insults becomes part of how you interact with fellow posters (unless of course you are talking to Gambino then anything goes) :lol: .
If you want to beat people up, beat them with your pragmatism and common sense. Most of the people that you seem to disagree with have no defense against stuff like that. I know that sometimes you get angry and your feelings override your brain and nasty comments just slip out but try to remember that staying classy while kicking the crap out of an opponent carries more credibility than being a douche about it.
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I am asking both of you to accept my apology and I will make an effort not to do it again.
Apology accepted but unnecessary. Sorry if I came off a little thin skinned about the issue but I have good reason. In reality I have no problem with a few fat jokes so long as they are done in harmless fun. As everyone probably knows I engage in self-deprecating fat jokes on a regular basis but making weight an issue of personal and vindictive attack is something I can't simply stand by and ignore.
As I said before you are far too intelligent and decent a person to be dragged down to where flinging petty insults becomes part of how you interact with fellow posters (unless of course you are talking to Gambino then anything goes) :lol: .
If you want to beat people up, beat them with your pragmatism and common sense. Most of the people that you seem to disagree with have no defense against stuff like that. I know that sometimes you get angry and your feelings override your brain and nasty comments just slip out but try to remember that staying classy while kicking the crap out of an opponent carries more credibility than being a douche about it.
Yep, all true Renee...every word of it. Fash said the same thing to me as well.
Ghost is a dumb ho and deserves to be mocked.
Her ass pics just show how fat she is. Those pics get the Vancouver forum wanker virgin boys to blow up in their pants.
So smudgy pics that many people would swear that they are photoshopped. Todays cameras take better pics than that.
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Her ass pics just show how fat she is. Those pics get the Vancouver forum wanker virgin boys to blow up in their pants.
So smudgy pics that many people would swear that they are photoshopped. Todays cameras take better pics than that.
I personally don't like her because I think she is full of herself, but she is NOT stupid.
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So smudgy pics that many people would swear that they are photoshopped. Todays cameras take better pics than that.
Being fat or short or skinny or any other physical attribute should be left out of rational debate. Name calling is childish and wrong no matter what the reason.
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So smudgy pics that many people would swear that they are photoshopped. Todays cameras take better pics than that.
Being fat or short or skinny or any other physical attribute should be left out of rational debate. Name calling is childish and wrong no matter what the reason.
You have no problem with me saying she is full of herself do you?
a kinder forum is needed.
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With Annie and Fash it is kinder when I am here not so much.
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So smudgy pics that many people would swear that they are photoshopped. Todays cameras take better pics than that.
Being fat or short or skinny or any other physical attribute should be left out of rational debate. Name calling is childish and wrong no matter what the reason.
You have no problem with me saying she is full of herself do you?
No I don't have a problem with that. In fact I might even go so far as to agree with you a little. If you feel that she is "full of herself" because that is how she comes off when dealing with you then you are entitled to feel that way. That is entirely different than ragging on something you see as a physical flaw.
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Being fat or short or skinny or any other physical attribute should be left out of rational debate. Name calling is childish and wrong no matter what the reason.
You have no problem with me saying she is full of herself do you?
No I don't have a problem with that. In fact I might even go so far as to agree with you a little. If you feel that she is "full of herself" because that is how she comes off when dealing with you then you are entitled to feel that way. That is entirely different than ragging on something you see as a physical flaw.
I agree Renee. However, as I said before though I don't care about her weight, your weight or my...well no, I do care about that.
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You have no problem with me saying she is full of herself do you?
No I don't have a problem with that. In fact I might even go so far as to agree with you a little. If you feel that she is "full of herself" because that is how she comes off when dealing with you then you are entitled to feel that way. That is entirely different than ragging on something you see as a physical flaw.
I agree Renee. However, as I said before though I don't care about her weight, your weight or my...well no, I do care about that.
Well that's just it. The only weight you should care about is your own.
Nothing irks a heavy person more than to be informed by total strangers that they are heavy. It's like "DUH, thanks for the heads up, you retard. What would I ever do if you didn't point that out"? :lol:
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No I don't have a problem with that. In fact I might even go so far as to agree with you a little. If you feel that she is "full of herself" because that is how she comes off when dealing with you then you are entitled to feel that way. That is entirely different than ragging on something you see as a physical flaw.
I agree Renee. However, as I said before though I don't care about her weight, your weight or my...well no, I do care about that.
Well that's just it. The only weight you should care about is your own.
Nothing irks a heavy person more than to be informed by total strangers that they are heavy. It's like "DUH, thanks for the heads up, you retard. What would I ever do if you didn't point that out"? :lol:
I had bad acne as a teen, so I know what you mean. I hated people telling me I should wash my face. :x
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I agree Renee. However, as I said before though I don't care about her weight, your weight or my...well no, I do care about that.
Well that's just it. The only weight you should care about is your own.
Nothing irks a heavy person more than to be informed by total strangers that they are heavy. It's like "DUH, thanks for the heads up, you retard. What would I ever do if you didn't point that out"? :lol:
I had bad acne as a teen, so I know what you mean. I hated people telling me I should wash my face. :x
I was one of those people whom called the bumpy faces names. Did it leave any scars? Many acne people have pock-marks in their face.
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So smudgy pics that many people would swear that they are photoshopped. Todays cameras take better pics than that.
Being fat or short or skinny or any other physical attribute should be left out of rational debate. Name calling is childish and wrong no matter what the reason.
You are right.
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I agree Renee. However, as I said before though I don't care about her weight, your weight or my...well no, I do care about that.
Well that's just it. The only weight you should care about is your own.
Nothing irks a heavy person more than to be informed by total strangers that they are heavy. It's like "DUH, thanks for the heads up, you retard. What would I ever do if you didn't point that out"? :lol:
I had bad acne as a teen, so I know what you mean. I hated people telling me I should wash my face. :x
Exactly. The kind of assholes who engage in saying stupid shit like that usually do so out of their own insecurity. Most go out of their way to insult you because it makes them feel better about themselves. It's truly pathetic and we shouldn't let stuff like that bother us but it leaves emotional scars and no matter how well we cover those scars they will always there.
I don´t think it was about insecurity.
I remember the mentality. No sympathy/empathy (They just weren´t developed yet) just lust and anger.
Everything that looked "out of order" was certainly noted and picked upon.
Not caring if some1 committed a suicide for that.
this is a fat lady forum?
My legs are too thin they say but the rest of me is not.
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Well that's just it. The only weight you should care about is your own.
Nothing irks a heavy person more than to be informed by total strangers that they are heavy. It's like "DUH, thanks for the heads up, you retard. What would I ever do if you didn't point that out"? :lol:
I had bad acne as a teen, so I know what you mean. I hated people telling me I should wash my face. :x
Exactly. The kind of assholes who engage in saying stupid shit like that usually do so out of their own insecurity. Most go out of their way to insult you because it makes them feel better about themselves. It's truly pathetic and we shouldn't let stuff like that bother us but it leaves emotional scars and no matter how well we cover those scars they will always there.
I am sorry that mean people have left an emotional impact on you Ms. Renee..
I hope you can put the negative behind you and focus on the positive things the Lord has given you..
Like a healthy, happy and loving family.