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Unread postPosted: June 10th, 2019, 12:50 pm 
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Why is Joe posting in a marriage thread. Sixty year old broke ass incels have no business giving opinions on relationships with the opposite sex.

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Unread postPosted: June 10th, 2019, 1:43 pm 
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It is funny .. and pain in ass ^^

Gaon wrote:
cc wrote:
I'm pro .. at least for myself ... although it did take 2 miserable fails (one a really scary hubby from hell) to finally get it right

Choose well and get to really know who you hook up with, whether marriage or shackup

Do that and it can be great. There's a few good ones out there ... male & female

And it ain't men that screw things up ... it's people period .. exclamation !!!!!!! There's good and bad in both sexes, prolly equally so

And it seems like it has been an exciting life together.

It has. We feel privileged.

Like yourself, we have lived in many very different type places .. living among people with very different general characteristics

We have also experienced very different people in several US states .. and summered together in a 30 ft motor home on-site of projects ... specifically golf courses either existing or under construction.
Wonderful times parked among the trees ... just the 2 of us for the evening and nights with nothing to do but enjoy the solitude of nature ... and "other" neat nature things :wink: ... very good times

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Unread postPosted: June 10th, 2019, 1:47 pm 
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cc wrote:
It is funny .. and pain in ass ^^

Gaon wrote:
cc wrote:
I'm pro .. at least for myself ... although it did take 2 miserable fails (one a really scary hubby from hell) to finally get it right

Choose well and get to really know who you hook up with, whether marriage or shackup

Do that and it can be great. There's a few good ones out there ... male & female

And it ain't men that screw things up ... it's people period .. exclamation !!!!!!! There's good and bad in both sexes, prolly equally so

And it seems like it has been an exciting life together.

It has. We feel privileged.

Like yourself, we have lived in many very different type places .. living among people with very different general characteristics

We have also experienced very different people in several US states .. and summered together in a 30 ft motor home on-site of projects ... specifically golf courses either existing or under construction.
Wonderful times parked among the trees ... just the 2 of us for the evening and nights with nothing to do but enjoy the solitude of nature ... and "other" neat nature things :wink: ... very good times

Do you still own a motor home? Fash has one and they sound like a hoot. I wouldn't make an investment like that now with less than five years until we are out of Canada. But, if I was younger.

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Unread postPosted: June 10th, 2019, 2:03 pm 
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iron horse jockey wrote:
cc wrote:
It is funny .. and pain in ass ^^

Gaon wrote:
cc wrote:
I'm pro .. at least for myself ... although it did take 2 miserable fails (one a really scary hubby from hell) to finally get it right

Choose well and get to really know who you hook up with, whether marriage or shackup

Do that and it can be great. There's a few good ones out there ... male & female

And it ain't men that screw things up ... it's people period .. exclamation !!!!!!! There's good and bad in both sexes, prolly equally so

And it seems like it has been an exciting life together.

It has. We feel privileged.

Like yourself, we have lived in many very different type places .. living among people with very different general characteristics

We have also experienced very different people in several US states .. and summered together in a 30 ft motor home on-site of projects ... specifically golf courses either existing or under construction.
Wonderful times parked among the trees ... just the 2 of us for the evening and nights with nothing to do but enjoy the solitude of nature ... and "other" neat nature things :wink: ... very good times

Do you still own a motor home? Fash has one and they sound like a hoot. I wouldn't make an investment like that now with less than five years until we are out of Canada. But, if I was younger.

My late father in law willed the motor home to us..

It's more than fifteen years old, but my husband has maintained it well..

We love taking it into campgrounds or the wilderness.


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Unread postPosted: June 10th, 2019, 6:41 pm 
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Watching these american wedding shows..

The women seem to be really demanding and the guys just succumb to that.


Like, if he doesnt buy her the ring she wants, the wedding is off..


It seems to work similar in every american dating/wedding show.

Or... If you dont buy the house she wants, she is quitting the relationship.



Is this the norm or is it just Hollywood?


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Unread postPosted: June 10th, 2019, 10:46 pm 

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I know men who had children in their 50s & 60s & most of them hate it.

Or else they’re just trying to make the beat of it.

One friend I tried to help out had a daughter at 54. He cant take it. He’s cracking up and according to his gf busted the tv in a fit of rage & got ibto a violent fight with her.

Another guy he’s 75 & still trying to work for a living.

He has a 12 year old son from a previous marriage

When I last saw them together he was screaming at the kid.

Actually the guy is such an old father he’s old enough to be the boy’s grandfather.

Cripes he’s a lot older than Bricktop who’s already a grandfather.

Another guy I worked with he’s 67 same age as BT and he’s still working to support a teenage daughter who’s still in high school.

Point being, there’s an age when a guy shouldn’t be starting a family.

Ir else theres a good chance he’ll go to the grave before he has a chance to see his child grow up

And they’ll have to work til they drop dead.


