Quote from: Herman on January 15, 2024, 10:16:53 PMYa, I heard her avatars are false advertising.

I'm sure you've heard the phrase "mutton dressed up like lamb" while living in QLD... 

Quote from: Frood on January 15, 2024, 10:19:43 PMI'm sure you've heard the phrase "mutton dressed up like lamb" while living in QLD... 

Is that old Murdock?

Quote from: Herman on January 15, 2024, 10:24:34 PMIs that old Murdock?

Her ancient avatars and doctored photos are...

Quote from: Frood on January 15, 2024, 10:26:31 PMHer ancient avatars and doctored photos are...

dang, that is bad

Quote from: Herman on January 15, 2024, 10:30:22 PMdang, that is bad

Murdock looks like a grinning albino pumpkin wearing a hairnet while having gratuitously bunions knifed off her fat feet by Korean salon workers cursing her stank and where their hopes and aspirations fell down..

Quote from: Biggie Smiles on October 07, 2023, 01:37:39 PMShe used to get slobbering drunk on that cheap vodka I wouldn't rub on a wound let alone consume and text me 100s of times asking me why I wouldn't give her a chance to be the woman I always needed

I'd just turn off my phone and pretend the phone compamy was messing up again

Dang that's kinda sad in a way. Why do women do this to themselves I'll never understand 

Quote from: Frood on January 15, 2024, 10:26:31 PMHer ancient avatars and doctored photos are...

Dude you are too much I can't!! 

Quote from: Moonie on January 16, 2024, 11:51:15 AMDang that's kinda sad in a way. Why do women do this to themselves I'll never understand 

He's being nice. Those texts are beyond cringe.

Quote from: Erica Mena on January 16, 2024, 12:54:24 PMHe's being nice. Those texts are beyond cringe.

Oh it took me a min to understand this hahaha .

Quote from: Moonie on January 16, 2024, 11:51:15 AMDang that's kinda sad in a way. Why do women do this to themselves I'll never understand 

More cock's self-esteem is lower than a snail's stomach. Fact!!

Quote from: Moonie on January 16, 2024, 11:51:15 AMDang that's kinda sad in a way. Why do women do this to themselves I'll never understand 

 Loneliness and poor self esteem.

 There is a whole psychology to the whole bread crumb/leading on and being led on.

 Whenever I was bored I always had a few men in rotation but the secret is....you don't ever fuck them. Give them just enough witty flirting to think you are gonna fuck them and then don't. That's how you drive a person nuts.

 I used to think that's how you make someone fall in love with you. Because OMG it worked. And every break up or rejection I had to deliver came with obsessiveness...begging...confessions of undying love. I've had some insanely romantic gestures flung my way.

 Of course it was never ME they loved. I was no more than a trophy or object. I had to grow into this knowledge, though.

 Because when you bread crumb and play that game, only those with poor self esteem will take that bait and it becomes more about their own self worth. If they can get you to pick them...they prove they are worthy.

 This is intoxicating to people whose core beliefs are they are unworthy of love. And narcissists really go for this.

 The thing is...even if you "catch" the one you chase...you don't even truly HAVE them. I was never HAD unless I wanted to be. And they sense this and become obsessive.

 Biggie never led me on, mostly because we click pretty well and have a natural deep understanding for eachother. And...j didn't let him. I'll show up if I care enough. And he certainly cared enough.

 The bond him and I have was something she needed to compete with. Which is unhinged...considering him and came together organically and invested time and emotions getting to know eachother.

 She took his aloofness as being led on and decided getting him to "pick" her would validate her. It matters not how pathetic and depraved she looks. She's trying to prove core beliefs wrong. Biggie was no more than a prop on the stage of the Murd show to her.

 He was simply offering friendship....something he was painfully clear on that she decided to dismiss.

 She has no clue how to navigate men. If a man says he only wants to be friends...thats exactly what he means. That's not a challenge or an invitation. Anymore than it is when a woman says it.

 Further if a man says he just wants casual sex...there is no fucking him into a commitment.

 I will never understand even WANTING to be with someone who may not really just want you. I need enthusiasm from my man. None of that "go with the flow" shit. I want him saying "Fuck yes! She's mine!" Or don't bother.

 Thats a great rule. If the answer isn't "fuck yes!" treat it as a no.

 The way Murd throws herself at men....she's trying to make daddy love her. It's sad.

