Why do men fuck anything that moves?

[Frood]

This is Dinky's department lmao

It was....  ac_dance

So...what did you get out of it, Dinky?

Lost adolescence? Making up for lost time? Dunno.... I had to grow up relatively quick and always do the adult thing.



When I got my freedom back in my mid 20's.... it may have been like being a kid in the candy store all over again...



I was like a rabbit jumping from hole to hole....  ac_biggrin

That describes my husband to a tee. Thank God he's a changed man

I don't regret it....



Made me the monogamous man that I am happily today.



My wife enjoyed her marital break too....  

[Erica Mena]

It was....  ac_dance

So...what did you get out of it, Dinky?

Lost adolescence? Making up for lost time? Dunno.... I had to grow up relatively quick and always do the adult thing.



When I got my freedom back in my mid 20's.... it may have been like being a kid in the candy store all over again...



I was like a rabbit jumping from hole to hole....  ac_biggrin

That describes my husband to a tee. Thank God he's a changed man

I don't regret it....



Made me the monogamous man that I am happily today.



My wife enjoyed her marital break too....  

I enjoyed my break at times. The heartache outweighed the good times tho

[Frood]

@Dinky, did you bullshit women to get them into bed?  If so, what were some of your proven methods?  You would be doing a pubic service the share them.  I like to know what to avoid.

I'd be breaking a code and might get my man card revoked if I said....  

[Frood]

So...what did you get out of it, Dinky?

Lost adolescence? Making up for lost time? Dunno.... I had to grow up relatively quick and always do the adult thing.



When I got my freedom back in my mid 20's.... it may have been like being a kid in the candy store all over again...



I was like a rabbit jumping from hole to hole....  ac_biggrin

That describes my husband to a tee. Thank God he's a changed man

I don't regret it....



Made me the monogamous man that I am happily today.



My wife enjoyed her marital break too....  

I enjoyed my break at times. The heartache outweighed the good times tho

That's pretty much it... I didn't set out to bed them and fled them, but all in all, whether it was a dirty stop-out or live together situation, I realized that after the hunt ended it just wasn't for me and my wife and I never stopped having feelings for each other....



Plus she's got a wicked sense of humour and has always been my best friend.

[Dove]

It's the conquest. The "thrill of the hunt".



 Always scrutinize someone "going to great lengths" to win you over.  Odds are good they are narcissistic abusers in the love bombing mode or they see you as a challange and just want to see if they CAN get you.



 That over romantic shit is almost always a bad sign. Someone who is genuine can be romantic but they are also invested in building a real relationship. They wont feed you a bunch of hyper romantic gobbledy gook.



 Obviously not all men do this. Just the ones women notice more because they are like peacocks shaking their bright tail feathers going "look at me!" and the good men are busy at work and building a nest for their future family.

Yes, I am well-versed in the drama of the love bombing narcissist.  But I am talking about something else.  Men who seem very interested in you (not love bombing, but being very nice and attentive and seeming pretty smitten) for very long periods of time, and very consistently.  I have had men who are single and married do this to me.  And they really only wanted sex.  It just mystifies me.  WTF is the story?

 I just think its different manifestations of the same selfishness really.



 I went through something similar with a guy I knew since childhood. He was my first kiss and everything. He persued me from the time I was 12 until he got me when i turned 30.



 I was with him for 2 years and it was awful. It was a rebound relationshit for me and a bad decision. There was a good reason I didnt give him a chance all that time that I must have forgotten.  



 He eventually cheated on me with some ogre and now they are married with a little girl and every once in a while he sends me messages on facebook at 2am. In my inbox like Adele. I ignore it completely so that probably excites him that I dont give a single shit.  He really is a heartless bastard.

[Dove]

So...what did you get out of it, Dinky?

Lost adolescence? Making up for lost time? Dunno.... I had to grow up relatively quick and always do the adult thing.



When I got my freedom back in my mid 20's.... it may have been like being a kid in the candy store all over again...



I was like a rabbit jumping from hole to hole....  ac_biggrin

That describes my husband to a tee. Thank God he's a changed man

I don't regret it....



Made me the monogamous man that I am happily today.



My wife enjoyed her marital break too....  

I enjoyed my break at times. The heartache outweighed the good times tho

 Mine was a nightmare.

[Erica Mena]

Lost adolescence? Making up for lost time? Dunno.... I had to grow up relatively quick and always do the adult thing.



When I got my freedom back in my mid 20's.... it may have been like being a kid in the candy store all over again...



I was like a rabbit jumping from hole to hole....  ac_biggrin

That describes my husband to a tee. Thank God he's a changed man

I don't regret it....



Made me the monogamous man that I am happily today.



My wife enjoyed her marital break too....  

I enjoyed my break at times. The heartache outweighed the good times tho

 Mine was a nightmare.

Mine was too. I'm sure you remember. I did have fun with the one guy who was not afraid of my husband lol

[Anonymous]

What a bunch of pathetic bags of shite posing as guys.

[Erica Mena]

What a bunch of pathetic bags of shite posing as guys.

