Dove, Just Shut The Fuck Up

[Herman]

I see what Herman is getting at. So I imagine does Flea, who spent close to five years riding a wave of frustration and anger because of it. Some people will go with what you tell them and beat it like a dead horse. You say there are forums for personal relationship discussions, I'd point out BitchFest isn't one of them.

Butthurt Fagtory defintely aint one of them.

[Dove]

Okay so topics to avoid



 Politics. Religion. Flaming Scrotini. Anything that may or may not be details of your life. Divorce. Sex.



 I miss anything?  Should we just kinda play it by ear and add to the list as I post and hit topics people get upset over?



 I wasn't saying BF is a board for that.....and I hardly posting details of my life compared to what other people do post and my point was its a forum.

[JOE]

Okay so topics to avoid



 Politics. Religion. Flaming Scrotini. Anything that may or may not be details of your life. Divorce. Sex.



 I miss anything?  Should we just kinda play it by ear and add to the list as I post and hit topics people get upset over?



 I wasn't saying BF is a board for that.....and I hardly posting details of my life compared to what other people do post and my point was its a forum.

Dove...Shen Li is Asian born in China



YOu're White born in the US.



Hence, the clash of civilizations.



Everythign is taboo and button downed in those cultures.

I suppose They don't discuss those kinda things in them



Thats probably another reason



why she gets upset aside from a tinge of jaelousy because of all the attention you're getting.

[JOE]

I suspect the talk of divorce or past wives and husbands is somewhat hush hush in those cultures.

[Shen Li]

so are you getting a divorce, Dove?



The suspense builds....your life is so interesting

Yeah I actually am. Its a whole thing I haven't gone into.



 It's been pretty much all the same issues and they got a lot worse and I just cannot do this for the rest of my life. The trust and respect is completely gone.



 I'll probably make a thread and talk about it eventually when I can focus and be serious... it's just been pretty hectic in my world lately so I've preferred to stick to shit posting at BF.



 I don't know so much about my life being interesting though but thanks lol.

Oh ffs, please don't. Forums aren't the Dr Phil show.

[Shen Li]

I see what Herman is getting at. So I imagine does Flea, who spent close to five years riding a wave of frustration and anger because of it. Some people will go with what you tell them and beat it like a dead horse. You say there are forums for personal relationship discussions, I'd point out BitchFest isn't one of them.



Now, fair do's if this is another "troll". I don't know, I don't care to know and after watching the Dove v Martini saga spread itself out (just like the Flea v sc`T and the Feral v Frood ones that preceded it) I feel safe in assuring you there's a good many others that find it tedious and unentertaining as well. The sympathies any of us might express for anyone entering the long and torturous trudge of divorce will be long forgotten by the time the Lunchbox Legends get through with it.

It goes right over Dove's head.

[Shen Li]

Okay so topics to avoid



 Politics. Religion. Flaming Scrotini. Anything that may or may not be details of your life. Divorce. Sex.



 I miss anything?  Should we just kinda play it by ear and add to the list as I post and hit topics people get upset over?



 I wasn't saying BF is a board for that.....and I hardly posting details of my life compared to what other people do post and my point was its a forum.

Dove...Shen Li is Asian born in China



YOu're White born in the US.



Hence, the clash of civilizations.



Everythign is taboo and button downed in those cultures.

I suppose They don't discuss those kinda things in them



Thats probably another reason



why she gets upset aside from a tinge of jaelousy because of all the attention you're getting.

You're on the right track Joe. I don't understand the need of certain whites to air all their dirty laundry in public.That is so fucking alien to me.

[Anonymous]

Okay so topics to avoid



 Politics. Religion. Flaming Scrotini. Anything that may or may not be details of your life. Divorce. Sex.



 I miss anything?  Should we just kinda play it by ear and add to the list as I post and hit topics people get upset over?



 I wasn't saying BF is a board for that.....and I hardly posting details of my life compared to what other people do post and my point was its a forum.

And my point was that people are done with it. We are knee deep in the eating each other phase now.



Make of that what you will, but in the absence of a few hundred people invested in creating engaging flaming content (ie: humourous insult aimed explicitly at getting their opponents to laugh along with it) this is the scenario you're left with. A pale echo of the ~T~D~T~ created Brawl-Hall ethos. A bunch of hate-fueled content as people snipe from the sidelines that it sucks. Or vote with their mouse clicks when something shinier presents itself.



 For at least as long as people insist on dragging it back here, or until someone pulls the plug on the forum entirely. You have to face up to it I'm afraid: what is passed off as "flaming" these days is the stuff that got dismissed as Hating back in the day. Hate requires energy and people get weary of it.

[Shen Li]

Okay so topics to avoid



 Politics. Religion. Flaming Scrotini. Anything that may or may not be details of your life. Divorce. Sex.



 I miss anything?  Should we just kinda play it by ear and add to the list as I post and hit topics people get upset over?



 I wasn't saying BF is a board for that.....and I hardly posting details of my life compared to what other people do post and my point was its a forum.

And my point was that people are done with it. We are knee deep in the eating each other phase now.



Make of that what you will, but in the absence of a few hundred people invested in creating engaging flaming content (ie: humourous insult aimed explicitly at getting their opponents to laugh along with it) this is the scenario you're left with. A pale echo of the ~T~D~T~ created Brawl-Hall ethos. A bunch of hate-fueled content as people snipe from the sidelines that it sucks. Or vote with their mouse clicks when something shinier presents itself.



 For at least as long as people insist on dragging it back here, or until someone pulls the plug on the forum entirely. You have to face up to it I'm afraid: what is passed off as "flaming" these days is the stuff that got dismissed as Hating back in the day. Hate requires energy and people get weary of it.

[Herman]

Okay so topics to avoid



 Politics. Religion. Flaming Scrotini. Anything that may or may not be details of your life. Divorce. Sex.

Did anybody say the first four aint fair game. Details of your life, it is best to use some discretion. How much do you really want some of the forum wankers to know about what is going on in your life. If I was in your shoes, I would tell the folks you like privately or on Facebook.

[Lokmar]

so are you getting a divorce, Dove?



The suspense builds....your life is so interesting

You aint getting any, josephine. Lay the fuk down.

[Herman]

so are you getting a divorce, Dove?



The suspense builds....your life is so interesting

You aint getting any, josephine. Lay the fuk down.

Aint that the truth

[JOE]

Unlike many here, I don't care if Dove talks about her intent to divorce.

In fact I'm the least judgmental person here.

Instead casting aspersions on this person, just listen to what they have ta say.



Be interesting to find out why some people managed to stay married an others don't.



Maybe she just needs somebody to talk to in which case I suggest she contact friends or a support group of similarly affected individuals or women just to talk things out.



Anyways you have a few issues yerself having gone through a bruising divorce, eh Lokmeer? Herman too. Maybe you 2 need a support group, Bud. All the agony yer exes put you through and the money you shelled out on a failed marriage.

[Herman]

Unlike many here, I don't care if Dove talks about her intent to divorce.

Don't care. ac_toofunny  You love gossip more than any gal I ever met.

[JOE]

Unlike many here, I don't care if Dove talks about her intent to divorce.

Don't care. ac_toofunny  You love gossip more than any gal I ever met.

and you, having gone through a divorce, now you're in failing health and you have alcohol and drug addictions problems.



Are you gonna even make it to 60 Herman?



What do you have to say to that?I'm gonna outlast you by at least 20 maybe30 years.



Survival of the fittest, hey Herm?



And yer simply not fit ta survive in this world cuz you won't be around long.