I spoke to her husband yesterday and asked if there was a public ceremony or funeral to be announced, and he was frankly not sure. It's up in the air at this point.

She was older, as he is (he is a bit older tham her), and he expressed the sadness of watching so many their friends and family members already passing on, and who would attend a funeral or ceremony? ...as he put it. It might be a small private gathering with ashes spread someplace in nature. I dunno.

I wanted to send a really cool floral arrangement or 20 unordered pizzas...   

(She mostly hid her forum life from her real life people. 20 pizzas would be received in astonishment and wouldn't convey the love or the cheek behind it)

But he obviously doesn't want a circus event or the odd arsehole going full internet keyboard arsehole because Caskur tore into somebody once upon a time for shits and giggles squirting through her gap teeth like a waterlogged bath toy being frog stomped by a sharehouse tenant with a pressing bowel movement during shower time.... (sorry, old habits die hard....  )

He is very touched by the sentiments expressed and relayed to him over the phone. I've texted thread links so he can read for himself.

When pressed if there's a charity she really liked, he mentioned Fred Hollows


https://www.hollows.org/

Fred restored eyesight to people, often children, where he could. I remember Caskur talking about Fred on multiple occasions. She really admired him. No bullshit... which is really a good picture of who Caskur truly was. Fred Hollows got his start restoring sight for outback aboriginal children... he was like a Mother Theresa in a small plane... yet Caskur had her reservations about aboriginals due to her experiences with some... particularly the ones who performed criminal acts against her property... but she loved all children, MOST animals, and anything in nature that could be drawn, painted, or especially photographed.

Her husband doesn't need anything from any of us online degenerates. He is just happy people cared about her more than he realized.

If you want to do something for Caskur, perhaps elaborate on your best memories of her here and/or make a donation to Fred Hollows org or something else you think she'd really like.

I'll post this url to her hubby so he can read it and if he wants to respond, I will try to relay it exactly as he means/meant it.

 She was really into SaveaFox as well.

 Cascur loved anything having to to with proper wild life rehab and I know she loved the Save a Fox who committed suicide.

 I was already planning to donate to that in honor of Cascur. Unless there was one in particular in Australia she was devoted to.

Quote from: Dove on January 07, 2026, 05:54:22 PMShe was really into SaveaFox as well.

 Cascur loved anything having to to with proper wild life rehab and I know she loved the Save a Fox who committed suicide.

 I was already planning to donate to that in honor of Cascur. Unless there was one in particular in Australia she was devoted to.

Her hubby only mentioned Fred Hollows yesterday, but he can read this now and I can respond on his behalf. Seriously though... I'm sure he's just rapt that so many people gaf about our version of Caskur.

I'm here, just can't get the words out without crying

Did Caskur have kids and grandkids?

Quote from: Frood on January 07, 2026, 06:03:02 PMHer hubby only mentioned Fred Hollows yesterday, but he can read this now and I can respond on his behalf. Seriously though... I'm sure he's just rapt that so many people gaf about our version of Caskur.

 It must be so fucking weird for him lol.

 All our partners find this so weird lol.

Jus

Quote from: Herman on January 07, 2026, 09:48:39 PMDid Caskur have kids and grandkids?

Just the one boy who died.

Quote from: Frood on January 07, 2026, 05:29:09 PMI spoke to her husband yesterday and asked if there was a public ceremony or funeral to be announced, and he was frankly not sure. It's up in the air at this point.

She was older, as he is (he is a bit older tham her), and he expressed the sadness of watching so many their friends and family members already passing on, and who would attend a funeral or ceremony? ...as he put it. It might be a small private gathering with ashes spread someplace in nature. I dunno.

I wanted to send a really cool floral arrangement or 20 unordered pizzas...   

(She mostly hid her forum life from her real life people. 20 pizzas would be received in astonishment and wouldn't convey the love or the cheek behind it)

But he obviously doesn't want a circus event or the odd arsehole going full internet keyboard arsehole because Caskur tore into somebody once upon a time for shits and giggles squirting through her gap teeth like a waterlogged bath toy being frog stomped by a sharehouse tenant with a pressing bowel movement during shower time.... (sorry, old habits die hard....  )

He is very touched by the sentiments expressed and relayed to him over the phone. I've texted thread links so he can read for himself.

When pressed if there's a charity she really liked, he mentioned Fred Hollows


https://www.hollows.org/

Fred restored eyesight to people, often children, where he could. I remember Caskur talking about Fred on multiple occasions. She really admired him. No bullshit... which is really a good picture of who Caskur truly was. Fred Hollows got his start restoring sight for outback aboriginal children... he was like a Mother Theresa in a small plane... yet Caskur had her reservations about aboriginals due to her experiences with some... particularly the ones who performed criminal acts against her property... but she loved all children, MOST animals, and anything in nature that could be drawn, painted, or especially photographed.

