I had a quarrel with an indian man today

[Anonymous]

I don't want to agree with many of you who would negatively stereotype South Asians. I really, really hate racism/tribalism. However, Jay should have kicked the South Asian prick's butt.

[jaysings]

I went to gas station for inflating the tires of my car. because I didn't know how to inflate the tires with the tire gauge i borrowed from a staff at gas station, i took a long while in process.



a man who with a familiar indian look was waiting for me to make it done, but i took quite a long while to test the pressure of each of the tires with that tire gauge and made sure if i excessively inflated the tires. He became furious and started cursing me with the words like "idiot" and "go fuck yourself" just because I kept him waiting so long. He claimed he had an urgent meeting and had only one tire to inflate, but he didn't ask me to let him inflate his tire at all. just kept cursing and cursing and said " do u understand english? do u know what is go fuck yourself?" I got angry at that moment and fuxked him back that "fuxk u jerk, I was waiting for the last man to inflate his tire for 15 mins but i said nothing but waited. I didn't say i don't let u inflate, why the fuxk did u call me idoit?" and he put his middle finger up to me, and i put mine to him too. Then he made his work done and got in his car with full of anger on his face.



i don't understand why he treated me so rude. He might suppose that i didn't dare to fuxk him back, but i didn't fear to offend against anyone. not until the end, and not like some of chinese who scare to fight for their own dignity because i always treat people the way they treat me.

I find them to be loud people.  Vocal and rude.  You need to be that way back to them, and they back off.

Really? I have met some that stand their ground.

if they get someone challenging they must resist, but i don't think they keep standing their ground even if they are being jerks challenging people first

[Saltydog]

I find them to be loud people.  Vocal and rude.  You need to be that way back to them, and they back off.

Really? I have met some that stand their ground.

if they get challenged they must resist, but i don't think they keep standing their ground even if they are being jerks to challenge people first

He didn't quarrel with you because he is Indian, he quarreled with you because he is an impatient idiot.

[jaysings]

I don't want to agree with many of you who would negatively stereotype South Asians. I really, really hate racism/tribalism. However, Jay should have kicked the South Asian prick's butt.

although they are annoying, i don't hate this race :D

[jaysings]

Really? I have met some that stand their ground.

if they get challenged they must resist, but i don't think they keep standing their ground even if they are being jerks to challenge people first

He didn't quarrel with you because he is Indian, he quarreled with you because he is an impatient idiot.

i think most civil,polite and educated people will come over and ask if there is anything they can help,or they will ask for a priority to make things done if they are urgent in some cases

[Berry Sweet]

I went to gas station for inflating the tires of my car. because I didn't know how to inflate the tires with the tire gauge i borrowed from a staff at gas station, i took a long while in process.



a man who with a familiar indian look was waiting for me to make it done, but i took quite a long while to test the pressure of each of the tires with that tire gauge and made sure if i excessively inflated the tires. He became furious and started cursing me with the words like "idiot" and "go fuck yourself" just because I kept him waiting so long. He claimed he had an urgent meeting and had only one tire to inflate, but he didn't ask me to let him inflate his tire at all. just kept cursing and cursing and said " do u understand english? do u know what is go fuck yourself?" I got angry at that moment and fuxked him back that "fuxk u jerk, I was waiting for the last man to inflate his tire for 15 mins but i said nothing but waited. I didn't say i don't let u inflate, why the fuxk did u call me idoit?" and he put his middle finger up to me, and i put mine to him too. Then he made his work done and got in his car with full of anger on his face.



i don't understand why he treated me so rude. He might suppose that i didn't dare to fuxk him back, but i didn't fear to offend against anyone. not until the end, and not like some of chinese who scare to fight for their own dignity because i always treat people the way they treat me.

I find them to be loud people.  Vocal and rude.  You need to be that way back to them, and they back off.

Really? I have met some that stand their ground.

I dunno, maybe because you are asian?  (i dunno, just sayin...read on..) I look more european and I guess more on the persian side, some people have actually thought I am persian...so manybe that's why they back off from my bark?  lol  I dunno...I just find east indian people to think they are the most important race in the world and everyone else is below them....not all, but just an observation when i am out in public...

[Berry Sweet]

When I first moved to Vancouver I stayed in a student rooming house. It was a younger east indian (South Asian) couple near Nanaimo and First who owned the house. The lady would invite me into her area of the house, which was locked from the rest of the house, for tea or snacks. She would lock the door when I came in and brush up against me or let her body flash out of her robe while staring into my eyes. Her husband was at work. This is the second landlady who did this. A caucasian lady in Maple Ridge rented her basement out to me. It was a nice big house. She came down in the middle of the night one time moaning my name. When I opened the door she was wearing almost nothing. Her shirt was cut off just below her tits. She gave me a long hug and asked if she could do anything for me. Anything at all. I caught her naked a couple times in the laundry room or in her thong.

  You have all these stories where women just throw themselves at you....same old repetative story....take a hint as no one gives a shit dummy...you watch too much porn...

[Anonymous]

I find them to be loud people.  Vocal and rude.  You need to be that way back to them, and they back off.

Really? I have met some that stand their ground.

I dunno, maybe because you are asian?  (i dunno, just sayin...read on..) I look more european and I guess more on the persian side, some people have actually thought I am persian...so manybe that's why they back off from my bark?  lol  I dunno...I just find east indian people to think they are the most important race in the world and everyone else is below them....not all, but just an observation when i am out in public...

