Bricktop, you should read this...

[Angry White Male]

Control freaks are often perfectionists defending themselves against their own inner vulnerabilities in the belief that if they are not in total control they risk exposing themselves once more to childhood angst. Such persons manipulate and pressure others to change so as to avoid having to change themselves, and use power over others to escape an inner emptiness. When a control freak's pattern is broken, the controller is left with a terrible feeling of powerlessness but feeling their pain and fear brings them back to themselves.



Control freaks appear to have some similarities to codependents, in the sense that the latters' fear of abandonment leads to attempts to control those they are dependent on. Recovery for them entails recognising that being a control freak helped paradoxically preserve codependency itself.



In terms of personality-type theory, control freaks are very much the Type A personality, driven by the need to dominate and control. An obsessive need to control others is also associated with antisocial personality disorder.

You're welcome!

[Angry White Male]

You should bring this up with your shrink during your next visit for medication adjustments.  They may have a workable solution for you.

[Anonymous]

You should bring this up with your shrink during your next visit for medication adjustments.  They may have a workable solution for you.

Pot, say hello to the kettle.

[Angry White Male]

I'm serious here!  I'm trying to get him the right solutions here, so we can help him help himself.



Should be thanking me...

[cc]

We really appreciate and are thankful for all your wise advice and help for our members .. we always have .. and fall apart when you are not here

[Angry White Male]

We really appreciate and are thankful for all your wise advice and help for our members .. we always have .. and fall apart when you are not here

It's my pleasure.  By nature, I am a kind and helpful soul, and thus am even willing to extend my helping hand to those in need on internet forumz.



I work pro bono.  PRO BONO!

[Angry White Male]

I've even considered getting out of the trucking biz, and opening up a halfway house for confused, lost, and desperate young females.  I'd like to 'give back' to my community, and show them a little 'tenderness'...

[Anonymous]

We really appreciate and are thankful for all your wise advice and help for our members .. we always have .. and fall apart when you are not here

I lacked direction in my life until a self absorbed, mental case, alcoholic, effeminate turd showed me the way.

[Anonymous]

We really appreciate and are thankful for all your wise advice and help for our members .. we always have .. and fall apart when you are not here

I lacked direction in my life until a self absorbed, mental case, alcoholic, effeminate turd showed me the way.

You're not helping.

[Bricktop]

I've even considered getting out of the trucking biz, and opening up a halfway house for confused, lost, and desperate young females.  I'd like to 'give back' to my community, and show them a little 'tenderness'...

Yep.



But you also considered leaving the forum "for good", but here we are.



You are not renowned as a man of your word.