 That all being said...I absolutely had to give a bit of chase to the man I'm currently with. But only because I dumped him 20 years ago and he was heart broken and took more than a decade to accept it. I didn't know this...but loving someone who hurt you badly is scary. So I'm not saying "never persue" a person. Just make damn sure that person is worthy and that its reciprocal. My favorite thing to do in life is make that man feel wanted, sexy, respected, adored. And my efforts yield a gentle man who will do or give anything I ask of him.

 I'm not trying to "earn" or "win" or get him to pick me. He already picked me. He has terrible judgement naturally lol. I don't need anyone to validate my sense of self worth and I don't view sex as currency. Sex is meshing energies and intimate and powerful. I feel bad for Murd in that regard. I really do.

 Imagine using men as validation dispensers and sex as currency and never truly knowing what it's like to be overcome with passion and the need to forget you and the one you love are two separate people. How miserable that would make you. You may as well just fuck your own self and not even bother with another human being.

 Imagine actually removing your clothing and offering yourself to a man who is not even interested and doesn't desire you. How degrading of an experience that would be. What possible need would such a selfish act even meet? How could even be turned on unless he is? I know I can't even get turned on unless my partner reeeaaallyyy desires me. That's a moment when you are supposed to feel beautiful and feminine and hot.

 Not confused, stressed, or unwanted.

 Who wants that without any emotional intimacy?  I've tried twice to have meaningless sex. I hated it. HATED it. It made me feel gross. Like I just rutted like a farm animal.

 That's how she dates. Rutting like a pig in the slop.

 She so badly wants to compete with me but her and I are so different. Completely different views of the world and our place in it and different views of love and sex. A guy who go for me...would not be interested in her.  The men I pull tend to be more intellectual and laid back. More reserved and politically more to the right. Somewhat nerdy and broody sorts.

 The men who go for her are like...well...Blurt lol.

 She will never attract the kind of man she wants. If you want a man like Biggie....you need to be able to sit down, shut up and let HIM be the man.  She's way to insecure to do that. She's always too busy trying to prove herself and sell herself.
 

 

Quote from: Dove on January 16, 2024, 03:17:48 PMLoneliness and poor self esteem.

 There is a whole psychology to the whole bread crumb/leading on and being led on.

 Whenever I was bored I always had a few men in rotation but the secret is....you don't ever fuck them. Give them just enough witty flirting to think you are gonna fuck them and then don't. That's how you drive a person nuts.

 I used to think that's how you make someone fall in love with you. Because OMG it worked. And every break up or rejection I had to deliver came with obsessiveness...begging...confessions of undying love. I've had some insanely romantic gestures flung my way.

 Of course it was never ME they loved. I was no more than a trophy or object. I had to grow into this knowledge, though.

 Because when you bread crumb and play that game, only those with poor self esteem will take that bait and it becomes more about their own self worth. If they can get you to pick them...they prove they are worthy.

 This is intoxicating to people whose core beliefs are they are unworthy of love. And narcissists really go for this.

 The thing is...even if you "catch" the one you chase...you don't even truly HAVE them. I was never HAD unless I wanted to be. And they sense this and become obsessive.

 Biggie never led me on, mostly because we click pretty well and have a natural deep understanding for eachother. And...j didn't let him. I'll show up if I care enough. And he certainly cared enough.

 The bond him and I have was something she needed to compete with. Which is unhinged...considering him and came together organically and invested time and emotions getting to know eachother.

 She took his aloofness as being led on and decided getting him to "pick" her would validate her. It matters not how pathetic and depraved she looks. She's trying to prove core beliefs wrong. Biggie was no more than a prop on the stage of the Murd show to her.

 He was simply offering friendship....something he was painfully clear on that she decided to dismiss.

 She has no clue how to navigate men. If a man says he only wants to be friends...thats exactly what he means. That's not a challenge or an invitation. Anymore than it is when a woman says it.

 Further if a man says he just wants casual sex...there is no fucking him into a commitment.

 I will never understand even WANTING to be with someone who may not really just want you. I need enthusiasm from my man. None of that "go with the flow" shit. I want him saying "Fuck yes! She's mine!" Or don't bother.

 Thats a great rule. If the answer isn't "fuck yes!" treat it as a no.

 The way Murd throws herself at men....she's trying to make daddy love her. It's sad.

