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Re: Forum gossip thread by Herman

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Started by Bricktop, March 20, 2016, 06:41:13 PM

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Anonymous

Quote from: "Blurt"She does?



Not entirely sure who Dove is, but good for her.



There's a risk, though, in coiling your emotions around a client/user/patient who's part of a fragile clientele, in that the person is here one day and gone the next. That can be crushing. Especially when you've known a person over a span of years and in a fairly intimate way. I've had to deal with suicide (in my mental health outreach job), death from natural causes (when I was toiling as an outreach worker for senior citizens), and the disappearing acts drug addicts pull when they fall off the wagon. Yes, you get attached, but you have to heed the little voice in your head that cautions you to remain disinterested (not uninterested, but disinterested). It's also the only sane way to deal with issues of transference and counter-transference. A fine line to walk.

Dove posts here sometimes. She works in a nursing home. Her clientele are very different, but the risk of getting involved is the same. She has told us how crushing that is.

Anonymous

Quote from: "seoulbro"
Quote from: "Blurt"She does?



Not entirely sure who Dove is, but good for her.



There's a risk, though, in coiling your emotions around a client/user/patient who's part of a fragile clientele, in that the person is here one day and gone the next. That can be crushing. Especially when you've known a person over a span of years and in a fairly intimate way. I've had to deal with suicide (in my mental health outreach job), death from natural causes (when I was toiling as an outreach worker for senior citizens), and the disappearing acts drug addicts pull when they fall off the wagon. Yes, you get attached, but you have to heed the little voice in your head that cautions you to remain disinterested (not uninterested, but disinterested). It's also the only sane way to deal with issues of transference and counter-transference. A fine line to walk.

Dove posts here sometimes. She works in a nursing home. Her clientele are very different, but the risk of getting involved is the same. She has told us how crushing that is.

She is also beautiful.

Anonymous

Dove and Herman sitting in a tree, F-U-C-K-I-N-G.

Anonymous

Quote from: "Shen Li"Dove and Herman sitting in a tree, F-U-C-K-I-N-G.

I wish.

keeper

Dove is very pretty, I miss her.



She kinda reminds me of Mona, Although I have no clue what Mona looks like.

RW

Mona strikes me as a lovely person regardless of what she looks like.  Dove as well.
Beware of Gaslighters!

keeper

I'm sure they both are I just didn't have the interaction most people have with them to make that observation.



They should Skype and play games.

RW

No one wants to Skype with us Keeps.  Let it go man.
Beware of Gaslighters!

keeper

Quote from: "RW"No one wants to Skype with us Keeps.  Let it go man.

How can I be an Internet predator if they don't Skype ffs...



Ah well  ac_dunno

RW

Beware of Gaslighters!

keeper

Quote from: "RW"Hey!  That's my job!


I know, when I can think for myself I want to be one to....

Anonymous

Quote from: "keeper"Dove is very pretty, I miss her.



She kinda reminds me of Mona, Although I have no clue what Mona looks like.

Dove and Mona are both lovely and it doesn't matter what they look like.

keeper

Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "keeper"Dove is very pretty, I miss her.



She kinda reminds me of Mona, Although I have no clue what Mona looks like.

Dove and Mona are both lovely and it doesn't matter what they look like.

OMG, STOP I was just saying holy crap you 2....



I don't give a shit what anyone looks like it was just (I thought ) saying something nice to say....



I take it back lol, sorry Dove you're a hag

Anonymous

Quote from: "keeper"
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "keeper"Dove is very pretty, I miss her.



She kinda reminds me of Mona, Although I have no clue what Mona looks like.

Dove and Mona are both lovely and it doesn't matter what they look like.

OMG, STOP I was just saying holy crap you 2....



I don't give a shit what anyone looks like it was just (I thought ) saying something nice to say....



I take it back lol, sorry Dove you're a hag

Keeper, I wasn't criticising anything you wrote.

keeper

Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "keeper"
Quote from: "Fashionista"
Quote from: "keeper"Dove is very pretty, I miss her.



She kinda reminds me of Mona, Although I have no clue what Mona looks like.

Dove and Mona are both lovely and it doesn't matter what they look like.

OMG, STOP I was just saying holy crap you 2....



I don't give a shit what anyone looks like it was just (I thought ) saying something nice to say....



I take it back lol, sorry Dove you're a hag

Keeper, I wasn't criticising anything you wrote.


Of course not Fashy, just teasing you.



Hows cow town... tomorrow is supposed to be nice out. You and hubby going to BBQ?