Her husband doesn't need anything from any of us online degenerates. He is just happy people cared about her more than he realized.

If you want to do something for Caskur, perhaps elaborate on your best memories of her here and/or make a donation to Fred Hollows org or something else you think she'd really like.

I'll post this url to her hubby so he can read it and if he wants to respond, I will try to relay it exactly as he means/meant it.

That's very interesting. And certainly caskur was an interesting person.

Quote from: Frood on January 07, 2026, 05:29:09 PMI spoke to her husband yesterday and asked if there was a public ceremony or funeral to be announced, and he was frankly not sure. It's up in the air at this point.

She was older, as he is (he is a bit older tham her), and he expressed the sadness of watching so many their friends and family members already passing on, and who would attend a funeral or ceremony? ...as he put it. It might be a small private gathering with ashes spread someplace in nature. I dunno.

I wanted to send a really cool floral arrangement or 20 unordered pizzas...   

(She mostly hid her forum life from her real life people. 20 pizzas would be received in astonishment and wouldn't convey the love or the cheek behind it)

But he obviously doesn't want a circus event or the odd arsehole going full internet keyboard arsehole because Caskur tore into somebody once upon a time for shits and giggles squirting through her gap teeth like a waterlogged bath toy being frog stomped by a sharehouse tenant with a pressing bowel movement during shower time.... (sorry, old habits die hard....  )

He is very touched by the sentiments expressed and relayed to him over the phone. I've texted thread links so he can read for himself.

When pressed if there's a charity she really liked, he mentioned Fred Hollows


https://www.hollows.org/

Fred restored eyesight to people, often children, where he could. I remember Caskur talking about Fred on multiple occasions. She really admired him. No bullshit... which is really a good picture of who Caskur truly was. Fred Hollows got his start restoring sight for outback aboriginal children... he was like a Mother Theresa in a small plane... yet Caskur had her reservations about aboriginals due to her experiences with some... particularly the ones who performed criminal acts against her property... but she loved all children, MOST animals, and anything in nature that could be drawn, painted, or especially photographed.

Her husband doesn't need anything from any of us online degenerates. He is just happy people cared about her more than he realized.

If you want to do something for Caskur, perhaps elaborate on your best memories of her here and/or make a donation to Fred Hollows org or something else you think she'd really like.

I'll post this url to her hubby so he can read it and if he wants to respond, I will try to relay it exactly as he means/meant it.

I don't recall caskur posting about Fred Hollows.....but it seems worthy of donations.

Quote from: Dove on January 08, 2026, 03:23:07 AMIt must be so fucking weird for him lol.

 All our partners find this so weird lol.

lol my husband does Dove.

Quote from: Dove on January 08, 2026, 03:23:07 AMAll our partners find this so weird lol.

I don't usually tell people Im on forums lol. When I do, they also find it weird. Back when my wife was around, she got extremely jealous when she found out, especially my chops lol, like pissed at me lol. I didn't tell my next lady, cause she was the jealous type too. This shit always seems secretive lol.

Quote from: Blazor on January 08, 2026, 04:39:38 PMI don't usually tell people Im on forums lol. When I do, they also find it weird. Back when my wife was around, she got extremely jealous when she found out, especially my chops lol, like pissed at me lol. I didn't tell my next lady, cause she was the jealous type too. This shit always seems secretive lol.

I dunno about secretive ... I never tried to hide my message board trolling forum fun.  I remember trying to get my beloved wife to join me a few times back in Valhalla days.  She'd read a bit, shake her head, and say it was stupid.  But she knew the kind of shit I was doing and didn't care about that.  She already knew I was a racist jagoff asshole.  LOL!

My wife is just happy that I get my ugly on away from the fam!

Quote from: Reggie Essent on January 08, 2026, 05:40:51 PMI dunno about secretive ... I never tried to hide my message board trolling forum fun.  I remember trying to get my beloved wife to join me a few times back in Valhalla days.  She'd read a bit, shake her head, and say it was stupid.  But she knew the kind of shit I was doing and didn't care about that.  She already knew I was a racist jagoff asshole.  LOL!

Both my e-wife and my current one know I love to troll and think it's funny.

My current one is well aware of how much I hate leftards

My ex thought my trolling of monster was kinda mean and overly cruel and my current wife thinks admin is a fag as she'll usually say something like "you harassing that guy that sucks too much dick again?"

Quote from: Blazor on January 08, 2026, 04:39:38 PMI don't usually tell people Im on forums lol. When I do, they also find it weird. Back when my wife was around, she got extremely jealous when she found out, especially my chops lol, like pissed at me lol. I didn't tell my next lady, cause she was the jealous type too. This shit always seems secretive lol.

My old lady knows and doesn't give a shit. But she is Mongolian.