 That all being said...I absolutely had to give a bit of chase to the man I'm currently with. But only because I dumped him 20 years ago and he was heart broken and took more than a decade to accept it. I didn't know this...but loving someone who hurt you badly is scary. So I'm not saying "never persue" a person. Just make damn sure that person is worthy and that its reciprocal. My favorite thing to do in life is make that man feel wanted, sexy, respected, adored. And my efforts yield a gentle man who will do or give anything I ask of him.

 I'm not trying to "earn" or "win" or get him to pick me. He already picked me. He has terrible judgement naturally lol. I don't need anyone to validate my sense of self worth and I don't view sex as currency. Sex is meshing energies and intimate and powerful. I feel bad for Murd in that regard. I really do.

 Imagine using men as validation dispensers and sex as currency and never truly knowing what it's like to be overcome with passion and the need to forget you and the one you love are two separate people. How miserable that would make you. You may as well just fuck your own self and not even bother with another human being.

 Imagine actually removing your clothing and offering yourself to a man who is not even interested and doesn't desire you. How degrading of an experience that would be. What possible need would such a selfish act even meet? How could even be turned on unless he is? I know I can't even get turned on unless my partner reeeaaallyyy desires me. That's a moment when you are supposed to feel beautiful and feminine and hot.

 Not confused, stressed, or unwanted.

 Who wants that without any emotional intimacy?  I've tried twice to have meaningless sex. I hated it. HATED it. It made me feel gross. Like I just rutted like a farm animal.

 That's how she dates. Rutting like a pig in the slop.

 She so badly wants to compete with me but her and I are so different. Completely different views of the world and our place in it and different views of love and sex. A guy who go for me...would not be interested in her.  The men I pull tend to be more intellectual and laid back. More reserved and politically more to the right. Somewhat nerdy and broody sorts.

 The men who go for her are like...well...Blurt lol.
 

 

Oh I should have said I get why she did it but I just wish she didn't if that makes sense.

I can't make fun.  I talked to a guy for a year who was a women remember now talk about embarrassing hahaha

Quote from: Moonie on January 16, 2024, 03:39:51 PMOh I should have said I get why she did it but I just wish she didn't if that makes sense.

I can't make fun.  I talked to a guy for a year who was a women remember now talk about embarrassing hahaha

 You were not chasing that person though.

 I hate when Murd starts accusing you and Flea even for "wanting Big" and makes it out like you were just throwing yourself at him and I ran you off trollvalhalla.

 I mean...what in the actual fuckity fuck?!

 So just because she views women as competitiors and men as objects to obtain and she throws herself at every dick in the room...she thinks that's normal and how the rest of us are. 

 I never once threw myself at Big. I had needs I was clear about. And she also thinks that because he was aloof with her and didn't connect with her that it's because he just IS aloof and hard to connect with. Not that he just wasn't interested in her. HAS to be something wrong with HIM.

 Because if a man doesn't want her he has to be faulty somehow.

Quote from: Dove on January 16, 2024, 03:51:36 PMBecause if a man doesn't want her he has to be faulty somehow.

LOL! I had a lot of fun with that mentally deranged cunt over that very subject several years ago! Her antics/bragging disgusted me and I called her out on it and she went there, CONSTANTLY. It was a continual hoot!

I'd put money on me being the first to out her on her daddy issues. That cranked her crazy to 11!

I'd sooner wear a set of clothes off a bum on hollyweird blvd than bang a disgusting slut like her. That bitch is fucking repulsive! She's about as disgusting as a porn star.

Quote from: Lokmar on January 16, 2024, 04:50:37 PMLOL! I had a lot of fun with that mentally deranged cunt over that very subject several years ago! Her antics/bragging disgusted me and I called her out on it and she went there, CONSTANTLY. It was a continual hoot!

I'd put money on me being the first to out her on her daddy issues. That cranked her crazy to 11!

I'd sooner wear a set of clothes off a bum on hollyweird blvd than bang a disgusting slut like her. That bitch is fucking repulsive! She's about as disgusting as a porn star.

 A lot of women actually think that way.

 They cannot handle rejection at all.  So instead of just sucking it up and moving on...they spew vitriol and make it about something being wrong with HIM.

 It's like....yeah no, not every man is gonna like you or find you attractive. And that's okay. I get it...rejection can hurt like fuck. But it's a part of life. Deal!

 Just like how she isn't going to be attracted to or like every man

 Insecure women like Murd take that shit SO hard.