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Unread postPosted: June 11th, 2019, 5:17 am 
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Odinson wrote:
Watching these american wedding shows..

The women seem to be really demanding and the guys just succumb to that.


Like, if he doesnt buy her the ring she wants, the wedding is off..


It seems to work similar in every american dating/wedding show.

Or... If you dont buy the house she wants, she is quitting the relationship.



Is this the norm or is it just Hollywood?

It's Hollywood.


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Unread postPosted: June 11th, 2019, 8:10 am 
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Hollywood's view of marriage. ac_toofunny

Almost as funny as the sixty year old incel view of hetero relationships.

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Unread postPosted: June 13th, 2019, 9:35 am 
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Happy wife, happy life.


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Unread postPosted: June 13th, 2019, 10:51 am 
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Herman wrote:
Hollywood's view of marriage. ac_toofunny

Almost as funny as the sixty year old incel view of hetero relationships.

That shot at JOE wasn't necessary..

He'll come back with a long winded rant about you not being able to enter the USA because you were in jail 25 or 30 years ago..

I'll move it to FF, so as not to derail another discussion and he'll whine about censorship, SG doesn't censor him, he likes it better there, but he posts more often here.
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Unread postPosted: June 14th, 2019, 12:08 am 
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And then she nailed him with unending child support which he’ll pay right to the grave Im afraud.

You don't say!

Also, if you believe that "unending" child support goes right to the grave, you're experiencing some difficulty in making your own thoughts clear to yourself. No surprise there, I guess.

As for the topic at hand, I never married. Marriage (or the lack thereof) was a key component in the dissolution of our relationship when my ex and I broke up. She wanted to get married for what I thought were all the wrong reasons and I was never the marrying type (and she already knew this many years before we hooked up).

I've been single for over five years now. And I like it. She married an American two years ago and is now living in the U.S.

Marriage is a social institution. If you need standing, marry. If not, don't.

They say the leading cause of divorce is marriage.

Congrats to them as are happily married.

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Unread postPosted: June 14th, 2019, 12:23 am 
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Very hard to get to know someone well enough to want to spend your life with them when you don't know yourself well enough.

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Unread postPosted: June 14th, 2019, 10:07 am 
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I only got $45 from my son's father....

Another man raised his child...

men are shit... end of.


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Unread postPosted: June 14th, 2019, 10:14 am 
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Blurt wrote:
JOE wrote:
And then she nailed him with unending child support which he’ll pay right to the grave Im afraud.

You don't say!

Also, if you believe that "unending" child support goes right to the grave, you're experiencing some difficulty in making your own thoughts clear to yourself. No surprise there, I guess.

As for the topic at hand, I never married. Marriage (or the lack thereof) was a key component in the dissolution of our relationship when my ex and I broke up. She wanted to get married for what I thought were all the wrong reasons and I was never the marrying type (and she already knew this many years before we hooked up).

I've been single for over five years now. And I like it. She married an American two years ago and is now living in the U.S.

Marriage is a social institution. If you need standing, marry. If not, don't.

They say the leading cause of divorce is marriage.

Congrats to them as are happily married.

That's not why I got married.


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Unread postPosted: June 14th, 2019, 10:24 am 
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Great.

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Unread postPosted: June 14th, 2019, 4:04 pm 
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caskur wrote:
I only got $45 from my son's father....

Another man raised his child...

men are shit... end of.


Did you take his loser ass to court?

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Unread postPosted: June 14th, 2019, 8:51 pm 
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caskur wrote:
I only got $45 from my son's father....

Another man raised his child...

men are shit... end of.

How often did you receive that amount?


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Unread postPosted: June 14th, 2019, 10:16 pm 
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If I had not met my current old lady, I never would have remarried. She makes money, she has a great bod, and horny as a frickin toad. What more could a guy ask for.

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Unread postPosted: June 15th, 2019, 12:51 am 
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Berry Sweet wrote:
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I only got $45 from my son's father....

Another man raised his child...

men are shit... end of.


Did you take his loser ass to court?


He paid once $20 and stopped paying.

He went to court and was ordered to pay.. $20 + $5.00 back pay.

He was supposed to pay me $20 a week for 18 years...

So the second payment was $25.00 then he never payed me again...

So, do you think I sh/would waste my time constantly chasing $25 a week?

Nah, I came from a rich family... I didn't need his piddly $25 a week but I felt for his son. It's a complete betrayal of him.

His biological father willed all his money to my son but my son died so he got nothing.

Just the way things go for some.

But men are no victims in all this. They bring it on themselves.


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Unread postPosted: June 15th, 2019, 12:57 am 
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Fashionista wrote:
caskur wrote:
I only got $45 from my son's father....

Another man raised his child...

men are shit... end of.

How often did you receive that amount?


I received $20 once...

and $25 the second time. Total $45 for 18 years.

The man owes me $20 x 52 weeks x 18 years. $18,720


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