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#1
The Flea Trap / Re: I Had a DREAM!!!
April 05, 2015, 09:55:30 PM
I had a cramp.
#2
The Flea Trap / I wish the new forum well.
April 03, 2015, 11:44:31 PM
I hope you all find that pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.



Although my tenure here as co-administrator was brief (and consisted chiefly in technical duties--additional smileys, etc.), I enjoyed some of the time I spent here. I trust that folks will enjoy themselves in their new playground.



Miaoli,

Former ACC co-administrator.
#3
The Flea Trap / Re: Retardation On Other Forums
March 21, 2015, 08:17:24 PM
Quote from: "Shen Li"
Quote from: "Annie"Haha man candy

What fucking hetero guy would not want a piece of this ass.

Will you accept a down payment?
#4
The Flea Trap / Re: Jehovah's Witness followers
March 21, 2015, 05:48:24 PM
Mel is Christian.
#5
The Flea Trap / Re: Should I Become a Problem Here?
March 21, 2015, 08:40:36 AM
Mel, you're being a moron.



Tone it down some.
#6
Hope you have a great trip, Shen.
#7
The Flea Trap / Re: Retardation On Other Forums
March 15, 2015, 07:11:51 AM
Quote from: "Renee"It's just In her nature to be civil and nice to everyone. I've met a few people like that and from my stand point you can't fault them. In fact I respect them. They have an ability and a temperament I don't have.

You respect them, except if their name is "Chickenshit."



Even with the abuse some of you try to heap on me, I remain "nice and civil." I have that ability and temperament.



I always thought this kind of hypocrisy was beneath you, Renee.



Guess I was wrong.
#8
The Flea Trap / Re: Retardation On Other Forums
March 14, 2015, 10:08:25 AM
Ha!



Munday, you old bugger!



I hadn't even noticed that! So, 9 posts per page!?!?! Ha!



"Legend," indeed.  ac_biggrin
#9
The Flea Trap / Re: Retardation On Other Forums
March 14, 2015, 01:24:38 AM
Oh, Fash.



No, I do not believe you have done a poor job. Far from it. And, quite obviously, I'm probably more of a dreamer than you are.



And, no, I am most definitely not cynical about your community. Go back and read my post and you will see I am exactly the opposite of cynical.



But there's a handful of posters here who thrive on hatred (and you'll notice I'm not singling anyone out--they know who they are) and allowing that hatred to be the rudder of the community is risky.



That's all I'm saying.



And, Fash, you already know that I think you're irreplaceable, so it's no use taking the conversation in that direction.



Again, I hope you have a nice weekend.
#10
The Flea Trap / Re: Retardation On Other Forums
March 14, 2015, 12:50:00 AM
I guess what I don't get is why the people in this community (meaning the ACC) expend so much energy bashing the folks in the "other" community.



Don't you realize that it makes you no different than the very people you chastise and condemn? No different.



Imagine if all the time you spent visiting a forum you don't like, criticizing people you can't stand was spent instead on building your community in such a way that what ties you together is your love for each other rather than your hatred for others! What a place this would be!



Fashionista, with all due respect, and however you may want to believe this is a democracy where everyone's voice counts (yes, even Shen Li's, who would like nothing more than to limit extending the right to vote only to those she judges are fit to use that right well), the only consensus you will find on this board is the common agreement among the members here to go on hating and despising people on some other forum. If I were a moderator on this board, this thread would have been locked ages ago. That would still leave enough hatred in other threads on this board to satisfy those who believe anonymity is a passport to the crassest incivilities.



I really don't care if someone here (or even on VF) hates my guts or finds me an obnoxious coward, to my mind the community that people try to build ought to supersede the yeas and nays of its more driven individual members. With the exception of administrators. It is the (almost sacred) duty of administrators to let their voice ring clear in providing a sense of direction, in letting members know exactly what kind of forum they wish to run, even if they will not always be able to control its form. Failure (or refusal) to do so will lead to an identity crisis where--sometimes suddenly--only the strongest and most strident people will be in a position to become the community's rudder. And this is not always for the good. Especially not when the direction taken goes against what the admin wishes the place to be.



Regardless of all the crap some folks, both here and over there, wish to lay at my feet or heap upon my head, you will not find me condemning anyone here nor there (except for SMP--he's a prick, that one) whose intention is to participate and build something, just because I know this is what folks are trying to do--to build.



Time to lay down the sledgehammers and pick up trowel and cement.



It's plain for all to see that the lot of you enjoy each other's company. And that can only be a good thing. It's also easy to see that folks on VF also enjoy each other's company. Why not see this as a blessing instead of a cause for moral outrage?



Harsh words have been said recently. Hurtful garbage. From many different directions. Shit can serve no purpose if you're trying to build a cathedral; you'll only end up with an outhouse.



Anyway, you all know what I'm saying. I know you do.



And there's nothing I said here I that wouldn't say (or haven't already also said) on VF.



Hope you all have a good weekend.
#11
The Flea Trap / Re: Retardation On Other Forums
March 13, 2015, 02:19:30 AM
Quote from: "Keeper"I like you Blurt, One of my few favs. I have to say im very saddened today to read what i have.



RW is a big girl, i said enough.



Laters.

Oh, I'm saddened, too, Keeps.



But rather than join the fray, I communicated privately.



As you said, RW is a big girl. So is Evs. They will, if necessary, have to work it out between them. Hoots from the peanut gallery will only hamper those efforts.



Again, there is no winner in shit-slinging contests and "the more the merrier" will not help in this case.
#12
The Flea Trap / Re: Retardation On Other Forums
March 13, 2015, 01:51:27 AM
Keeps, I haven't said anything because I refuse to enable this level of conversation between adults.



Whenever two posters, whether they are admins/mods or not, go at it, I step back because I find that kind of spectacle uninteresting.



There are never any winners in shit-slinging contests. All participants lose, in the end.



My concern is more for the other members of the board who have to wait patiently on the sidelines while the kids empty their water pistols on each other.



I'm patient that way. But, granted, not everybody is. And those that aren't tend to leave.
#13
The Flea Trap / Re: Retardation On Other Forums
March 13, 2015, 01:25:30 AM
Where do you draw the line, Keeps?



(I would ask Shen, but her mouth is full right now.)
#14
The Flea Trap / Re: Retardation On Other Forums
March 13, 2015, 01:14:13 AM
No, I doubt it, Shen.



She's more resilient than you think.



A cursory glance at the history of the past three years on Memebee will confirm this.
#15
The Flea Trap / Re: Retardation On Other Forums
March 11, 2015, 11:00:12 AM
Happy Birthday, Annie.  ac_drinks