I asked my shrink today

[Anonymous]

Good ? No





He turned Christian and likes to get on his cross and tell them how to live. I have a lot of regrets

Hmmm, I'm a Christian myself, but I know telling adult children how to live doesn't work.

[Anonymous]

There's a lot of people out there like that.  I hate dating.  It's almost like when I go on a date, I'm screening the guy.  I just stopped dating a d focus on other important things right now.  



I don't feel the need to have a bf or ever get married.  And I do not see marriage as a  "success" in life....thats old school.  So many relationship and marriages are built on shit foundations today, they are fake and so many people hav e problems...i don't have time for that bullshit.

I dont blame ya, dating these days sucks the way I hear it lol. Most out for themselves.

Before I met my girlfriend I avoided women with a history of bad relationships. Baggage kills the deal for me.

[Bricktop]

Wait.



You found a lady who did NOT have a history of unpleasant relationships??



That, my friend, is a keeper. Throw a ring on her immediately.

[Anonymous]

Wait.



You found a lady who did NOT have a history of unpleasant relationships??



That, my friend, is a keeper. Throw a ring on her immediately.

There are a few of us Bricktop, but were mostly already married.

[Bricktop]

Precisely my point.

[Anonymous]

Wait.



You found a lady who did NOT have a history of unpleasant relationships??



That, my friend, is a keeper. Throw a ring on her immediately.

I didn't get hitched until I was 36, but I lucked out.

[Anonymous]

Wait.



You found a lady who did NOT have a history of unpleasant relationships??



That, my friend, is a keeper. Throw a ring on her immediately.

I didn't get hitched until I was 36, but I lucked out.

I got married the second time at that age. No regrets.

[Erica Mena]

That's it then. I need to get married again

[Anonymous]

That's it then. I need to get married again

If you met the right man..



But, if you don't and get married, well.....

[Erica Mena]

That's it then. I need to get married again

If you met the right man..



But, if you don't and get married, well.....

All the good ones are either married or gay

[Anonymous]

That's it then. I need to get married again

If you met the right man..



But, if you don't and get married, well.....

All the good ones are either married or gay

I've heard that one before.

 

[Anonymous]

That's it then. I need to get married again

If you met the right man..



But, if you don't and get married, well.....

All the good ones are either married or gay

Or don't want a serious relationship. I was like that too before I met the old lady.

[Blazor]

All the good ones are either married or gay

Dont give up, I was married too. But then I became widowed. Some of us good ones pop up now and then  

[Anonymous]

All the good ones are either married or gay

Dont give up, I was married too. But then I became widowed. Some of us good ones pop up now and then  

The pickings are slimmer in your thirties and forties, but there are still some keepers .

[cc]

Yes. But, there are some around ... those who got out of loser relationships who do not have the problem described in the OP and want a good one the next time around .. they just may not put themselves out there openly



I know this from personal experience .... ditched the hubby from hell who had conned me into thinking he was OK (my fault) ... spent a lot of time alone ..  and then found my current and now longtime winner



It was easy for me to find my good one as I had created and hosted an upscale  singles dinner club (with dancing after) at the best places in Victoria as a business .... as hostess / owner I of course was not supposed to "sample the goodies", but out of the blue I found my winner, fudged on the rules a bit, got to know him  and quickly sold the club



Damn it was funny the last 3 group dinners before new owner took over - many funny stories how we got together initially  ... and  and  as I wanted my new find there for the long Saturday evenings on the town but had to remain neutral to do my job responsibly for the paying members ... doing our best to pretend we were not crazy in love and lust and being sociable to others who were there to meet people and considered us as possible "prospects".