There sure has been a lot of mudslinging in this forum lately!

[JOE]

Some members trashing the mods, even the mods trashing them back.

Calling each other names, using extremely foul language towards one another. Expletive here, put down there. Shades of Jerry Springer! Not exactly a cohesive loving bunch.



Perhaps what this place needs is a release valve where the embattled parties can blow off steam elsewhere instead of this forum? Sometimes its too much wherby he gentler souls here no doubt seek sanctuary above 'the storm'.



What say you folks...how can we make the Blue Cashew a happier, kinder gentler place?

[RW]

You leave and take Mel and TD with you.



Problem solved :D

[Anonymous]

Some members trashing the mods, even the mods trashing them back.

Calling each other names, using extremely foul language towards one another. Expletive here, put down there. Shades of Jerry Springer! Not exactly a cohesive loving bunch.



Perhaps what this place needs is a release valve where the embattled parties can blow off steam elsewhere instead of this forum? Sometimes its too much wherby he gentler souls here no doubt seek sanctuary above 'the storm'.



What say you folks...how can we make the Blue Cashew a happier, kinder gentler place?

We can't seem to measure up to the high standards of civility you've grown accustomed to on VF no matter how hard we fucking try. ac_umm

[Renee]

I guess I'll have to govern my tongue for Joe's sake.

[Angry White Male]

Joe, here it's a hopeless battle.



Respect is often earned.



However, when Mods & Admin show very little outward respect to others, it creates an environment such as what you see now.



I personally don't have a problem with the shit-slinging, as I have a high threshold for drama...  I even like it at times!  Nonetheless, you get what you give...