Need to find a significant other, but am really getting discouraged around here! Reminds me of the line from that Young MC tune...
I don't think the problem is me. I have all the shit together... Finances, physique, full head of hair, etc. No serious mental issues, not too weird, no strange medical issues, etc. A fine specimen for my age... Maybe not in the top 1%, but certainly in the top 10%, I can say with confidence. Plus, no kids, which is a massive positive benefit.
I only look for something similar in return... As much as I'd like a fresh young blonde just outta high school, obviously I know this isn't really workable nor proper in the long run.
There are
I have conducted some visual studies lately around here, and I think I have discovered part of the problem... There are so few decent women available relative to decent men available, that what is happening is that even very average women are easily able to find and enter into relationships with above average men. This should not be, as it skews the outcomes for males in general. It is obvious that a ratio of, say, 1 decent woman for every 10 decent men will totally fuck up the natural selection.
I guess that's the real question that needs to be asked... Where the fuck did all the decent women disappear to?
Oh, and one more thing... I am lip herps free. I expect the same. I don't want to catch your god damned lip herps, having your disease infest my body... acc_angry
Your attitude sucks, that's why.
Once you get to our age woman are sick of men with attitudes like yours.
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Once you get to our age woman are sick of men with attitudes like yours.
My attitude is not the problem!
Most women my age have sadly lost that 'glow' and many have become worn out and/or obese! Popping out too many kids also can wreak havoc on the body.
I think I should just turn gay and try to meet a successful interior designer... :sad: At least that way our home would look astonishing, and with our combined income we could live very well.
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ac_lmfao
Easily amused today?
No.
I'd laugh at that little glow of self denial any day of the week.
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I'd laugh at that little glow of self denial any day of the week.
And I'm a teetotaler too. ac_lmfao
Back to the topic at hand.
I think the point I make is right, in the fact that the amount of 'respectable gentlemen' as a percentage of the total male population has not changed for a long time, but the amount of 'respectable ladies' has certainly declined. They still exist, but are declining in numbers.
It's an interesting observation, and can explain why it's generally men that may now resort to the 'mail order bride/foreigner' thing, whereas the women typically will not.
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I think I should just turn gay and try to meet a successful interior designer...
The gay pride parade is next month. Go and strut some assless chaps, I'm sure you will find a willing participant. Don't let your summer go to waste.
It's probably for the best long term...
Like your mullet that's business in the front and party in the back...bottoms up Cock breath :2i760jm:
Camaro Crash Helmet!
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:laugh3:
Sorry Mel but she got you with that! ac_smile
Aren't down with the Tennessee Waterfall?
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I don't think the problem is me. I have all the shit together... Finances, physique, full head of hair, etc. No serious mental issues, not too weird, no strange medical issues, etc. A fine specimen for my age... Maybe not in the top 1%, but certainly in the top 10%, I can say with confidence. Plus, no kids, which is a massive positive benefit.
I only look for something similar in return... As much as I'd like a fresh young blonde just outta high school, obviously I know this isn't really workable nor proper in the long run.
There are
I have conducted some visual studies lately around here, and I think I have discovered part of the problem... There are so few decent women available relative to decent men available, that what is happening is that even very average women are easily able to find and enter into relationships with above average men. This should not be, as it skews the outcomes for males in general. It is obvious that a ratio of, say, 1 decent woman for every 10 decent men will totally fuck up the natural selection.
I guess that's the real question that needs to be asked... Where the fuck did all the decent women disappear to?
Are you making an effort to find a lady Mel?
No boys showed any interest in me either before I met my husband.
This is the best time of the year to be out and about when you're single, hotties are everywhere. Forget online dating, the old school, old fashioned face to face method is the best way to meet women, at least that way you know what you're getting, there's far too much dishonesty and fakery on the e-dating scene.
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I suppose so secular e-matching.
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No boys showed any interest in me either before I met my husband.
I refuse to do the online dating thing, so what is left for me to do? I work with nothing but dudes, so at work is a no-go.
What should I do? The next time I'm in the grocery store, offer to help the next female I see select the perfect pineapple? Yeah right...
The big city is a very cold place... I actually considered going to church just so I could possibly meet a female, and I'm an Atheist! Yeah, it's just that bad here!
I get along quite well with one female that lives in my building, but she's a lesbian! I'm not joking! :laugh:
The lower main land is not a place to find a lasting relationship.
Quote from: "Berry Sweet"
Exactly. In the Okanagan I had a much easier time meeting people. That's where I met my ex, in fact.
The people here suck, for the most part. You get a different vibe in smaller cities.
Basically, Vancouver sucks unless you are a rich Honger.
A lot of people are using Each other here...its disgusting. Don't be fooled by the fake front they put up...its all bullshit...its fake.
This place use to be cool until about 5-10 years ago...now it's just garbage. This province is ruined. A lot of good people have left.
I enjoy my time calling people out.
There are still some nice places in this Province. I know quite a few people that have bugged out from this city, and are now happy on The Island or in the Okanagan. I will eventually join them there too, when the time is right!
And a lot of people use each other here because they can't afford to live here on their own!
My ultimate dream and goal is to have a small property that is close to, or borders, some Crown Land. There is nothing I enjoy more in this world than riding a dirtbike down trails and logging roads, soaking up the nature while consuming a few brews along the way. I would be happy if I could spend the last of my days doing just this...
I will be moving out of this city when I can too.
I've heard somewhere that 50% of Vancouverites plan to eventually get the fuck outta here. Almost every White guy I talk to wants to leave eventually. Only the immigrants like it here now.
And to think, at one time Vancouver used to be a great city. Now it's experiencing "White Flight." This was almost unheard of here when I was a kid...
But it's the only place you will be able to have a large picking of a woman fresh off the boat.
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Those women are not here for white men, or any man for that matter! Their Daddy Warbucks are in Hong Kong, making fat cash...
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Exactly. In the Okanagan I had a much easier time meeting people. That's where I met my ex, in fact.
The people here suck, for the most part. You get a different vibe in smaller cities.
Basically, Vancouver sucks unless you are a rich Honger.
Vancouver has sucked balls for a long time. Toronto, same shit.
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What should I do? The next time I'm in the grocery store, offer to help the next female I see select the perfect pineapple? Yeah right...
Thats exactly what you do lol! Grocery store is a great place to start a conversation, and thats how you start, simply say hello, and go from there. Could be slick, follow a girl around, start sticking the same things in your basket but make it look obvious, then if she asks, say "I just wanna make sure I eat the same things as you cause I wanna look just as good" or some shit lol.
Did you ever check out that girlschase.com site I told you about? Read some of the articles on there, it really helped me. I had to overcome approach anxiety. You're in a big city, start practicing approaching. If you get rejected, climb back on the horse and talk to another. You could talk to several in a day. Eventually you'll land one. Its almost like applying for a job, you dont get the job if you dont apply ac_drinks
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I cant stand that shit. Fake ass fuckers.