Huh? lol

[Dove]

That describes my husband to a tee. Thank God he's a changed man

I don't regret it....



Made me the monogamous man that I am happily today.



My wife enjoyed her marital break too....  

I enjoyed my break at times. The heartache outweighed the good times tho

 Mine was a nightmare.

Mine was too. I'm sure you remember. I did have fun with the one guy who was not afraid of my husband lol

 Yep lol.



 Separation saved my marriage but it really was a bad time. For sure.

[Anonymous]

It's the conquest. The "thrill of the hunt".



 Always scrutinize someone "going to great lengths" to win you over.  Odds are good they are narcissistic abusers in the love bombing mode or they see you as a challange and just want to see if they CAN get you.



 That over romantic shit is almost always a bad sign. Someone who is genuine can be romantic but they are also invested in building a real relationship. They wont feed you a bunch of hyper romantic gobbledy gook.



 Obviously not all men do this. Just the ones women notice more because they are like peacocks shaking their bright tail feathers going "look at me!" and the good men are busy at work and building a nest for their future family.

Yes, I am well-versed in the drama of the love bombing narcissist.  But I am talking about something else.  Men who seem very interested in you (not love bombing, but being very nice and attentive and seeming pretty smitten) for very long periods of time, and very consistently.  I have had men who are single and married do this to me.  And they really only wanted sex.  It just mystifies me.  WTF is the story?

 I just think its different manifestations of the same selfishness really.



 I went through something similar with a guy I knew since childhood. He was my first kiss and everything. He persued me from the time I was 12 until he got me when i turned 30.



 I was with him for 2 years and it was awful. It was a rebound relationshit for me and a bad decision. There was a good reason I didnt give him a chance all that time that I must have forgotten.  



 He eventually cheated on me with some ogre and now they are married with a little girl and every once in a while he sends me messages on facebook at 2am. In my inbox like Adele. I ignore it completely so that probably excites him that I dont give a single shit.  He really is a heartless bastard.

These relationship threads are interesting because I can't relate..



I've never dated any man besides my husband..



We've never considered separation either.

[Odinson]

Good question.  I mean, I do understand the sexual urge.  Sex for sex's sake is pretty awesome.  But I am more curious about this: Why do men pursue a particular woman for ages and ages and go to elaborate lengths to get her when in the end, all they wanted to do was fuck her?  This one really gets me.  Like, why do they ACT like they love you to pieces, but it's still just about the booty call in the end.



Guys?

Pre-nut = A beautiful goddess!



Post-nut = Who is this woman?

[Dove]

It's the conquest. The "thrill of the hunt".



 Always scrutinize someone "going to great lengths" to win you over.  Odds are good they are narcissistic abusers in the love bombing mode or they see you as a challange and just want to see if they CAN get you.



 That over romantic shit is almost always a bad sign. Someone who is genuine can be romantic but they are also invested in building a real relationship. They wont feed you a bunch of hyper romantic gobbledy gook.



 Obviously not all men do this. Just the ones women notice more because they are like peacocks shaking their bright tail feathers going "look at me!" and the good men are busy at work and building a nest for their future family.

Yes, I am well-versed in the drama of the love bombing narcissist.  But I am talking about something else.  Men who seem very interested in you (not love bombing, but being very nice and attentive and seeming pretty smitten) for very long periods of time, and very consistently.  I have had men who are single and married do this to me.  And they really only wanted sex.  It just mystifies me.  WTF is the story?

 I just think its different manifestations of the same selfishness really.



 I went through something similar with a guy I knew since childhood. He was my first kiss and everything. He persued me from the time I was 12 until he got me when i turned 30.



 I was with him for 2 years and it was awful. It was a rebound relationshit for me and a bad decision. There was a good reason I didnt give him a chance all that time that I must have forgotten.  



 He eventually cheated on me with some ogre and now they are married with a little girl and every once in a while he sends me messages on facebook at 2am. In my inbox like Adele. I ignore it completely so that probably excites him that I dont give a single shit.  He really is a heartless bastard.

These relationship threads are interesting because I can't relate..



I've never dated any man besides my husband..



We've never considered separation either.

 Yeah you did it right the first time.



 It took me a while to make a proper pancake lol

[Commie 4U]

@Dinky, did you bullshit women to get them into bed?  If so, what were some of your proven methods?  You would be doing a pubic service the share them.  I like to know what to avoid.

I'd be breaking a code and might get my man card revoked if I said....  

Oh, come on.  I'm going to guess.  You can just say yes or no.  No man code breaking.



Is there a special look?  A look that says, "Oh, wow.  I'm breathless," whenever you see her?  And is there this special, light touch?  Very suggestive but not out of line at all?

[Oak]

Watch out for the man whores.  They could carry herpes and scientists have found a link between herpes and multiple sclerosis...frightening.

According to the National Multiple Sclerosis Society, four times as many women have MS as men, and more and more women are developing it.

Men are givers, it's just the mechanics of male vs female physiology.  Men access the internal mucous membranes of women during sex, male mucous membrane is a lot less accessible.  Male sex organs are external while women's are internal.