You are saying they react differently depending on a person's appearance/race? I hadn't really thought about it, but I guess that's possible. What I do know is that I have a Punjabi Indian friend and she has told me that Indians(especially Sikhs) are the most racist people in the world. I haven't experienced it myself, but that is what she has told me.

[Chickenfeets]

You are all in the racism. :(



Why? this is hurtful to.

[Obvious Li]

Somebody gets up in my fucking face they are in for a real shock. I will go kung fucking fu on their asses.



Don't assume because I'm East Asian that I am submissive.

 :o  :o    

[Anonymous]

Somebody gets up in my fucking face they are in for a real shock. I will go kung fucking fu on their asses.



Don't assume because I'm East Asian that I am submissive.

 :o  :o    

I am sweeter than fucking sugar.

[Obvious Li]

Somebody gets up in my fucking face they are in for a real shock. I will go kung fucking fu on their asses.



Don't assume because I'm East Asian that I am submissive.

 :o  :o    

I am sweeter than fucking sugar.

don't i know it baby...you can sweeten my grits anytime..... :mrgreen:

[Berry Sweet]

Really? I have met some that stand their ground.

I dunno, maybe because you are asian?  (i dunno, just sayin...read on..) I look more european and I guess more on the persian side, some people have actually thought I am persian...so manybe that's why they back off from my bark?  lol  I dunno...I just find east indian people to think they are the most important race in the world and everyone else is below them....not all, but just an observation when i am out in public...

You are saying they react differently depending on a person's appearance/race? I hadn't really thought about it, but I guess that's possible. What I do know is that I have a Punjabi Indian friend and she has told me that Indians(especially Sikhs) are the most racist people in the world. I haven't experienced it myself, but that is what she has told me.

I don't like to say it, but yes.  Racism is out there....I see every so often.....I hear people call out in public raceial slurs and names to others...all different races.  Not all of them are (EI's), but I find majority to be...they just think they are the top of the food chain/masters of the world...asian people, can be annoying sometimes, but atleast the don't act like EI's...asians mostly are quiet and go about their buisness...unless you are in china town and you see two asian having a quarrel about some shit...lol...that's always a good show!  Asian people really do work hard....i guess it's just their custom and life style...EI's on the other hand...they are pompous bastards!  They think only of themsevles...i don't like how they googly eye me and other women....thank God Canada is nothing like India!  I'd hate to be a woman in India!  They bring their customs here and still think they are top of the world while they treat their women like shit....

.....I have a neighbor in my complex....she is EI...her hubby and 2 kids...she doesn't speak english, but I pass sometimes when outside and she always smiles at me and waves...her husband however...treats her like crap...I always hear yelling at their place...he's always on her....the last time the cops were at their place was about 2 months ago....there were 4 squad cars for this...and they were there for over 2 hours!  It was a donestic dispute.  I would think many people in the complex called about what was going on in their unit day so that's why 4 squad cars came out....it's not funny and it's pretty ridiculous when a EI guy goes to that length to treat his wife like total and complete shit and let the whole damn neighborhood hear about it!

[Anonymous]

I dunno, maybe because you are asian?  (i dunno, just sayin...read on..) I look more european and I guess more on the persian side, some people have actually thought I am persian...so manybe that's why they back off from my bark?  lol  I dunno...I just find east indian people to think they are the most important race in the world and everyone else is below them....not all, but just an observation when i am out in public...

You are saying they react differently depending on a person's appearance/race? I hadn't really thought about it, but I guess that's possible. What I do know is that I have a Punjabi Indian friend and she has told me that Indians(especially Sikhs) are the most racist people in the world. I haven't experienced it myself, but that is what she has told me.

I don't like to say it, but yes.  Racism is out there....I see every so often.....I hear people call out in public raceial slurs and names to others...all different races.  Not all of them are (EI's), but I find majority to be...they just think they are the top of the food chain/masters of the world...asian people, can be annoying sometimes, but atleast the don't act like EI's...asians mostly are quiet and go about their buisness...unless you are in china town and you see two asian having a quarrel about some shit...lol...that's always a good show!  Asian people really do work hard....i guess it's just their custom and life style...EI's on the other hand...they are pompous bastards!  They think only of themsevles...i don't like how they googly eye me and other women....thank God Canada is nothing like India!  I'd hate to be a woman in India!  They bring their customs here and still think they are top of the world while they treat their women like shit....

.....I have a neighbor in my complex....she is EI...her hubby and 2 kids...she doesn't speak english, but I pass sometimes when outside and she always smiles at me and waves...her husband however...treats her like crap...I always hear yelling at their place...he's always on her....the last time the cops were at their place was about 2 months ago....there were 4 squad cars for this...and they were there for over 2 hours!  It was a donestic dispute.  I would think many people in the complex called about what was going on in their unit day so that's why 4 squad cars came out....it's not funny and it's pretty ridiculous when a EI guy goes to that length to treat his wife like total and complete shit and let the whole damn neighborhood hear about it!

Hi Ms. Berry Sweet, thank you for sharing that..



I have found that East Indians are better with English than we are..



They have a strong accent to be sure, but they seem more comfortable using English than we do..



Just my experience and I know I might be completely wrong.

[Berry Sweet]

English is the hardest language in the world to learn.  From what I have heard from asian people, learning english has been a serious struggle for them...i guess the translation from mandarin or cantonese to english is very screwed up....half the time it don't make sense....so in this case, it's like learning a while new alien language from another planet!



Other languages translate easier, so those people have a better time learning english.