How do Lesbians lose their virginity?

[Richard/RDL]

According to RW, Keeper, and Romero, straight people can only lose their virginity through vaginal sex, and gay men can only lose their virginity through anal sex.



But what about lesbians?  How is it possible for them to lose their virginity if there's no penis involved?

[Richard/RDL]

Oh, and strap-on's don't count as sex, since there's no exchange of fluids.

[RW]

Have you never heard of fingers or strap-ons.

[RW]

The loss of virginity doesn't require an exchange of fluids.

[Richard/RDL]

The loss of virginity doesn't require an exchange of fluids.

How come Lesbians can lose their virginity by fingers or strap-on's, but gay men can't lose their virginity by oral sex?



Oral sex has an exchange of fluids.  Fingers and strap-on's don't.

[kiebers]

Grasping at straws. You're still a virgin.

[Richard/RDL]

Oral sex involves putting one's penis in someone else's body, therefore sexual contact. Strap-on's are not actual sexual contact.

[kiebers]

Strap-on's are not actual sexual contact.

Tell that to someone that just lost their hymen. Be sure and duck when they swing at you.

[Richard/RDL]

Strap-on's are not actual sexual contact.

Tell that to someone that just lost their hymen. Be sure and duck when they swing at you.

Strap-on's are a form of masturbation, since strap-on's are a sex toy.

Strap-on's are sexual contact between a person and a toy, not sexual contact between two people.

[Richard/RDL]

Also, fingering is masturbation too.

If gay men can't lose their virginity through masturbation, then Lesbians can't either.

[Renee]

It is a complicated subject but "The traditional view is that virginity is only lost through vaginal penetration by the penis, consensual or non-consensual, and that acts of oral sex, anal sex, mutual masturbation or other forms of non-penetrative sex do not result in loss of virginity."



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virginity#Definitions_of_virginity_loss">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virginity# ... inity_loss">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virginity#Definitions_of_virginity_loss



Now that is the traditional view which I, like most people, were taught to think of as a loss of virginity. Your point of view may be different and really, WHO FUCKING CARES? It's nobodies business but your own.



No wonder so many people want to twist your head right off your fucking shoulders. You are an incredibly annoying little flea who doesn't know when to STFU!  acc_angry

[Richard/RDL]

It is a complicated subject but "The traditional view is that virginity is only lost through vaginal penetration by the penis, consensual or non-consensual, and that acts of oral sex, anal sex, mutual masturbation or other forms of non-penetrative sex do not result in loss of virginity."



http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virginity#Definitions_of_virginity_loss">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virginity# ... inity_loss">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virginity#Definitions_of_virginity_loss



Now that is the traditional view which I, like most people, was raised to think of as a loss of virginity. Your point of view may be different and really, WHO FUCKING CARES? It's nobodies business but your own.



No wonder so many people want to twist your head right off your fucking shoulders. You are an incredibly annoying little flea who doesn't know when to STFU!  acc_angry

So gay men who have anal sex are still virgins?

Thank you so much ac_dance

[cc]

Why is this being replayed almost literally on both forums?



What a lot of fuss about nothing. Virginity is what you wish it to be or how it strikes you.



Mate & I have great fun with thinking up new twists and then "losing our virginity" to it. We are somewhere in the 100s of  so far. Every time we think we have lost the last possible virginity, so will have to settle for the same old, one of us thinks up a new one. I highly recommend it for committed couples



So many virginities to lose .. so little time

[Richard/RDL]

Why is this being replayed almost literally on both forums?

Because I want to hear different perspectives on this issue.

[cc]

Well you will never get a real answer. All you will get is one person's perspective from one person.



What one was thought of as simple has become a subjective subject ... and can vary greatly from one person (or scientific source)  to another.



All that matter is what it is to you