Why do men fuck anything that moves?

[Odinson]

It's the conquest. The "thrill of the hunt".



 Always scrutinize someone "going to great lengths" to win you over.  Odds are good they are narcissistic abusers in the love bombing mode or they see you as a challange and just want to see if they CAN get you.



 That over romantic shit is almost always a bad sign. Someone who is genuine can be romantic but they are also invested in building a real relationship. They wont feed you a bunch of hyper romantic gobbledy gook.



 Obviously not all men do this. Just the ones women notice more because they are like peacocks shaking their bright tail feathers going "look at me!" and the good men are busy at work and building a nest for their future family.

Yes, I am well-versed in the drama of the love bombing narcissist.  But I am talking about something else.  Men who seem very interested in you (not love bombing, but being very nice and attentive and seeming pretty smitten) for very long periods of time, and very consistently.  I have had men who are single and married do this to me.  And they really only wanted sex.  It just mystifies me.  WTF is the story?

 I just think its different manifestations of the same selfishness really.



 I went through something similar with a guy I knew since childhood. He was my first kiss and everything. He persued me from the time I was 12 until he got me when i turned 30.



 I was with him for 2 years and it was awful. It was a rebound relationshit for me and a bad decision. There was a good reason I didnt give him a chance all that time that I must have forgotten.  



 He eventually cheated on me with some ogre and now they are married with a little girl and every once in a while he sends me messages on facebook at 2am. In my inbox like Adele. I ignore it completely so that probably excites him that I dont give a single shit.  He really is a heartless bastard.

These relationship threads are interesting because I can't relate..



I've never dated any man besides my husband..



We've never considered separation either.

These people are swingers, Fashie.

[Anonymous]

It's the conquest. The "thrill of the hunt".



 Always scrutinize someone "going to great lengths" to win you over.  Odds are good they are narcissistic abusers in the love bombing mode or they see you as a challange and just want to see if they CAN get you.



 That over romantic shit is almost always a bad sign. Someone who is genuine can be romantic but they are also invested in building a real relationship. They wont feed you a bunch of hyper romantic gobbledy gook.



 Obviously not all men do this. Just the ones women notice more because they are like peacocks shaking their bright tail feathers going "look at me!" and the good men are busy at work and building a nest for their future family.

Yes, I am well-versed in the drama of the love bombing narcissist.  But I am talking about something else.  Men who seem very interested in you (not love bombing, but being very nice and attentive and seeming pretty smitten) for very long periods of time, and very consistently.  I have had men who are single and married do this to me.  And they really only wanted sex.  It just mystifies me.  WTF is the story?

 I just think its different manifestations of the same selfishness really.



 I went through something similar with a guy I knew since childhood. He was my first kiss and everything. He persued me from the time I was 12 until he got me when i turned 30.



 I was with him for 2 years and it was awful. It was a rebound relationshit for me and a bad decision. There was a good reason I didnt give him a chance all that time that I must have forgotten.  



 He eventually cheated on me with some ogre and now they are married with a little girl and every once in a while he sends me messages on facebook at 2am. In my inbox like Adele. I ignore it completely so that probably excites him that I dont give a single shit.  He really is a heartless bastard.

These relationship threads are interesting because I can't relate..



I've never dated any man besides my husband..



We've never considered separation either.

These people are swingers, Fashie.

You're hoping they are Odi.

[Anonymous]

Every so-called male in this discussion has undoubtedly fucked a cardboard toilet paper tube.

[Anonymous]

Every so-called male in this discussion has undoubtedly fucked a cardboard toilet paper tube.

Project much.

[Dove]

If I were a man with a penis, i probably would have stuck it in a TP roll at least once.



 Not like for pleasure.....more for the fun of it.



 I'd also use my testicle skin to catch water in the shower....like a scrotum bowl.

[Oak]

If I were a man with a penis, i probably would have stuck it in a TP roll at least once.



 Not like for pleasure.....more for the fun of it.



 I'd also use my testicle skin to catch water in the shower....like a scrotum bowl.

As opposed to men without penises, I suppose.



That's a modern outlook.

[cw_]

Do TP rolls move?  Or do they just lay there in the trash?

[Oak]

Do TP rolls move?  Or do they just lay there in the trash?

 



Well, you can't penetrate a tp roll that's on the tp holder...ok, this has gotten ewww

[Dove]

Do TP rolls move?  Or do they just lay there in the trash?

 I would hold it still to shove my imaginary penis into it.



 Then I'd send pictures of it to Freud  ac_dance

[Frood]

Do TP rolls move?  Or do they just lay there in the trash?

 I would hold it still to shove my imaginary penis into it.



 Then I'd send pictures of it to Freud  ac_dance

 ac_biggrin



Then I'd fuse pictures and parts of this soundtrack together...

[Dove]

I actually give the empty cardboard TP rolls to the guinea pigs and Bunz.



 They love them. They chew them and play with them and I'm not stuck buying too many over priced rodent toys that they are just gonna destroy anyway. They are just as amused by the TP rolls. They toss them around, push them and shred them. They love it.

[Frood]

You should name one "Raggot' just for larfs....

[Dove]

You should name one "Raggot' just for larfs....

 Hahaha....one is Bear and the other is Peanut.

[Thiel]

I actually give the empty cardboard TP rolls to the guinea pigs and Bunz.



 They love them. They chew them and play with them and I'm not stuck buying too many over priced rodent toys that they are just gonna destroy anyway. They are just as amused by the TP rolls. They toss them around, push them and shred them. They love it.

That is so true. My nephew has two rabbits for his daughter. He gives them toilet paper rolls. It's enjoyable watching them play with them.

[Odinson]

If I were a man with a penis, i probably would have stuck it in a TP roll at least once.



 Not like for pleasure.....more for the fun of it.



 I'd also use my testicle skin to catch water in the shower....like a scrotum bowl.

The toilet paper roll test.