Quote from: Odinson on October 02, 2023, 01:46:48 PMDid the beheadees commit a crime?

It aint hard being guilty of crimes in Islamic shitholes.

Quote from: Herman on October 02, 2023, 02:09:44 PMIt aint hard being guilty of crimes in Islamic shitholes.

Was it like a public thing for everybody or were they trying to intimidate you?

Quote from: Herman on October 02, 2023, 02:09:44 PMIt aint hard being guilty of crimes in Islamic shitholes.

Sharia law has crept into Britain.

Quote from: Odinson on October 01, 2023, 09:10:05 AMThe three date rule is an American thing.

If you aint giving any, I´ll just assume you aint interested and move on.

 Well this is a situation.

 We went from best friends to living together and getting romantically involved. I'm still legally married. I'm going through a divorce.

 We sleep together and mess around and he does....certain things...but he prefers to wait for the heavy stuff.

 I have the rest of my life to bang this man. I can wait until he feels better about it, when my divorce is final.  We also have a long history where I've caused him a lot of grief and heart break.  None of it was on purpose....mostly out of ignorance. This is not a shallow man. 

 He is one of the most genuine romantics I've ever known.  And just over me....so...what more could I need right now really?

Quote from: Dove on October 03, 2023, 09:35:14 AMWell this is a situation.

 We went from best friends to living together and getting romantically involved. I'm still legally married. I'm going through a divorce.

 We sleep together and mess around and he does....certain things...but he prefers to wait for the heavy stuff.

 I have the rest of my life to bang this man. I can wait until he feels better about it, when my divorce is final.  We also have a long history where I've caused him a lot of grief and heart break.  None of it was on purpose....mostly out of ignorance. This is not a shallow man. 

 He is one of the most genuine romantics I've ever known.  And just over me....so...what more could I need right now really?

So how is the co parenting working out Dove?

Is Squish happy doing it?

Quote from: caskur on October 04, 2023, 04:31:54 AMSo how is the co parenting working out Dove?

Is Squish happy doing it?

 Well.

 I've been coparenting with his mom. He went back to the program 4 months ago and I have not heard from him.

 I know she sees him on weekends and sometimes he sends money but...thats it.

 Squish is happy though.

Humans are not naturally inclined to go the long haul...

Quote from: Dove on October 04, 2023, 07:58:13 AMWell.

 I've been coparenting with his mom. He went back to the program 4 months ago and I have not heard from him.

 I know she sees him on weekends and sometimes he sends money but...thats it.

 Squish is happy though.

Do you mean alchohol and drug residential treatment? I know this is none of my business.  Feel free to tell me none of your damned business.

Quote from: DKG on October 04, 2023, 09:52:32 AMDo you mean alchohol and drug residential treatment? I know this is none of my business.  Feel free to tell me none of your damned business.

Kind of. It's a life skills program. I went through it. We actually went through it at the same time.

And that's fine to ask. He started drinking pretty heavily and he needed to go get help.

Quote from: Frood on October 04, 2023, 08:48:53 AMHumans are not naturally inclined to go the long haul...

 Right?

 It always sounds so good and romantic. You need two people committed to eachother fiercely.

 If there is anyone on earth I could do it with, it's the man I'm with now. We have 30 years of friendship, memories, strong connection. If it's not him....it's no one.

Quote from: Dove on October 04, 2023, 11:02:17 AMKind of. It's a life skills program. I went through it. We actually went through it at the same time.

And that's fine to ask. He started drinking pretty heavily and he needed to go get help.

After you broke up he started abusing alcohol?

Quote from: DKG on October 04, 2023, 11:08:21 AMAfter you broke up he started abusing alcohol?

 Yep. And driving the only car.

 And then he had the car parked at the cabin so I couldn't use it to go to work. And he took leave from his job for like...60 days.

Quote from: Dove on October 04, 2023, 11:11:02 AMYep. And driving the only car.

 And then he had the car parked at the cabin so I couldn't use it to go to work. And he took leave from his job for like...60 days.

That is too bad. Some men cannot handle being dumped. If they have a history of abusing alcohol and drugs, it comes back full circle.

Quote from: DKG on October 04, 2023, 11:15:10 AMThat is too bad. Some men cannot handle being dumped. If they have a history of abusing alcohol and drugs, it comes back full circle.

 Yep.

 I stayed much longer because I was afraid of that. I can't be the glue that holds someone else together though.

Quote from: Dove on October 04, 2023, 11:04:26 AMRight?

 It always sounds so good and romantic. You need two people committed to eachother fiercely.

 If there is anyone on earth I could do it with, it's the man I'm with now. We have 30 years of friendship, memories, strong connection. If it's not him....it's no one.

Sometimes I think about upgrading to a newer or nicer running model, then it hits me....fuck that drama... I'll just walk instead and buy a fare when I need it.